Orgasm Denial Schedule

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Orgasm Denial Schedule

As with all things that involve BDSM , all partners participating in these games must first consent. Be sure to discuss these games with your submissive before ever incorporating them into your training.
Make Them Earn Their Orgasm The Point System

Create a point system where your submissive must complete assignments and tasks to earn points. These points can then be cashed in for rewards.
Do They Feel Lucky? Games Of Chance

Orgasm Denial is not just about making a submissive wait X number of days. It’s the teasing and getting them worked up over the slight chances they might be rewarded sooner rather than later.

Of course having your submissive tied up so they can’t struggle against the outcome can add to the fun. But don’t let My devious opinions influence the way you play the following games.

3 thoughts on “Orgasm Denial Games and Training Ideas”

Your slave wants pleasure – we all do. As a Master or Mistress, you have an ideal opportunity to show your slave that orgasms are something that only you can allow. Not only does this encourage discipline in your slave, but it also allows you as the Dominant to fully have control over the sexual experience of your slave. You will show your slave that they need your permission to feel pleasure. Orgasm denial is a form of submissive training that can fully immerse them in the knowledge that their body is under your control.
One of the easiest ways to practice orgasm denial is to make a rule that your slave is not able to masturbate while they are not with you and/or without your permission. You might make them write out a promise to you, an agreement, that they will not touch themselves a set time, during certain periods or however you both decide. You can be explicit in this agreement: no touching of the genitals, no touching of the breasts, no vibrators, no cock rings, no nothing. It can help to sit down with your slave and ask them how they masturbate. You can have them describe the process to you or even have them show you while you’re in the dungeon together.
And then they need to promise they will NOT do this until you say they can again. To further enhance this training, have them write down or let you know when they wanted to masturbate and they didn’t. This will show them just how many times they have denied themselves pleasure because you were in control of their experience.
You can take things a step further in their training with edging. This involves having your slave get to the point where they are right on the edge of having an orgasm, but stopping whatever they are doing so they can’t orgasm. You want them to get right to the point where they can’t control what happens next – and then stop immediately. In some cases, this might take a few attempts to make sure they can control themselves.
They might not be able to hold back at first. So, you’ll need to point this out, point out their inability to follow your instructions and why it is crucial that they do. Then try again.
Once they are able to stop when you tell them to stop, then the real fun can begin. You might bring your slave to the edge of orgasm again and again during a scene, until they are begging you to cum. But you won’t let them cum. In fact, it’s always fun to not allow this to happen for a few scenes and allow them to feel the true control that your relationship has over their sexual experience.
Some edging scenes are made even more intense by tying up the slave and putting them in a blindfold and gag. This way, they have no way to stop what you are doing, and they are even more sensitive about what they are feeling. They will simply need to learn how to ride the waves.
You can also have a long-distance slave do an edging over the phone or via video chat. Have them touch themselves as you watch, but right when they get to the point that they are going orgasm, tell them to stop.
And you can also have your slave do the same thing, videotaping themselves, sending you the file, and then letting them know that you are pleased every time they don’t have an orgasm.
One style of training is to instruct the submissive to edge themselves a certain number of times a day. They are not allowed to orgasm but they must be pushing their body to the edge multiple times a day.
Always start with a small number and as the submissive looks like they are getting better at handling it slowly increase the number of edging attempts. Give the submissive the choice of either spreading these attempts throughout the day or performing them all at once.
Continuous edging will help to make the next section even more powerful and effective for training.
At some point, there needs to be a moment where you allow them to have the orgasm again. After all, if you continue to deny them pleasure, what is the point? What is the reward? In the training schedule you set up, you will want to have some scenes in which you are clear that they will not have an orgasm. But when they show that they can control themselves, then allow them to have an orgasm.
This will feel so good to your slave that they will be inspired to continue to maintain control when they are ordered to do so. It’s a delicate balance between denial and release, so you will need to determine what will work best for your slave. If they are performing their slave duties effectively and they are meeting your expectations, you might have some scenes with orgasm denial, but then you can also include more scenes in which you allow them pleasure. Or you can setup a reward system, where the submissive will have to accumulate points through submissive acts and duties. Once they have earned enough points they can redeem them for an opportunity to orgasm.
Orgasm denial seems simple, but beginning slaves might have troubles with this process. You will need to be patient and also strict so it’s clear that they need to follow what you are asking of them. Over time, a slave who is able to control their orgasms will learn that orgasms are more intense when they are earned.
They will learn the true power of your control when they deny themselves under your command.
Sometimes adding extra stimulation to your submissive’s life is a better way of showing the control you have. Discreet remote vibrators are a perfect addition to driving a submissive wild who has been denied for so long.
Without ever having to get up, now a Dominant can provide intense sensations at any time with just the simple touch of a button. For a submissive, who is desperate to orgasm, but even more desperate to obey their Dominant, this can be an intensely pleasurable experience for both.
Whether you only use it in the Dungeon or you incorporate it in your travels out, this little secret will keep your submissive on their toes.
Or you can make each point count for time. One point is equal to one minute or one second of pleasure, the act of pleasure to be determined by the Dominant.
You can also combine the two reward systems together. 20 points – to masturbate for 5 minutes (if the submissive does not orgasm within that time frame they will have to cash in more points or wait until they have earned more). The time can be added to each reward thus forcing your submissive to either learn to orgasm faster or suffer the consequences.
Points can be accumulated by completing domestic tasks, daily assignments to anything a Dominant can imagine.
Be creative, keep a close eye on your submissive to make sure the point system is keeping them motivated and not demotivating because it is too hard.
Roll a dice to determine how many days they must refrain from touching themselves. Feeling cruel use two dice. Why not one or two or three of those 50 sided dice?
You can also roll against each other. Biggest number wins. If your submissive rolls the biggest number they only have to wait that many days. If you win, they have to wait the accumulated amount of days of both your roll and theirs.
Want them really begging for release by the end, have your submissive edge themselves the same amount of times each day as the highest dice roll.
You can also use the dice to determine how many orgasms you as the Dominant will receive before the submissive will be allowed to orgasm next. If they can’t give you that many orgasms they better start working harder or they won’t be allowed to orgasm.
If you don’t have a dice laying around use a pack of cards instead.
Whenever you see your submissive in a desperate state, bring out the coin and give them a chance to win an orgasm. With a coin toss they have a 50/50 chance, watch their eyes light up as the coin flips in the air before it determines their fate.
Place as many equally sized pieces of paper into a box as you like. Each piece of paper will have a game or assignment written on it.
These games and assignments can be anything. For example:
It is up to the Dominant to decide how many good and bad situations are included. The longer you want your submissive to struggle the fewer good ones there should be.
Placing all the pieces of paper into your box, you will then allow your submissive the chance to draw one each time you play. Whatever is written on their card will determine their fate.
Does your submissive have a hard time communicating with you? Perhaps you just want to know exactly what naughty thoughts are running through their mind.
Whatever your reasons, having your submissive completely writing assignments is a perfect way for them to really earn an orgasm.
Things you can have your submissive write about:
An anything else you can possibly wonder about or can think of. You can also critique their writing when they had it in. If it doesn’t meet your standards they don’t get to orgasm. If you are still unclear about the answer you have asked or there were just far too many errors, don’t let them get away with it.
Break out your red marker and show them they need to earn that orgasm.
For the majority of people in this world, they tend to have a preferred masturbating hand. After a significant denial period, make your submissive masturbate for you with their weaker hand.
Enjoy the view of your sub squirming as they desperately try to use their weak hand to make themselves orgasm.
Most submissive men are eager and desperate to be allowed the honor to penetrate their Dominants. Here is an opportunity to allow them to do that but remove any satisfaction for them.
With the addition of a penis sheath, the submissive will be able to experience the actions of having penetration but they won’t be able to feel the sensations. He will be so close, yet further away than he has ever been.
As the Dominant you can also express how good the cock sheath feels in comparison to his tiny useless penis.
With your sub’s hands tied behind their back, let your submissive know they can finally orgasm. The only rule is they can’t use their hands or feet to help.
Oh the joys of being Dominant; watch them desperately grind, and hump on whatever they can find in an attempt to orgasm.
If you want to make the game harder, bind their feet as well. It will limit them to their immediate surroundings.
Have your slave knee before you with their hand on their genitals. When you say “Green Light” they will be allowed to masturbate. When you say “Red Light” they must stop immediately.
Watch your submissive desperately fight to obey your command as their genitals begin to become more and more aroused.
In the end, orgasm denial is meant to help remind your submissive who they chose to give their body too and the joys that can be found by giving over that control. So have fun and enjoy the time you spend teasing your submissive as they struggle to appease you.
Do you have any fun tease and denial games/techniques you love playing with your submissive? Please share them in the comment section below.
The founder of the BDSM Training Academy. Master Bishop has been involved in the Dominant/submissive lifestyle for over 19 years. With a love for education both learning and teaching, Master Bishop has passed on his knowledge and experience to others entering into the BDSM lifestyle for over 14 years.
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Orgasm is God’s greatest pleasure! It’s a Man’s God given RIGHT and a woman’s PRIVILEGE. If God wanted woman to orgasm every time, you’d think He’d have made orgasm necessary for reproduction. A Man MUST orgasm to reproduce. It is not necessary for a woman. As it is almost 60% of woman can’t orgasm from penetration alone. Leading me to believe that like all privileges, it must be intentionally granted! Besides when you marry a Man, you are essentially giving yourself to him in EVERY WAY, your sex now belongs to your Husband. It is for His pleasure, yours is irrelevant. A good Husband will be attentive to your needs but knows that too much pleasure can spoil a good woman! Be grateful for the GIFT of the pleasure He does grant you. And remember your greatest pleasure will always come from satisfying Him! Orgasm is a man’s RIGHT and a woman’s PRIVILEGE. And abusing a privilege earns chastisement and denial of further privileges! Chastisement is an opportunity created by God for your benefit. Be sure to thank your Husband appropriately for chastising you!
In a Gay couple the submissive male’s orgasm is also a privilege though as they’re taking the woman’s place don’t you agree?
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You want to add more spice into the bedroom, right? Well, one way to do so is through denied orgasm, also known as edging denial or tease and denial. But before we jump ahead, what is it? And more importantly, how to practice it?
Luckily, you’re at the right spot. Our beginner’s guide is going to teach you everything there is about orgasm denial and how to do it right.
Let’s start with the basics. What is orgasm denial? It is when your partner pushes you to the very edge of coming without allowing it to occur.
They can do this to you, or you can do this to them. The beauty is that both men and women have the ability to do so, so it works on everyone.
These tease and denial games are typically used in dominant/submissive relationships, where the dominant controls their submissive partner’s orgasm. The submissive gives their partner control over it—and it’s pretty hot.
So you know what it is and why people enjoy it, but how does it work? It is usually practiced as BDSM but not required. With edging denial, it’s based around the moment where one partner is on the brink of orgasm.
The dominant partner will stimulate the submissive, making them highly aroused to the point they’re going to come. And just when the submissive is about to, the dominant stops and either stops momentarily or slows down to prevent it from occurring.
This can be repeated multiple times until the dominant allows the submissive to release all the built up tension.
Who thought there’s more than one way to deny an orgasm! Here are different ways to deny your partner's orgasm:
Edging is the practice of bringing your partner to the brink of orgasm, then stopping or slowing down before they climax. It's done through oral sex, clitoral or genital stimulation, etc. You continue this over and over until your partner is ready to release it all.
Chastity play is about taking on the complete dominant/submissive role, making it a bit more of an erotic sexual denial. It allows the dominant to have total control over their submissive partner, covering a wide spectrum of actions. Chastity devices for men and women are usually included, with either penis cages or chastity belts preventing them from performing a specific action or command.
Okay, there’s more to it than that. It all comes down to power dynamics, which is a huge turn-on for many people. But more than that, these tease and denial games break up the typical routine in the bedroom.
For men, male orgasm denial creates a stronger orgasm, releasing a wave of dopamine throughout the body, giving high levels of arousal. It also increases stamina, allowing men to train their release and decrease premature ejaculation.
For women, female orgasm denial gives the vulva time to build up an orgasm, as women usually need more time to climax than men. In addition, female orgasm denial increases clitoral sensitivity for stronger and more intense orgasms.
In short, no. Denial and ruined orgasms are not the same. Both male and female orgasm denial is when the dominant partner will stimulate the submissive until the point of orgasm, only to momentarily stop or slow down to prevent it from occurring.
A ruined orgasm is when the submissive is stimulated until the brink of orgasm, and then the stimulation abruptly stops. When the stimulation stops, either it will occur, or it will be less satisfying as there is no stimulation.
Here are three ways to make the most when practicing this with your partner.
Of course, if you're familiar with restraints, feel free to use them. However, if you and your partner are new to the world of orgasm denial, start off simple and work your way up. Take the time to explore each other and learn from the experience.
When it comes to partner control, always make sure there’s a safe word made beforehand. The submissive uses it when they’re ready to come. This plays on the power dynamics and also gives the submissive some control.
Sex toys can make a great addition, especially if the submissive needs assistance to achieve orgasm. Kiiroo Cliona clit stim vibrator or OhMiBod Esca2 can give the clitoris the extra attention it needs.
Now, you know everything there is to it. All that needs to happen is trying it out for yourself!
Natasha Ivanovic is an intimacy, dating, and relationship writer best known for her writings on Kiiroo, LovePanky, Post Pravda, and more. She's the creator and author of her short stories on TheLonelySerb. She completed her first degree in Criminology and continued and finished her Masters in Investigative Psychology, but then decided to follow her true passion of writing.
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