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Oral Sex Lover

June 29, 2022, 9:03 AM · 6 min read
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For some people, receiving and performing oral sex in any form - cunnilingus, fellatio, or anilingus - is irresistible. It's intimate, it's hot, and it offers some (especially people with clitorises) a quicker path to orgasm . Not to mention, the tongue is an incredibly powerful muscle, capable of intensely stimulating some of the body's most sensitive parts . The catch? So many default oral-sex positions can feel uncomfortable to be in for long periods of time. A little dramatic, sure, but have you tried 69ing as the partner on top? It's a lot of work! Lesser-known comfortable oral-sex positions do, in fact, exist to allow both you and your partner to feel supported and free to soak in every satisfying bodily sensation instead of worrying you'll crush your partner if your arms give out.
Before you worry that "comfortable" is synonymous with "vanilla," rest assured the oral-sex positions below are as hot and fun as they are easy on your body. Plus, if you're a little less focused on sex gymnastics and more focused on feeling stimulated, it's likely you'll reach orgasm quicker than you think - not to mention, you'll have more energy to keep sexy time going even longer.
So let's start with blowjob -specific sex positions. Carol Queen, PhD, a sexologist for sex toy retailer Good Vibrations , says that blowjobs aren't normally comfortable because of the way a penis naturally curves. "Most penises have some degree of curve to them, and often the positions we choose - or just wind up in, TBH - have the penis curving one way, and the curve of our mouth cavity and throat going the other." (This is the reason why kneeling in front of your partner doesn't always work.) Instead, Queen suggests getting into positions where the penis follows "the curvature of your mouth," which will allow you to enjoy blowjobs more and stay more comfortable as you give them.
See below for two A+ specific blowjob sex positions that are both comfortable and fun. (FTR, they can be used for cunnilingus or anilingus, too.) Then keep reading for more oral-sex positions you can use, no matter your partner's genitalia.
In the typical 69 sex position , one partner lies on their back while the other partner hovers over them with their body facing the opposite way. This may work for short stints, but if you say your arms never get tired from supporting yourself, you're probably lying. The sideways 69 sex position, however, offers both parties all the good parts of 69ing, minus the strain. For this oral-sex position, both partners face each other and lie on their sides, with one partner's head in line with the other's genitals and vice versa. From here, both partners can go down on each other simultaneously. For blowjobs specifically, this is a position Queen recommends since your mouth will likely be aligned with the curve of your partner's penis.
This is another blowjob-specific sex position that's both comfy and kinky. Similarly to 69 and sideways 69, the receiver lies face-up, while the other partner kneels over the receiver with their butt in the direction of the receiver's face, says Queen. You can do this with both your legs on one side of their body or fully straddling them. Queen says, "from that position, the penis (most commonly) curves in the same direction as your throat, which is easier to maneuver, even if you are not trying to deep-throat them."
Use the edge of the bed or a comfy chair to your advantage: Have oral sex while sitting down. For this oral-sex position, the receiver should sit as far to the edge of a comfortable surface as they can, and the giver will perform oral while sitting or kneeling in front of them, using their partner's hips as an anchor if necessary. This position allows the receiving partner to maintain full support of their body, and it allows the partner performing oral to spread their body weight across their legs instead of just their knees.
A classic oral-sex position you can't go wrong with is one in which the receiver lies on their back while the giver lies on their stomach with their head at their partner's pelvis. For added leverage, the giver can wrap their arms around their partner's upper thighs. For added stimulation, the giver can use a free hand to finger their partner, massage their balls, or tease their nipples. Regardless, both partners' bodies are fully supported on the bed at all times.
The Kivin method , or sideways oral, is one of the more underrated oral-sex positions, in my opinion. Not to be confused with sideways 69, the Kivin method involves the receiver lying on their back, bending one leg at the knee and bringing it up toward them. The giver lies perpendicular to their partner, placing their neck under their partner's raised leg and their head at their partner's genitals. Given the angle, this position gives way for even more stimulation and pleasure for clitoris owners.
In this oral-sex position, both partners lie on their stomachs. The giving partner will lay with their head between their partner's legs at their pelvis. This is a solid position for anilingus, but for a slightly better angle - especially if the receiving partner has a vulva and clitoris - slide a pillow underneath the receiving partner's pelvis to elevate it and allow the giver an easier reach.
Sitting on someone's face sounds incredibly hot at face value (ha), but I'd be lying if I said I didn't have a slight fear of suffocating my partner if my legs get uncomfortable or vice versa. Modified face sitting is a slightly easier solution. For this, the giving partner should lie on their back, with their upper body propped up at an angle using a couple of pillows. The receiving partner should then comfortably mount their partner's face, using the bed frame or wall in front of them as a balance. This should, ideally, require less effort on both the giver and receiver's part.
Standing sex positions can easily be adapted for oral sex in a way that doesn't involve one partner digging their knees into the hard ground. Instead, especially if you have a mattress that's lower to the ground, try what I call the T stand, an oral-sex position in which you and your partner will form a sideways capital T. The giver should lie on their back with their head at the very end of the bed's corner, while the receiver faces the bed and stands over their partner's head. From this position, the receiver can easily lean over and tease and pleasure their partner during sex.
- Additional Reporting by Taylor Andrews
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Most men would enjoy nothing more than laying back and enjoying the slow, sensuous feel of a pair of wet lips wrapped around their penises. Unfortunately, some women aren't the biggest fans of the act, but worry not; there are others who would love nothing more than to greet a man's member with their scarlet lips.

Thus today's focus is on oral sex and what women adore and abhor about the sport, so to speak. So everything you've been dying to know about what your woman might be thinking when she's giving you a blowjob may lie in the answers the following women provide.
Thanks for joining me, ladies. Let's get started. To start, what do you enjoy about performing oral sex?

Nicole: I love the fact that I can make a guy squirm by using my mouth to caress his penis and testicles. Knowing that I have such control over his pleasure is flattering.

Bianca: I like doing it because he loves it. I know that when I'm getting down on my knees for him, he feels like a king and that makes me want to do it.

Toula: I'm not very keen on performing oral sex, but what I do like about it is the fact that whenever I do it, I can get whatever I want out of my husband.

Linda: I enjoy the taste and texture of certain penises. Some guys just smell great and taste sweet. Nothing compares to a smooth penis.

Uh-huh... my colleagues demanded that I ask the following... do you prefer to spit or swallow?

Toula: I've tried swallowing and I have to say, it was the most disgusting thing I've ever tasted. It was bitter and foul, not to mention I nearly puked. My poor husband was trying his hardest to comfort me even though I know I ruined his orgasm in the worst way.

Linda: I used to swallow my husband's, uh, "juice" all the time. It was a given that whenever I would fellate him, I'd swallow. It tasted amazing but unlike anything I've ever tasted before. But I wouldn't do it with just any man.

Bianca: Yeah, I agree, I think that swallowing is a very intimate thing and should only be done with a man that you trust and love. It's very flattering to a man that his woman would ingest his sperm, but if she did it with every guy, then how special is that?

Nicole: I don't see what the big deal is; I would never swallow. It's just disgusting. Even when I taste the pre-ejaculate, I feel like vomiting. One boyfriend begged me to and even tried to get me to do it by not telling me he was ready to release. I ended up spitting it out in his face. I'm certain he'll never try that again. That ought to teach him... Has a man ever told you that you were terrible?

Linda: I think that men are so excited to get you down there that even if you were chewing on his penis like it were a hot dog, he would grin and bear it. So no, I've never gotten any negative feedback.

Toula: I have. Considering my husband is the only man that I've experimented with, I used to fellate him on a fairly regular basis and one day he asked me to do it without using my teeth. Then he proceeded to give me more directions until I was doing something completely different than what I was accustomed to. That's when I realized that I sucked, both literally and figuratively speaking.

Bianca: I've gotten nothing of the kind. I've been told that I give the best oral sex ever. Although I did once fall asleep with "it" in my mouth. (The women look around in a confused manner.) Oh it's a long story... I was drunk — let's just leave it at that.

Nicole: I've never been given any feedback, good or bad. But the guys do reach orgasm so I guess I must be doing something right.

What's the kinkiest thing you've ever done when it comes to fellatio?

Toula: A friend of mine gave me this flavored, heating lube that I could use to enhance the experience. Although it was great at first, it ended up turning into a sticky mess and started to taste like saccharin. It was fun though, and my husband and I laughed for hours and still do whenever we talk about it.

Bianca: My ex always wanted to be in a threesome and although I would never let him penetrate another woman, I decided to bring my roommate into the room once and we both spent a long time pleasing his manhood. I would suck his testicles while she would suck his penis and then we'd massage the entire area with our hands. Needless to say, he nearly hit the ceiling when he ejaculated.

Nicole: I performed on two guys at the same time. While I masturbated one, I would fellate the other and then switch. As well, we were in a public place and although I would never do it again because the guys treated me terribly, I don't regret it.

Linda: I placed my ex on the bed on all fours with his legs spread, I placed myself underneath him facing his penis but with a lot of pillows under me so that I wouldn't have to strain to suck on him. And while I used my mouth, saliva and hand to massage his penis, I used my other hand to massage his prostate. Oh man, did he go crazy!

 What do you dislike about fellatio?

Nicole: I hate it when a guy hasn't washed and doesn't tell me. And when I get down there, there's all this nasty dirt that ends up in my mouth. Oh, and the taste of semen, ugh!

Linda: That's called smegma and it builds up over time more often on uncircumcised penises. Anyhow, I think it's disgusting when a guy doesn't trim down there simply because it limits my ability to go crazy on him. I think all guys should be taught to keep that area clean and proper.

Toula: I dislike it when I get no feedback. When the man just lies there like a corpse. How am I supposed to know if I'm pleasing him unless he tells me? I don't have a penis; I don't know what the sensation is like

Bianca: I don't really hate anything about it, especially considering that I wouldn't wrap my mouth around just any penis. But what I can't understand is why a guy would refuse to kiss me after I'm done pleasing him. It's his penis after all, and I'm willing to kiss him after he performs on me. All my friends tell me the same thing about their guys. That trips me out.

Do you have a secret technique when it comes to performing on a man?

Bianca: Oh yeah. I usually rotate between my mouth and my vagina. I will wrap my mouth around his penis and get a good rhythm going. And when I know he's extremely excited, I'll stop for a second, massage his penis with my hand and then ride him for a minute or two. I'll keep bringing him to the edge until he finally can't take it anymore and throws me onto the bed and has his way with me. And sometimes I give my boyfriend a Popsicle and have him show me what he wants me to do to his penis. I get so excited watching him that I begin to play with myself while I suck him.

Linda: I love to put it in my mouth when it's soft and suck on it as it grows in my mouth. It's usually difficult to do because when my man knows he's going to get some, he becomes erect. That's why I usually do it when he's sleeping. There's nothing like waking a man up with awesome oral sex.

Nicole: I stroke the base of his penis with one hand, suck the top with my mouth and use the other hand to gently massage and tickle his testicles. As well, I sometimes squeeze the base of his penis trapping the blood at the top, and wrap my lips over my teeth and suck the head as quickly as I can.

Toula: Thanks for the ideas ladies (winks). The kinkiest thing I do, which may not even be considered kinky, is I massage his inner thighs while I fellate him. He likes it so I guess it's not that bad.
How long are you willing to stay down there?

Bianca: As long as it takes to please him. Once I did it for so long that my mouth was numb and my lips were swollen. Who needs lip injections? Suck on a penis for an hour, that ought to do the trick!

Nicole: I usually get bored after about ten minutes.

Linda: This may be hard to believe, but I really enjoy doing it. I feel pleasure giving him pleasure. So I wouldn't put a time limit on it, nor would I do it until I couldn't feel my lips. I treat my man's penis as though it were a precious commodity.

Toula: Oh not me. I mean, sometimes I'm in the mood to do it, but usually I do it just long enough so that he stops pestering me for it.

What advice would you give to guys when it comes to getting their women to perform on them?

Nicole: Keep it clean and if you know you're not fresh, don't let her get on her knees. Otherwise, she'll always remember that bad, stank experience.

Linda: Unless you want to be referred to as "Jungle Jim," I suggest you keep the area trim and proper.

Toula: If you want to receive, you have to give. And I'm talking with enthusiasm.

Bianca: React. Moan, say things like "yes, right there, this is amazing," women need to know that you're enjoying what they're doing.

Ladies, thank you so much for your candid answers and I hope we can do this again sometime.

Well there you have it gentlemen, things you've always wanted to know but were too afraid to ask. I hope that one of these women happens to fit the bill when it comes to what you want and if not, don't worry. There is someone for everyone and there is surely a woman who will be more than willing to please you.


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Years ago, I was having lunch with a woman who would eventually become one of my closest friends.
At the time of our lunch all those years ago, we were new colleagues, and we soon discovered we had a plethora of things in common — our love of sex being one of them.
To say she and I had great ease in talking about sex in our marriages would be an understatement. To this day, she is a confidante who I know will always be up for a transparent and authentic conversation about sexual struggles and sexual joys.
At our first lunch together, we eventually came upon the topic of oral sex, to which I said, “Who doesn’t love oral sex?!” She looked at me quizzically and asked, “Giving or receiving?”
“BOTH,” I answered enthusiastically. She agreed.
I know there are many wives out there who have never given oral sex to their husband, or if they have, they do not enjoy it. The reasons can vary, but suffice to say, most reasons would fall into at least one of the below categories:
“I associate it with promiscuous behavior.”
“Oral sex is something I did before I was married, and now I feel guilty doing it.”
“I don’t think it’s a Christian thing to do.”
“I don’t want him to come in my mouth.”
“I don’t know how to give oral sex right.”
“I’m self conscious. I just don’t know what I’m doing.”
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