Oil Spanking

Oil Spanking

Create a New Forum
Admin Login
Member Login
Contribute to Voyager
Search VoyForums
Help Desk
VoyForums Exchange
VoyForums Directory/Categories

VoyForums Homepage
VoyForums News
FAQ - Frequently Asked Questions

Show your support by donating any amount. (Note: We are still technically a for-profit company, so your
contribution is not tax-deductible.)
PayPal Acct:
Feedback:

Post a message: This forum requires an account to post.
[ Create Account ]
[ Login ]

Forum timezone: GMT-8 VF Version: 3.00b, ConfDB: Before posting please read our privacy policy . VoyForums (tm) is a Free Service from Voyager Info-Systems . Copyright © 1998-2019 Voyager Info-Systems. All Rights Reserved.

How do you make the sting from a spanking last longer?
Owns Real Estate Company. · Author has 681 answers and 12.3M answer views · 1 y ·
I did something horrible today in one of my classes and my mother said that I will receive a bare bottom spanking when my father gets home, at 5. How do I make it hurt less?
How, much does a spanking hurt? I'm going to get one for punishment soon, and I am wondering how sore my rear end will be.
What is the most painful way to spank yourself?
When getting spanked with the belt, when do you start feeling the pain?
Why does my preacher say to spank teens bare bottom?
I am experienced in domestic discipline, dominant/submissive · · 4 y ·
I did something horrible today in one of my classes and my mother said that I will receive a bare bottom spanking when my father gets home, at 5. How do I make it hurt less?
How, much does a spanking hurt? I'm going to get one for punishment soon, and I am wondering how sore my rear end will be.
What is the most painful way to spank yourself?
When getting spanked with the belt, when do you start feeling the pain?
Why does my preacher say to spank teens bare bottom?
I just got sent to my room. How do you prepare for a spanking because I’m getting one every night for a week before bed, and does it hurt?
How does a teenage boy tell his mother he wants a bare bottom spanking?
Are you 14-16 and still spanked? I'm really against spanking (as a punishment) and I'm sorry that you have to deal with that.
What happened to the Spanking (corporal punishment) page?
How you feel after a red bottom spanking?
Why do people say that after a spanking they "couldn't sit down" for days? Is that real or exaggerated?
What does the belt feel like when getting spanked with it?
Does a wooden spoon spanking hurt a lot? I'm going to get a spanking in a little bit, and my mom said I'm getting the wooden spoon. I was never spanked with one and I'm just wondering what to expect?
I did something horrible today in one of my classes and my mother said that I will receive a bare bottom spanking when my father gets home, at 5. How do I make it hurt less?
How, much does a spanking hurt? I'm going to get one for punishment soon, and I am wondering how sore my rear end will be.
What is the most painful way to spank yourself?
When getting spanked with the belt, when do you start feeling the pain?
Why does my preacher say to spank teens bare bottom?
I just got sent to my room. How do you prepare for a spanking because I’m getting one every night for a week before bed, and does it hurt?
How does a teenage boy tell his mother he wants a bare bottom spanking?
Are you 14-16 and still spanked? I'm really against spanking (as a punishment) and I'm sorry that you have to deal with that.
What happened to the Spanking (corporal punishment) page?
Something went wrong. Wait a moment and try again.
My hubby uses his belt believe me it stings for days.
If you use some hand lotion before you start it will help prevent chaffing and make the spanking sting more, also, use a light paddle such as a wooden spoon and this make for a more stinging spanking.

new follow-up comments new replies to my comments
Copyright © 2022. All Rights reserved.
Would love your thoughts, please comment. x
If you’ve read any of our blog, you probably know that we evolved into this lifestyle, somewhat organically. If you aren’t familiar with us, I’d recommend reading the content on our homepage and also check out our “ About Us ” page, which gives a better background on us and what we do.
So…I’ve been asked a variety of questions around the topic of getting domestic discipline spankings and so thought I’d respond to them all here.
Question: Since It’s “Consensual”, Do The Spankings Really Hurt?
Answer: HELL YES they hurt! I can understand how the term “consensual” might lead one to believe that I consent only up to the point where it really starts becoming painful, then I can opt out citing I no longer consent to the spanking/pain. But what I’ve consented to (and continue to consent to), are real consequences by way of real domestic discipline spankings from my wife. The fact that I take what is given, is consenting on my part because I’m never tied or restrained in any way. So I COULD stand up and stop it at any time and say, “I don’t want to take this anymore”. But the moment I do that, then it isn’t a real spanking, is it?
I must also understand that by doing so, I would be relinquishing the real domestic discipline element/lifestyle that we have developed and that has worked so well for us. There are some that take punishment spankings up to a point, then safeword out. I’m not opposed to that if that is what works for you. What ~I~ set out to do was to be truly accountable and take what SHE assigns and gives. Keep in mind, while the spankings are very real, very harsh, and very painful, there has never been a time where it has been abusive or sadistic. This woman loves me. We are soulmates and were soulmates before we ever started down this road. We are lovers and best friends, and she knows me better than anyone else in the world. Lastly, because we’ve been doing this for a while, she knows my limits. She knows how far to take things and I trust her implicitly.
Question: When You Know She’s Going To Spank You, Do You Get Nervous Or Aroused?
Answer: Nervous for sure. Sometimes I may have a little bravado about the impending spanking, but the closer we get to the actual event, the more nervous I get. This is because I know that I’m in for a REAL DD spanking and what that feels like. When we were doing fun or sexual spankings, or spankings where I knew I could safeword out, I found those to be arousing. But that was because I was in control of stopping the pain as soon as it got to be too much for me. Now, I don’t give myself that option and just take what is given. So bending over the end of the bed (usual position for our domestic discipline spankings), bare butt, as she stands to the side with a harsh implement is a very daunting thing. And, unlike “fun” spankings , there are no light swats or warm up swats to start. From the moment the very first swat or lash lands, the pain is overwhelmingly present and continues to grow throughout the duration of the spanking.
Question: Have These Real Spankings Ever Made You Cry?
Answer: Yes. Part of that I believe is me letting go a little bit but other times I wonder. The implement “ The Wicked Switch “, is the most painful thing I’ve ever felt in my entire life. It lands with a searing pain that exceeds even a water soaked cane. I don’t think I could NOT cry even if I wanted to when that implement is being used. Thankfully, she uses it sparingly. Oftentimes when getting the belt or paddle or punishment strap, painful grunts escape my lips during those spankings and tears will well up in my eyes. And sometimes, if it is particularly a harsh session, I will break down and cry.
Question: What Are You Thinking During A Harsh Spanking?
Answer: That’s a really great question. Once that first lash or swats lands and the searing pain enters my body, I don’t know if there is a lot of thought going on, other than trying to maintain position as per the “ Spanking Rules “. The pain is coming too quickly and as it continues to accumulate I’m not thinking about much else. When she’s using the belt, a punishment strap or cane, she’ll give one half of the spanking from one side, and the other half of the spanking from the other side. As a result, the end of the belt, strap or cane, will do a number on both sides of my butt. When she stops from the first side, I often have a thought of relief as I know I’m about halfway through. After she finishes from the second side, she’ll usually assign a final count. I’m relieved again as I know I just need to get through the final 10 or 20 swats, then the punishment will be over. Many times I’ve planned on counting the swats of the entire spanking (in my head), just to see how many I’m getting. But, again…once that first swats lands…the brain goes into…self preservation, ‘Oww this hurts, maintain position, oww this hurts’ mode. It’s quite the mental rollercoaster.
Question: How Long Will You Behave After A Spanking?
Answer: I’m usually well behaved for several weeks to a month after a good domestic discipline session. There are three kinds of spankings she normally gives: Impromptu swats for spur of the moment infractions (usually just a handful of swats), Attitude adjustments (these are more dedicated spankings where I’ve earned swats for doing or not doing something but haven’t quite earned a trip to the woodshed), and then of course “ Woodshed Whuppin’s ” (these are the worst of the worst and happen about every 1 and a half to 2 months).
Question: Do You Ever Resent Her For Giving You A Harsh Spanking?
Answer: Never. Firstly, I know I can be a handful. I also know I have aggressive personality traits. So when she has deemed it necessary to give me a spanking, I know that I’ve earned it, deserve it, and quite honestly need it.
Question: Do You Get To Choose What You Get Spanked With?
Answer: Not usually. Every once in a great while, she’ll tell me to go get her a belt without being specific (and I assure you I don’t pick the Italian leather one). That said, she still succeeds in giving me a severe butt whuppin’ with whatever belt I bring her. One time I actually kept being a brat because I noticed the belt she was wearing was a not so “mean” belt, (or so I thought). She took it off, doubled it over and gave me a belting for the books! She compensated for the belt’s spanking shortcomings by swinging it so that she caught me with its edge with almost every swat. I learned right then and there, that just about ANY belt in her hands can give an effective and painful spanking.
Question: What Implement Would You Prefer To Be Spanked With?
Answer: She has a wide black leather belt, that would be my implement of choice. Don’t get me wrong, it still hurts pretty bad and can blister and bruise my backside, but…it is not as severe as a couple of her other leather belts. Especially the Italian leather one. All she has to do is just WEAR that belt and I my initial reaction is to behave.
Question: What Implement Do You NEVER Want To Be Spanked With?
Answer: Easy to answer. The Wicked Switch. I absolutely despise and loathe that thing. The pain from the lash of that is the worst pain I’ve experienced in my entire life. When she does get it out to spank me with it. I almost instantly feel like crying. For the most part, I will acquiesce to whatever implement she is going to spank me with and remorsefully bend over for the whuppin’. But with this implement, I will often BEG her to spank me with something else. She normally doesn’t change her mind once she’s chosen it. And on a couple of occasions, begging for something different cost me extra lashes with it AFTER the initial spanking was over.
Question: Do You Ever Regret Getting Into This Lifestyle?
Answer: Not at all. Again, this is consensual. I could tell her I don’t want to do it anymore but I have come to understand and appreciate its value…to me, to her, and to our relationship. There is so much trust and communication that is necessary when doing this kind of thing, that it has actually taken our love, trust, and intimacy to new levels. My wife wrote a great post about the benefits of having a spanking relationship with your husband , that highlights some great points regarding its ability to help eliminate tension between a couple.
Well, that’s it for now. If you have any additional questions for me (or my Queen) feel free to ask them here and we’ll do our best to answer them quickly. Until then, take care!
What is a ~REAL~ Spanking? March 12, 2019 With 34 comments
Where and how can I find a woman like your wife? I’ve been searching forever.
Hey Matt! Actually, I found my soulmate first and we evolved from incorporating fun spankings into our sex play, to what we do now. But that was over many, many years and lots of communication along the way. Over the years, I’ve heard of matchmaking sites that cater to those looking for more “unique” or specialized relationship types. Good luck to you and I hope you find that special someone!
Women that like to spank are out there more than you think. Just approach it as something for her pleasure when bringing it up. Be careful tho as many women find they love it and will want to spank you all the time.
Good advice Matt and we agree. And yes, as we always say…be careful what you wish for.
When I was in my 20s I moved in with a women 12 years my senior. She was quite beautiful and sophisticated. I was living in her house and shortly aster moving in she began to discuss “rules of the house.” I was attracted to her and needed a place to stay so I listened and when she first said violations would be met with swift stern punishment. I felt a strange sense of titillation and I thought ok I will go along. She asked if I had been spanked by my mom growing up and when I said no, she said it showed. She lived in a duplex she shared with her aging mother and when she thought I hadn’t shown her mother the proper degree of respect she scolded me and listed a number of infractions that she deemed worthy of correction.
She told me I needed to learn manners and said I had earned a spanking. I was both fascinated and nervous. She left the room and returned with a large old fashioned wooden hairbrush. She sat on a chair and ordered me to stand in front of her. She told me she was going to take my pants down and spank me so hard that anytime I thought of being disrespectful or misogynistic I would feel a need to stand up. She then deftly pulled my pants and underwear down and hauled me over her leg locking me in place with her other leg. I couldn’t believe how much it hurt and how securely she held me in place. When she stopped after what seemed a very long time, I got up and was dancing around rubbing my behind. She took me by the ear into the bathroom where she washed my mouth with soap and made me look at my behind in the mirror. I was bruised and humiliated and she made me stand hands on head displaying her handy work. This was a really shocking event.
Over the next several months she spanked my regularly. The spankings were something I tried to avoid as they invariably left marks and made it uncomfortable to sit for a day or two. I was terrified of having anyone know that I was being sparked and she said if I violated rules with other present that she would take me someplace and blister me even if others could hear. The spankings were a turn on for her and I did get turned on trying to satisfy her, but the spankings were seemingly non-stop. She had a variety of implements, and if I drank too much or didn’t complete my chores over her knee I went. She called me at work and scolded me and when I arrived at home she was waiting with strap in hand and as soon I as I entered down came my pants. I must say the spankings worked to change my behavior, but after a number of months with a sore bottom, I found a new place to live.
My wife began spanking me many years ago after her mom (my mother in-law) gave me a very real and humiliating spanking.
I can relate. I have read many postings of men saying they were spanked by their mother-in-law. Some of these postings are no doubt fantasy. Well my mother-in-law gave me a very real, very humiliating and very painful spanking. It was no joke and there was absolutely nothing erotic about it. She scolded me and told me she was going to teach me a lesson. I listened and was at first shocked and a bit skeptical that she was serious. While I could have refused to cooperate, something in me was triggered. She ordered me to go wait for her in my wife’s childhood room. While waiting i thought this is pretty strange, but I had been out of line and she made it clear that if I was to be a member of her family I had to get this. She entered the room after what felt like a long time, holding a short black strap. She scolded me more telling me that I would be doing things standing for awhile, I started to get very nervous and thought for a second about running. Then told me to take my pants down and when I said “ no way” she smacked my face so hard I saw stars. The second time she made the order I complied. She grabbed my arm, spun me around and the strap cracked on my behind. The pain was searing but I was thinking I wouldn’t let her see me yelp out. After the third or fourth swat I was screeching. This left real welts and left me uncomfortable sitting for days. Nothing erotic, nothing! But a lasting impression. I was very polite around her for years .
My mother in law is no longer with us. My wife has been spanking me for years, it took me a long time to tell her that her mom had spanked me, she said she knew.
Great take on it many of us can relate has anyone thought about starting a chat group dedicated to Female led DD ? Seems like there are some like minded folks here?
My wife spanks me, but she has never given me a true punishment spanking. I would love to go to full-on Domestic Discipline, but I am afraid of the pain. Don’t get me wrong because I fantasize about it every day. I have to get to the point where I am not a coward………….lol. My wife would spank me like that with absolutely no remorse. I just have to get through the fear. My wife has spanked me very hard in our time together, so I know spanking hurts.
I totally get what you’re saying. I had thought about approaching my wife with the idea of real DD spankings for quite a while before I actually worked up the nerve to do it. There were even a couple of times, where I told her that I wanted to talk to her about something, and then chickened out because of the fear and pain of a real spanking. That’s awesome that your wife is already up to the challenge! LOL. Perhaps a next step, would be to put a limit on the number of swats. Still a real spanking (no warm up, no long pauses, to rubbing the butt in between swats), but see if you could take, 10? 20? 30? From personal experience, those don’t sound like high numbers. But when given with a harsh implement and given “one hard swat, right after another”, it is VERY painful. BUT…also very effective for curbing bad behavior or attitude. At the end of the day, no judgment from me (or my wife). Every couple is different and needs to find what works best for them. Hope to hear how that works out for you and good luck!
Update: my wife has given me a couple of real punishment spankings. Let me tell you that they are agony, however, I can take it. I am not restrained in any way, but I never try to get up or put my hands back. I guess there is some inner conditioning in me that makes me lie there and take it. I do beg her to stop, to no avail I might add but I never even think about stopping it……..I trust her with all of my heart. I have done wrong and I deserve whatever she deems necessary. I never thought that I would get here in my life: having my every fantasy, and desire
Scissor Dildo
Crossdresser Footjob
Kristin Davis Mr Skin

Oil Spanking

Report Page