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Difference between Submission and Obedience is important to know as we live in a society where obedience and submission to power and authority are not a novel phenomenon to us. We all go through it on a daily basis from different groups of people, social structures, and higher power. However, whether it is obedience or submission remains a doubt. Most of us consider these two as synonymous, simply complying with orders and instructions. However, there exists a difference between these two terms. While obedience is following orders or commands, submission is yielding to power or authority. When looking at the definitions, they look so much alike, but the difference between the two stem from the sentiment of the individual who follows the orders. This article attempts to emphasize this difference through an elaboration of the meanings of the two, obedience and submission.
When looking at the first word obedience, it is almost as if it does not need a definition. Students, children, employees, officers and many groups of people go through this. It is following orders and instructions. Simply it is doing what is told. This is an external reaction to a demand that has been made. When a person obeys a rule , it is not because the individual wills it but because the individual has little choice to do otherwise. Let us assume a worker who has been ordered to work for some extra hours during the festive season, the person would complete the work and obey the orders of his or her superiors. However, this act of obeying is not the genuine desire of the individual , but is a result to a situation where if the worker does not comply with the instructions he may risk his position.
Let us take another example. A student who is punished by the teacher for misbehaving in the class is asked to remain standing throughout the period. This student obeys the teacher because he has to or else he has little choice of not obeying, which will most probably guarantee a more severe form of punishment . This highlights that obedience is a mere response to an order, command or instruction.
Submission is when a person gives into authority or greater power. However, unlike in obedience this is willful and out of respect for the person in power or authority. Earlier, in obedience, there was no sentiment involved and the person merely follows orders but, in this case, the individual follows orders because he respects and is willingly to comply with instructions. Especially when we speak of God, we submit to God and not obey God. This is because there is love and respect for the greater power and authority. As an individual submits to authority or power, there exists a particular bond between the one who submits and the one in power. This brings to focus that submission comes from within unlike obedience. This is the main difference between the two words.
• Obedience is following orders, commands or instructions.
• Obedience does not guarantee a person’s willingness to comply with orders.
• It is a reaction to a command where the individual has little choice to reject or oppose the authority
• Submission is yielding to power or authority.
• In submission, a person has respect and love for those in power.
• Unlike in obedience where the individual succumbs to power merely as a reaction to power, in submission, the individual’s reaction is guided by genuine desire to follow instructions.
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Thank you so much
U understand the difference fully
Thanks for the clearly analyzed useful information.
It is really helpful to know the clear definition to translate into other languages.
I like submission more than obedience. It is very hard to find someone I want to submit to, though. Only God I will fully submit myself without doubt of his authority and love.
Extremely helpful. Thank you so much
Perfect explanation! This clarified the meanings and differences between being obedient and being submissive. During a recent job interview, I was asked if I would be obedient towards my manager. I said I would be obedient. If the manager tells me to do something, I would do it; I would obey. I then explained that most employees will do what their manager tells them to do, for a while, and then quit. Obedience is not enough.
I believe it is better for the employee to WANT to work hard for their manager, not to just simply obey the manager’s requests. Now I know that I should have said that I would be SUBMISSIVE to a good manager.
I want to work in an office where the employees are happy and want to work for their manager and the. company.
This is a great topic, the explanation difference between the two made me ponder for a while thank you very much, I am totally in acceptance.
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As adjectives the difference between obedient and submissive is that obedient is willing]] to [ [comply#verb|comply with the ( l ), orders, or ( l) of those in authority while submissive is meekly obedient or passive. As a noun submissive is one who submits. Other Comparisons: What's the difference? Disobedient vs Unsubmissive
Apr 12, 2021 Submissive noun. (BDSM) One who submits to a dominant partner in sexual practices. Subject in will or act to authority; willing to obey; submissive to restraint, control, or command. 'And floating straight, obedient to the stream.'; 'The chief his orders gives; the obedient band,With due observance, wait the chief's command.';
• Submission is yielding to power or authority. • In submission, a person has respect and love for those in power. • Unlike in obedience where the individual succumbs to power merely as a reaction to power, in submission, the individual's reaction is guided by genuine desire to follow instructions.
The third step to embracing submissive obedience is to truly view your husband as your authority. No, you are not his child. Your relationship with him is a delicate balance of closest companion and leader / protector / head. It is a perfect balance of companionship and respect true freedom and submission friendship and obedience
Aug 6, 2020 Obedience as described in the dictionary means, the state or quality of being obedient , or the act or practice of obeying; dutiful or submissive compliance. In simple terms then, it means you are to do as you are told. Obedience should be expected. It is something that should be non-negotiable within your BDSM relationship.
There are very few women that are actually in abusive marriages, and the ones in "bad" marriages often just don't know how to relate to their husband in a respectful way that would get him to alleviate some of their emotional pain. It's really complicated, but in our society, unfortunately, a lot of the problems now-a-days are caused by the wife.
Sep 27, 2021 A submissive must learn to change their way of thinking and alter her own reactions to what someone else has determined she should be. It's a gradual process and one that takes constant reinforcement. How far this reinforcement goes and to what degree the training reaches should always be worked out in the contract between Dominant and submissive .
This is a list of common submissive wife rules. The first four are based on the 4D's and I recommend that you all follow these four rules. Rules 5 -10 rules should be followed where applicable. 1: Respect - show respect at all times. 2: Honesty - always be truthful never tell lies. 3: Obey - Obey your Husband/HoH without question.
December 22, 2012 //. This is my first blog, and indeed blog entry, on the subject of the punishments I receive for being a less than obedient and well behaved wife! This blog was given to me, by my husband, as part of any punishments I receive. Today's punishment was caused by my mobile phone bill, which was larger than expected due to the ...
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There are four pillars to a Dominant and submissive way of life and if these are broken, the relationship needs some serious work. Three of the four we have discussed so far already. The four things are : Honesty, Trust, Obedience and Respect.
Today we will be discussing obedience.
Obedience is the third pillar . Obedience is a Key. At the core, it is the exchange of power. This is what separates the BDSM interaction from the vanilla world. This should be your pride and joy as a submissive. You should know that when you are obedient to His will and do things the way He wants them done you make Him proud of His decision to train and eventually collar you and make you His. A submissive should know that her Dominant is proud of her when she does something well, not only because He told you to, but because you take pride in showing Him how much He deserves your love and service. It is also a wonderful moment when you obey, despite something being difficult and ultimately not something you would have done, not because He told you to, but because you desperately wanted to succeed.
Obedience is something that is not negotiable and the consequences for disobedience is the Dominants displeasure and t submissive being removed from His presence and love. Coming back to the centre of your relationship can only be achieved if correction and discipline has ben doled out and forgiveness has been give.
Obedience as described in the dictionary means, the state or quality of being obedient, or the act or practice of obeying; dutiful or submissive compliance.
In simple terms then, it means you are to do as you are told.
Obedience should be expected. It is something that should be non-negotiable within your BDSM relationship. Once the parameters of the relationship are established, a submissive is expected to comply within those bounds. However, it is crucial to be mindful of areas of hesitation and what causes them. Consistent decision-making on behalf of the Dominant one will go a long way to establishing the foundation with the submissive. It is then that obedience becomes a great deal easier.
Obedience is important in many aspects of everyday life we try to teach our children to obey so that they are well behaved, we teach our animals to obey so that they are well trained. In employment there are rules to be obeyed, and people or superiors to answer to. The job many get done properly if people do not obey the orders.
In the Dominant and submissive relationship, obedience is probably the singular most important quality a submissive needs.
A Dominant must have control over a submissive in order for the power exchange to take place, bu without the element of obedience there would be no control.
A submissive needs the control in order to make her life complete, but needing it and obeying every command is often two very different things.
Obedience is important in a Dominant and submissive relationship.
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And yes, I do actually have a heart for women in pain, but the majority that I see are so caught up in their own selfishness, that they have an almost “false” pain that they are bringing on themselves. It’s unnecessary pain that they have actually been causing in some way. There are very few women that are actually in abusive marriages, and the ones in “bad” marriages often just don’t know how to relate to their husband in a respectful way that would get him to alleviate some of their emotional pain. It’s really complicated, but in our society, unfortunately, a lot of the problems now-a-days are caused by the wife.
So that means that A LOT more men are suffering for real, at the hands of their wives. And yet the wives often believe that they aren’t the problem. So hopefully you can see that this does tip the balance in the direction of more men being in real pain and being sinned against than women currently. A good book to read that may open your eyes to this mass problem with women and selfishness (which causes so much pain for men) would be “The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands” by Dr. Laura. It is just insane the entitlement and self-centeredness that is seen by women today. And yes, this does mean that more men are hurt. I definitely do care about women who are in pain, but my focus is often to get them to do something about helping their marriage. It’s not my place to write a blog on direction for what men should do – so maybe that’s why you see me this way, but it’s not my place to confront husbands on their sins.
I do have to ask this. What would you tell a man who was angry that his wife was denying him sex because she was in chronic pain and dying of cancer? I do think that you made the right move with the wife. It wasn’t her husband’s fault. He likely did regret that he couldn’t have sex with her anymore, and her lack of sacrificial love probably made him feel even worse about it, which wasn’t what he needed as he was dying. But would you see a man in a similar situation who complained about sexual denial as selfish?
Yes, I would. But I’ve seen similar cases like that, where the husband is the caregiver, and they don’t seem to mind the sacrificial love part. They may miss it, but they don’t go around complaining and looking for pity-parties, they’re usually busy care-taking and just getting through it! I know this sounds sexist, but men really do seem to be more sacrificial, they put up with way more crap from their wives for longer amounts of time that a wife would put up with the same treatment if it was turned around on her, and they will stay in a sexless marriage much longer than a typical wife will (practically dying in it for lack of sex, they’ll still stay with her).
Dragonfly, it seems like anytime a woman tries to show a man any kind of sin is something that you disagree with. And that’s fine, but that is something that we will have to disagree on. I greatly appreciate your desire to respect your husband and I know that my husband sees that same desire in me (and actually approves the comments I make here before I post them and has told me to change wording around occasionally).
I am not mocking the pain that Jeff, Jonadab, and tons of other men face either as a result of feminism or entirely different. As a nurse, and honestly just as a woman, I don’t like to see people suffering and if I can do something about it, I try. But at the point where these men are, albeit completely unintentionally, being a stumbling block to women that I care about (in a way that I wouldn’t expect you to care for them about, or even perhaps totally understand), it becomes much harder to ignore. Jeff can insult me all he wants and I don’t really give a crap. At the point where my sister reads what he says and says “see how Christian men, the supposed model of Christ, feel and treat women”, it has become a serious problem. Granted I have a much more personal interest in my sister becoming saved than you do, but i hope that you can at least understand why I care about her so much.
I do not claim to know the extent to which marital issues are caused by women rather than men, but I can definitely agree that from what I have personally witnessed (including sexual problems in my own marriage) that the majority are caused by the wives. Sometimes I wonder why certain men chose such low-quality women, but I know that a lot of the time it wasn’t a problem they could have seen coming.
I am sure that the problems I have faced with men in the past were somehow brought on by me and the resultant pain is therefore caused by me. Maybe if the Lord continues to tarry, that will somehow make sense to me.
The absolute greatest example of pain and redemption that I have seen is in Rwanda where I had the chance to visit a little over 2 years ago. These people have faced more hurt than anybody reading this blog is likely to ever suffer (although I do hate comparing pain as different people handle pain differently). They don’t expect people to walk on egg shells around them or give them a free pass for sin. Their story behind the Village of Reconciliation is one of the greatest testaments
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