Nudist 12

Nudist 12
Posted Mon, May 5, 2014 at 12:15 pm ET
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I've always been one to want to get to the bottom of every problem so that we know how to proceed to fix or repair the issue; whenever there is an illness, I want to know what caused the body to react in that way, and not just take something to relieve or cover up the symptoms. Whenever something happens at work, I want to know what the issues were that led to that problem. My logic, of course, is that if we know the cause, we can correct it. We can remove the causative factor, and then healing is possible.
So what would you do if you discovered that your 12 year old daughter had posted nude pictures of herself on social media? There was a very disturbing video posted on Facebook a few days ago of the mother’s reaction. I’ll include the link only for reference, and to set an example of how broken this reveals humanity to be at this time. The comments I saw under the post were almost as distressing as the video itself.
(This video has since been removed. There are several articles on the internet about it, however.)
What disturbs me – and I hope it does you as well – is how many layers of brokenness this represents. We are in a time of great transition – a great shift in consciousness – and things are coming up now for us to learn from and deal with. So it seems more important than ever to get to the root of the issue. This is important not just for the social ramifications, but also for our spiritual health. We need to deeply examine the underlying causes of our actions, so that we can make the changes that need to be made for the future of humanity. I’m sure child psychologists will have a field day with this, but from a spiritual perspective, I would like to offer my take:
First, let’s talk about the girl. I want to address this, because I think there is something here for all of us to learn.
She’s 12 years old. She is beautiful and innocent. What could possibly have been the underlying reason for her to want to post nude photos of herself on Facebook? This is the real question: Why would a 12 year old girl want to pose nude for the world to see? Let’s examine some thoughts on that:
1.     Was she thinking that this was a normal way to have fun?
2.     Was she encouraged by her friends to do this?
3.     Was she looking for attention that she wasn’t receiving from her family?
4.     Was there any self-respect present in her actions?
5.     Was there any respect for others in her actions?
All of these lacks become a cycle, as you can easily see. One leads to another, and you can probably think of others that I haven’t listed. So it is apparent that there is an unhealthy need here. And I think we can see more of why this is by the mother’s response.
While I absolutely do not condone the child’s action, I also do not condone the mother’s reaction, although from the comments, many apparently do. I think both are demonstrative of a very unhealthy relationship, and an unhealthy society. For those who haven’t watched the video, the mother repeatedly struck the child with a belt while telling her why. I couldn’t catch all of what she was saying, but she was obviously hurt, angry and frightened for her daughter, and wanted to stress the importance of never doing that again. That much is clear.
Still, the reaction seems to me over the top. Not to mention the brazenness of recording it and posting it on Facebook. Why couldn't the mother have conveyed the seriousness of the child’s actions without a belt – without violence – without the public humiliation? Is she unable to communicate at that level with her child? What does the violence teach the child?
Why would the mother jump to conclusion about what others might think or say? Because society has fostered that fear. We do judge one another. And we judge ourselves. Could the mother have felt that her child’s actions reflected poorly on her ability as a mother? I think I would have felt that way. Was this reaction the societal norm, as suggested by several of the comments? What are some other reasons you might think of for her abusive reaction?
There is a saying in spiritual circles; hurt people hurt people. And we see it again and again. The reason someone acts out was because he was bullied as a child, or she was abused by a relative, or their parents expected perfection and punished anything less. There are abandonment issues, parents who don’t love or care. There are so many reasons. But it all leads back to being hurt at some very deep level.
For centuries, religions have been both a source of healing, and a cause of hurts. But in this new era of spirituality, we are starting to understand that humanity is reaching a crisis point in brokenness, and healing and restoration of wholeness is crucial for the future of humanity. What are the holes that need to be filled? And can our religious and spiritual structures support this healing?
There are no easy answers, but these are important questions. I do think that it is possible to restore wholeness. And in our example of the 12 year old nude and her mother, it seems that if the mother was whole, and the daughter did what she did, that the mother would sit her down, explain why what she did was improper, help her daughter work on a solution to remove pictures, and – most importantly – she would examine the reason that her daughter felt compelled to exhibit her body publicly, and take steps to bring the daughter to a deeper understanding so that she could correct the underlying cause. That is what wholeness would possibly look like for the mother. Her love for her daughter would lead the way.
For the daughter, if she were whole, she would have a deep respect for herself, for her family and friends, and wouldn't be subject to coercion by friends. She would see herself as a bright, shining soul in a human body, and allow her gifts to shine forth naturally, as she grew and matured. Exhibitionism wouldn't cross her mind. There would be no need. Even if friends encouraged it, her natural love for herself and her family would have prevented her acting in that manner.
Of course, this is idealism, and unlikely to occur in an imperfect world in imperfect humans. Still, it is something we can strive for. Think about how incredible our society could be if we all understood ourselves as immortal souls residing in bodies. If we understood the true nature of ourselves and our reason for being in this incarnation. What if we allowed our gifts to shine forth to help humankind, instead of hiding them under a basket? What if we all lived by the great guiding principle of humankind; to love and care for each other as ourselves. What if, when we see that someone is having a difficult time with something, that we work with them to help them discover a solution to the underlying cause – to fill the hole. This is not a solution to the manifested problem, but something much deeper that will allow the person to find a solution for themselves. And trust me, it’s a whole lot easier when we really understand our true nature, and what unconditional love really means. I've seen this work first hand – in my own life and in others I've coached. It is possible to restore wholeness, and the transformations are amazing.
We may never be able to make sweeping changes across society, but we can restore wholeness to one person at a time. As Gandhi said, “Be the change you want to see in the world.”
Rev. Stacy Lee Goforth is an Interfaith Minister, Spiritual Life Coach, Intuitive, Mystic, Co-Creator of Crystal Vibrations Jewelry , and Talk Radio Host of Goforth on Faith . She is the author of The Divine Plan , a spiritual gifts based program for discovering your unique life purpose. She serves on the worship teams for the Interfaith Community International in NYC, and the New London United Methodist Church. She also leads The Path of the Mystic, a weekly one hour class on spiritual/mystical experiences at the Center for Healing Therapies in Waterford, CT.
Follow her on Facebook and Twitter, and sign up for her newsletter at www.manycontainers.com .
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