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A: Have no fear. It’s quite common for women not to experience orgasms during vaginal intercourse. Without direct clitoral stimulation, most women don’t climax.

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To increase your chances, talk to your partner about massage of the clitoris during sex . Be patient. If you’ve never experienced an orgasm, it might require an hour of stimulation to produce results the first time. It might even take multiple tries until you get comfortable with the feelings of strong arousal.
— From the book Us! Our life. Our Health. Our Legacy . by Linda Bradley, MD and Margaret McKenzie, MD
Discover the truth about questions that pique your curiosity in our “Short Answer” series. OB/Gyn physicians Linda Bradley, MD, and Margaret McKenzie, MD, answer this one about orgasms and sexual intercourse.

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If you have never had an orgasm, rest assured that you are not alone. Orgasm problems are the second-most reported sexual problem in women, according to an article in Annual Review of Sex Research . The most reported problem is a lack of or decreased sexual desire .
Between 4 and 7 percent of women deal with what’s known as women's orgasmic disorder, according to an article in American Family Physician (AFP) . The authors define this disorder as follows: “Despite self-report of high sexual arousal or excitement, there is lack of orgasm, markedly diminished intensity of orgasmic sensations, or marked delay of orgasm from any kind of stimulation.”
The inability to orgasm can make you feel negatively toward yourself — maybe you feel like you’re missing out. It can also lead to problems in a relationship. You may feel shame, disappointment, frustration, or inadequacy. You may even feel like you are letting your partner down. But remember: A supportive partner should never make you feel guilty about not having an orgasm.
Learning more about why you’re struggling to have an orgasm may help.
There are a number of potential causes for the inability to orgasm. These causes include:
Muscular issues, such as hyper- or hypotonicity of the pelvic floor muscles
Neurogenic problems, such as spinal cord injury or nervous system disorders
Psychogenic problems, such as relationship issues, poor self-esteem, mood disorders, or side effects of medications for mood disorders
A lack of understanding of the female anatomy or feeling too uncomfortable to discuss the issue can play a role as well.
You may be surprised to learn that only 8 percent of women orgasm because of penile-vaginal intercourse alone, according to the American Psychological Association (APA) . This is because female orgasms usually occur because of stimulation of the clitoris. The clitoris is a small sexual organ located at the top of the vulva, above the vaginal opening and the urethra. It has thousands of nerve endings, and it is the stimulation of these nerve endings that provides feelings of pleasure.
For many women, the clitoris is not stimulated during penile-vaginal intercourse, and some aren’t aware that this stimulation would increase their chances of having an orgasm. Others might feel uncomfortable asking their partners to directly touch or massage the clitoris and even less comfortable doing so themselves.
Sixty-seven percent of heterosexual women admitted to faking an orgasm at least once, the APA reports . The authors of the report speculate that the reason women fake orgasm goes back to the belief that women are supposed to be able to orgasm during penile-vaginal intercourse. When that doesn’t happen, they fake it to make their partner feel better. In reality, most women need more than penile-vaginal intercourse to reach climax.
It can be difficult to diagnose an orgasmic disorder, but this shouldn’t deter you from seeking help. Both doctors and patients often feel uncomfortable discussing intimate sexual matters, but opening the door to discussion can help you rule out any medical problems and learn about treatment options.
The AFP report suggests that a complete physical examination should be the first step. This should include an examination of your pelvic floor muscles and checking for adhesions that might be causing problems. Testing your hormone levels and for infections can also point to or eliminate underlying medical conditions.
There are three main ways to treat an orgasmic disorder: - Some women are able to orgasm through masturbation but not through intercourse. Directed masturbation is used to help women become more comfortable with their bodies and to learn what gives them pleasure. Hopefully, they then share this information with their partner and incorporate these techniques into their lovemaking. - Cognitive behavioral therapy is used to decrease anxiety and promote changes in attitudes and sexual thoughts that could be interfering with ability to reach an orgasm. Religious and cultural beliefs about sex can sometimes prevent a woman from exploring her own sexual pleasure or from asking her partner to do certain things. - Sensate focus is a form of sexual therapy that guides a woman and her partner through a series of exercises, moving from nonsexual to sexual touching.
Without having to seek professional treatment, there are things you can do to help increase your chances of having an orgasm. It is suggested that you talk to a doctor to rule out medical causes first.
Spend time masturbating to learn about what you find pleasurable and what brings you to climax. Share this information with your partner and incorporate it into your lovemaking. For example, ask your partner to rub your clitoris before, during, or after intercourse, or use your finger to rub it during intercourse. - Add a lubricant to reduce friction and increase sensual feelings. - Experiment with different sexual positions to see if there is one that provides stimulation to your clitoris. - Increase your foreplay and make sure it includes direct stimulation of the clitoris. - Add sex toys to your lovemaking. - Set aside time for sex so you can let go of daily stressors and focus on making both partners feel satisfied. - Read books, such as “The Elusive Orgasm” by Vivienne Cass and “Becoming Orgasmic” by Julia Heiman and Joseph LoPiccolo.
Eileen Bailey is an award-winning author of six books on health and parenting topics and freelance writer specializing in health topics including ADHD, Anxiety, Sexual Health, Skin Care, Psoriasis and Skin Cancer. Her wish is more
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Have trouble orgasming? The best fix is in your hands.

Amy* enjoys being intimate with her husband, but she finds it difficult to have an orgasm when they're having sex.


She tends to get in her head a lot, which makes it hard for her to focus on the sensations she's feeling. When this happens, she gets fixated on having an orgasm and starts worrying about how long it may take, why she isn't climaxing sooner or that she won't have an orgasm at all.


"The more I think, the less I can relax," Amy said.


Sometimes, using a vibrator for clitoral stimulation can help Amy have an orgasm, but it's far from a guarantee, and Amy's challenges around orgasming weigh on her sexual self-esteem.


"When I don't orgasm, I feel like I am letting my husband down or making him feel like he's not doing enough to satisfy me," Amy said. "My partner orgasms nearly every time we have sex and he wants me to experience that pleasure, too. But it often just doesn't happen for me."


Amy is hardly alone. Research indicates that, for women, orgasms can be elusive; this is especially true for women in heterosexual relationships.

"Lesbian women experience orgasms about 75% of the time with their partner; bisexual woman experience orgasms about 58% of the time, and heterosexual women experience orgasms about 62% of the time," said Dr. Emily Jamea , a sex therapist.
There's no concrete answer as to why lesbians most consistently experience orgasms with one another, but Jamea reasons that it could be because women understand women's bodies better, and that there is perhaps less pressure to orgasm during intercourse.
"Most orgasms happen through clitoral stimulation," Jamea said. "And most women just get that."
This brings us to a key question: How many types of female orgasms are there?
Traditionally, female orgasms have been defined as vaginal and clitoral.
"As to the difference between those two, the jury is still out," Jamea said. "Some research suggests that there are different sets of nerve endings in the clitoris versus the vagina, but we also have to remember that the clitoral body goes deep inside — and is usually about 3 inches long, with two wing structures. So arguably, all orgasms could be clitoral."
Things get even murkier when considering that there are so many individual differences. Some women swear that there is an area of their vagina that has more sensation than the rest of the vaginal canal, constituting the storied "G-spot," while other women say they feel no difference.
What's more, there's growing research that there are more ways to orgasm than just through clitoral or vaginal stimulation.
"Some women may experience orgasm during nipple stimulation and anal play," Jamea said. "Some women have nocturnal orgasms after a sexy dream, and others can even think themselves into an orgasm."
But there are some women who have never had an orgasm of any variety.
"One consistent finding is that about 10% of women report never orgasming in their lifetime," said Dr. Laurie Mintz , a sex therapist.
Why do the vast majority of women orgasm but some don't?
Barring medical conditions such as chronic pain disorders or the usage of SSRIs (both of which can inhibit a woman's ability to orgasm), lack of orgasm can come down to a number of factors, including culture and the distorted value we place on intercourse between a man and a woman.
"Culture is a huge reason behind why women may not orgasm," said Mintz. "We know that there is a massive orgasm gap between men and women and that women are having fewer orgasms than men in all types of contexts. A lot of that is due to the way we talk about heterosexual sex and how societally we paint a picture that intercourse is the most important thing."
In fact, as Jamea notes, only 21% to 30% of women orgasm through intercourse without simultaneous clitoral stimulation.
Another major reason women may never orgasm may come down to psychological stressors and even environmental factors.
"You aren't going to be able to run as fast on a hot day as you can on a cool, clear day," Jamea said. "It's the same with orgasms. You may not orgasm as easily when stressed out or when you're in an uncomfortable environment. There is such a strong mind-body connection and anything going on that affects our context can improve or inhibit climax — and women tend to be more sensitive to these factors."
Also falling under the bracket of psychological roadblocks are a sense of feeling rushed to climax along with — or as quickly as — your male partner, which is quite the physiological challenge.
"Men usually orgasm within the first five to ten minutes of rapid stimulation," Jamea said. "Women may take upwards of 30 minutes to get there. So, a lot of women who have never had an orgasm may simply have not given themselves enough time."
Yet another more complicated roadblock in the way of achieving orgasm is past trauma.
"Trauma causes a dissociative response, which means the mind and body become disconnected," Jamea said. "In situations where vulnerability and trust are necessary, fear can take over, resulting in a similar dissociative response. In other words, it can result in someone freezing up."
Some women, like Amy, feel guilt and other negative emotions about not being able to consistently orgasm, which is totally normal, albeit distressing.
"[Negative emotions] are a definite problem for many women who don't orgasm," Mintz said. "A lot of it comes down to feeling like they're not normal, or that they're flawed or broken. This can lead to low self-esteem, shame and the avoidance of sex."
Both Mintz and Jamea champion masturbation with an open, patient mind as the ultimate treatment for women who have never had an orgasm, or have trouble orgasming.
"Experiment with your own touch, with what feels good to you and try out different toys," Jamea said. "Vibrators can do wonders."
Mindfulness techniques can also help get you in tune with your body and help quiet the chatter of the mind that can intensify when you're fixated on having an orgasm, or worried that you're taking too long. Anxious thoughts can be particularly intense when you're with a partner.
"Do I look good, smell good, taste good?" Mintz said of some of the many questions that may flood our minds during sex. "You can't orgasm when you're thinking so hard."
Most of all, it's important to recognize that you aren't having an orgasm for anyone but yourself. Own it and don't judge it. Let it happen without trying to control it.
"This is your orgasm, not anybody else's," Jamea said. It's in your hands."



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