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And getting a girl horny is more about the vibes and sexual tension that both of you feel than anything else.
If you jump any moves or indulge in the next step before the earlier one, you may just end up losing the whole cause.
An opportunity to get a girl horny while sitting next to her can’t be preplanned most of the time.
So use any opportunity you get when you see one similar to the chances mentioned here.
To make a girl feel horny, you first need to build the sexual chemistry between both of you. You need to flirt with her, tease her and make her like your attention. [Read: How to text a girl you like and make her want you ]
And when you feel like there’s some secret chemistry in the air, just sit next to her, use these tips and watch her get aroused in no time!
How to make a girl wet while sitting next to her
Is it really possible to make a girl horny by just sitting next to her? Well, with these 8 tips here, it definitely is!
Just don’t be hasty, and if you sense any awkwardness in the air, take a step back and play it safe.
#1 Sit really close. When you’re with this girl you’re sexually attracted to, find an excuse to sit really close to her. Pull out your tablet and show off a cool new app, or read out a long interesting article from a magazine she likes.
But as you sit next to her, make sure you’re sitting in a tight spot so your arms are touching each other’s. And even if there’s a lot of space to sit on, squeeze close to her and immediately shift her focus to the tablet or book in your hands so she’s too distracted to slide her butt away from you. Make sure your arms touch each other, because the soft grazing of both your arms is crucial to rouse the sexual tension and turn her on.
#2 Keep her interested. Don’t talk flirty at all. It’ll raise her guard. She’s already touching you and she’s obviously conscious of that. Get her distracted from the touches by having an interesting conversation with her.
Get her attention by gossiping about something you heard or reveal a little secret you heard from a little birdie. As long as you excite her with something while talking to her, she’s overlook the fact that both of you are almost attached at the hip.
#3 Start talking flirty with her. Getting a girl horny is easiest when both of you have to sit next to each other for a while with no interruptions, be it in a boardroom or a library, or even while travelling in a train or bus. But no matter where you are, just get her involved and things will go smoothly all the way.
Somewhere along the conversation, get flirty with her discreetly. Compliment her about something to start with. Be very subtle or she’ll move away from you. “You smell great”, “I like the fabric of your shirt”, “You have really nice eyes, did I ever say that before? From this close, it sparkles” are just a few lines that’ll charm her and yet make her blush without moving away from you. [Read: Tips to compliment a girl the right way ]
Keep the conversation going casually and drop a few comments or flirty lines now and then. And if you’ve already texted dirty or flirted dirty with her earlier, bring a few of those lines into the conversation to remind her of the sexy times both of you have shared. [Read: 20 questions to text a girl and make her wet ]
#4 Touch her fingers. Play it safe and slow. No matter what, make sure these little moves both of you are indulging in is discreet. If she feels awkward or uncomfortable, it’s the end of the road for your sexual endeavor. Find an excuse to touch her fingers, either by brushing her palm with yours or by giving her something to hold. Compliment her about her delicate fingers or how smooth it is. She’d know your naughty games by now, but as long as you keep the pace slow and enjoyable, she’ll like your sensual touches.
Another good way is to pretend like you read palms. It’ll work even if she knows you have no idea about palmistry. Flirt with her and say something naughty when you see her palms. Or if that doesn’t work, touch her fingers and compliment her ring or her bracelet. Or even her earrings. Just make sure you warm her up to your touches. [Read: How to touch a girl discreetly and make her like it ]
#5 Whisper into her ears. This is especially good if there are other people around both of you who are too preoccupied with something else. Movie theatres, bus journeys, the backseat of a car with friends when another guy is driving, or if both of you are at home watching a movie are perfect times to indulge in the whispering act.
Don’t be funny while whispering into her ear. If she laughs, it completely kills the mood. Go near her ear like you’re whispering something and compliment her again and say you just had to compliment her about the same thing again.
If you want to get straight to the point, whisper into her ear and ask her if she’d like to hang out with you later. Whispering something intimate like a date request with some heavy breathing in the background will make the hair on the back of her neck and hands stand. And make sure your lips graze her ears so she can feel a hint of a teasing kiss on her ear.
#6 Reach out from across her. To make any of these moves work, you have to feel the sexual tension in the air. If you don’t feel it, don’t try these moves. And when you feel the sexual chemistry thicken in the air, don’t worry, she’ll feel it too and even get aroused by it.
Now that you’ve been touching her and whispering into her ear, it’s time to take it to the next level. Find an excuse to reach out to something from across her. And as you reach your hand out to pick something up, make sure your shoulder or arm grazes her breasts or some other strategic body part. Play innocent and don’t jerk back or look awkward. Make it seem natural, like you’re a clean boy scout who’s doing nothing wrong. [Read: How to touch a girl’s breasts on a first date ]
If her breasts are out of reach, move your hands across her back or over her thigh, or just about any place that you wouldn’t touch in other casual circumstances.
#7 Read her reciprocation. If she starts speaking softly or moves closer to you, chances are, she’s as horny as you are right now! If you’ve been following these tips to the tee, you’d definitely have an erection already. Just play along and repeat the flirting, teasing, touching and reaching out to body parts now and then for as long as both of you enjoy it. [Read: Tips to find the right girl, arouse her and hook up with her ]
Graze your hands against her breast or watch her tee shirt and if you find anything stiffened up, you’ve just worked your magic and made a girl horny, my friend!
#8 Ask her out. Now all this turning on shouldn’t go to waste, should it? Tease her and play with her for a while, and she’ll love it all the more. Or if you want to do something more about it, go close to her ear and ask her if she’d like to come over to your place.
If you’re with friends, make an excuse and get out separately and meet her outside so both of you can get home and do something about all that heavy petting and raging hormones! [Read: The kind of guy you need to be to sexually excite a girl ]
And that’s all you need to do to figure out the secret behind knowing how to get a girl horny and wet. I’ve used it dozens of times, and it’s taken me to bed almost every single time!
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Fingering might be seen by some as a teenage sex act that has no place in adult sex lives, but they would be so very wrong. When done right, fingering is The Best. It's actually also really important for female pleasure and orgasm . Most women and people with vaginas can't orgasm through penetration alone (around 80%) so will need clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm. And that's where fingering comes in. Anyone who has sex with people with vulvas needs to know how to do it well. So here's an expert fingering guide courtesy of sex experts at Kinkly .
Before you start, as Dr Eskander , a consultant gynaecologist at The Gynae Centre says, "By keeping your fingernails short and clean you can reduce the risk of infection. Be careful not to be too rough as this can lead to minute vaginal tears which, in addition to taking a few days to heal, increase the risk of catching an STI , particularly if there is an exchange of bodily fluids."
When it comes to creating the persistent, rhythmic and often subtle stimulation required to really please a vulva - and deliver a mind-blowing orgasm to the person attached to it - fingers RULE.
Our fingers are dexterous, yet strong. Each soft, smooth fingertip is incredibly sensitive and receptive, allowing them to respond to a partner's cues, change rhythms, and expertly play with the labia, clitoris , vagina and all the lusciously sensitive skin between them. The hand is, inarguably, an amazing sexual tool. But you still need to know how to use it.
As you may already know, the clitoris is the centre of sexual pleasure for women and people with vaginas. It has about 8,000 nerve endings and, while it appears tiny from outside, it actually extends deep into the pelvic area and around the vagina. Even G-spot orgasms may occur as a result of stimulation of the back-side of the clitoris.
However, because the clitoris gets so much attention, we often forget about all the other luscious bits down there. And that's a problem. Because you shouldn't - listen closely, because this is very important - you should not stampede straight for it from the get-go. Actually, please don't do that. If you do, you're likely to shock those 8,000 super-sensitive nerve endings with your cold start, which tends to be very jarring, irritating and even painful.
So, first thing's first: get to know your anatomy. The vulva includes the pubic mound, the inner labia and outer labia , the clitoris , the vaginal opening and, just beneath, the perineum . All of these areas are sensitive, sensual and responsive to touch. If you want to finger someone really, really well, you should definitely be working in a few, according to your partner's preferences.
The smoother and more slippery your subject, the longer, hotter and more satisfying your touch will be. Forget about the outdated idea that natural lubrication is enough. It can be affected by hydration, hormones, medication and stress. Why leave it up to chance? Just use lube , OK?
Go for a natural, organic and good quality lube like the Sliquid range . They're vegan and don't contain any allergens.
Vulvas like stimulation that is sensual and slow. That's because it takes at least 15 minutes of stimulation, on average, for a vulva-owner to reach orgasm. Fingering is not a wham, bam, thank you, ma'am kind of play. In fact, one good way of thinking about it is to imagine it as a great song or story, with a beginning, middle and end.
Remember how we said don't jump straight to the clitoris? Don't jump to the punch line, or start at the end of the story. The best stories slowly reel in your attention, introduce new characters and twists, get more intense, more interesting and then - only then, when you are helplessly riveted - do they reveal the ending.
Begin your play slowly, gently - gentler than you imagine, even - and gradually increase your speed and intensity as you move toward more sensitive terrain. What you're doing is encouraging blood to flow to your partner's genitals. This increases their arousal, all the while making them more receptive to intense stimulation and winding them ever closer to the edge of orgasm.
Just as you need to build up the intensity, it's also best to work your way from the outside in towards the clitoris. Think of the clitoris as a sort of bullseye. In this case, you want to start stroking and touching the outer edges of that target - the legs, thighs and lower abdomen. You can do this with your fingers - the sensation will be so light and teasing, it'll build your partner's anticipation.
If your partner is liking what you are doing and responding well, you can move your caresses in closer, to the pubic mound, labia and perineum. You may even run a finger over the clitoris. But keep those touches light and teasing - you aren't going there yet.
As your partner becomes more aroused, you can start zeroing in on the areas they respond to and enjoy the most, making your touches more rhythmic and consistent as you go, perhaps by rubbing a finger back and forth, or tracing a circle. Use your partner's words and cues as your guide.
As your partner becomes more aroused by your touch, it's important to really tune in to them, the directions they are giving and the sounds they are making. If you change up the rhythm or focus of your stimulation and things get quiet, back up. If your partner moans, writhes, their breathing gets louder or they tell you they like what you're doing, you're on the right track.
As things heat up, get up close to your partner and let yourself get lost in their breathing, their movements, their pleasure. Listening to your partner and learning their body language is important to any kind of sex play , but it's essential here. You have all the control; it's you who decides whether your partner leaves satisfied. There is no sex tip in the world that'll serve you better than your partner's individual erotic cues, so listen up.
Sometimes, when our partners get excited, we do too. The way they are responding is so hot that we change something up, alter our rhythm in the hope of making them feel even better. But please don't do that. When your partner is digging the thing you are doing, it's time to keep doing that thing, not something else. Persistent, rhythmic stimulation is the key to a successful fingering. If the pace and pressure are working, keep doing it until your partner asks for more.
You can also use a clitoral vibrator to stimulate their clit. Start on a low setting and speed, and that'll keep this persistent and consistent. Depending on how they like it, you can gently brush the vibrator against their clit to tease them, or try using the toy just above it. The Je Joue bullet vibrator is perfect for beginners, and super cute too.
Although it's best to wait until your partner is really warmed up, some people like a little penetration with their finger play. Be sure to ask your partner if it's OK for you to go inside. Once you slip a finger or two in, there are a few things you can try.
As always, check in with your partner about what you are doing and how they are liking it. This should be a joint effort, with both of you working toward your partner's ultimate pleasure.
If you're concerned about finding their G-spot, you can always use a toy specially designed to massage it. Sex toys with a curved or bulbed tip are made to target vibrations and pressure to the G-spot.
As your partner moves toward orgasm you'll hear their breathing get faster, their body tense up, and their noises and moans grow louder (or, for some, much softer). Your job here is to maintain focus. By now, you might be stimulating the clitoris directly and, if your partner is feeling really hot at his point, that stimulation can be pretty rough and intense. Just keep up the rhythm and touch that's working for your partner, and check in with them to see what they need.
Sometimes, all it takes is just a little something extra. You could try kissing them hard, looking them deep in the eyes, or running your hands across their neck. You could also let them know just how hot their pleasure and arousal is making you . The best sex engages the body and mind fully. Helping your partner tune in to their body and stay present can help tip them over the edge.
If you've seen a few vulvas, you probably know that they're all quite different . As individuals, we are all wired a bit differently too, and have our own unique preferences. Sex is a skill, and part of that skill involves learning about your partner's sexual quirks . For example, did you know that some people prefer stimulation on the right or left side of their clitoris? Do you know which side your partner prefers? You should. Small adaptations to your fingering technique over time are the things that can send your partner beyond just orgasm and right into orbit, to that place of total weightless, senseless bliss.
Sounds pretty hot, right? It is. And you hold the power to make that happen - in your fingers, your fingertips, your palms and your sensual, subtle, skilfully sexy hands.
And here's some handy advice from IRL people - aka vagina experts - on Reddit:
"I would prefer to be rubbed through the clitoral hood, not directly on the head." [via]
"Make sure it is good and wet and run little circles around it to start, then go to direct pressure. if they respond, you got it!" [via]
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