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Wife dresses inappropriately around house guests?
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Riverman2000, November 12, 2020 in Cheating, Flirting, and Jealousy
Hello all! I want to get a second opinion. My wife and i are both in our 20s. We have a home with a swimming pool and we have many get togethers and friends/neighbors over. When they tend to be mostly male, my wife wears a thong bikini or revealing clothing like tiny shorts or tights shirts with no bra. She does have breast implants and nipple piercings, which makes it more revealing. Sometimes she'll already have guests over when i get home. Should i say anything to her or have an issue with it? Idk?
I'm guessing this is who you married. If your wife is the same person then this is a you problem. Marriage doesn't change people and you shouldn't expect it to.
Yes true. But her attire has changed over the years. And she didn't have fake boobs when we got married. We never really had parties or guests over before. She is more social and outgoing now.
why don’t u just bring this up to her??? It’s definitely inappropriate. & disrespectful to u!
Well i brought up her tops/blouses once and said i was being controlling. But since, then her attire hasn't gotten more revealing, which makes me think i should bring it up again. Or am i being controlling?
You married her the way she is and apparently this appearance and manner of dressing works for you . Can't have it both ways.
No she didn't dress like this when we were dating or first married. She was more conservative, Which raises my curiosity
Well i brought up her tops/blouses once and said i was being controlling. But since, then her attire hasn't gotten more revealing, which makes me think i should bring it up again. Or am i being controlling?
Nope not controlling. It’s disrespectful & u hv every right to express ur discomfort about it.
Curiosity about what? Showing off her body modifications? At some level you're on board with this.
By the time you get home from work? What time do you get home?
Where does she find all these men who she invites over? Whey are they able to spend afternoons swimming and partying with your wife instead of working? What do their partners think about them having a men's gathering with your wife? What happens when you get home?
I usually get home by 7. I work at an accounting firm. Sometimes work late. She works part time as a bartender. This doesn't happen daily. It's usually our roommates friends that are over.
I wouldn't be happy if my wife was walking around in a thong with male guest. I'd certainly say something. another rule would be No male guest unless I'm there. Your asking for trouble if that remains in play
OK, so it's not so much "we" invite people over, but the roommate does. Perhaps the roommate has outstayed his welcome.
Regarding being controlling, expressing a preference isn't controlling. Making unilateral house roles and asking or expecting her to change is controlling. How far do you want to push it?
To be honest you have every right to have this discussion with her. Start it by saying “ I would like to let you know that it’s uncomfortable for me when you wear revealing clothes around our friends, I’m letting you know how I feel and I’m not trying to be controlling , it just makes me feel uncomfortable “ . Then listen to what she has to say . Let her know that you don’t mind her dressing this way when it’s just the two of you but around other friends it’s uncomfortable for you. Ask her when guests are around can you please wear less revealing clothes because those are our friends we want to respect them.
Why do you live with roommates? You're supposedly an accountant and you can afford breast implants but not your own place?
If this story is true what's the problem? What are you going to do, tell her to wear frumpy sweats?
Then you would be starting a bunch of threads about how you never get to see the boobs you wasted your money on.
Why do you live with roommates? You're supposedly an accountant and you can afford breast implants but not your own place?
If you must know, i have a lot of debt and financially we need a roommate at the moment. And i don't want to tell him he can't have friends visit.
I wouldn't be happy if my wife was walking around in a thong with male guest. I'd certainly say something. another rule would be No male guest unless I'm there. Your asking for trouble if that remains in play
Agreed, but i don't want to tell our roommate, who is older than us, that he cant have his friends visit. He does pay rent. ???
If you must know, i have a lot of debt and financially we need a roommate at the moment. And i don't want to tell him he can't have friends visit.
Ok, so it's your fault you have to share a place and have people over.
Inappropriate isn't really a word I'd use, rather mildly concerning. She no doubt wants to show off her body, and in some sense it's reasonable (albeit shallow in my opinion) that she will do so.
It depends on what her intention is. If she's doing it simply for the ego boost, as I said it's shallow but not overly harmful. But if there's any sense that she's looking for a bit more than that, then there is a much bigger problem.
Here's a thought: if you decided you would go to the gym and get yourself seriously ripped, would you also want to show it off a bit? Is there a way she's doing so that you wouldn't do?
She is teasing them maybe she just wants to sensationalise but not get in the game. She must think teasing is not such a big deal. But it is a powder-keg.
Here's a thought: if you decided you would go to the gym and get yourself seriously ripped, would you also want to show it off a bit? Is there a way she's doing so that you wouldn't do?
True...good point. But I'm my wife wouldn't be ok with me in a speedo with girls over when she wasn't home, but i get what you're saying. And her excuse is "well i didn't invite them over. They're Jason's (roommate) friends" and i wouldn't be surprised if he purposely invites them over, to show his old buddies and hangout
She is teasing them maybe she just wants to sensationalise but not get in the game. She must think teasing is not such a big deal. But it is a powder-keg.
I don't think she's cheated, but one never knows i guess. She never seemed like the type
It's her house and she can walk around however she wants. If you don't want male roommates, get rid of them.
You're being silly. She's at home, not prancing around town topless.Get a grip
It's her house and she can walk around however she wants. If you don't want male roommates, get rid of them.
You're being silly. She's at home, not prancing around town topless.Get a grip
Well prouncing around at home topless or in thong bikini infront of men i dont think is ok either. And older men at that. I mean nothing against older men, our roommate and his friends are significantly older than her.
You need to get rid of the roommates or get your jealousy under control.
Wearing skimpy swimsuits in her own home is normal. It's her right to do so.
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Those who have been married for several years know from experience that all marriages have their ups and downs . But lately, is your marriage experiencing a new down?
Does your wife seem depressed, distant, and openly disrespectful of you? You want to make things better but are unsure how.
Let’s examine some of the signs of a disrespectful wife. Once the signs of a disrespectful wife are identified, you can work towards a productive response to the disrespect and, hopefully, towards the healing of the marriage .
A key component to marital happiness is respect for one another, even in moments of conflict and disagreement. The lack of respect in a marriage can be one of the most painful situations you can find yourself in.
When signs of a disrespectful wife become apparent, you can feel unworthy, ignored, like you don’t exist and that all you are bringing to the relationship is going unnoticed.
It is a bit difficult to define a disrespectful wife in a simplified statement as there is a myriad of signs and traits of a disrespectful wife.
If we take into consideration all the disrespectful wives available, their traits might be just as unique as themselves.
Nonetheless, a disrespectful wife is someone who is not concerned with her spouse’s happiness or likings. She is selfish and prefers to live her life as per her whims and fancies by not considering her spouse’s opinions and desires.
Here are some signs of a disrespectful wife. Read these signs of a disrespectful wife to identify if some of these signs hold true for you.
If you feel that some or all of these signs are applicable to you, there is a dire need to take appropriate action to effectively deal with this stressful situation.
She may openly criticize you in front of friends and family. And not in the cute, teasing way, such as “Oh, look at how messy your hair is!”
No, the rude wife will take that even further, perhaps stating in front of your friends, “He can never be bothered to care about how he looks.” This makes you feel belittled and embarrassed. This is definitely not okay.
Your efforts to work hard to ensure that the family is well cared for financially go unnoticed or even criticized.
“I come home from the office, exhausted after another long day at work, and my wife treats me like crap,” stated one man who is dealing with a disrespectful wife. “I cannot understand why all the things I do to make her happy are never enough,” he continues. “She’s such an ungrateful wife!”
What he doesn’t understand is that an unappreciative wife who does not acknowledge her husband’s efforts to contribute to the family’s well-being are the signs of a disrespectful wife.
When one has lost respect for one’s spouse, it is not unusual for them to stop listening to you.
Ignoring your attempts at communication is a passive-aggressive way to show a lack of respect as if what you have to say is not worth tuning into.
It is very hurtful to be met with this type of behavior, as it can make you feel like your opinions are not valuable.
The housework goes undone, and the place is a mess. Laundry is left in the dryer; dishes stack up in the sink, the garbage can is overflowing.
You come home from work, look around at the chaos in the house, and say to yourself, “My wife does not respect me. If she did, she would at least do her part of the household chores so that when I get home from work, I don’t have to then take care of everything at home.”
Not keeping up her part of what makes a marriage run smoothly is one of the signs of a disrespectful wife.
A sure sign of a disrespectful wife is when she is constantly on her phone , computer, tablet, or watching the latest series on television instead of interacting with you.
She prefers to spend her weekends with her friends. All of these actions take time away from your couple. You feel like you are no longer a priority in her life.
Your latest promotion, the work you do around the house, taking her car in to the mechanics for a tune-up – she does not congratulate you on your accomplishments, nor does she thank you for your caring tasks.
Whether in public or private, she cuts you down and makes you feel lower than an earthworm!
Despite being a perfectly able person, she makes you feel worthless and makes you doubt your competency.
If this is happening with you, by now, you should know that you are living with a disrespectful wife.
Living with a difficult wife is taxing on the spirit. You never know what she is going to do next.
You cannot please her . She will criticize you, your friends, your family. And, leave apart discussing critical issues, even talking about simple day-to-day things with her isn’t easy!
She will keep the television on when you attempt to talk with her or continue on her phone call.
When you leave for work in the morning, she doesn’t bother to even get out of bed to say goodbye, let alone kiss you, and wish you a good day.
Stubbornness is one of the signs of a disrespectful wife that is very hard to mitigate. To deal with a stubborn wife who is so set in her ways is a struggle.
She thinks it is her way or the highway, that she is always right and you are wrong.
She flirts with old boyfriends on her Facebook and poses inappropriately on her Instagram feed.
Having fun-filled conversations with friends or having a healthy relationship with an ex isn’t wrong, but there are boundaries.
If she continues to behave in an inappropriate way despite you objecting to it, it certainly is a disrespectful behavior from her end.
“My wife openly flirts with waiters, salesmen, the barista at our coffee place. I cannot bear her flirtatious behavior,” says one man who is dealing with a disrespectful wife.
When a wife exhibits seductive behavior in your presence, the impact can be devastating, making you feel like you are not manly enough to keep her satisfied and interested in you.
This is clearly a lack of respect between husband and wife and should not be tolerated.
She never has a kind word to say about your best friend.
It isn’t just about any specific person. She generally hates your parents and siblings or any other person close to you.
She may go so far as to refuse to attend any of your side of the family’s events.
If she doesn’t agree with something you said, she is capable of giving you the cold shoulder for days at a time.
Even if you try to apologize or resolve the issues , she will prefer sulking and continue giving you the silent treatment . All these are the signs of a disrespectful wife.
This is part of her stubborn nature. You either have to do things her way, or you don’t do them at all.
There is no meeting in the middle, nor any effort to negotiate a win-win situation.
To get what she wants, she will use manipulative methods , including threats, guilt trips, spreading lies about you, or other inappropriate behaviors, all to force you to do what she wants.
Being manipulative is indeed one of the signs of being disrespectful towards a person.
If she continually voices her envy about other couples’ relationships, saying, “why can’t we be like them?” This is another sign of a disrespectful wife.
It is okay to appreciate other happy couples around you. But, comparing with other couples, despite you trying your best to keep her happy certainly is disrespectful.
You haven’t gone to bed together in a long time, that you can’t remember the last time you had sex!
She stays up late, watching television or playing games on her computer. You find yourself in bed, alone, night after night.
You haven’t had a meaningful conversation for a long time. Each time you open up to her, you are met with a litany of complaints.
All these are the signs of a disrespectful wife that you mustn’t ignore. If her attitude is affecting your self-esteem and mental health, perhaps you must seek professional counseling.
You ask her to do something, and your request will go ignored.
Or, worse, she will do the opposite as if she was deliberately trying to make you mad. If you notice any of it, you know what you are supposed to conclude!
Do you often say to people around you that my wife doesn’t respect me? But why does she disrespect you?
This is an important question to ask, and it is the starting point of being able to identify issues in order to be able to move towards a productive dialogue on why a wife disrespects her husband.
To find out why your wife disrespects, start with a conversation. It will be a difficult conversation and one that needs to be managed with great care.
It may be beneficial to consult a marriage counselor who has the expertise to guide you and your wife through the process of uncovering the sources of her disrespect.
When a wife insults her husband, there is a history behind this anger. When a wife undermines her husband, there is something brewing beneath her behavior.
Working with a marriage counselor can be vital. With a counselor, you and your wife have a safe space to reveal your emotions and reactions. The counselor will help keep the conversation on track.
“My wife is rude and disrespectful,” one husband revealed during a marriage therapy session. “Can we explore what is provoking this behavior?”
The wife, in turn, revealed that she felt very alone in the marriage , almost invisible. Their relationship over the years had devolved into more of an exchange than a loving, supportive partnership.
The early days were filled with romance, good talks, time is taken to be together emotionally and physically.
But as the years went on, the wife felt less and less important. Her reaction was to turn into an arrogant wife, one that showed her disdain for her spouse with signs of disrespect in marriage.
Because the husband felt his wife treated him like crap, he reacted by not engaging with her. He felt that if he did not engage, he could not be the victim of her disrespect. He no longer wanted to deal with a stubborn wife. So he checked out.
A vicious cycle was created: he avoided interacting with her, she felt ignored, she degrades her husband to spark a reaction (and feel “seen”), he wonders, “why is my wife so mean?”
Apart from these two tips to decipher the reason behind why your wife is being disrespectful towards you, here are a few common reasons why wives disrespect their spouses .
These are some of the many reasons for lack of respect in a marriage. Use these tips to find out what reason holds true in your relationship.
You may also seek a counselor’s help to navigate you through this perplexing situation.
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