My Penis Is Too Big

My Penis Is Too Big
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don't know if this will help or not, my former boy frind had a lg penis too, it would hurt when we made love, I talked to him and asked if he wouldn't put it in all the way cause it was causing discomfort fer me, he agreed and it was real good after that, you can try that and soo if it works and the other thing is before he puts it in, I'm not sure how to decribe it but the two pieces of skin that hanges in front of the vigina, kind ok looks like two balls thats been deflated, take a hold of them and move the out of the way, it may sound gross like clearing the path way fer the tree.I don't mean to affend you in anyway, but what do you expect from a hill--billy, just thought I'd give you my two cents worth. about seeing his penis through his pants, try having him wear black undergarments or what ever he wears, they are harder to see through, have a good day. heinzes57
As to the response of asking him not to put it all the way in...... you could use a 'sleeve' of sorts. I believe it is called GiGi and this could give him the feeling of giving it all without actually doing so. I'm friends with a girl who does 'those' parties...... here is her site www.DivaVal.com
Hello tarzbanan, I came across your topic and decided to give a man's point of view. I am a big man too, about 13,5in long, and quite thick too. And it's not easy to keep it 'hidden', I agree. I myself wear larger pants and shorts, and avoid pools. Other issue I have is large testicles, so the volume is quite difficult to hide. My girl always complains about it, so what I do?, I keep always calming her. I understand her jealousy, and she also got big breasts, so she is also "observed". We just let life go on. About pain, my girl says a lot too. She gets very lubed, this is not a problem for her, and we still use more lube, it's better for her. She loves oral sex, so we make our way around. Also, we never ever had - and probably won't have - anal sex.
While I have my doubts as to the validity of the original post, if it is indeed true I believe I can shed some light. First, how long have you been married? If it has been more than a few months your body should be expanding to accomodate his size. Much larger things can be inserted and removed from your vagina. If you actually "cry" from the pain sometimes, and your husband is not interested as to WHY therefore you have not worked things out I can only fathom 2 reasons; 1: Your husband is a bit of a jerk, probably fabulously good looking or at least the guy that every other woman you know wants to be with regardless of the size of his ****, 2: You have self esteem issues and don't think you can get anyone else so you accept the pain as necessary. You are accepting the pain as a sort of penance for everything else you feel is "right" with your relationship. Either way, you need to work this out with your husband. There are so many "other" things you can do sexually that are just as pleasurable (if not more so) than vaginal sex unless your husband is thick headed and only gets off on trying to give you what HE thinks you want! It's up to you to tell him that's NOT what you want, YET! If you talk to him and he is accepting to the issue you pose, you can do a few things to help. I can honestly say that unless you are 3 feet tall you can eventually accomodate his girth and most (if not all) of his length and do it in a very pleasurable and mutually enjoyable way. If you wish to actually do this, you are going to have to "stretch" your vagina. Make yourself more cavernous so that you can have sex without the pain. You can do this in several different ways depending on what you need. If you are going to stretch "with" your husband, he can use his fingers to stretch you wider much in the way a mid-wife prepares a woman for childbirth. Have him insert multiple fingers until the point of slight discomfort. It shouldn't really hurt, but stretching takes some effort. Have him use more fingers, then some off both hands. He can insert fingers from both hands and slowly pull apart, whatever BOTH of you agree upon as comfortable and pleasureable. Most women find it very pleasurable to be stretched open in this manner, and actually take to it like a duck to water! But it MUST be done with a careing partner, one you trust, or there is no bond and that is 50% of what you are building here. Do not do this every night unless you have NO residual redness or pain. If everything seems fine it is actually ok to do this as often as you like, just do your kegels daily! After a few weeks you should be able to accomodate his girth easily. Then you can both start working on the length issue. If he is willing, and believe me this will be difficult for him to do, he can begin stretching your vagina with his penis. However, I have to say, unless you are 9 feet tall, I don't see how you will ever take all 16 inches of him vaginally. However 10-11 should be easily within your reach after a few months. He will need to take it slow with deliberate pressure without a in-and-out motion. He needs to move all around and stretch you from different angles, etc.. In the end, if you just MUST have him inside you, you are going to have to do this "Anally" or use your throat. With time, your throat and or rectum can easily handle the size of him. If he is not willing to work with you, or you don't want to approach the subject, or you just want to speed up the process a bit, you can still stretch any of your orifices by artificial means. You can use your own fingers (or hand) on your vagina, but unless you are a contortionist there is now way for you to do anything else. Go online (or visit the grocery store) and purchase a series of increasingly larger items up to the size of your husband and a large bottle of lube. Then simply stretch whenever you feel like it, with or without your husband. There are many adult toy sites that have graduated versions of simple toys just for this purpose. There are even "inflatable" ones that insert small and inflate up to 3" wide or more. I can pretty much tell you from experience that you will like girth more than length and that you will far surpass his girth quickly. Be carefull, as you can stretch too fast by any means and end up with a tear that will take some time to heal and slow down overall progress. As long as you do Kegels daily you shouldn't have a problem working with the largest toys available. I hope your post was real, as you are in for experiences most women can only dream of. Bigger IS better!
The orginal posters is obviously lying. It is a man posting this. The profile picture is of a female and a male. The male poster wants females to desire his penis and have sex with him. His penis is not as big as posted. This is a lie.
False post. World record for largest penis is 13.5 inches.
Your vagina is shallow, not long enough. There is a surgery that you can undergo to expand it to fit larger/thicker sized men. Once that is done, you will never have these pain issues. All women/men are genetically designed to fit/insert different shaped organs. You just need to custom fit your organ to fit his.
I can totally relate to this situation as I dated a guy in that same size range. It can be very painful and tough to work through. Cameron's penis was simply too big to have pleasureable sex with. I struggled with that issue for a while but I finally gave up. So bigger is definitely good but not better in all circumstances. He even talked about getting a reduction althogh I dont' know if that's possible.
I have a similar situation. I have been married over 17 years and My husband is huge as well--not to get too much into numbers but he is over 14 inches soft (He used to be 13 soft but for some reason its grown) and hard--well its gigantic. we are alwasy getting in fights about him "bulging" too much in his clothes- and I know he does it to get a reaction from me! But as far as the lovemaking it took years for me to be able to "fit" him to where it was pleasurable. (Although now with his recent growth spurt I am back at square one!). Just take it slowly you will find yourself stretching to fit more and more. (My husband is crazy thick too which does nto help!). Just let him know that after you can fit him he can never leave you! Believe me there is a certain satisfaction that I am one of the only women that can satsify him fully! Just be patient!
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Hi My issues are two fold and kind of odd and embarrassing ,but here it goes. My husband has a freakishly large penis (10+ inches flaccid and 16+ when erect and very thick)and we are always having issues. When he is in clothes, I can always see his penis through his pants and I am obsessively jealous with the fact that I know other people see it as well. It causes big fights all the time. The other issue is that after intercourse (when the adrenaline wears off), very often I am in so much pain it brings tears to my eyes. I love my husband very much, but Im at a loss. Can you help?
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In a perfect world, your boyfriend/husband/fiancé/hookup would have the Goldilocks of penises: not too big and not too small— juuuust right for you. But this is not a perfect world, and the truth is that size can sometimes be an issue. His penis and your vagina might not always match up perfectly. We checked in with gynecologist Lauren Streicher, M.D., author of Sex Rx: Hormones, Health, and Your Best Sex Ever , to find out if a penis can ever be too big for your vagina—and what to do if you find yourself dealing with the papa bear of penises.
Good news: In general, most vaginas are able to fit all shapes and sizes of penises. "Given appropriate arousal and lubrication, most vaginas can expand to fit whatever size penis," says Streicher.
It’s also pretty rare for women in their twenties and thirties to have problems accommodating more well-endowed men. "It becomes more common as you get older, though, because the likelihood of your having medical or hormonal issues increases," she says.
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That said, there are exceptions. "Sometimes, it can seem like a penis is too big for a woman's vagina. And if that's the case, the important thing is that you need to figure out why it's happening—because it can be solved," says Streicher.
There are two big reasons that his man-parts can seem too large. First, you may not be turned on enough. Really. "If a woman is not aroused, it's very possible that a penis may not go in," says Streicher. Or if it does, it could hurt or bleed or cause tearing. To fix this problem, be sure you are lubricated enough before he enters you. Ask him to engage in some serious foreplay before the main act, or use lubricant to get things going.
Another possibility is that certain medications could be making your vagina a little dehydrated—and you may not even realize it. "Many low-dose birth control pills cause vaginal dryness, as well as antihistamines and even cancer treatments, like radiation," says Streicher. So if you continue to be dry down there—even if your guy is all about foreplay—check in with your doctor or gyno to see if one of the medications you are taking may be messing with your sex life.
The important thing to focus on here is that this is a solvable situation. As long as you follow the above advice, you are not doomed to a sex-less existence if your boyfriend's penis seems too large. "I have not once seen a patient who hasn’t been able to successfully have intercourse after taking the proper steps to fix the problem," says Streicher.

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Too Much Of A Good Thing: Can A Penis Be Too Big?

well guest, if it makes you feel any better i dont think you are one, but we did have a pervert trying to take kids offsite not long ago to try to do perverted things. now, to the question. eight inches is on the border of causing girls pain. you should be ok with most girls. please dont do the excercise. a lot of them can do permanet damage to your penis, besides, you donvt need it. enjoy what youve got.

I need help im 15 and i started mastubating at 13 and since then my penis has gotten smaller i was 5in soft and 6 hard but now 2 and a half soft and 4 and a half hard but why

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9.5 inches yeah right keep dreaming lol

Big penis is good. Try masturbating at least four or five times daily. This will help shrink the testicles and thus pull in the penis ‘cords’. When I was younger I had a tremendous penis, however this problem disappeared quickly because of excessive masturbation.

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have you done your penis exercises?

What exersises did you use? I would like mine a inch bigger

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