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How do I deal with a mother that makes me feel like shit?
Answered 2 years ago · Author has 72 answers and 45.6K answer views
You don’t say how old you are, and therefore the crucial question of whether you have a choice about living with her is unanswered. If you are an adult, the situation is probably easier, as you do have a choice about how much contact you have with her. In that case, my advice is - get the hell away from her, if you can, and to the extent that you feel you want/need to.
My mother made me feel like shit, most of my life, and I took the (difficult) decision to cut her out of my life, but not until I was nearly forty. It takes some courage, and I think, soul-searching, to deliberately estrange your
You don’t say how old you are, and therefore the crucial question of whether you have a choice about living with her is unanswered. If you are an adult, the situation is probably easier, as you do have a choice about how much contact you have with her. In that case, my advice is - get the hell away from her, if you can, and to the extent that you feel you want/need to.
My mother made me feel like shit, most of my life, and I took the (difficult) decision to cut her out of my life, but not until I was nearly forty. It takes some courage, and I think, soul-searching, to deliberately estrange yourself from your family or a family member. Many people see it as cold, heartless, selfish, and any number of other emotionally charged words. The problem with that is - if they get on fine with their family, they are unlikely to even remotely understand what it is like to be in a situation that you want/need to get away from. People say things like, “family is everything”, “family is the most important thing”, “you’ve got to stick together”, and “they’re my family and I’ll always love them no matter what”. There’s a certain amount of emotional blackmail involved in phrases like these, and what I consider to be a lack of logic. The issue is charged with emotional weight, and often there is an implied moral judgement of anyone who is deemed to be “letting down”, “betraying”, “not supporting”, not “standing by” or “sticking up for” their family members. To make my point clear on this, I often use this hypothetical and extreme example: What if one of your family members suddenly became an axe-murderer? Would you still love and stand by them? Of course it’s up to you how you would answer that. Some people would probably say yes. But my answer is definitely NO.
I think it’s important to realise that some people will never understand the desire/need to free yourself from an impossible situation involving family. But that shouldn’t stop you from doing what you need to do to be safe/free/happy. Your life is your business, and no-one should tell you what to do or how to behave, especially if they don’t understand your difficulties. Like I said, it took me until my late thirties to finally decide I had had enough of my mother and they way she made me feel. I tried very hard, many times, to make it work, before finally giving up. And it was one of the wisest decisions I ever made. She was not good for me, she had no insight into her own behaviour, and NEVER said she was sorry for anything she did to me. That was the crucial deciding factor for me. She had no remorse, and no understanding of her part in the breakdown of our relationship. I could never trust her again after realising that, and therefore there was no point in continuing to have a relationship with her.
Now, if, however, you are still legally a child, and have no choice except to live with her, it’s much more difficult, and I apologise for not having so much to say about that situation. I think I would suggest trying to minimise your dealings with her as much as you can or feel that you need to. Spending more time out of the house, with friends, or just staying in your room more, so that she has less chance of harming you with her toxicity. Talk to friends about the situation, see if anyone can suggest ways of dealing with the conflict. Perhaps others have similar experiences, who can give you advice and/or just be someone to listen to you and bounce your own ideas off. Humour is a really good healer and coping strategy. Not to be glib, but a (possibly sometimes dark) sense of humour can be quite freeing. If you have someone you can share a joke with, that can take some of the sting out of your pain.
Also, knowing that you have done your best and it’s not your fault should help to release you from any sense of guilt or confusion you might feel about why you are in this situation. Really think about what happens when things feel wrong. Know your side of the relationship, and try to understand why you feel the way you do. Try to identify the triggers for her making you feel like shit. When does it happen? What does she do? How do you react? Does she put you down or belittle you in some way/s? Does she have subtle, or not so subtle, ways of undermining you and everything you do? It’s possible that when you feel most upset, you lose some self awareness, get confused and have less control over your actions, and even your perceptions. You might not remember afterwards exactly what happened. This is a normal part of trauma. It’s like your brain and your emotions get swamped and can’t deal with everything that’s happening. Like a bit of a shutdown, when things get too much. But thinking things through when you are calmer and trying to identify signs for when it might happen again, being just slightly more aware and ready for it the next time can make a big difference.
I hope this helps a little, and I wish you all the best. Family relationships can be difficult, even devestating, and not everyone you might talk to will understand. Never forget though, that your life is yours, not anybody else’s, and especially not your mother’s. Don’t let her run it for you. (Or ruin it!) Take care (of yourself).
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Answered 1 year ago · Author has 81 answers and 49.8K answer views
It’s difficult. I’m not going to lie but you can handle it. It all comes down to how you interpret the information. That is, you don’t have to be hurt just because the things being said are crap.
What this means is you need to change your mind and decide that the things she says aren’t important. You can’t stop her from saying what she wants to say. You can avoid her, possibly, and cut off all contact. If you can’t, you need to learn how to re-think what she says.
If you alter, deliberately, the way you associate the messages you hear you can take their power over you away. It takes practice. It
It’s difficult. I’m not going to lie but you can handle it. It all comes down to how you interpret the information. That is, you don’t have to be hurt just because the things being said are crap.
What this means is you need to change your mind and decide that the things she says aren’t important. You can’t stop her from saying what she wants to say. You can avoid her, possibly, and cut off all contact. If you can’t, you need to learn how to re-think what she says.
If you alter, deliberately, the way you associate the messages you hear you can take their power over you away. It takes practice. It must be deliberate. But with time, you will no longer suffer.
Put in the work, decide the words mean nothing or create new meanings for them. It’s up to you. Or cut off all contact. Those are your choices. You have the power to decide your fate.
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