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My Girlfriend Is A Cam Girl
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Published on 12/31/2015 at 12:00 AM
Camming has often been credited with saving the declining porn industry in recent years, given that porn is facing an array of challenges, including piracy and free online content. But cam girls and guys are opening a whole new area of profitability, where the middle man is often cut out. And the content is coming directly from cam performers' homes, making it an interesting money-making opportunity for a variety of people.
A cam girl, who goes by the name of Melissa, shares her perspective on the industry after having worked in it for a few years. When asked about the service, Melissa said, "I realized how much the guys do get out of it and how much the girls get out of it and it's completely mutually beneficial. No party gets more than the other, because it wouldn't happen."
Substantial figures on the industry are difficult to track, but in 2013, The New York Times indicated that industry analysts and executives estimate the money generated from cam sites is $1 billion or more.
Melissa works around the clock to maintain her client base. This ranges from messages during the day, to updating her profile with graphics she designs herself, to designing marketing gimmicks to attract more customers and increase revenue. In one month, Melissa was able to earn $10,000. For her, it is a full time job, which allows her to work from home while raising her young daughter.
Melissa discusses the upsides and downsides to a job that can be emotionally and mentally draining. Though some may see the job as controversial, Melissa is an open book. "A lot of people in my life do know that I do this, pretty much everyone because I'm just really open; I don't care. If anybody's going to judge me, then feel free."
"It's fun to know all these people online around the world - in Argentina, Kazakhstan, Paris. They taught me how people live their life there and I wouldn't have known that any other way."
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Header image from the documentary Cam Girlz . The author wishes to remain anonymous.
It happened through a friend of a friend of mine. That’s usually how these things go. She had found, through a network of girls, a website that paid decent money for cam girling if you put the work in. I signed up, submitted my name, ID, bank details and some photos and within 24 hours I was approved as a bonafide Cam Girl with no bloody idea of what I was doing.
For my first show I applied some makeup, did my hair and put on a deep v-neck leotard. It was the middle of summer and boiling hot even in just that. I sat on my bed, placed my webcam facing toward me and sat doodling in my sketchpad, waiting for patrons.
Eventually they came. My chat room began to fill up and I started talking to a few guys in the group chat. I only typed at first: At the time I lived in a sharehouse with only guys my age and really wasn’t interested in them finding out about my moonlit habits.
I made $20AUD in ‘tokens’ (how payments were recorded via the site) my first night. 20 bucks for six hours of sitting around in my underwear, netflirting with dudes. It wasn’t much, but it was more than I’d make scrolling through Tinder looking for someone I actually wanted to bone IRL. I knew the way to make real money was either by going ‘private’ (opening a private show chatroom that costs the user a certain amount per minute) or by spending many months on the site building up a following, just like any other chaser of internet work/fame!
The first time I went ‘private’ with a guy I freaked the fuck out. All he wrote was ‘get naked’. And so far all I’d done in a chat room was flash my boobs for an influx of tokens. I froze up in stage fright and closed the room. In my group chat I wrote: “Sorry, cam froze.” And I logged off for the night.
Eventually I got a bit more adventurous. I hula-hooped in my underwear while listening to the Arctic Monkeys. I also did yoga, livepainting with my back to the webcam in only a thong. I racked up a couple hundred bucks over a few days and cashed the cheque sent the next month. By this time I’d masturbated on camera for a few guys, but I was starting to get a little bit paranoid about my face appearing in an advert on another website somewhere and someone I knew seeing it. I have nothing against sex work, having worked in the industry three times now, but I don’t like the idea of say my boyfriend's brother or housemate or one of my own family members opening a webpage to a moving image of my face mid-orgasm purely because well, I don’t think my family would support that decision.
It sucks, because Cam Girling was pretty fun: I got to choose my own hours, what I wore, what I did and who I wanted to talk to. The paranoia that came with the knowledge of the stigma attached was the only downside. That and the random twelvie trolls that would appear and write: ‘Your face is shiny’ in the comments. Yeah mate, it’s 40 degrees. Can’t you read the profile that says, ‘Australian’?
I have considered opening up my profile again a few times since, and very well might once I get over the ‘what will people think?’ paranoia, and memorise the retort I have planned regarding the government youth unemployment in Australia: With youth unemployment currently sitting around 13% , creating your own job using the resources you already have (in this case, internet connection, webcam, studio lighting and cute knickers) becomes a much more viable option than waiting for callbacks from the 20 resumes you sent out last week. That said, the idea of my future prospects of employability could be damaged if this was discovered, and I do wonder about the percentage of money the site makes versus the percentages the models make.
Sometimes self-regulation regarding finances is the best option for some people: I’ve been treated better and more fairly as a Cam Girl and nude model than I was in my last retail job where I, no word of a lie, got fired for ‘looking sad’. Yet despite how much control one can have over their career as a Cam Girl there are certainly discrepancies within the industry, including safety issues and issues of future employability, as well as what is considered a fair payment and no guarantee on a basic minimum wage for hours put in. It leaves a lot up to chance.
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By patientjoe , 11 years ago on Jealousy
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My Girlfriend is in a hole right now to make money and pay bills. I have given her money and even paid her phone bill for her before. A friend of hers turned her on to **.com a webcamming website where anyone can go on for free and view her live camera and tip her to take her clothes off. She thinks that she can make some fast money doing this, but she actually is barely making any. I have told her that i don't like this idea, but she says she doesn't care what i say and is going to do it anyways. I feel it is degrading what a lot of the people on the site say to her in the chat window. I also can't get this out of my mind and only want to think of ways to get her to stop.
Is it right to be jealous/mad about this?
Should I keep pushing to get her to stop?
Should I be moving away from this and letting her do whatever she is going to do?
Yup. You have the right to be mad about this.
If there is no financial crisis, then i don't see the importance of taking a job which she knows that you can't approve of.
Now, the situation depends upto you now.
If you push too much, she'l eventually break up. (she doesn't care what you say.... It means she doesn't have much respect towards you in anyway)
what about the other aspects of your relationship. Is she is the one who always takes the decision? Did you have any big incidents in past which can lead to a little bit resentment towards you?
She is in a financial crisis. The thing is i really don't have much money either at the moment but have a job starting in a couple of weeks. She has bills to pay now and I know that even though she thinks she can make fast money doing this, she is not. The money from the site is like gambling, some times you win and some times you make insultingly close to nothing for a few hours of this.
She doesn't want to take the little money I have. I haven't done anything in the past which would make her resent me. As far as her being the one making the decisions, we work together as a team but she usually stays as the creative idea position and producer role, and i follow through with the execution and skill parts of making the project complete. She brings the projects in and i execute them. In a sense she comes up with more ideas for projects to do but I enjoy taking ideas and the challenge/ figuring out how to take people dreams and ideas and execute it them more than creating concepts.
She has expressed in the past that she thinks i don't have my own dreams and perhaps thinks i am not independent enough. However this was a while ago and I have taken a lot of thought to it and tried to make it obvious that I can do things "for me" and not always do things for other people. That is my weakness. And I do have my own dreams and aspirations, but I don't think it is too wrong at the moment to put my dreams on hold to prevent feeling miserable about this and prevent her from stripping. (she is not the type of girl to strip and has a lot of self respect) Knowing she thinks she has to do this makes me feel like I am not doing enough or she is not satisfied with all that I do for her.
You may not want to believe it but Miss Adventurous can easily fall into the spirit of this and be getting a big high from it so that money becomes less and less of the reason. It's not that you are not independent enough likley but that she doesn't see real well that staying inside the boundaries of good character, faithfulness which I imagine you also have and such, are really what lead to the true happiness in life.
To try to take short cuts on the lower road do not lead to the rewards that only come on the higher road...it's a fact of life!
You might let her know that even if you are not just like her you have the traits of a good "man" (not woman) which are: solid character, standards, self respect, faithfullness, willingness ot do what it takes to be "Provider"....etc...
These things in the long run "will" reward her far more in life than ...the things that the wind blows in. Teach her this reality...either now or maybe later she will Respect you for it.
This thing is dangerous she is doing; I know very much all about it and it may well start out as a money making idea but it does NOT take long for it to become an obsessive addiction..rather than wait to see that truth come to surface...try now to get her to see the Light and find a way out because it will be much harder the deeper she gets into the fire.
Thank you both for your comments. It is exactly what i needed as I don't know who to talk to about this. I cannot talk to friends without them changing their opinion of her and i wouldn't want anyone else to know. I will try to tell her how I feel and hopefully share these things to help her see the light and prevent it from being an addictive hobby.
Is writing a letter to give to her with everything i'm feeling and want her to know a good idea? or is a better approach to just have a serious sit down? The problem is I cannot see her for a couple weeks as we do not live close at the moment so it would have to be a phone call. I don't want to wait. And don't want to forget certain things that i want her to know so i feel i should write them down.
Thanks again
Do a search on "***** Addiction" and find some info that describes "why" people are getting into it (it's a pandemic today) and what the emotional and psych effects are. A Christian/biblical perspective will take you into the truer and deeper results of this...aacc.net is a site that has the most amazing knowledge and also "answers." We use this association in Christian Psych-counseling in University and I tell you...it's a sad path and destructive one and it's like putting your foot into the fire of any temptation...it gets you when you let it even get a small grip on you. so search (first) and find some "real" reasons why this is more deadly for her than a source of help....
Because she will "need" some real and strong "reasons" to resist and escape even at this early stage. I know what I'm talking about.
To be honest with you, I to resorted to the unbelievable of taking my clothes off for a few site, including **. And as a good looking mature woman, I do VERY well on all the sites I wotk for, unfortunately they pay a measley 37/37% of your earnings. because no one wants to hire full time anymore in the outside world (they don't want to give benefits) I had to resort to this, and I HATE it with a passion!!! Many times I have broke down after 'performing' for these characters, and I have to drag myself to get in front of the cam, it *****, but if I want to keep up with my bills, I have to do this, I do now have a part time job, so I am able to cut back on cam. If you look good and are a bit sensual (or *****, this isn't me) you can easily make a couple hundred or more with these companies.
Financial crisis can make even the most sane person desperate. But there are alternatives to this route. They may not always be pleasant (ex. paying bills late, calling the bill companies, etc). But it may be better than doing something which will stick with her for the rest of your life. Even if she sees it as not so bad now, the reality is that down the line it takes a toll on your self worth. Plus, society at large may judge us whether we like it or not, and she may have difficulty finding a legitimate job later in life if they know of her past.
Her relationship with you and poking at your lack of ambition may be a projection of her own frustrations. She is struggling and your offer of the money (which frankly you don't have) is probably only making her feel worse. It is a kind gesture you have set forth, but in her mind it may place more pressure on her. Plus, if she is a driven person, she wants to make it on her own terms and not be reliant on the relationship.
I understand you care, but do not completely place your life ambitions on hold. You both cannot be in the same low place together; one of you needs to be stronger. If you can, look into some debt counseling services. Also encourage her to contact some local temp agencies. It is not "easy money" in the sense of what she does now, but the slope she is on will only get steeper, and she will be persuaded to go further in just to get the money. And please, do NOT self diagnose her. Whatever you read on the net about "***** addiction" and such is not the same as going to a legitimate counselor. She is not seeing alternatives to her situation. This doesn't mean she is addicted and it also doesn't mean she is not cognizant of the situation. Evaluate from her own words and give her options to try to get out.
i got an idea if ur this bothered by it why not help her find a proper job. unless she likes this kinda of stuff.
like yea u got right to be a little upset however the best solution would be to just help her land a proper job where she can keep her clothes on if not well let her go to school and
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