My Friend Fingered Me

My Friend Fingered Me
..so I'm a virgin and never had an orgasm before..i have only let one guy finger me before but he got tired a lot so I was never able to orgasm,and I never orgasm when I do it myself too... my best friend is actually my ex from 2 years ago,he knows that I never orgasm'd before and he has offered to buy me a finger vibrator or to even finger me so that I can have an orgasm...he's really a great friend but I'm not sure what to think about this...i want an orgasm but I think it might be weird.. can I have your thoughts on this? any advice would be helpful on what to do..
letting my best friend finger me...
Learn to do it yourself. Learn your body. Learn what feels good. You will alsways be at the mercy of someone else if you don't do this. Try toys, watch p*rn, do whatever it takes. Honestly, I started "taking matters into my own hands" before I even knew what I was doing. At some young age I discovered touching myself created a new & neat sensation. I continued to play around and before I knew it I was experiencing an orgasm. But at the time I didn't even know what masturbation or orgasms were. It wasn't until later I learned more about sex and put it together that's what I was doing. I've been doing it ever since and have become a master of my own body. Your "best friend" just wants in your pants. Don't fall for it unless you truly want to be with him.
As for not being able to orgasm, my friend had never orgasmed and it took her boyfriend a few tries before they got the hang of it. I would go for it. Why not? If you're not comfortable with it just keep trying on your own or wait for the right guy.
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You should learn to do it yourself , like the LJ said . I think he only offered to do it because he wants to do sexual things with you not really to help but Most girls learn to have an orgasm by doing it themselves that how you learn about your body .
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Hey, One day I was at my boyfriends and he introduced me to his best friend. At first I wasn't attracted to him but as time went on I started to like him more and more.

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By thelonelycutter331436 | 13 posts, last post 19 days ago

I have recently found out that my best friend/brother likes me. He has for a year & a half. It's weird thinking of him like that cause we always hangout. I always go to his house and it's fun. Well last night I was really tired. He picked me up at 4pm & we got to his house by 4:15. I went straight to his room, like usual, and laid down. His bed is comfy. We decided to watch a movie. He chose it while I cuddled up to him (I always do that. He's like my brother!) Then I fell asleep while I had my head on his chest & his arm around me. I could feel him rubbing my back. It felt amazing. Well he started kissing me. Everywhere! I could feel him kissing me on my lips & I was too shocked to do anything cause he thought I was asleep. Then I rolled over in my sleep & we were "spooning" I guess. I could feel his penis on my ass. Anyways, he ended up putting his hand up my shirt. I could feel him undoing my bra and his hands were holding my breasts.. I couldn't move by then.. Then he started kissing me everywhere again. By the time he got to my neck, it was heaven! Like what girl can resist a guy kissing her neck? Is it bad that I was hoping for him to end up giving me a hickey?.. I couldnt help it. I was just in the moment of him touching me and kissing me! Is it wrong for him to do that? I don't know what to do. He doesn't know I felt anything. What should I do? Please help!

he's like a brother to me. I cant! plus, I'm 15. he's 16. any other advice?

Hi lonely cutter
Unfortunately what your best friend/brother did to you would be considered rape by most people including the police.
He took advantage of you while you were sleeping or pretending to be asleep, you may have enjoyed it and found it pleasurable but behaviours and actions like his are very scary.
Sadly your best friend thinks it is okay to take advantage of you when you are seemingly defenceless many girls get raped when they are unable to defend themselves or do anything to stop their attackers.
You were awake and let it happen but the fact of the matter is he was taking advantage of you because he thought you were sleeping.
Friends don’t rape their best friends if he got you drunk or drugged you and was sure you would not wake up how far would he go? Would you end up with an unwanted pregnancy?
Your best friend is a predator and a creep and someone you should be very afraid of.
You may want to really evaluate what you think is your friendship with guy does he do this sort of stuff to other kids when they are sleeping please be very careful around him.
You deserve much better and anyone that thinks it is okay to take advantage of someone the way he did with you is not worth having as a friend.

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your right depending on where you live in my place the law doesnt reconize consent if your under 18

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it sounds like you enjoyed the whole experience but feel like you are supposed to feel guilty about it afterwards ? later you state that you cant do it because you feel like he is your brother ? he may be your perfect match , you were reacting to your bodies desires ( as you mentioned ) dont let guilt spoil it for you . just dont get pregnant and spoil it for both of you if it goes further

yes i agree , he probably knew you were awake , you are not the first to let that happen so that you didnt have to face the reallity that you wanted it , your body clock is screaming for it but society is telling you that you have to go to school for a few more years before you get into this action , 300 years ago you'd probably be married by now but times have changed , but no one told your body clock

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"He probably knew you were awake" how?

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If she pretended to be asleep, how would he know that she was awake? Are there any signs or whatsoever?

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Look whether he's your brother or not i hope you told someone about what he did to you when he thought you were asleep that very much is sexual assault like the guy above he coulda done more without consent if he knew you weren't fully asleep

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Anyone who sleeps in a guys bed should be prepared for sex. How do we call it rape when we put ourselves in these positions

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