My Dad Still Thinks Im A Virgin

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My Dad Still Thinks Im A Virgin
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Nope. my family was kind of weird to some of my friends but eh. my dad kind of left the sex bit to my mom lol lots of "youre still my little meatball". mom is a very pro-sex feminist so she was really about sex education and positive body image, and she told me she wanted me to wait until I was 18, but that it was out of a natural motherly concern/reaction to wanting me to cherish my innocence while I had it because you can never get it back, but she also understood that sexual development is a part of being human and she would always be there and wanted to be there to support me if and when I did choose to sex. not a popular choice with parents, but because of her views, she was that way. she always told me that if I decided to have sex, she wanted me to communicate with her and she never wanted me to feel like I couldn't tell her something or that I couldn't cry in her lap if I ever got my heart broken. she taught me the risks that come with being sexually active and some social issues with women and sex. i learned a lot from my mom in general and she knew how to balance the friendship and authority figure elements that I think make for great parenthood. I would say she is my best friend on some level and because of the communication I had with her, I think it made me respect her more. she always gave a reason and tried her best not to fall into that "do as I say, not as I do" reasoning. I really appreciated that growing up and I still do. I was comfortable with my sexuality too (bisexual) because my mom taught me at a young age that its okay for people of the same sex to be together. she made up her own stories for me as a kid with two princesses and everything. she's very talented artistically so she'd have little books for me with illustrations so I could visualize. mom was just awesome. she's a huge positive influence in my life. its kind of interesting considering my grandparents (her parents) were the opposite when raising her. they aren't very liberal when it comes to this and they were more the harsh disciplinarians (which was hard for them because my mother was always rebellious against their christian morals and conservative-ish ideas on sex, like no sex until marriage, etc.) they are more the type who would try to put the fear of god (literally and figuratively) into you to get you to behave accordingly. they didn't support my mom in educating me about sex and thought certain things should be left until a certain age and they didn't like that she chose to be so sex positive. my mom had portraits of naked bodies and things in our house and stuff. my grandfather was hilarious when he'd come over "jessica, what the hell is this p*rn on the walls? get this sh*t away from my granddaughter! you feminists want to raise your daughters to be sluts too now?" and then my mother would start on her "female sexuality isn't something to be ashamed of or hidden, and we don't call women sluts in this house!" ha ha my family is crazy.
No that's good family I have there and a great mom! ; ) be sure to tell her that too!
You speak of your mom in past tense O.o is she gone now? But ya, it's interesting that your mom is (or was) so strong willed and whatnot and named Jessica. Makes me think of Jessica in Dune though she was a bit more reserved (at least as far as I can grasp about your mom) only cause she understood she had to be in the position she was in.
lol no but I meant growing up. I'm 21 now, so she's still here and still awesome but I'm an adult.
My dad has no idea lol. He doesn't know anything about my social life so he has no clue as to whether I am or aren't. I would go with him thinking I still am one but honestly the man has no clue And my mom probably thinks I'm still a virgin. I only lost my virginity 5 months ago and the last time she asked me if I was still a virgin was probably like a year and a half ago. And of course I told her yes cause that was the truth. I don't know what I'm gonna say if she asks me again but to be honest I'm probably gonna lie.
Why? Would they get mad at you or would they be like dissapionted?
no I just don't want my mom in my business lol. And I've been advised by a friend to just keep things as they are because once your parents find out they are up your ass every time you leave the house haha. My family (apart from my mom) honestly thinks I never go out and have few friends and probably think I'm an innocent girl still when its kind of the opposite lol. I feel like if I told them certain things they would always be questioning me and I'd rather not deal with it
I'm pretty sure my parents don't think I'm a virgin. We've never out and out spoken about it - but my mum for sure knows I'm not; and I'm pretty sure my dad's aware of the fact too. It's not like it's taboo or anything for me to talk about with them, I've just never felt the need to really discuss my sex life with my parents.
Would you like to? Or it's to wired?
Not really- I mean, I wouldn't mind talking to - at least my mum about sex but I don't know. I'm not going to go in to details with her - and I sure as hell don't want to know anything about their sex life - so I assume they feel the same in regards to me. So yeah - whilst I'd be fine telling me mum, I had sex with this guy and then talking about subsequent issues surrounding that - I wouldn't be comfortable if it was anything more than an off hand comment like that.
I don't think they give a sh*t, and if they do, I don't give a sh*t about what they think but my dad most certainly doesn't and I doubt my mom does. My dad tends to care more about just being smart and not doing anything to get my brother or I in jail or something too serious (would joke if we do drugs to bring him home some or something, I don't and never care for drugs though) and my mom was more focused on pure education and financial stuff and whatnot. I don't think either ever cared about virginity. Doesn't hurt only had boys, and (sadly) boys aren't held up to virginity standards like girls. *shrugs* tbh, I think both genders should be held up to it somewhat. I don't care about waiting for marriage or anything, but at least wait, give a relationship a long period of time before engaging in such so you don't make any mistakes. Rushing into stuff is just so dumb.
Yes because I've never had a girlfriend. Never brought one or ever went to HS events like prom, homecoming, and what not. Never had a date and they are aware of it. At 24, I still haven't even kissed a girl though so forget sex. But yeah, they know now that girls really aren't into me. When I was younger, for some reason they expected me to become some stud when I got older, especially my mom haha. Boy were they wrong.
Ur still a stud ; ) and you will find a great girl! : )
No offense dude, but why do you think that you are ugly ? I am a super virgin and even I haven't had my first date, my first kiss, and have not even touched a girl. I never had a girlfriend too. On top of that I am 4 years older than you. I will tell you one truth. Only some girls like me, not most. Still, I don't think that I am ugly. Ugly, is just a word. You are not ugly.
Yeah they knows I'm a virgin lol. I wouldn't talk to them about anything sexual because when it comes to that topic they are really old fashioned. I remember a couple years ago my parents thought I was gay because I never had any girlfriends lol. My mom made me watch that show Queer eye with her and then said son is there anything you would like to tell me? I felt really embarassed lol.
They both probably think I'm not but I'm still a virgin. My mom would probably assume I'm not because she knows my sisters aren't. And because she knows I'm on birth control so it's pretty logical to think I'm having sex. My dad, I don't know. He knows I haven't dated much but my sisters and I always joke about sucking d*** and f***ing and that kind of sh*t with him that he probably wouldn't care either way as long as the dude I'm with is a good guy. My dad and his fiance joke about sex a lot. It's really funny.
Oh wow really your sisters joke like that in front of him? How does that make u Feel?
Yeah. We're really chill. It's funny.
Well it was always kinda "taboo" to talk about it... We were expected to wait till marriage which none of my siblings did lol (4). She probably thinks I'm a virigin (because I am heh). I remember once my I was talking to my sister one day and she was like, " like any boys at school?" "nah not really" Pause..."any girls you like?" ... Thanks Sis. Just because I had a boyfriend yet lol
I actually am a virgin, and my father knows. My mother seems to have her doubts. All the men in her life have been sin incarnate, so she doesn't seem to think men are capable of holding back.She also thinks I'm frickin' George Clooney. She also figures if I remained celibate for very long, the girl I was dating would just roofie me or something.
Nah, they have no illusions about the state of my virginity, lol. They've had some idea since I was about 18 I'm sure. We don't talk about it right out and I've neither confirmed nor denied because they've never straight out asked. But I'm more open about sex in general with my dad. We joke about it, haha.
They think I am one because I am one. And it's no big deal.
No, they know I'm not. When I was in high school, my boyfriend at the times Mom, came in and caught us...twice, I think? She called and told my mom. It was an awkward conversation about being safe after that. Anyways, my brother has no problem talking about sex with my parents and making jokes. That's probably because he lives with them. I talk about sex a lot, but I've never felt comfortable talking about it in front of them.
No. They were both still alive when I got married.
From the way they talk to me,i can say yes they know I'm a virgin.We can talk about it openly at home but at certain limits.
Not a chance, my mum does the washing, she's seen plenty messy bedsheets, that woman knows what goes on
i've never had any kind of sexual conversation with my parents but my dad knows I'm not, he's never worried about what I do for the most part.
he's seen me in the past with girls and he knows what's going on, it just stays unspoken.
yes they do.. and they're right lol I'm pretty sure they know because I've never been around girls much
clearly I'm not otherwise my parents would be wrong lol
No. They just don't know who I lost it with. It's not hard for my mom to guess since that's the only Girlfriend I had.
they do. because I am one. I'm a bit young for sex,at least in my country,i mean it's not unheard of that kids have sex at my age,but most kids lose their virginity later on. and I doubt I'll talk to my parents about it,it's just...awkward.
I don't really care too much what my parents think of me once I moved out at 22 and lived on my own. But I'm sure they know I'm not a virgin because I've ben married for about 2 years now.
No, I do 't think they do. We'd never talk about that though o:
They think I am and I am. It's not taboo at all with my family, we're very open.
they are pretty sure I am not. my mom gave me condoms for christmas. Very nice condoms though. Anyway though they have heard things and well.. yea.. they know.
Believe it or not. My father is very open to me and he knows that I am a super virgin.
Nope, my family has open, sometimes too open conversations. =P
Virgen? Yes, it's a huge secret that I'm a citizen of Virgen, Austria. I'll never tell them. You better not either. =P They know I've had sex, if that is what you are trying to ask me.
Haha I know spelling sry : ( ha ha OK I won't tell them about virgen! Ssshhhhhhh It's our Secret! And yes that's what I was asking! Lol =P

To my Indian dad who thinks I'm a virgin
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I'm inspired by a post I saw yesterday about an Indian guy like me who couldn't tell his dad he's actually dating someone and he's 31 years old. That's about my age so I think it's time I got this off my chest, dad.
I know the Indian culture is how you raised me, and that being "good" is the most important thing of all. I don't even think you know what good is anymore, since your reference point is India. Have you seen the movies they make over there? Girls are half naked and everyone is having sex. It's not the same India you left when you were 25 to give your family a good life here in America.
I love you Dad, I really do. I know it's been tough adjusting to retirement and that's why I asked you to come live with me here in LA. I know you don't really get the bustle of this city and you roll your eyes when you meet "actors" who are in fact, our uber drivers. But I appreciate you making an effort with my friends. It meant a lot to me that you came to my buddy's art show. It also meant a lot that you cooked Indian food for all of my friends. I love our late night chats about politics and no, I don't agree Trump is actually a "paid actor."
I know all we have is us right now and it broke my heart when you asked if you could help out around the house by "getting a job". I have a good job and your retirement is plenty. That's not what I'm worried about. That's not what I think about a lot when I talk to my friends. It's really just one thing…
Not by choice or intent, of course. No. It's that you actually think I've never dated and that I'm waiting for the right Indian girl. You told Auntie that I am picky and that maybe you will take me to India one day so I can meet many more Indian girls. That one Indian girl you pointed at at the temple with a smile? Not attractive. (I also think she might be 50.)
You're a cockblocker unintentionally because you truly believe I've never had sex, never dated, never even had a girlfriend. Because I've never introduced you to any. Well, that's simply not true.
Dad, I'm a sex addict. A real one. I've had a lot of one-night stands. By the way, this is not me bragging, it really isn't. I'm not saying I sleep with hot women, I'm saying I sleep with women. A lot of them.
I like tying my girl up, blindfolds, teasing. I have phone sex almost every day. I sext with three to four women a day. In 2012 I did this thing called 12 for 12 where I went on to have sex with 12 new women in 12 months. I ended the year with 15.
I fuck so much my doctor ONLY sees me to get tested. And when you asked me if I had "tummy problem" and I said yes, I really didn't. I just needed to get tested again to make sure I don't have syphilis. (I don't, but I won't be going to a certain Irish bar on Fairfax anymore)
I hide my condoms in the highest shelf in my room behind my guitar. I know you'll never look there because you get uncomfortable with me playing music. But if you look, there's a box of over 100 condoms.
When I came home Friday evening it was after fucking this one girl. You called during our second time. I had to change your name from "dad" on my phone to "office". She thought I had a work call, so I came home. You said you wanted to watch TV with me if I was free. I made myself free and I'm glad. I like watching Two and a Half Men with you and drinking scotch.
I love you dad. I just had to get this off my chest.
I'm also Indian. My mom immigrated here when she was 18, and I'm 18 now. I always forgot how most "Indian parents" are. When my mom found my condoms, all she said was "I hope you're only paying for half of these." I suppose the ingrained frugality never went away, at least.
If you're still having that much sex, then Dad is not a cockblocker, is he? You just can't tell him about your sexual exploits. Does he really need to know? If you want to open the discussion that you are actually not a virgin, spend all night at some girl's house. Tell him you're going out and will probably not be home that night. He'll get the idea and be shocked but it will get the subject out there. Then keep talking before he fixes you up: tell him you've been dating for years, and not Indian women either. And what relationships are like these days. (leave out the 50 shades of gray stuff.)
I chose not to tell my parents anything about my social life and when I got serious with my now husband they thought I hadn't dated since high school! Then I had to do it all at once: No, mom, he's not the first man to show me any love, he's not the first man I've slept with, he's not even the first man to ask me to marry him. Kind of wish I'd have eased into it.
Totally off topic buuut... In regards to your dad wanting a job, it might not be the money aspect but the interaction/ want to feel like he has something to do. One of the fastest killers in elderly people is apathy. Living the life of luxury, not having anything to do except watch tv and eat sounds amazing, and it is amazing, but there's only so much you can do before it becomes boring. Let your father have a reason to get up, a place not to be late for. The money isn't the issue, it's his own sense of being necessary to life.
Plus it won't hurt your love life to get him out of the house at predictable times.
I cracked up at that part too. I knew exactly which bar he was talking about. Good to know I should be careful there.
Does...does 15 women in a year make you a sex addict? Not knocking Op. Just questioning my own life choices...I guess? (Im 24 if thats relevant?..)
OP said 15 new women. We don't know how many returning customers or how many times. After all, he has a box of hundred condoms.
No, that sounded like a completely non-eyebrow-raising number to me too. I'm guessing OP feels it's very high due to his upbringing.
I've never really thought about it but I think all my friends have been with under 5 people in their lifetime (same for me)
Moat people I know are very monogamous, in relationships for 5 - 10 years or more...and many are married now.
So yup, 15 in a year seems higher than average to me!
Seriously. I'm suddenly feeling very ashamed of my past.
Yeah that seems really unremarkable - when he said 12 for 12 I thought he meant 12 days not months...
Go and ask the single r/sex users and y ou'd probably get some real high numbers.
He could still be a sex addict with the same girls more than once, I'm sure he didn't mean he only has sex 12 times per year.
Shit. The year's not over and I've had maybe 19 or 20 new. I think I'm a sex addict and I feel awful about it. :/
I was 3/3 when I met a decent girl, and I thought I was having a slow time of it.
I'm 51. I had 20 or so before I was 18/19.
I'd either be monogamous OR distinctly not. This in the days of yore, before smart phones, texting, email, Tinder & all that. I'd have been wrecking Tinder.
I then met my future wife. Been monoga
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