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My Boyfriend Has A Small Dick
My Boyfriend Has A Small Penis - What Do I Do?
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If you have a boyfriend and he has a small penis, and if this is an issue for you, then there are a number of options on how to deal with this and what to do.
It's understandable that size may be a concern for you. Penis size has a number of issues surrounding it. You may not be getting sexually satisfied the way you should. He may not be as confident and as exciting in bed as he could be due to his lack of confidence regarding size.
Let's look at how to deal with your boyfriend having a small penis from a variety of different angles:
1. Length VS Thickness. Initially you may think your boyfriend has a small penis due to his lack of length But are you aware that when it comes to sexual satisfaction it is actually the thickness or girth that matters? It can be very deceiving and many women may write off a guy when they don't see a decent sized stick as far as length goes. But pay attention to width and you may be surprised at how well stimulation can be from someone who is girthier rather than lengthier.
2. Does size really matter? A lot of size issues can be visual based. Don't knock your boyfriend right away for size issues. Sex may still be great and there are always other, more sexually pleasing ways to be intimate with one another. As mentioned before, if anything it is the girth issue that matters most for many women who have reported back on the age old question of "does penis size matter?"
3. Focus on his confidence. Sometimes the girlfriend could care less about size, and instead it is the boyfriend who becomes totally consumed with his penis size, believing he is not adequate enough. This can lead to real big problems in the bedroom. If his confidence is down, his performance will be down. Sex will be dull and he probably won't even last long enough if he isn't confident enough. Try to assure him that size isn't an issue and it's his lack of confidence and his attachment to his size issues that is the real problem.
4. Look at the positive aspects of his size. Some women actually prefer a smaller, more manageable size when it comes to sex. And a lot of women flat out prefer smaller size when it comes to giving oral sex. You can do much more and it is much more sexually comfortable when you are dealing with less than average size as far as oral goes. Looking towards the positive helps both him and you out a lot
5. Tell him about "jelqing". This is an exercise that guys have been doing to increase their penis size. It's an actually technique that he can do every day, and it usually takes several weeks for results to kick in. Getting him bigger can do two things: jack up his confidence levels and provide you with the size you desire for sexual fulfillment. If you are really committed to your boyfriend, you could even help him with the exercises (they basically involve slowly massaging the lubricated penis repeatedly while in a semi-erect state). Sometimes girlfriends will help their guy do a jelqing session, and in return he will give his girlfriend a nice, long back massage. Helping your boyfriend out can motivate him more and force him to be more consistent with doing the exercises. Jelqing results usually depend most on consistency and motivation, along with patience as it does take several weeks for size.
Here is a great jelqing routine to get your boyfriend on. It's an easy to implement 2 step process which can lead to both increased length, as well as increased girth size. He can do it on his own, or you can assist (in exchange for a back massage of course!) Have your boyfriend check the routine out at http://PenisBible.com
Or simply surprise him with the routine. That is provide him the routine and he can get started on it. It's a great way to bring up his confidence, while meeting your needs as well - http://PenisBible.com
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We talk all the time about how every woman is a unique sexual snowflake, and no type of vagina is better or worse than another. Well, the same thing holds true for dudes.
Unfortunately, guys with small peens don't always have the easiest time dating or getting busy with someone new. The stereotype goes that a smaller than average package makes for a lame time in the sack.
But to prove that that's not always the case, we asked several women who've dated (or married) guys with an XS situation in their pants for their feedback.
"I literally found out my boyfriend had a tiny penis on our fourth date. We were at his apartment, drinking wine and hanging out, and we started to play the game two truths and one lie. His story was: 'I was born on Christmas Eve; my left eye is fake; I have a really small penis.' I was laughing so hard and obviously thought that the penis one was the lie—because who says that? It turns out it was the truth and the eye was the lie. He made a joke out of the whole thing, and honestly, I feel like he's used this method before. Right after that, I asked to see it, because obviously we were going to hook up that night. It was definitely really small, but I guess I imagined it to be smaller. It's been a challenge figuring out how to have better sex with a small penis , but I really like how my boyfriend made a joke out of the whole thing and still keeps the joke going today." — Rochelle D., 28
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"My husband's junk is by far the smallest I've ever handled before. But it's not a big deal at all. He kind of delayed having sex with me for a few months, and I thought that was weird. The first time I saw his penis, I didn't notice how small it was. It was dark in his room and the whole thing happened so fast. The best part about having sex with someone with a small penis is that he is always down to try new positions to see what feels good for me. The worst thing is that it takes a lot for me to have an orgasm compared to when I was with guys with larger penises." —Lisa D., 31
"My boyfriend's penis is mini, but his confidence is out of this world. He's super cocky and you'd never guess he was lacking in that department. The first time we hooked up, I took off his pants, saw what he was working with, and laughed. I wondered if it would be bigger the harder he got but it wasn't. I didn't mean to be rude, but I laughed because I was nervous looking at it. He honestly doesn't care about the size of it and always tells me that size doesn't matter. Though I think that size matters somewhat, the benefit is that he's a very confident guy that treats me well in every way." —Teresa D., 28
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"I'm dating a guy who doesn't have a big package, but he knows how to please a women. The first time we had sex was the greatest sex of my life. Yes, I noticed he had a small penis, but he made up for it in so many ways. He knew how and where to touch me. There was a lot of teasing! It was fun sex, and I didn't even care that his penis was the size it was because he used his hands and tongue." —Gloria W., 36
"Right before we got hot and heavy, my now-boyfriend told me that I might be disappointed by the size of his man parts. I guess he had situations in the past where girls ditched him after the hook up. But honestly, it made it worse that he told me that before I saw it. I was scared and he was embarrassed. When I saw it, I thought it was small, but I could have done without the heads up. The sex is okay. We've worked on getting better at it with a lot of foreplay and different positions. The best part about our sex life is that we communicate openly about what we like and don't like, and I've never had that with anyone else." —Hannah V., 26
My boyfriend (26m) has a small dick and I (25f) don't know what to do
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My boyfriend (26m) and I (25) have been dating for almost two months. He's funny, smart, very kind and shares a lot of my interests/hobbies. He's really into me, which is something I'm not used to, honestly. My last boyfriends treated me poorly, but that is a different story. He's sort of shy, but I don't mind.
Recently we started getting more physical. He's a great kisser, but I discovered, to my disappointment, that his dick is extremely small. I'd say, 2 or 2.5 inches erect and not only is it small, but it is skinny. I was scared to touch it and I didn't want to put it in my mouth, which is very much unlike me. When we first had sex, I was so shocked that I kind of froze and just let him do his thing... I could barely feel it, and I knew I wasn't going to orgasm from it. It took me several days to get past the shock of it before I even considered trying again, and giving him the benefit of the doubt.
We had sex again recently. He's pretty good with his hands, but honestly, I don't like the feeling of fingers grating inside me, even though it gets the job done. He's not that good with his mouth and tongue, and I had to stop him after a while that it became obvious he was getting tired, and I wasn't going to come. All in all the sex was super awkward.
I blame my last relationship. Even though the guy treated me like crap, the sex was incredible and the sole reason we kept dragging out for so long. It wasn't so much we got to know each other sexually, but I learned what I really liked. So I know I wouldn't enjoy this. I'm even turned off by it and I don't want to touch it. I love being on top, and I don't think I could ride him without it coming out all the time, let alone me orgasm from that position.
I feel bad for placing so much about the relationship on the sex, because he's a really great guy otherwise, and I wouldn't mind seeing where things went. But when I think about sex, and how important that is for me in my relationships, I don't know if I can stick with it to see if he can learn to improve or if I'm going to be constantly wanting more all the time. Is my disappointment now an indication that I should just bail now? I don't want to rely on sex toys for pleasure the rest of my life, I have plenty of them now, and they have a place in the bedroom, but I see them as an accessory to augment normal sex, not to replace it.
I already feel shallow and guilty for being so hung up over this issue, since I know it's the one thing in the world he has no control over.
Fuck. That's a tough one. Toys could come in handy if he's secure enough with himself.
You should bail now if you're disappointed, yes
Compatibility isn't comparing the good vs. the bad. It's being compatible in all aspects. If you're not satisfied, that's fair enough. You can find someone who treats you well and you have a good sex life with. There's no need to force it.
Putting a large emphasis on sex isn't bad. I don't get why society treats sex like it should be considered an afterthought in terms of priorities in a relationship.
Anyway, I'd say that out of fairness for you both it's best to end things sooner than later. If you can't see a way for him to pleasure you ways you're most receptive to then it's best not to leave room for the possibility of future disdain or anything if the primary reason you'd be staying is out of fear of being judged for why you're leaving. And on top of that, it would open him up to being able to find someone he can actively pleasure, and be pleasured by (as you state you're uncomfortable pleasing him).
You're sexually incompatible. It happens and as long as you're kind in your breakup, there's no reason to feel bad.
Sexual incompatibility and on a point that he can't possibly fix.
Please convincingly lie to him. Break up for some other reason - you're not over your last boyfriend, or some other lie. If you tell him it's due to the micropenis, that will crush him.
In the future, stop calling people your boyfriend until you're sure you guys are compatible, and you're sure they will treat you as you deserve.
There are toys that he can use, an extender if you will, that can add to your pleasure. The hard part will be starting the conversation. Maybe an option?
I don't see any way you can make this relationship work. Break up with him.
One of my GFs used to insist that there's nothing wrong with a 3 inch dick. I still wish she didn't have one.
Bail fast, dragging this pity stuff out longer just hurts you both in the end.
At least you’re honest. Talk to him about it
According to Reddit, size doesn't matter. So either you're the only one here that thinks this is an issue or Reddit has been lying....... I'm so conflicted. LOL.
If you're not going to be happy and satisfied sexually, you either have to have the hard convo now about non mono and make that work or you need to move on. Maybe find another thing to mention for why. Or tell him about reddit and the support he'll get here.
You have acknowledged that sex and sexual compatibility is important for you, which kinda already answers your question. You shouldn't drag a relationship on because he has other nice qualities, as much as you shouldn't have dragged on the shitty relationship because of the good sex. It's not impossible to find a partner who is both sexually compatible and a good partner for you. I don't think you should waste any more of either of your time.
If you don’t leave now, you’ll hang in till there’s a hatred. That’s when you’ll blurt out some comment about his terrifyingly tiny penis. That won’t end well.
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I have been seeing my current boyfriend for just under a year and I care about him deeply. In so many ways he's perfect for me, but sexually he just cannot satisfy me. Although he has a hot toned body and a gorgeous handsome face, his penis is really very small (literally only 5 inches long when fully erect) and pretty skinny too. He always climaxes after just a few minutes and then loses interest and I'm left feeling dissatisfied and frustrated. I know it would be superficial of me to end the relationship because of this, but how can I continue indefinitely in a relationship that doesn't fulfill my sexual needs?
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Firstly, it wouldn't be superficial at all. Sex/sexual intimacy is important in a relationship.
However, what about everything else that, uh, comes with sex? What about foreplay and all that stuff? Have you communicated what you'd like him to do plainly, or is it a don't-go-there zone when it comes to discussing your sex life?
There are so many options for giving & receiving sexual pleasure so whatever you do, don't do anything rash. I make my first point only to let you know that if, having taken every reasonable step, you're still unsatisfied, then it would be best to end it on that basis rather than stay out of guilt.
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5 inches is the average size.....if ur complaining about that i dunno how big is ur vagina.
and i believe sex satisfaction has nothing to do with size unless he is 3 inches or lesser.
there is a way to overcome this its called jelqing. but i seriously think the issue is not with the s
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