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Low-wage workers have been fighting sexual harassment for years. The national conversation is finally catching up with them.
Nov 18, 2017, 08:01 AM EST | Updated Nov 20, 2017
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- Nereyda Soto, restaurant worker in Long Beach, Calif., who was harassed by a guest
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Cecilia was working as a minibar attendant at a Chicago hotel when she knocked on the guest’s door and announced herself. The man’s response was quick and unequivocal: “You can come in.”
When she opened the door, “He was at the computer, masturbating,” Cecilia recalled. She was overcome with shock and embarrassment. Judging from the satisfied look on the man’s face, that was the whole idea.
“I felt nasty,” recalled Cecilia, who asked that her last name and the hotel not be identified. “You’d expect that to happen to people in a jail but not in regular work. I felt like crying.”
It wasn’t the only time Cecilia had dealt with extreme forms of sexual harassment in her three decades working in downtown hotels. A male guest once answered her knock by opening the door naked. Just a month and a half ago, a younger colleague confided to Cecilia that a male guest had tried to embrace her while she was in his room. Cecilia escorted the shaken housekeeper to the hotel’s security team to report the incident.
Since the allegations against movie producer Harvey Weinstein were first revealed last month, more and more women have stepped forward with stories of sexual harassment and assault at work. Their bravery in speaking out has toppled powerful men’s careers in Hollywood, Silicon Valley and Washington. But much less attention has been paid to the rampant harassment in blue-collar workplaces, particularly the hotel industry.
Many of the stories that have hit front pages ― Weinstein, journalist Mark Halperin , comedian Louis C.K. ― center on powerful men who preyed on underlings or colleagues in hotel rooms ― a trend that would surprise no woman who’s ever worked as a housekeeper. If famous A-list actresses must deal with unwanted advances in the privacy of a hotel suite, imagine the vulnerability of an immigrant woman cleaning the room alone, for close to minimum wage, plus tips.
“Frankly, I don’t think much of the public understands what housekeepers go through just to clean these rooms and carry out the work,” said Maria Elena Durazo, a labor leader with the hospitality union Unite Here.
For several years Durazo’s union has advocated for housekeepers to be given handheld, wireless panic buttons that can alert hotel security when a worker feels threatened ― a sign of how dire it views the problem of sexual predation in the hotel industry. After working to negotiate the use of panic buttons in their employer contracts, the union is now lobbying city councils to mandate them through legislation so that all workers have access to them, union and non-union alike.
“The customer is always right in this industry... I just let it go.”
But, according to Durazo, the panic buttons only go so far in addressing the more fundamental problem: an imbalance of economic power between perpetrators and their victims, especially when the victims are working in or near poverty. “We have to do something to equalize the power so that women really have the ability to speak up, without having to risk their livelihood,” she said. “That goes for whether you’re a housekeeper or a food server or a big-time actor.”
Last year, Unite Here surveyed roughly 500 of its Chicago area members who work in hotels and casinos as housekeepers and servers, many of them Latino and Asian immigrants. The results were disturbing:
58 percent of hotel workers and 77 percent of casino workers said they had been sexually harassed by a guest.
49 percent of hotel workers said they had experienced a guest answering the door naked or otherwise exposing himself.
56 percent of hotel workers who’d reported harassment said they didn’t feel safe on the job afterward.
65 percent of casino cocktail servers said a guest had touched or tried to touch them without permission.
Nearly 40 percent of casino workers said they’d been pressured for a date or a sexual favor.
Nereyda Soto, 25, was working in a hotel restaurant in Long Beach, Calif., two years ago when a guest’s attention over several days started to feel like stalking. The man repeatedly called Soto over to his table whenever he dined in the restaurant, asking her personal questions, such as whether she had a boyfriend. Relatively new to the job at the time, Soto didn’t feel comfortable telling a paying guest to buzz off.
When Soto came by his table to collect the man’s check one night, she found a hotel key card along with his payment. “He said, ‘I’d love to see how you look outside this uniform. You should meet me in my room.’”
Soto was mortified, but she didn’t tell her boss at the time.
“I didn’t tell management, and I didn’t tell security, because he didn’t technically touch me and the customer is always right in this industry,” Soto explained. Even if she did report it, she didn’t expect her company would do anything about it, and she didn’t want to come off as a troublemaker: “I didn’t want my name to be out there. So I just let it go.”
The experience got Soto involved in a campaign in Long Beach to bring panic buttons to the city’s hotel workers. Led by labor groups, the idea of outfitting housekeepers with a way to alert hotel security started to catch on in 2011, after French politician Dominique Strauss-Kahn was accused of assaulting a housekeeper at a New York hotel. The following year, the New York Hotel Trades Council won a contract for 30,000 workers that guaranteed the use of panic buttons for housekeepers covered under the agreement.
“I don’t think much of the public understands what housekeepers go through just to clean these rooms.”
In Long Beach, Soto’s union took a different tack: They tried to win the panic buttons through legislation so that the protections would be extended to all of the city’s hotel workers, not just those covered by a union contract. The local chamber of commerce campaigned against the regulation, estimating that compliance would collectively cost affected hotels about $3 million. After a yearlong effort, the Long Beach City Council narrowly rejected the panic button proposal in a 5-4 vote in September.
A similar panic button measure Unite Here pushed in Chicago recently fared much better. The City Council passed a “Hands Off, Pants On” ordinance last month, which requires hotels to outfit housekeepers and others who work alone in guest rooms or bathrooms with panic buttons by July 1, 2018. It also requires hotels to develop sexual harassment policies that show workers how to report incidents and provide them with time to file complaints with the police.
Unlike the union contract workers secured in New York, the Chicago ordinance will apply to hotels citywide, regardless of whether workers are in a union. A similar ordinance was passed last year in Seattle.
The Chicago campaign probably got a boost from the findings of its member survey on harassment, which Jorge Ramirez, president of the Chicago Federation of Labor, said he found “astonishing.” Ramirez said the city’s hotel lobby didn’t actively fight the measure. The new national conversation about sexual harassment at work will make it harder to do so, he predicted.
“We didn’t see them out there with pompoms, but they didn’t speak out against it, either,” Ramirez said. “I think the industry would have a hard time opposing this, especially with everything that’s come to light in the last few months.”
The housekeepers wore “No Harveys in Chicago” T-shirts to mark the ordinance’s passage. Among those celebrating was Cecilia, who had spent months rallying her colleagues around the cause. She hopes the new panic buttons will bring a sense of safety to workers like the young housekeeper she helped not even two months ago.
“It’s more security, and more support,” Cecilia said. “Trust me. You shouldn’t be scared to work.”
CORRECTION: A previous version of this story said Chicago was the first city to pass panic button legislation. In fact, Seattle was.

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There are few better feelings in the world than seeing a girl
lustily looking up at you while on her knees or in your lap and seeing
and feeling your member in her mouth; and then grabbing her hair and
moving her head around your lap as you sit back and enjoy the
oh-so-wonderful ride.
That’s the amazing feeling of getting a blow job. And even though
sex is amazingly enjoyable, there’s something particularly and uniquely
satisfying about blow jobs. But the question is: what’s involved in
learning how to get a blow job – and isn’t it hard to get a
blow job? The short answer is: no,
it’s not
hard to get a blow job. And today, I’m going to talk about how to put
yourself in a position to get exactly that. Here we go.
If the idea of talking to a girl about a blow job makes you
uncomfortable, or saying the words “blow job”, “head”, “dome”, or
“fellatio” makes you uneasy or blush, then you will not be a man who
can frequently get a blow job.
It does not matter how many times I say it, you simply cannot up
your sexual experiences with girls unless you make yourself a sexy man.
You have to fully internalize that women love sex and
that they will only fully open themselves up to men who understand that
fact.
Let me give you an example. A couple of weeks ago I was out on the
West Coast with a good friend of mine. We were out at a bar and we met
up with one of his old female friends
from his high school days. The conversation was pretty lively, and
given that fact, it inevitably turned to sexual topics.
And when that happened, his friend asked: “So I was watching the
Tyra show a few months ago and she was talking about how it is really
good for your skin if a guy cums on your face.”
Now, most guys would be taken aback by such a remark or would even
get very uncomfortable or awkward. But not the sexual man. My friend
and I are both sexual men and simply took it in
stride by offering our opinions. I told her that I had done some
research on the matter when I heard a couple of my other female friends
talking about it some years ago.
And just for your information: semen contains spermine, which is
composed of many antioxidants and proteins that are good for
replenishing skin and preventing wrinkles. That being said, it is also
full of testosterone, which is the main cause of acne. So definitely a
double-edged sword on that front.
And then we finished discussing the topic and moved on to other
topics – both sexual and nonsexual. And that is how it should go if you
are sexy
man . Talking about a sexual topic should be as normal to you
as discussing the weather. And once it is – the sky is the limit. And
if you’re not sure whether or not you are at that point, then try to
bring up a sexual topic with a girl you know and see how she reacts. If
she reacts awkwardly and/or seems disgusted, then you are not quite
there yet. If she laughs it off or just gives you a straight answer,
then you know you are in a good place.
Don’t worry, I’m not here to teach you how to get a blow job from men !
Au contraire . You see,
having the right male influences around you – in this case, men who are
comfortable getting sexual with women and don’t have sexual hangups of
their own – makes a big difference in your own ability to get women lining up
(or kneeling down) to perform fellatio on you.

This is an important point that doesn’t get talked about often
enough on this site. If you want to increase the frequency in which you
get a blow job, you should hang out with people – if possible – who can
already do so with a decently high level of frequency. Chase has often
mentioned that his progress was really supercharged when he surrounded
himself with naturals whom he could learn from.
And any aspect of seduction: approaching, rapport, getting the
number, and yes, even the ability to get a blow job, can be quickly
improved by being around people who are already good. Maybe you’re
saying the wrong thing to the girl. Maybe you’re not going for it at
the right time. Maybe you’re failing to be a sexy man after all. But
having people who are already successful in this area will allow you to
become a great suck-cess as well ;).
Just like sex, sometimes you will be moments away from
getting a blow job when everything falls apart at the last second. But
you have to remember: the girl owes
you nothing . Just because you got within minutes of feeling her
lips around your private parts does not mean that she has to follow
through if she does not want to.
So no matter how much work you put in, realize that sometimes things
will go wrong. Sometimes there will be some actual resistance. Just
shake it off, splash yourself with some cold water, laugh a little, and
move on with your life. It happens.
But this mindset is also important for not being desperate either.
If you try to maintain a sense of outcome independence then it will
only increase your likelihood of success.
To many women, sex is a big deal. If you really think about it, it’s
a massive act of surrender and vulnerability to let herself be
penetrated by another human being.
Here’s the secret every man who wants to know how to get a blow job
with any amount of consistency needs to know, though: for a huge swath of women, sex and blow
jobs are not the same thing .

A lot of girls just don’t really see
blow jobs in the same light as sexual intercourse. Yes, they are
servicing you, but a lot of
girls legitimately enjoy a good sucking session. And for them, it
doesn’t present the same level of open surrender as does having sex, so
they will much more willingly do it.
Some girls will even give a blow job without thinking twice about
it. They’ll engage in the activity as if it were on the same level as
making out. So if you want to put yourself in the position where you
get a blow job more often than you currently do, then it’s important to
stop building it up in your head.
I’ve also known some individuals in the seduction industry to
assuage a girl if she puts up any resistance by reiterating the fact
that ‘it’s not sex’. And then they get a blow job. You’d be surprised
at how effective that friendly reminder can truly be. So remember: it’s
just a blow job. It’s not sex. It doesn’t make her a whore . It’s
just fun and enjoyable.
Whenever I go out with a large group of guys, there is inevitably
one guy who, at the end of the night, starts bellyaching about some
girl he could have had. “But we were making out all night! I do not
understand why she did not come home with me!”
And I inevitably respond, as I have on many such occasions: “You
see, for most women, the bar is not a real place. It is a fictitious
space where people can completely unhinge their inhibitions without any
consequences and then walk back out into the real world as if nothing
had happened. And as soon as a girl crosses that threshold with you,
then you suddenly become a real human being. And then she has to start
thinking about the implications of her actions and her deeper desires.
Most girls just go out, dance a little bit – or a lot – and then go
home feeling really good that a lot of guys flirted with them and that
they made out with a few (or more).
That is how the bar goes for nearly every woman. And many men have
trouble accepting this fact.
But even with the men who do accept this fact, they do not realize that girls’ nighttime
promiscuity can be pushed to an even higher level . Most men
think that this looseness of
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