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by Laura Tedesco Published: Jan 19, 2016
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We give you permission to play with her feet—without feeling like a freak
The mere mention of the word “fantasy” arouses thoughts of threesomes, buxom blondes, and role-playing.
But “fetish”? That just freaks people out.
The reality: A fetish is just a specific type of fantasy—and one that more people have than you probably realize.
“If you think of a fetish that’s a 10-out-of-10 level of intensity—someone in chains on an iron cross in their basement—it might seem really strange and uncommon,” says Scott Jacobey, Ph.D., a sex therapist who specializes in alternative sexual behaviors.
“But if you take the same fetish down to a level 2—a partner saying, ‘Why don’t you tie my wrists to the bedpost?’—it seems really realistic and ordinary.”
Translation: Having a fetish doesn’t necessarily mean wanting to wear adult diapers or a furry costume.
You just have to find a normally non-sexual object or action arousing—an association you probably formed in childhood, says Samantha Leigh Allen, who studies sexual fetishism at Emory University.
And in these cases, “most people with fetishes are able to integrate it into their life,” Jacobey says.
So which “strange” sexual proclivities are most common—and how can you encourage your partner to embrace yours?
One in five women are more excited by a new pair of shoes than their sexual partners, according to a new survey by Shoebuy.com. But stilettos as a source of sexual arousal? That’s a mostly male domain.
“There’s so much eroticized imagery around high heels,” says Allen. “They’ve become a symbol of feminine power and aggressiveness—of men’s craving for female dominance.”
In some cases, though, a shoe fetish may actually indicate a desire to avoid real sexual interaction. “It’s a way of indirectly fantasizing about a woman,” says Jacobey.
Make it happen: If it’s the whole female-power thing that excites you, ask your girlfriend if you can pick the heels she wears out on date night, then choose the shoes that turn you on the most, suggests Sitron.
And if you hook up afterward, ask her to leave the stilettos on.
If it’s the kicks themselves that arouse you—and you have an open-minded partner—do a little show-and-tell with your footwear of choice.
“Walk your partner through the parts of the shoe that are exciting,” says Justin Sitron, Ph.D, a professor of human sexuality at Widener University. “That might be safer and easier than, say, masturbating with the shoe.”
In a recent study of fetishes published in the International Journal of Impotence Research , feet and toes were the body parts most likely to be lusted after.
How come? “Focusing on the foot is kind of an act of humility—like, I’m only good enough to touch your feet ,” says Jacobey.
Or the explanation could be simpler. “As a child or young person, that could have been the only part of the person’s body someone had access to,” says Sitron, “The foot became eroticized.”
Make it happen: The good news: This fetish may not be as freaky to a woman as some others, since the object of desire is still a part of her.
“A foot is always attached to a woman’s body, while a shoe isn’t necessarily,” says Allen.
The easiest way to incorporate your fetish into foreplay: Offer to give your partner a pedicure or foot massage—a proposal that’s culturally considered normal, and therefore, non-threatening, says Sitron.
While you give her a rubdown, you can verbally admire her feet if that’s part of your fantasy.
Most men can appreciate a toned backside—think Instagram star Jen Selter —but some have very specific preferences: extra-wide rear ends, say, or super-compact booties. (Sir Mix-a-Lot was right.)
There’s even a name for this: pygophilia.
Whereas other fetishes are usually triggered by a childhood event—a learned behavior—this one may be more innate. “The human species is naturally attracted to butts,” says Jacobey. “It’s a pretty common object of fantasy for both men and women.”
Make it happen: Since most people can understand an affinity for a nice ass, “this fetish is probably most easily integrated into a regular everyday relationship,” says Sitron.
Simply suggest positions, like doggy style or reverse cowgirl, that allow easy access to her butt—then if she’s cool with it, give that booty a slap.
Does the idea of being tied up turn you on? Let us guess: You’re a dominating guy outside the bedroom.
“In sexual fantasies, people seek something they don’t have in reality,” says Jacobey. “If people feel powerful and have an authoritarian position in their job or family, they often seek something very different.”
Bondage may not seem like a true fetish, but that’s probably just because it’s become more mainstream. “It’s pretty accessible,” says Jacobey.
Still, some psychologists argue that act of bondage is simply a convenient forum for often-eroticized objects, like leather. “Culturally, leather has a lot of power,” says Sitron. “It’s a symbol of the bad-boy, motorcycle jacket archetype.”
Make it happen: Don’t break out the hardcore gear in the beginning. Sitron suggests starting with everyday objects, like a necktie or the tie of your robe—“things that are relatively non-threatening.”
Or, if material matters, look for leather restraints that have Velco closures. That way, “it’s easier to put on and take off,” says Sitron. “The last thing you want is someone panicking and not being able to get out.”
In a recent study in the Archives of Sexual Behavior , more than 10 percent of guys reported at least one instance of voyeuristic behavior.
“Most guys like to watch people having sex,” says Jacobey. “I think it’s one the reasons why pornography is more popular among men.”
Where does the urge to spy on other people doing the deed originate? As kids, most of us were taught that sex is forbidden—a private act that’s only for adults.
“Taboo and hidden things build curiosity—like, What’s going on behind these closed doors? ” says Jacobey.
Make it happen: In its most extreme form—say, being a Peeping Tom—voyeurism is obviously illegal. It’s also likely to freak out—or at the very least, intimidate—your partner.
But if you’re still dying to share, try suggesting you individually brainstorm ways you could comfortably act it out, says Jacobey. Then compare notes.
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Even though all of us are forever keen on having more sex, most of us can't proclaim we know all about it, right?
Way beyond the generic classifications of black and white, sex is mostly grey, all 50 shades of it!
Two people might be sharing a bed but can have totally different likes and dislikes.
Long over-abused as somewhat 'dirty', it's time we take into account different sexual fetishes, if for nothing else then just to ensure that we're all getting the sexual pleasure we desperately need!
While BDSM & role-playing scenarios have long been talked about, there are many other kinds of fetishes that are still brushed under the carpet.
Here are 15 sexual fetishes that are way more common than you'd like to imagine:
This is when you're sexually aroused by something that's been in physical contact with the desired person. From their clothes to their phones, any and every object can turn you on!
Having sex in front of a mirror is what really, truly turns you on!
This one is super-super common. In this case, a man is only attracted to older women and never to someone his own age.
Playing with hair, smelling hair or simply staring at someone's hair, this is when there's a sexual arousal due to the other person's hair.
This is the sexual arousal that occurs as a result of being tickled. Yes, tickled by anyone and everyone!
Some people get aroused looking at other people having sex in real-life. This is the name for that fetish!
Basically, if your mode of sexual arousal is watching porn or looking at pornographic images, this is the name of your fetish. Naturally, this is way, way too common!
This is when you get sexually aroused looking at someone's piercings or tattoos. It could be on any body part and doesn't have to necessarily be on body parts conventionally considered sexy.
For those with this fetish, increased sexual arousal and pleasure comes out of sucking someone's nose.
Commonly known as foot-fetish, this is the fetish of getting sexual pleasure and arousal out of sucking, nibbling, licking, touching and/or caressing someone's feet.
Quite common during winters, this is the sexual arousal to feeling cold or sometimes, looking at other people who're feeling cold.
Sexual arousal to urine, those with this fetish either like peeing on others or enjoy their partners peeing on them. Alternatively, having sex in a tub full of pee is another option!
This is the fetish of getting sexual arousal from mannequins, statues and/or dolls.
It's the scenario when a consenting married couple indulges in sex with another couple or individual.
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We’ve previously talked about the definition of kinky and what makes a fetish. Now, it’s time to list all those kinks in one place. It’s unlikely that you’ve heard of every fetish or kink on this list of kinks; although, we’d be willing you have – or have at least thought about – a few of them! Some of them are fairly common, after all.
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Abasiophilia: attraction to people in neck braces, wheelchairs, casts, or other devices that impair mobility that was documented for the first time as occurring in a woman in the late 80s [ 1 ]. It may be part of a medical fetish or enjoyed because it restricts movement.
Abduction as seduction: a kink where the abductor/kidnapper treats the victim in a loving manner (can be related to gentle femdom ).
Abrasions : people who enjoy this fetish like giving or receiving cuts and scrapes.
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Acarophilia: arousal from scratching. Scratching is often an element incorporated into rough sex. More on that here .
Accidental stimulation: refers to accidental physical stimulation and situations that arouse adrenaline and cause arousal.
Acrotomophilia: fetish for amputees [ 2 ]. Fetishists may prefer a specific type of amputee (arm, leg, etc). A person with a fetish for being an amputee has apotemnophilia. There may be overlap with morphophilia.
Actirasty: arousal by the rays of the sun. This may be enjoyed through sex outside. Discover how to have satisfying sex outside .
Agalmatophilia: a person with this fetish is aroused by statues, mannequins or other figurative representations. This may be related to Pygmalionism, an attraction to items of one’s own creation.
Age play: role play in which one or both partners pretends to be a different age/stage. Types of age play include infantilism, Daddy/daughter play, and diaper play, among others. Some kinksters differentiate between DD/lg and age play.
Agoraphilia : fetish dedicated to sex in public places. Here are the 48 best places to have sex if you have this fetish.
Aliens: kinksters fetishize about having sex with aliens, often in an abduction and forced scenario.
Altocalciphilia: a fetish for high heels, usually worn by women but not always.
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Amazons and authoritarians: fetish dedicated to physically strong women like Amazons, women with strong personalities, or women in positions of authority.
Amaurophilia: kink for being unable to see, blinded or blindfolded during sex.
Anal penetration: a fetish for anal penetration with foreign objects (not sex toys or penises). Inserting objects that are not designed for anal safety (porous, without a flared base, with sharp edges) can cause damage.
Anal sex: both giving and receiving anal sex can be a kink or fetish. Giving to a male with a strap-on is also known as pegging (read our guide to pegging ) Read our anal sex guide here .
Anal toys worn under clothing: a fetish for using/wearing anal toys such as using butt plugs during the day and not just during sex activity. It may be a command of a submissive by a dominant, part of anal training to take bigger items or penises and/or as part of foreplay.
Anal training: the practice of preparing one’s anus for inserting large items.
Anasteemaphilia : a fetish for people over extreme sizes, ie a giant or a dwarf. It can be used to refer to attraction to partners of differing heights even if those people aren’t especially gigantic or tiny.
Anonymous sex: a kink revolving around anonymous sexual encounters where one or both parties is unaware of the other’s identity. Gloryholes are a common form of anonymous sex but they are not the only form.
Aquaphilia: fetish for water and having sex in or around water. This can extend to a fetish for swimwear or posing in water even if it doesn’t involve sexual activity.
Asphyxiation : a highly danerous kink dedicated to choking, smothering and strangulation. Autoerotic asphyxiation is self-choking. To be clear, asphyxiation is very dangerous and has led to injuries and deaths [ 3 ] [ 4 ] [ 5 ] [ 6 ]. See also breath play. BDSM author talks in depth about the subject.
Autogynephilia : a kink where men present/dress as women (gynemimetophilia refers to men impersonating women). Autoandrophilia is arousal at the idea of being a man.
Note that this term was coined as an improvement on cross-dressing kink and has been used to describe transgendered individuals and has been used as an argument that trans people are mentally ill. Many prefer not to use this term, which is often transphobic. However, some people may have a fetish for crossdressing or becoming another gender that does not relate to their gender identity.
Autofellatio : a kink where a man performs a blowjob on himself.
Autoplushophilia: a type of plushophilia where a person is aroused by the idea being a stuffed animal, especially a cartoonish one [ 7 ].
Ba rebacking : sex without a condom. Barebacking is especially common in the gay community, but this act can be dangerous and lead to STI transmission or pregnancy. Learn how and why you should use a condom .
Bathroom control: when the dominant person controls when, how and where the submissive can urinate or defecate. Extreme bathroom control can be dangerous.
Begging : kink for begging and pleading (to have sex, for release/orgasm, to perform an act, etc.). Begging is submissive in nature.
Belonephilia : affinity to pins, needles and sharp objects. Belonephilia can be quite dangerous. See also knife play.
Bimbofication: The process of making someone into a bimbo or being turned into a bimbo themselves. This might be a fun “punishment” for a bratty sub .
Blindfolds : a type of bondage that blocks a person’s vision. See also amaurophilia.
Body Inflation : The practice of inflating or pretending to inflate a part of one’s body, often for sexual gratification.
Bondage : restraint of a person, either by physical item (cuffs, rope, etc.) or instruction (known as mental bondage). Restraint can be full-body (vacuum beds, suspension) or involve a single body part such as the eyes (blindfold), mouth (ball gag), wrists or even thumbs. Bondage may include furniture and devices. Reddit has a number of subreddits dedicated to the subject.
Body modification : kink for a variety of body modifications. This may mean anything that changes the appearance of a body from tattoos to piercings to saline injections, but this kink may also only refer to specific body mods such as lip sewing.
Branding : marking someone with a symbol, word, etc. Typically uses a heated object (such as a metal hanger) to produce the brand. Branding is dangerous.
Breath play : choking and limiting breath. Being aroused by this is known as hypoxyphilia This kink is a type of edge play that is dangerous .
Breast/nipple torture: the breast equivalent of CBT. Torture may include hitting, pinching, bondage, and other methods of inflicting pain onto breasts.
Breast/nipple worship: the act of worshipshipping someone’s breasts or nipples.
Caning : the act of hitting someone with a rod known as caning. Fleshy areas such as the back of the thighs and butt are advised, but some people enjoy caning the bottoms of feet. Canes are traditionally made from wood, but modern canes may be made from plastic, metal or other semi-flexible materials. Caning is a form of impact play that is more extreme than typical flogging and may be dangerous if done improperly. Sadists are usually the most common type of dom that enjoy caning their sub.
Castration: An extreme fetish involving removal of all or part of a man’s genitals. Actual castration is incredibly dangerous. Most kinksters obsess over it without actually going through with it. This kink goes hand in hand with emasculation fetishes as well as the ball busting, in which a man’s balls are cru
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