Money Goals: Self-Love

⚡ There’s another scenario: “Die, but Do It.” But I’m not a fan of it, I honestly don’t like this approach because it’s a very energy-draining process. When we work at the edge of our abilities, yes, we will really get it done, we will really achieve the result, but in the end we will either burn out from spending too much effort or simply get demotivated because nothing is working out. No need for that. I’m for being loving toward yourself.

🗣️ You need to talk to yourself the way you’d want a stranger (a safe one) on the street to talk to your child. Imagine your child is playing somewhere, and a safe stranger comes up and says: “You’re a lazy ass. Everything you do is a failure. You don’t belong here among normal people. And you’ve even grown fat, look at yourself in the mirror, see who you look like”.

😢 Do you think your child, at that moment, would get motivated to great results? Would wings grow on your child at that moment? No, they would want to sit down, hug their knees, and cry. And your inner child wants the very same thing. So why do we motivate OURSELVES like this? Why do we love telling OURSELVES that we’re lazy asses, that nothing works out for us, and that our financial results are worse than someone else’s?

✅ That’s why we don’t forget about positivity and controllability. This goal must depend on you; achieving a financial goal must not involve wizards who solve the problem for you. If I create a brilliant product that someone has to notice and then invest in me — that’s an uncontrollable goal. If I create a great product that meets the needs of society and I actively look for people who will notice me, or investors ready to invest, I make presentations, I do this, I do that — if it looks like a plan, then your subconscious perfectly understands what you want and what needs to be done.