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I have always been a super happy kid

Hii … I was in 8th standard and one day me and my mom were at our relatives house . I was getting bored there so I took my mother phone and opened whatsapp and was chatting with my friend . A notification appeared on the screen of someone’s msg and the msg was miss u . I was hell confused what to do . I controlled myself not to open the chat but could not resist it and I opened it after reading the msgs I was shocked to discover that my mother was having an affair . I mind stopped working . I have a bother who is 6 yrs older to me . I thought I should talk to him . This was my biggest mistake . He was in college at that time was his exams were about to start . I didn’t knew that he has his exams round the corner and at that moment my brain was also not working so I called him and told him whatever I read in the msgs . I told him not to react when he will come back we will talk about this and confront our mother . I was somewhat relieved . I tried to behave normally with my mother as if idon’t know any thing .
Few days later in late evening I came back home with one of my friend . I went to my mother room to bring something from there . she was talking with my brother on her phone very angrily that moment I was normal I thought that she might be scolding him for something after an hour or so she called me in her room and asked me that what did I say to my brother ? I freaked out and started to cry and was shivering . I told her everything I read and she told me to leave the room . I left the room after sometime she left the house crying and followed her and talked to her . till then my father returned home and we had to show that everything was normal so we went back home . After sometime my mother called a friend and friend talked to me that there is nothing going on between my mother and that man . She told me that that man was a gay and to mock him they refer him as baby . At that moment I behaved as if I was convinced . Me and my mother were not talking to each other a few weeks . I greatest thing on which I was mad at her was that she did not apologized and rather she was mad at me that I told this thing to my brother . At that time my only support was my brother and his was only me so we talked to each other all day long and consoled each other . Slowly things became normal again .
Year passed , I came in 9th standard again the same thing happened I was using my mother’s phone a msg popped out and that msg was I Love You . This I was shocked even more than before a few days later my mom got to know that i saw the msg she came to me and said that what do you know ? and what allegation I have to put on her ? I again told her that i saw an I Love You msg on your phone and she said its nothing i believed her because she talks toh her friend like that only and i msg that came was from a female friend of her . Every thing became normal again .
Year passed , I came in 10th standard this year every thing was online due to corona virus so on my laptop my mothers whatsapp web was activated I opened it because I had sent a document to her that i had to download on my laptop so i opened it again the same thing happened this time i was not at all shocked I reacted as if its very normal for me . And this time I did not told anyone and neither have my mom known till yet that i know that she is having an affair . I started reading their chats and day by day the level of chat was degrading they started sexual msgs this had a really bad affect in my academics . Till date I have not told anyone about this . But i think i cannot handle this anymore because it has started affecting my studies
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At 14, Adrienne Brodeur was roused in the middle of the night by her mother, Malabar, who had a confession.
“Rennie, wake up,” her mom said. “Ben Souther just kissed me.”
Malabar and her second husband, Charles, had been “couple friends” with Ben and Lily Souther for at least a decade.
Though Adrienne was shocked, she eventually felt forced to take on the role of accomplice, therapist and enabler in her mother’s secret affair and betrayal of her own stepfather.
“This marked the beginning of the rest of my life. Once I chose to follow my mother, there was no turning back. I became her protector and sentinel, always on the lookout for what might give her away,” writes Adrienne in her evocative new memoir “ Wild Game ,” (Houghton Mifflin Harcourt), out now, which chronicles the decades-long deception.
The bulk of the memoir takes place on Cape Cod in the old-money enclaves that boast clamming, beach bonfires, copious drinking (the family’s cocktail of choice is the “power pack” — a dry Manhattan with a twist) and heaps of denial.
Adrienne, absolutely enthralled by her charming (but deeply limited) mother, does everything in her power to help Malabar steal time with Ben. The two plan ways to get Ben and Malabar alone, including taking nightly after-dinner walks — all three of them, with Adrienne acting as a cover.
“Out of the glow of the street lamp, my mother and Ben would kiss passionately, often with me still in the middle, part of a three-way embrace. We were in this love affair together,” she writes.
During some visits the two lovers were less careful, and Adrienne offered herself up as a distraction. She talked louder, engaged people in conversation — anything to cover up for the fact that the two had been missing (looking for “a lost cooking tool” in the basement or huddled together in a pantry) for an uncomfortable length of time.
“These moments terrified me more than almost any other,” she writes. “Time slowed down; my stomach burned and my pulse rang in my ears as if I were the one about to get caught.”
The stress gave Adrienne stomach aches. But, despite the inner turmoil, her primary objective was “making my mother happy.” This goal even led her to eventually marry Ben Souther’s adopted son, Jack. (All names in the book, except the author’s and her parents’, have been changed.)
“Deception takes commitment, vigilance and a very good memory,” Adrienne writes. “To keep the truth buried, you must tend to it. For years and years my job was to pile on sand — fistfuls, shovelfuls, bucketfuls, whatever the moment necessitated — in an effort to keep my mother’s secret buried.”
Malabar is monstrous but also entrancing, and Adrienne shows both sides of the complicated woman.
We hear about Malabar’s toddler son who died after choking to death at age 2; we hear about Malabar’s own mother, just as beautiful and charming as she, who broke her daughter’s leg in a fight over a man. We can almost smell and taste Malabar’s exceptional cooking, which is detailed with poetic potency.
“In a single drop of rich sauce placed on her tongue,” Adrienne writes about Malabar, “she could detect the tiniest hint of cardamom, one lone shard of lemon zest, some whiff of behind-the-scenes ingredient . . . She also had a keen awareness of the power of this gift, particularly where men were concerned.”
Charles underwent heart surgery in 1985. During recovery he suffered a massive stroke and died in the hospital room alone — just as Malabar was meeting up with Ben.
“Charles was so good to me, Rennie,” Malabar told her daughter afterwards. “And look at how I treated him. I gave him the worst of me.”
“It was true,” Adrienne thought. “She had.”
Without Charles there to temper Malabar’s passions, her affair was finally exposed. Ben promised his wife, Lily, that he’d stay with her and never see Malabar again.
In 1992, two years after Adrienne and Jack’s wedding, Lily succumbed to a lifelong heart condition. Two months later, Ben and Malabar moved in together and stayed lovers until Ben’s death in 2013.
Adrienne and Jack weren’t as fated. Their union sagged under the weight of her early deception, and they eventually divorced. Now remarried, Adrienne has two children of her own, a son and a daughter.
Malabar is now 87 and still a key part of Adrienne’s life, even though she remains capable of small but pointed cruelties, the author writes. Even so, her mother lacks the orbital pull she had on her daughter in her youth.
“We were not, as I had grown up believing, two halves of the same whole,” writes Adrienne, now 53. “She was her own person, as was I. And I knew that every time I failed to become more like my mother, I became more like me.”

Mom had an affair 18 years ago, I [18M] am the product of it. My dad just informed me of all this, and told me he will not pay for my college, while my siblings got their college experience paid by our dad.
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This is a repost. I am not the original poster. This is from u/throwawaynocollege01 /
Pretty much the title. I have no idea how to process all this, and I am completely unprepared for what lies ahead :(
Both my older brother and sister went to the same college. My brother graduated two years ago, my sister is set to graduate in two years. Both had their college paid by our dad. Dad paid all their college expenses, including rent, food, their cars, pocket money, you name it.
My brother has a job now, his own place, lives together with his fiancee, and has his life together.
My sister already has a good paying job, and my dad still pays for almost everything for her.
I got accepted to the same college, which was always the plan, and was looking forward to talk with my parents about the next steps, and ask them to help me the same they did for my siblings. I always assumed they had money put aside for my college the way they had for my siblings.
Instead I was met with a story about my mom's cheating, how I am the result of her cheating, and how my dad is not willing to support me any more moving forward.
Dad told me that mom had 18 years to let me know and prepare me for the future, but obviously she never did. He said it was never is place to say anything since I am not his son, and didn't want to interfere with mom's parenting.
Apparently my grandparents know I am not dad's biological son, but they haven't bothered to tell me anything either.
My siblings had no idea, and they are as surprised as I am because there was never a hint of anything being off. I might be naive, but I always thought I had a great relationship with my dad. We go to see sports together, we go fishing together, he tutored me when I had difficulties with math (dad is an engineer), he taught me to drive. I never got a hint he stores resentment towards me. I mean, he gave me my name, and has explained what my name means, and he was very proud of it. It's a story he tells from time to time. He likes to talk about stuff like that about me.
My mom has never said a word about anything, and apparently she was supposed to have "the talk" with me, but she never did.
I feel abandoned and unprepared for what lies ahead. I am not even sure I will be able to go to college any more, I always assumed my parents will pay for it. I never had a job, and I am not sure what job I can even get to support me through college, I have no idea how to apply for loans.
All my mom has done is cry and apologize. But nothing of substance, she has no idea how to help me.
I don't even know if I am welcomed home any more, it's all up in the air, I feel shame leaving my room, and if I will be asked to move out I don't know where to go. I don't have any savings, maybe $400 put together.
I am angry at my mom, I am confused about where I stand with my dad. There's a man out there who is my father that never wanted to have anything to do with me. I feel rejected and I have no idea what to do to fix this situation.
Anyone have any idea what to do here?
Do I apologize to my dad? What do I say to him?
Idk, I've been stuck in my room these past few days, reading and browsing reddit. I have no idea what to do.
Edit: Comments are coming in faster than I can reply, but I am making a list with all the advice about financial aid, health insurance, getting my own phone plan, etc, things I didn't even think about before. Thank you everyone.
I will try to answer as much as I can, but there's more comments than I can handle.
Sorry to disappear, nothing bad happened to me.
Managed to talk with my mom yesterday, but I chickened out half way through what I had to say :(
The good news is that I am not being kicked out, or disowned, etc.
Thank you for all your support, everyone, I will follow through and call financial aid at my college in a few hours, and take it from there.
My grandpa had a stroke a week ago, and my dad is helping my grandma with setting up a live in nurse, so he wasn't around yesterday.
Sorry for not updating, my grandpa passed away yesterday morning.
Nothing happened to me, but my situation is a secondary concern right now. Regardless, I think I will be alright, thanks to your amazing support and help.
My sister is aware of everything, and told me not to worry, she has my back and I have her support.
I promise to update when and if there are any significant changes, right now I need to support my grandma.
Hey guys, and update has already been posted here. Please don't message me so angrily any more.
I am not sure if it's what's you want to hear, but things are more or less back to a "normal" state, if you consider other events.
Unfortunately, my grandpa died at the beginning of this week, and I am still processing it.
I did manage to talk with both my mom and dad, and I know where I now stand in relation with them, as well as my siblings.
I am not sure I would have had the courage to say what I had to say if not for the amount of help and advice in the comments.
I think it is safe to say both my parents love me, and what happened two weeks ago was an overreaction to a fight between my parents. It makes me uncomfortable knowing I am not aware of my own environment, but a stranger in the comments can tell me what's happening in my life with only a few lines of text from my side. A lot of comments were spot on about what is happening in my life.
I have so far went through 40% (I estimate) of the comments, but I have given up, there are too many for me to keep up with.
The conclusion is that I am definitely going to college, it will be the college I have always wanted to go to, and I will have the same experience as my siblings. The money to pay for all this already exists, my family is not going bankrupt as suggested, my dad just had a mental breakup with all the issues around my grandpa and his fight with my mom.
Even if my dad would have went through with his decision, my grandma let me know my grandpa left me and my siblings a sum we will have to split between the three of us, but enough to put me through college.
What started the entire scandal was poor timing on my part, my parents just had a fight, and then I showed up "hey, pay for my college".
My parents were talking about us, their children, and mom said something to the lines of "to think you wanted to split up when I came back pregnant", or something like that, I was not there, this is what she told me. I guess dad was talking how proud he was of his children, and mom wanted to express her "gratitude" for dad raising me as his own, and dad took it as "the affair was the best decision I ever made" or something like that. And their fight escalated from there, and mom told dad something like "what makes you think any of them are yours".
Yeah, it went downhill from there fast. Shortly after that my dumb face showed up, and here I am.
Dad and mom have since made up, mom is still a mess, dad is not handling my grandpa's passing away too well either.
I did talk with my siblings, and my sister raised a storm and rode it here while blasting my parents on the phone, ha ha. My brother was calmer, but made his feelings known in no uncertain terms as well once he got back home.
My grandpa passing away sort of kept spirits calm, I guess, and shifted the focus to dealing with that.
Reading the comments was a mind opening experience. I felt unprepared for the world out there. Many have asked how I had no idea how to apply for loans or grants. Well, in my defense, when you go year after year after year knowing you have nothing to worry about, that your college as good as paid for already, you don't really have to worry about anything else. Of course I knew there are loans and other things students have to be aware of, but it didn't apply to me.
I went from "I am going to college, can't wait" to "you're not my son and I will not pay for your college" in less than 24 hours.
Others have been prepared for this, at the very least they knew they had to get a loan, or get a job, look for a place to live, and so on. For me it was a sudden change in reality.
Going through the comments I managed to put a list together with various "tips and tricks", what jobs are available for students, how to find a place to live, how to get a credit card, a bank account, a cell phone plan, and so on. Really good stuff that I think, even after the return to normal, will help me.
My parents have been called more names then they go by, and that was uncomfortable to read, and I haven't even read all comments. I can't even imagine what else lies in the comments, waiting.
Dad is very sorry, apologetic, about his reaction and behavior. I understand his reaction, but I still feel hurt by it. I understand he was not in the best place of mind, but I can't control my feelings either. We will be alright, and this hasn't irreparably damaged our relationship.
Mom hasn't handled everything that well. But she is coming around, and she answered some more questions for me.
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