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My 13 year old son lives with his dad who has primary custody and I get him every other weekend. His dad has remarried and has been with his wife for 5 years. I found out my son has been bullying a special needs kid at school with a speech impediment. He got in school suspension for 3 days and when he came home from school, his stepmother spanked him. It was with her hand and there's no bruising but he told me it hurt a lot and I'm ****ing pissed. She also made him write an apology letter to the student and grounded him for 2 weeks with no electronics. His father works long hours so his stepmom feels entitled because she's a stay at home wife and she's with him more but it's not okay.

I'm very upset at what my son did and he absolutely deserved to be punished but this woman had no right to touch my kid. His father supports what she did and gave her permission and I'm ready to raise hell. I need her to learn her place as a stepparent NOT a parent.

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All of you, who are anti a little occasional swat on the behind, probably wonder why so many kids are taking guns into schools today and slaughtering other kids. All of this mamby pamby weak ass parenting has created a whole generation of kids who do not know right from wrong.

I was spanked when I deserved it, so were my two sons, and all of us turned out to be productive, honest, kind human beings with no mental scars to show for it. I knew when I got spanked I deserved it, and that it was done because I was loved.
In addition to being a bully, I suspect your son is also manipulative and knew exactly what it was cause when he ran to tell you his stepmom punished him.
No a step parent has zero rights to make decisions about a child’s welfare or discipline a child. Zilch, zero. none...
As a kid, if my shenanigans caused another woman that wasn't my mom to hit me as discipline....then I'd get whooped at home again a second time from my mom.
All of you, who are anti a little occasional swat on the behind, probably wonder why so many kids are taking guns into schools today and slaughtering other kids. All of this mamby weak ass parenting has created a whole generation of kids who do not know right from wrong.

I was spanked when I deserved it, so were my two sons, and all of us turned out to be productive, honest, kind human beings with no mental scars to show for it. I knew when I got spanked I deserved it, and that it was done because I was loved.
All of you, who are anti a little occasional swat on the behind, probably wonder why so many kids are taking guns into schools today and slaughtering other kids. All of this mamby pamby weak ass parenting has created a whole generation of kids who do not know right from wrong.

I was spanked when I deserved it, so were my two sons, and all of us turned out to be productive, honest, kind human beings with no mental scars to show for it. I knew when I got spanked I deserved it, and that it was done because I was loved.
The issue here is not a parent spanking his or her son. The issue here is a non parent a person not genetically related to the kid spanking him. If the father did it it would be a different story although the mother would still have a right to be upset and demand that it not happen again. If you put your hands on my child not in self defense and you are not his mother I am going to have a massive problem with it. Keep your ****ing hands to yourself.

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Spanking is very much illegal in some states. My ex would get jail time because he specifically signed an agreement the last time with the judge, that he would never do it again. And if he did, he would go to jail the next time.

Just because you want it to be ok, doesn’t make it right. spanking is child abuse. Prosecutable in many states.

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Spanking is very much illegal in some states. My ex would get jail time because he specifically signed an agreement the last time with the judge, that he would never do it again. And if he did, he would go to jail the next time.

Just because you want it to be ok, doesn’t make it right. spanking is child abuse. Prosecutable in many states.
Ok, wait. That's COMPLETELY different.

Your ex was in court, and the judge ordered him to quit beating kids.

That's different from the claim that spanking is illegal in a state - your ex was before a judge, and was told to cut it out. Meaning, it was a serious problem with him.

But yes, in general, I disagree with spanking. Sounds like your ex was in court because he took it way too far.

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I was never spanked as a child and turned out the same.
I was never spanked as a child and turned out the same.

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Just as a biological parent who has custody and control over a child has the right to discipline a child in a reasonable manner, so too does a stepparent who stands in loco parentis to a child have the right to discipline a child in a reasonable manner. SeeMargaret M. Mahoney, Stepfamilies and the Law194-99 (1994).

This right is spelled out in many state statutes. For example, Ga. Code Ann. 16-3-20(3) (1992) provides:

The fact that a person's conduct is justified is a defense to prosecution for any crime based on that conduct. The defense of justification can be claimed . . . [w]hen the person's conduct is the reasonable discipline of a minor by his parent or a person in loco parentis.

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November 16, 2017 / 6:45 PM
/ CBS News

When Demetris Payne saw a missed call from her son's junior high school, she knew something was wrong.
With a sigh, the single mom of four from Shreveport, Louisiana, called back. A school official said her 13-year-old son Jadarien was suspended for three days for talking back to his teacher. She was told to pick him up right away.
"Three days seems kind of harsh -- why not do in-school suspension?" Payne asked.
But since Jadarien had been in trouble once before, they said he had to leave.
As soon as the pair got home, Payne took away her son's cellphone and video games. She left him with her 70-year-old father who lives with them.
"When I got home from work he's eating strawberries and having fun with my dad," Payne told CBS News. "I was like, 'Oh no.' It was like a vacation."
Payne knew she needed to do more to discipline him.
So she handed him a rake and asked him to start cleaning up the yard. When he was finished, she told him he'd be volunteering his lawn care services free of charge for people in need during the remainder of his suspension.
"He didn't believe it," Payne said. "I can be soft on him and baby him sometimes."
But Payne was serious. She posted a photo of Jadarien on Facebook with the heading, "Yard service - FREE," explaining that he got suspended from school and would mow lawns, pick up trash or wash cars for members of the community over the next three days.
Within hours, Payne got requests from several residents taking her up on the offer.
So she drove Jadarien from house to house. She stood by the car and watched him work. He mowed lawns, picked up pine needles and raked leaves.
"He didn't complain the whole time," Payne said.
Jadarien spent about two hours cleaning up the yards. He ended up hitting at least eight different homes. When he was finished, Payne took him to the library, where he spent the rest of the day reading and completing homework assignments.
"We explained to him that these chores weren't to punish, punish, punish, but to teach him a lesson and teach him about discipline," Payne said. "No matter if the teacher is right or wrong -- always respect your teachers, respect adults."
On Tuesday, Jadarien was happy to finally head back to school.
Look who's back at school. Meeting with all his teachers and set up a plan so we can make sure he stays on track....
The eighth-grader's classmates and teachers said they saw him on Facebook.
"He just laughed it off," Payne said. "Some people say he was 'shamed.' He wasn't shamed at all. He's not that type of kid. He really isn't."
Payne sat down with Jadarien's teachers to help come up with a plan to keep him on track. However, she's confident Jadarien learned his lesson.
Hundreds of people have shared Payne's Facebook post over the past week, many praising her for her unique approach to discipline.
"Beautiful idea! Parenting done right," one Facebook user commented.
"Raising your child to learn consequences for unacceptable behavior falls under good parenting 101," another wrote.
Payne said she hopes her other kids -- ages 3, 8 and 17 -- also learned something from Jadarien's experience. But if she has to do it all over again, she will.
"Single parents, do not give up. Keep encouraging your child. When one avenue doesn't work try another avenue. Get to the root of the problem," she advised.

First published on November 16, 2017 / 6:45 PM

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