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Mom Son First
Posted on December 11, 2014
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Here we go again. When a picture of a mom and son in the bathtub with her son made its way around social media, the internet went crazy. Words like inappropriate, child pornography, and abuse infiltrated the comment sections of Facebook posts and forced everyone to hit the share button and call this mom out on her actions. And those who did not have as much of a problem with her in the bathtub with her son had a problem with someone taking the photo and posting. Let the judgment begin.
So the first question a lot of people probably asked was the age of the boy. He looked to be at least four or five, but it’s hard to say what his exact age is. Now, unfortunately for “tubmom,” in order for this behavior to have been acceptable by internet mafia standards, said boy should have been no older than two for her not to be condemned for her actions. Not to mention, from the looks of the photos, they both looked cramped and there wasn’t enough room for them to properly bathe. So not only were they inappropriate to everyone, there was a chance they were both not even fully washed. But I digress.
Seriously though, we can’t continue to think we can tell other parents how to raise their kids, or decide the decency line for everyone else. To each his own.
As long as there is no harm done to the child, there shouldn’t be any real issue. Like many others, I saw more harm done by posting the photo.
We know the type of backlash something like this could get so this was a bad decision by tubmom or the anonymous photographer (maybe dad?). Truthfully, I highly doubt there was anything inappropriate going on, and it really did just look like she was taking a bath with her child. The exposed boob that was covered was probably a bit much. But hasn’t this woman learned that social media is the devil?
Admittedly, I have taken a bath with all of my kids at some point up until they were about two. Not because I wanted them to infiltrate the only time that I had alone, but because it just seemed like the only way I could preserve time back then. I know a lot of moms who do this. As the kids become more aware of things and get curious about body parts, it makes things uncomfortable. So it eventually stops. For some, it stops a little later. For me, two was the age where it felt as if they could start remembering these things. Therefore, since society (and my husband) deemed it inappropriate, I made sure to stop. By three years old, I actually started locking the bathroom door. They bang on the door until I get out of the tub and unlock it so they can ask me something that could have waited. My seven-year-old has now figured out how to take a penny and turn the bathroom lock to make her way in. I say all this to say that no matter how hard I have tried to cover up or shield them from my own nakedness, they have caught a glimpse here and there. They usually don’t even think twice about it. I yell at them to shut the door. They don’t. Instead, I’m left exposed in the tub with a cold draft. It’s inevitable.
No one wants to scar their kids with visions of naked adults, but it’s not as uncommon as the comments on tubmom’s photos would have you believe. What is uncommon is posting a photo like that. Now that the photo has made its way onto everyone’s timelines, there’s a smh type feeling. Judgment awaits.
Is it a little weird? Kinda. Inappropriate? Maybe. Should she have posted it on the internet for the world to see? Absolutely not.
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The mother-of-the-groom dance is a time-honored tradition at many weddings and though it’s not necessary to include one at your reception, the mother-son dance is a sweet moment for the groom to honor and recognize his mom or any mother figure in his life. And let’s be real, mom has probably been looking forward to this moment for a long time.
The mother-son dance typically happens around the time of the father-daughter duet , which is usually after the bride and groom’s first dance. However, you can always switch things up—some couples even use the family dances to transition between different parts of the reception like from cocktail hour to reception or from reception to the opening of the dance floor).
The song for the mother-son dance can be hard to pin down, so consider what artists, genres, or memories are beloved by both mother and son when trying to find the right music. Maybe mom introduced her son to The Beatles; maybe they both love country music?
Although the first dance is usually a slow down-tempo tune, that doesn’t mean the groom has to waltz with his mother. Uptempo mother-son dances are always a crowd-pleaser!
To help you make a decision, we gathered 81 mother-of-the-groom dance songs. From classics to modern hits, these songs span generations, linking mother and son through music for the perfect dance.
Lyrics of Love: “She's our father's one great love/She's the one he wanted most/She's the light in the window of the house I grew up in”
Lyrics of Love: “Momma, hold my hand/I don't think I can cross this road by myself”
Lyrics of Love: “When you’re weary, feeling small/When tears are in your eyes, I will dry them all, all/I’m on your side, oh, when times get rough”
Lyrics of Love: “I may not always love you/But long as there are stars above you/You never need to doubt it/I’ll make you so sure about it”
Lyrics of Love: “So I, try, to understand, what I can’t hold in my hand, and where ever we are/Home is there too”
Lyrics of Love: “I run for the bus, dear/While riding I think of us, dear/I say a little prayer for you”
Lyrics of Love: “You were my strength when I was weak/You were my voice when I couldn't speak/You were my eyes when I couldn't see”
Lyrics of Love: “Lean on me/When you're not strong/And I'll be your friend/I'll help you carry on”
Lyrics of Love : “When everything falls into place like the flick of a switch/Well my mama told me there'll be days like this”
Lyrics of Love: “Mama, how do I write the words to you/You were the only one who loved me true”
Lyrics of Love: “For one so small/You seem so strong/My arms will hold you/Keep you safe and warm/This bond between us/Can’t be broken/I will be here/Don’t you cry”
Lyrics of Love: “And if it's a funny old world, mama, where a little boy's wishes come true/Well I got a few in my pocket and a special one just for you”
Lyrics of Love: “Out on the ocean sailing away/I can hardly wait/To see you to come of age/But I guess we’ll both/Just have to be patient/‘Cause it’s a long way to go”
Lyrics of Love: “I’ll stand by you/I’ll stand by you, won’t let nobody hurt you/I’ll stand by you/Baby, even to your darkest hour, and I’ll never desert you”
Lyrics of Love: “Son in life you’re gonna go far/If you do it right/You’ll love where you are/Just know that wherever you go/You can always come home”
Lyrics of Love: “May good fortune be with you, may your guiding light be strong/Build a stairway to heaven with a prince or a vagabond”
Lyrics of Love : “You are my one, and only/You can wrap your fingers round my thumb and hold me tight”
Lyrics of Love: “I'm sitting here, I'm thinking back/To a time when I was young, my memory is clear as day/I'm listening to the dishes clink/You were downstairs, you would sing songs of praise”
Lyrics of Love: “Oh, mirror in the sky/What is love?/Can the child within my heart rise above?”
Lyrics of Love: “Hey, sweet pea/Apple of my eye/Don't know when, and I don't know why/But you're the only reason I keep on coming home”
Lyrics of Love: “You belong among the wildflowers/You belong in a boat out at sea/You belong with your love on your arm/You belong somewhere you feel free”
Lyrics of Love: “On the day that you were born the angels got together/And decided to create a dream come true/So they sprinkled moon dust in your hair of gold and starlight in your eyes of blue”
Lyrics of Love: “The sweetest devotion/Hitting me like an explosion/All of my life, I've been frozen/The sweetest devotion I've ever known"
Lyrics of Love: “When you grow up, livin’ like a good boy oughta/And your mama, takes a shine to her best son/Something different, all the girls they seem to like you/Cause you’re handsome, like to talk and a whole lot of fun”
Lyrics of Love: “She’s your mother, you love her/There won’t be another/Place like her again that you call home/She stands here to help you/there’s nothing she won’t do”
Lyrics of Love: “I'm five years old/It's getting cold/I've got my big coat on/I hear your laugh/And look up smiling at you/I run and run”
Lyrics of Love: “The one they picks, the one you’ll know by/Don’t you ever ask them why, if they told you, you will cry/So just look at them and sigh/And know they love you”
Lyrics of Love: “I’ll walk the straight and narrow/To reach my goal/God’s gift sent from above/A real unselfish love/I found in my mother’s eyes”
Lyrics of Love: “And you, you’ll be blessed/You’ll have the best/I promise you that/I’ll pick a star from the sky”
Lyrics of Love: “All these places had their moments/With lovers and friends, I still can recall/Some are dead, and some are living/In my life, I’ve loved them all”
Lyrics of Love: “I guess she was tired by the time I came along/She'd laugh until she cried, I could do no wrong/She would always save me because I was her baby”
Lyrics of Love: “I look to you/I look to you/After all my strength is gone/In you I can be strong"
Lyrics of Love: “I wanna be a good man/A 'do like I should' man/I wanna be the kind of man the mirror likes to see/I wanna be a strong man”
Lyrics of Love: “Mama, Mama you know I love you/You know I love you/Mama, Mama you're the queen of my heart”
Lyrics of Love: “And then a hero comes along/With the strength to carry on/And you cast your fears aside/And you know you can survive”
Lyrics of Love: “Mama, don’t you love him so?/Just wanna light the way wherever he goes/And kiss his forehead when he needs to know/He’ll have a home with you/You won’t be alone”
Lyrics of Love: “Oh, my darling, sweet love of mine/I’ll hold you all through the night/I gave you your name; you gave me back my life/You’re the heart of me, oh, sweet love of mine”
Lyrics of Love: “My wish, for you, is that this life becomes all that you want it to/Your dreams stay big, your worries stay small/You never need to carry more than you can hold”
Lyrics of Love: “Tall time to call your Ma/Hey Ma, hey Ma/Tall vote, you know you mope it up/Well, you wanted it your whole life/You're back and forth with light”
Lyrics of Love: “Go to church ’cause your mamma says to/Visit grandpa every chance that you can/It won’t be wasted time/Always stay humble and kind”
Lyrics of Love: “We stood/Steady as the stars in the woods/So happy-hearted/And the warmth rang true inside these bones”
Lyrics of Love: “Wisdom's a gift, but you'd trade it for youth/Age is an honor, it's still not the truth/We saw the stars when they hid from the world”
Lyrics of Love: “Oh, home, let me come home/Home is wherever I'm with you/Oh, home, let me come home/Home is wherever I'm with you”
Lyrics of Love: “And when you cry, I will cry/ And when you smile, I will smile/And next time when I look in your eyes/We'll have wings and we'll fly"
Lyrics of Love: “Oh, how could I dream of/Such a selfless and true love/Could I wash my hands of/Just looking out for me”
Lyrics of Love: “My heart is full/Of endless gratitude/You were the one/The one to guide me through”
Lyrics of Love: “Days go by so quickly/Summer turns to fall/Seems like only yesterday/That you began to crawl/So don't be afraid to take that step/I'll catch you when you fall”
Lyrics of Love: “And when she bows her head to pray/You can bet she's saying one for you/That's what mamas do/They raise you/Ground you build their whole world around you”
Lyrics of Love: “One bright and guiding light/That taught me wrong from right/I found in my mother's eyes”
Lyrics of Love: “His curly hair and his knobby knees/The way the sun brings those freckles out/Talkin’ talk never miss a beat/Yeah he gets that from me/He gets that from me”
Lyrics of Love: “When the night has come/And the land is dark/And the moon is the only light we’ll see/No I won’t be afraid/Oh, I won’t be afraid/Just as long as you stand, stand by me”
Lyrics of Love: “I hear babies cry/I watch them grow/They'll learn much more/Than I'll never know/And I think to myself/What a wonderful world”
Lyrics of Love: “In my dreams, I’ll always see you soar above the sky/In my heart, there will always be a place for you, for all my life/I’ll keep a part of you with me”
Lyrics of Love : “If you’re lost, you can look and you will find me/Time after time/If you fall, I will catch you, I’ll be waiting/Time after time”
Lyrics of Love: “I’ll reach out my hand to you/I’ll have faith in all you do/Just call my name and I’ll be there (I’ll be there)"
Lyrics of Love: “Oh, my mama loves me, she loves me/She get down on her knees and hug me/Oh, she loves me like a rock/She rock me like the rock of ages”
Lyrics of Love: “Although you see the world different than me/Sometimes I can touch upon the wonders that you see/And all the new colors and pictures you've designed/Oh yes, sweet darling, so glad you are a child of mine”
Lyrics of Love: “I look over at their pictures/Sittin' in their frames/I see them as babies/I guess that'll never change/You pray all their lives/That someday they will find happiness”
Lyrics of Love: “You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains/You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas/I am strong, when I am on your shoulders/You raise me up to more than I can be”
Lyrics of Love: “And you, you'll be blessed/You'll have the best, I promise you that/I'll pick a star from the sky/Pull your name from a hat/I promise you that, I promise you that”
Lyrics of Love: “Have I told you lately that I love you/Have I told you there's no one else above you/You fill my heart with gladness/Take away all my sadness/Ease my troubles, that's what you do”
Lyrics of Love: “Unforgettable/That's what you are/Unforgettable/Tho' near or far”
Lyrics of Love: “Did you ever know that you're my hero/And everything I would like to be/I can fly higher than an eagle/For you are the wind beneath my wings"
Lyrics of Love: “Mama's gonna keep baby healthy and clean/Ooh baby, ooh baby, ooh baby/You'll always be baby to me”
Lyrics of Love: “You are still my love and my life/Still my one and only"
Lyrics of Love: “You'll find a woman and you'll find love/And don't forget, son, there is someone up above"
Lyrics of Love: “Mama said there'll be days like this/There'll be days like this, my mama said"
Lyrics of Love: “I'll always love my mama/She's my favorite girl/I'll always love my mama/She brought me in this world"
Lyrics of Love: “She's got a smile that it seems to me/Reminds me of childhood memories/Where everything was as fresh as the bright blue sky"
Lyrics of Love: “Wherever you fly/This isn't goodbye/My love will follow you, stay with you/Baby, you're never alone"
Lyrics of Love: “When mama said that it was okay/Mama said that it was quite alright/Our kind of people had a bed for the night/And it was okay"
Lyrics of Love: “In my darkness I remember/Momma's words reoccur to me/Surrender to the good Lord/And he'll wipe your slate clean"
Lyrics of Love: “You know I love you so, I'll never let you go/I wrote this song just so you know no matter where you go Imma love you"
Lyrics of Love: “Last night I prayed on a fallen star/That you never have a broken heart/Though the world is cold, just remember who you are/And I pray that you never have a rainy day”
Lyrics of Love: “When you were born, the angels sighed in delight/They never thought they'd see such a beautiful sight/You took the breath and the world was right again/Tears were shed, how we had been blessed”
Lyrics of Love: “Close your eyes/Let me tell you all the reasons why/Think you're one of a kind/Here's to you/The one that always pulls us through”
Lyrics of Love: “You can make a grown man cry/If you ever said, ‘Goodbye’/Never let you go, oh, why?”
Lyrics of Love: “You are the sunshine of my life/That's why I'll always stay around/You are the apple of my eye/Forever you'll stay in my heart”
Lyrics of Love: “You got troubles, I've got 'em too/There isn't anything I wouldn't do for you/We stick together and see it through/'Cause you've got a friend in me”
Lyrics of Love: “What's so amazing that keeps us stargazing/And what do we think we might see?/Someday we'll find it, the rainbow connection/The lovers, the dreamers, and me”
Lyrics of Love: “Oh oh oh/When no one else can understand me/When everything I do is wrong/You give me hope and consolation”
Nope! Whatever you're comfortable with on the dance floor is entirely up to you. If you're not super keen on a dance, there are plenty of other ways to honor your mom whether it be writing her a hand-written letter, incorporating her into your thank-you speech, or even inviting her to be a part of your bridal party entrance.
Traditionally, the mother-son dance comes after the couple's first dance and the father-daughter dance. This series of honorable dances typically kicks off the reception after the bridal party entrance commences. But, there are truly no rules, and there are many moments throughout the day that you could have the mother-son dance.
Choosing a song that is meaningful and personal to your relationship is what makes for a good (and memorable) mother-son dance. If the two of you are super goofy and outgoing, opt for an up-beat song that shows off your personalities. Or, pick one that sparks nostalgia and fond memories from childhood.
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