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Avid AfterDarkLA reader Jenn Ramsey (@sextoyjenn) had to offer her two cents, as she and I both know the real way to get into a pornstar's Rolodex. (And possibly between her sheets/legs if you're really good.)
Well boys (ahem — Brennan Foley ), I don't know which porn stars are using you for drugs (at least you're getting laid…I hope), but the ones in my speed dial wouldn't get hot over free coke. They'd give you the cold shoulder or ask if you're a cop.
Here's some real tips to get real hot play from real hot players:
[EDITOR'S NOTE: Um hi, next story assignment.]
Good luck, boys. You too can fuck a porn star…but only if you deserve it. And remember, many of the stars you are trying to bang live very public lives. Fuck them over and they'll fuck you up — via Twitter, blog or even on video.
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What it’s like to date one of the world’s biggest porn stars

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I have met many couples in the adult industry who are in open relationships. For them, making the transference to porn is just a matter of being open and on screen.
But is it possible to be a porn star and still be monogamous?
This is the case for Joanna Angel, an award-winning adult star, director, producer, author and CEO, and her husband Aaron, who is also an award-winning adult star.
That might be a difficult concept to get your head around considering they both get paid to have sex with other people for a living, but this also allows us to see how different sex is on screen.
You will hear people say that porn sex is not real sex. While it does involve two (or more people) engaging in sexual acts, it’s the fact that the intent is not the same as in real life and the intimacy is not there that allows some porn couples to keep their relationships monogamous off set.
Angel and Aaron met six years ago, before he was in the adult industry. Angel had promised herself she would never date another porn performer after a messy breakup, however, dating what she calls a “civilian” (someone outside of the porn industry) also has its challenges around the concept of going to work.
“Aaron and I dated for a good month and I didn’t do any scenes, but then eventually that changed. I would explain to him when I was on set that I’m the director as well, so I don’t have a lot of time to do texting and calling.
“At first he was fine. He was, in fact, a fan. But in the middle of the day, he would sometimes feel like he was going crazy. He was very honest with me when he felt insecure. He didn’t feel like he was as good as the guys on set and it hurt his ego.”
Angel’s marriage with Aaron is monogamous. It’s a decision they made after she struggled with jealousy in a previous relationship.
“Before my relationship with Aaron, I dated another civilian, but I was feeling insecure about my job, so I told him to go and have fun with other girls.
“I thought that’s what I needed to do to make it fair. But I couldn’t handle it, I didn’t want an open relationship, but I felt due to my job I had to.”
She explains she “went insane” after a girl her partner was seeing started posting things on social media, realizing there was a clear difference between his emotional intimacy with her, and the work she was doing.
When Aaron got into the industry — he goes by the stage name “Small Hands” — Angel began to experience what he used to feel.
“I don’t do that many scenes anymore. I do 12-14 scenes a year. And now he does 12-15 scenes a month. The tables have turned, and I feel like I’m the civilian dating someone in the industry.
“We then had to have the same conversations when we were first dating, and I learned that I cannot pretend to be OK with things.”
Angel explains that just because she is also a porn star, it does not mean her husband working in porn always feels OK.
“If I feel uncomfortable I say it. There have been two times with two girls that whatever there was, I felt uncomfortable. It doesn’t happen very often.”
And as if being married in porn wasn’t complex enough, Angel is also sometimes the boss and can put her director’s hat on when it comes to working with her husband. “I direct my husband all the time and it’s not weird at all. It’s probably weird for the other girl. For the next hour, I’m not his wife. For the next hour, I tell them to … give me a good scene. If I sense a girl is holding back because of me I leave the room.”
Professional porn is a controlled environment and it’s that context that allows those in monogamous relationships to be at ease when it comes to their partner doing a scene with another person.
“The controlled environment really changes everything, even if you are having sex with your own husband on set.
“If you are in bed in the morning and you surprise him, that’s spontaneous sex.
“That’s not the way it happens on set. It’s still him but it’s a different version of him. And being a guy in porn, you are an athlete. You have to do something that is not natural.
“You have to be aroused for a long period of time, change angles to allow the right shot for a camera and then ejaculate when you are told to. That is not something any guy can do at home.”
It’s clear monogamy is a complex term. While some might think that not having sex with others is a way to be monogamous, others will be hurt by emotional connections, online flirting or non-physical intimacy with someone outside of a relationship.
Angel and Aaron might be having sex with other people while at “work,” but the sex they choose to freely have at home is different, spontaneous and full of intimacy as well as pleasure. There are no cameras, no characters and no strict start and stop. That is the way they keep their union separate from their roles as adult stars.
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Former "Boy Meets World" star Maitland Ward is opening up about her "authentic journey" into porn.
The actress, who starred on the ABC sitcom as Rachel McGuire from 1998 until 2000, was interviewed by InTouch Weekly ahead of the release of her first adult film, "Drive," and explained that the it was the film's "well-written" script that got her to ultimately make the jump into adult entertainment.
"They asked me to be a part of this, and I thought, ‘I never knew there was anything in adults or porn or whatever that was this well done.’ I read the script, and I was like, ‘This is really, really well-written,'" she explained. "This has so many themes in this and just my character is so different than anything I have portrayed before."
Maitland told InTouch that her transition into pornography "started slowly."
"It all started when I started doing cosplay, which I really genuinely love doing and people started giving me attention for it, and I wore sexy outfits," she revealed. "I have always sort of been an exhibitionist, like always. I love dressing sexy in public and things like that."
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She added that it all happened fairly recently and, while she doesn't think her fans have seen her "like this before," she's exited about the prospect of where this new kind of filmmaking could take her career.
"I started doing this kind of film, professional stuff, not very long ago -- only a couple months ago. I felt ready. It wasn’t like I was saying, ‘Oh, I want to do this all along,’ but it was like, ‘I need to do this.’ I really feel that quality stuff and the hot sex stuff can be together, and I really want that," she explained. "I hope my past and stuff can add any legitimacy to a great project, to get attention or to get people to actually watch and say, ‘Oh yeah, it is really good.'"
"It’s been an evolution. It’s all been my authentic journey because everything that I have done along the way is something I wanted to explore and do, and I just did it publicly for my fans, that is the exhibitionist style of me," she continued. "I wanted to take them along for the journey, and it’s been a really fun, crazy adventure and there is still stuff to explore."
Maitland, whose other projects have included "White Chicks," "The Bold and the Beautiful" and "Boston Public," expressed that she has no qualms or shame about becoming an adult film star, explaining that she has never felt more herself than she does now.
"I kind of don’t give a f—k anymore. I want to be who I am, and I just think as I have matured too, I am who I am," she declared. "I want my cellulite to be sexy. Of course, there are days you don’t want to. I don’t do it every day. If I am feeling like crap, I am not going to go run out in the streets naked, you know?"
Read Maitland Ward's full interview with InTouch Weekly here .

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