Meeting A Pornstar

Meeting A Pornstar
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Avid AfterDarkLA reader Jenn Ramsey (@sextoyjenn) had to offer her two cents, as she and I both know the real way to get into a pornstar's Rolodex. (And possibly between her sheets/legs if you're really good.)
Well boys (ahem — Brennan Foley ), I don't know which porn stars are using you for drugs (at least you're getting laid…I hope), but the ones in my speed dial wouldn't get hot over free coke. They'd give you the cold shoulder or ask if you're a cop.
Here's some real tips to get real hot play from real hot players:
[EDITOR'S NOTE: Um hi, next story assignment.]
Good luck, boys. You too can fuck a porn star…but only if you deserve it. And remember, many of the stars you are trying to bang live very public lives. Fuck them over and they'll fuck you up — via Twitter, blog or even on video.
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Sure, you could meet a porn star, right? After all, they’re just like everyone else. And when they’re not spending LONG, HARD days on set, they’re out doing boring-people things -- like grooming their cat, eating tacos, and casually motorboating. Wait, no. Not like that.
Anyways, because we’re crack investigative journalists and not weird at all, we spent an inordinate amount of time perusing adult stars' Instagram and Twitter accounts to see where people who casually do sex on film for money hang out around LA.
The Abbey, West Hollywood ( address and info ) How we know you might see them there: Two weeks ago, Holly...Would star Kaylani Instagrammed from classic gay bar The Abbey, “Abbey shenanigans w@anniecruz celebrating @jessicadrake birthday”
Roscoe’s House of Chicken and Waffles, Hollywood ( address and info ) How we know you might see her there: Eight weeks ago, this star also known for The Wicked Instagrammed while enjoying delicious breakfast foodstuffs: “When @lindsaybrooke___ texts you for an early breakfast, you say ‘where and what time?!’ And you get your ass up and go #breakfastreunion so good to see you boo”
Rainbow Bar and Grill, West Hollywood ( address and info ) How we know you might see him there: On May 17, this porn legend and connoisseur of the “Ron de Jeremy” rum retweeted Amber Lynn’s tweet (uh, that sounds kinda dirty): “Amber Lynn ‏@XXXAmberLynns May 17 @Rainbowlive w @RealRonJeremy @JeanneSilverxxx @Melissa_Hillxxx @XXXAmberLynns now.”
Hollywood Hookah, Hollywood ( address and info ) How we know you might see her there: Nine weeks ago, the lady who launched her career as a very dirty Denise Huxtable in Not the Cosbys XXX Instagrammed a small novela of a run-on sentence: “These r my best memories being made. Happy Birthday @teannaatrump #BirthdayFun #HollywoodHookah with @chanellxxox #EddieJay #BabyGirlBirthday intimate and small just they way u like it mami with ur luved ones @_chillichills thanks for coming to celebrate #madLuv."
Inyo National Forest, Bishop ( address and info ) How we know you might see him there: The man known for Gangbang Me and Squatter with a trophy case of porn awards, including Unsung Swordsman, Instagrammed a pic of woods (none of which were his) nine weeks ago with, “Going places.”
Disneyland, Anaheim ( address and info ) How we know you might see her there: The brunette star of James Deen Loves Butts 3 Instagrammed 28 weeks ago, “From my Birthday, Monday, at Disneyland!!! @damonjames surprised me with a dress I had my eye on for a while and a special trip to Disneyland with a group of my best friends. I'm so grateful and lucky to have such a thoughtful fiancé who always knows how to put the biggest smile on my face. I love you!”
LA Metro, all over the city ( address and info ) How we know you might see her there: Six weeks ago, Ms. Lily, aka “Officer Cade” (handcuffs and a night stick are DEFINITELY involved) tweeted, “LA Metro realness with @vibezz.”
Wanderlust Creamery, Tarzana ( address and info ) How we know you might see her there: One week ago, this brainy blonde from Dani Daniels Deeper Instagrammed from the Valley location of the mini-chain, “Oh @eatwanderlust how I love you! #MalaysianCoffee #WhiskeyCaramelSauce #UbeCone #WanderlustCreamery #IceCream."
Toca Madera, Mid-Wilshire ( address and info ) How we know you might see her there: Five weeks ago, this AVN Hall of Fame winner who has her own line of sex toys (you’re welcome) Instagrammed from this upscale Mexican restaurant, “Birthday girl @shana_la.”
Bark n’ Bitches, Hollywood ( address and info ) How we know you might see her there: Ten weeks ago, this sultry blonde from Spider-Man XXX: A Porn Parody and Girl Train 3 Instagrammed, “Adopted my new baby from Bark n Bitches in Hollywood! Amazing establishment - everyone meet Lilith."
Kustom Kulture Tattoo, Reseda ( address and info ) How we know you might see her there: Four weeks ago, this feisty frau known for her REALLY BIG *heart* Instagrammed, “Yayyyyy thank you so much@artofmarcoantonio @kustomkulturetattoloving my new tatt!”
Cheesecake Factory, Topanga ( address and info ) How we know you’ll see her there: One thing you didn’t know about The Cheesecake Factory? It’s a favorite of the biker babe from Sleazy Riders , who Instagrammed, “Ok I'll stop for this Beatch! muchos Besos w/@armenian.barbie at the other Cheesecake Factory!"
Runyon Canyon, Hollywood ( address and info ) How we know you might see him there: On October 28th, Lex the Impaler tweeted, “Last night's hike in @RunyonCanyonLA was Great. Especially following @savanastyles through the hills! #RealLife.”

Burbank Animal Shelter, Burbank ( address and info ) How we know you might see her there: Two weeks ago, this Fallen angel who lost her wings because she, um, “got distracted” Instagrammed (and maybe helped you find a new pet): “This is Micky & Mimi, a bonded pair at the Burbank Animal shelter. They're super sweet & housebroken and need kisses & cuddles. Micky (number AO65921) is about 6 years old. Mimi (AO65922) is 9ish. If you want fur babies in your life, don't buy. Adopt. ❤”
Traktir Restaurant, West Hollywood ( address and info ) How we know you’ll see her there: Five weeks ago, this pierced, petite beauty from Black Out 2: Jailed ‘N Nailed Instagrammed, “Was running errands in my old neighborhood today so I stopped at one of my favorite places for lunch! I LOVE Russian food so much that I ate all but half of one of my vareniki before remembering to take a picture ...#russianfood #weho.”
Saddle Ranch, Universal Studios ( address and info ) How we know you might see her there: Just over five months ago, this newly crowned member of CNBC’s 2015 list of porn royalty, "The Dirty Dozen: Porn’s biggest stars," Instagrammed a pic of her riding the mechanical bull like a pro with: “@bfknaniston @randyquintana @worldofagentleman #universalstudios #saddleranch #stella #8secondride."
Sardo’s Bar, Burbank ( address and info ) How we know you might see her there: On October 13th, the karaoke-loving star of Buttman’s Evil Live and several "dude, your mom’s hot" films, tweeted from the legendary porn star karaoke dive bar, “Sing, drink and paaaaaaaarty!!! This is me & Summer.... @SardosBar tonight! 259 N Pass Ave, Burbank, CA.”
Hollywood Bowl, Hollywood ( address and info ) How we know you might see her there: On October 14th, this tatted temptress from Wasteland and My Big Black Stepdad 3 tweeted, “I got gifted tickets for pretty damn good seats for Florence and the Machine this Friday @ the Hollywood Bowl... who wants to be my date?!?!”
Sagebrush Cantina, Calabasas ( address and info ) How we know you might see her there: Three weeks ago, this petite badass who graced Re-Penetrator and Dude, Am I A Slut? Instagrammed from Sagebrush, “Bloody Mary's and laughs with @lilyxlane and @juanito_blanco .#sundayfunday."
Beso, Hollywood ( address and info ) How we know you might see her there: Three days ago, this inked 4Ever fox Instagrammed, “Calm before the storm! Me, my husband@1dennisdesantis and chef Gustavo getting prepared for the baby shower @besowesthollywood ❤ #babyshower #28weeks #babyiscoming."
Pi, West Hollywood ( address and info ) How we know you might see her there: This Ukraine-born beauty from Hocus Pocus XXX (you can guess where they got their magic powers) tweeted on September 3rd, “#Squad @ Pi on Sunset https://instagram.com/p/7MKh23p7Qz/.”
The Grove, Mid-Wilshire ( address and info ) How we know you might see him there: This Football Hero and The Boy Who Cried DILF star Instagrammed recently, “@davidrest89 with @repostapp. … movie time at #thegrove #la #movies.”
Laugh Factory, Hollywood ( address and info ) How we know you might see her there: This blonde bombshell from Big Butts Like It Big 6 Instagrammed a few weeks ago, “At the #thelaughfactoryhere to see Tim Allen hope he doesn't disappoint excited to see him. #fun #laughs #goodtimes.”
Gasolina Café, Woodland Hills ( address and info ) How we know you might see her there: Three weeks ago, this Slumber Party Orgy (we can see why she’d need caffeine) and Teen Dream star Instagrammed, “One amazing #cappuccino @gasolinacafe on #venturablvd #Yum.”
Broad Museum, Downtown LA ( address and info ) How we know you might see her there: Two weeks ago, this foxy former runway model from Swim Meet and My New White Stepdaddy 11 Instagrammed some art criticism from the super-hot new art museum Downtown: “So I went to the#broadmuseum and I want this fella in a keychain.”
Break Room 86, Koreatown ( address and info ) How we know you might see her there: The Urban X Award winner from Rico the Destroyer and host of Vivid Radio’s Dirty/Nerdy Instagrammed from the new-ish '80s-themed bar three weeks ago, “Just hanging out with Michael Jackson. As you do.”
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Joanna Angel with her husband Aaron, aka Small Hands
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I have met many couples in the adult industry who are in open relationships. For them, making the transference to porn is just a matter of being open and on screen.
But is it possible to be a porn star and still be monogamous?
This is the case for Joanna Angel, an award-winning adult star, director, producer, author and CEO, and her husband Aaron, who is also an award-winning adult star.
That might be a difficult concept to get your head around considering they both get paid to have sex with other people for a living, but this also allows us to see how different sex is on screen.
You will hear people say that porn sex is not real sex. While it does involve two (or more people) engaging in sexual acts, it’s the fact that the intent is not the same as in real life and the intimacy is not there that allows some porn couples to keep their relationships monogamous off set.
Angel and Aaron met six years ago, before he was in the adult industry. Angel had promised herself she would never date another porn performer after a messy breakup, however, dating what she calls a “civilian” (someone outside of the porn industry) also has its challenges around the concept of going to work.
“Aaron and I dated for a good month and I didn’t do any scenes, but then eventually that changed. I would explain to him when I was on set that I’m the director as well, so I don’t have a lot of time to do texting and calling.
“At first he was fine. He was, in fact, a fan. But in the middle of the day, he would sometimes feel like he was going crazy. He was very honest with me when he felt insecure. He didn’t feel like he was as good as the guys on set and it hurt his ego.”
Angel’s marriage with Aaron is monogamous. It’s a decision they made after she struggled with jealousy in a previous relationship.
“Before my relationship with Aaron, I dated another civilian, but I was feeling insecure about my job, so I told him to go and have fun with other girls.
“I thought that’s what I needed to do to make it fair. But I couldn’t handle it, I didn’t want an open relationship, but I felt due to my job I had to.”
She explains she “went insane” after a girl her partner was seeing started posting things on social media, realizing there was a clear difference between his emotional intimacy with her, and the work she was doing.
When Aaron got into the industry — he goes by the stage name “Small Hands” — Angel began to experience what he used to feel.
“I don’t do that many scenes anymore. I do 12-14 scenes a year. And now he does 12-15 scenes a month. The tables have turned, and I feel like I’m the civilian dating someone in the industry.
“We then had to have the same conversations when we were first dating, and I learned that I cannot pretend to be OK with things.”
Angel explains that just because she is also a porn star, it does not mean her husband working in porn always feels OK.
“If I feel uncomfortable I say it. There have been two times with two girls that whatever there was, I felt uncomfortable. It doesn’t happen very often.”
And as if being married in porn wasn’t complex enough, Angel is also sometimes the boss and can put her director’s hat on when it comes to working with her husband. “I direct my husband all the time and it’s not weird at all. It’s probably weird for the other girl. For the next hour, I’m not his wife. For the next hour, I tell them to … give me a good scene. If I sense a girl is holding back because of me I leave the room.”
Professional porn is a controlled environment and it’s that context that allows those in monogamous relationships to be at ease when it comes to their partner doing a scene with another person.
“The controlled environment really changes everything, even if you are having sex with your own husband on set.
“If you are in bed in the morning and you surprise him, that’s spontaneous sex.
“That’s not the way it happens on set. It’s still him but it’s a different version of him. And being a guy in porn, you are an athlete. You have to do something that is not natural.
“You have to be aroused for a long period of time, change angles to allow the right shot for a camera and then ejaculate when you are told to. That is not something any guy can do at home.”
It’s clear monogamy is a complex term. While some might think that not having sex with others is a way to be monogamous, others will be hurt by emotional connections, online flirting or non-physical intimacy with someone outside of a relationship.
Angel and Aaron might be having sex with other people while at “work,” but the sex they choose to freely have at home is different, spontaneous and full of intimacy as well as pleasure. There are no cameras, no characters and no strict start and stop. That is the way they keep their union separate from their roles as adult stars.

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