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13 Types Of Lesbians You're Most Likely To Meet IRL
By Rebecca Jane Stokes — Written on Apr 15, 2021
Even if you aren't a lesbian you've probably heard people use descriptors like "power lesbian" or "baby dyke."
Sure, you might have an inkling of what each word means, but when taken as a whole you have no clue what those in question are talking about.
Plus, as a straight person , it's really disrespectful to start using words like this at all, let alone with no understanding of what you're actually saying.
Remember, this list is a broad generalization. Every person is different, we can't (and shouldn't) put everyone in an easy-to-understand box . This is more of a fun and sort of silly way in which lesbians refer to one another than some actual, real-life categorization system.
If you don't know how to identify a person, talk to that person and find out what they are the most comfortable with. And know that every person is more than just a label.
The activist lesbian is characterized by her passion for social justice especially as it pertains to being a lesbian.
Butch, femme, young, and old, the activist lesbian can look like any other type of lesbian you might meet. She's inspirational, passionate, and a lover of justice.
A lipstick lesbian, or femme lesbian, loves to dress in a highly feminized or "girly" manner. She is the kind of lesbian that wears skirts, dresses, jewelry, lipstick, elaborate blowouts, and more because these ladies go all out. You can find them lurking in Sephora or shopping up at a store.
The chapstick lesbian is the dividing line between a lipstick lesbian and a butch lesbian.
While butch lesbians revel in looking masculine and lipstick lesbians like looking ultra-girly, a chapstick lesbian (also known as soft butch) can go either way. She likes dressing up, but she's equally happy in jeans and button-down.
The butch lesbian presents herself as tough, make-up free and masculine to one degree or another. This doesn't mean she's trying to look like a man, she's just subverting your idea of what a woman should look like and looking hot as hell in the process.
Stone butch lesbian is a butch lesbian (see above) who derives sexual pleasure from giving other women pleasure. She is a giver — not a receiver — so do not under any circumstances get that noise twisted, my friends.
There are bois in the gay community and the lesbian community. In the lesbian community, the boi lesbian is biologically female but presents as looking boyish. Bois tend to date older partners.
The power lesbian is a lesbian with her life together! She's the leader in her field, the top of the top. She's the best surgeon, the best lawyer, the most influential policymaker. She's all about taking on that head honcho role and crushing it. Think Tabitha Coffey.
A "hasbian" is a woman who once identified as a lesbian but now dates men and doesn't identify themselves as being straight or bi . They were a lesbian, now they are dating a man, and who knows what the future might hold.
LUG stands for "lesbian until graduation." This is the undergraduate lesbian-curious girl , who is finally exploring her sexuality and discovering that she is attracted to women. It could be a phase, but that's up to them.
The sport dyke isn't characterized so much as being attracted to other women as much as she is obsessed with her sport of choice. Not all lesbians are sport dykes, but all sport dykes are definitely lesbians.
The baby dyke lesbian is a fond title given to a woman who has just come out of the closet and started becoming a part of the lesbian community. She could be femme, butch, chapstick, or anything else, but for now, she is characterized by her newness to the scene.
The femme lesbian is a title for the lesbian who identifies as a woman and falls into the traditionally feminine mannerisms and style. Femme lesbians are sometimes mistaken for straight as they are very feminine and like to dress up and wear makeup and look like a straight girl, however, therefore sometimes they feel like they have to prove their gayness.
The stud lesbian is a butch woman or a non-binary person who is of Black or LatinX descent. Only Black and LatinX women or non-binary people can use this lesbian term as it's a part of their community and not to be mistaken or meant to be seen as a stud if someone is butch. A stud and butch lesbians are two different types of lesbians and not all butch Black people are studs.
Rebecca Jane Stokes is a writer living in Brooklyn, New York with her cat, Batman. She's an experienced generalist with a passion for lifestyle, geek news, pop culture, and true crime.
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You realize I am saying this as a gay man. But some Lesbians are really mean. Not half. Not all. But a good percentage of them I would say.
Just to give one example (and I’ve seen many), we had this gym teacher in Catholic grade school, Miss C. And she was an obvious Lesbian. Anyway, we were outside, walking to the monastery field to do something. And this boy (let’s call him R) kept spitting every couple of feet. Finally Miss C apparently had enough. So she stopped the group, and she told him, you spit one more time, and I’m rubbing your face in it. She was going to rub his face in it? That’s not very ladylike.
(Yeah, I was mortified when I first heard it. But looking back now, it would’ve been kind of funny to actually see her do it. I never saw her really go through on one of her threats [and there were many ]. I digress.)
I mean what is it? Hormonal? Cultural? Pathological? And why are gay men just the opposite (ditto on the aforementioned three points)? You realize that the recent scandal with Ellen DeGeneres (whether deserved or not) is partly what inspired this thread.
Why are car salesmen so mean? When I was in junior high, I was bullied by two different kids, and weirdly they both went out to be car salesmen. Plus, have you seen the way they act at dealerships when you don’t buy at the price they want?
Is it cultural? Hormonal? Societal? Someone help me here.
I’ve known some pretty mean invigilators, myself.
I knew a cis-gendered heterosexual who was mean once. Kinda makes you wonder, don’t it?
And why are gay men just the opposite
What an absolutely bizarre thread. You can’t possibly think that there are no mean gay men. Have you never met another gay man in your life? Some of every single group on the planet are “mean.” (I’m sure you could find some mean Quakers if you looked.)
Is this meant to be a “joke”? A “good percentage” of lesbians are mean, and your old gym teacher made an unladylike threat? I feel I should not take the bait, but I also don’t think this thread should remain here.
Because, like it or not, it sells cars. Being pushy is what moves big ticket items (with people that don’t buy big ticket items on a regular basis).
Also, on the assumption that selling cars (new or used) involves some behind the scenes trickery/dishonestly, people that are willing to use those tactics might also be the same people that don’t have an issue treating others like dirt.
I lived in a relatively lesbian suburb, close to a clearly lesbian bar that was eventually closed down/ lost their licence after too many fights / too many police callouts. Observing the interaction, I formed the opinion that butch lesbians were mean for the same reason some men are: treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen. They bullied their women. And their women were mean for the same reason some women are: lacking physical strength they exercised power by words.
Jim B., your threads never cease to make me shake my head in disbelief.
I am not LGBT, but it seems being lesbian means the social hardship of being homosexual, plus the inherent disadvantages of being a woman (catcalling, etc). So, a double whammy. That quite understandably turns some into men-haters, or just angry in general.
Jim B., your threads never cease to make me shake my head in disbelief.
And why do some gay men start such incredibly stupid threads?
Stereotyping based on gender identity is not cool either.
I have an image in my head of a lot of lesbians being very anti-male but I’ve found anecdotally at least it doesn’t hold up.
I worked with two women who were lesbians and they were both very sweet and helpful to me when I was the new employee.
I also took a college class a couple years ago and it was a very small class. There was a lesbian in the class that sort of seemed the quintessential lesbian. She had to be about 6’ 300 pounds, short hair, tattoos, and she didn’t look particularly friendly.
I needed to study for an exam once and I found that it was just the two of us in there. She ended up breaking the silence and we ended up talking for about an hour. Even about what kinds of women we found attractive. Honestly talking to her was like talking with “one of the guys”.
I’ve met a number of lesbians, but none whom I’d classify as mean. Most were (and are) very pleasant people.
You realize I am saying this as a gay man.
Do you feel that makes the assumptions and inferences built into your post okay?
I think the question ultimately boils down to: Are some lesbians so mean because they’re lesbians?
I don’t know. To believe that without any evidence would be a prejudiced attitude.
So the answer is maybe, maybe not, definitely not, etc.
Humans are mean because we’re an aggressive species. It may be one of the traits that have ensured our survival.
So, if you come across with mean folks, you can account for those people’s meanness by referring to their humanity.
Pretty paradoxical, isn’t it?
As I already said, my thread was meant from the inside looking out, i.e., as a member of the group. So I think I deserve a little slack.
No, I am not trolling. My thread is kind of tongue-in-cheek too. Maybe I didn’t make that clear.
And I think I posted some pretty good threads in the past. No one has complained yet.
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