Mature Transexual

Mature Transexual
Family is a hurdle for both younger and older transitioner. Yes, family planning may be behind me, which is a relief, but reinventing myself within my wider family unit – who knew me long before I transitioned – is not without its challenges. Decisions around who to tell and how to tell them, to whether I should bother at all, have kept me awake at night. I don’t suppose this is any easier for younger transitioners, but with their lives ahead of them, perhaps it is easier for those with more progressive families to be accepted and maybe even embraced for who they are.
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by GenderGP | Mar 5, 2020 | Trans Woman
My name is Sammi, and I’m an older, more mature trans woman than you usually see with a story.
Are you starting your MTF transition after 30? Are you starting your MTF Transition after 50? Perhaps you’re even transitioning as an AMAB person after 70.
*Please note: We use terminology like AMAB (assigned male at birth), MtF (male-to-female), and trans-feminine interchangeably for understanding across all age groups, cultures, genders, and identities. For more information. check out our glossary of terms .
I was recently sitting around a table at work with two colleagues when a young student looked over at us and said
Wow, do you know that in a few years your combined age will be 200?
He was a little out; our combined age is currently 184, but still… Naturally, we smiled and swiftly changed the subject.
This incident got me thinking about age and how different life would have been, had I been able to transition when I was young.
Of course, growing up in the 1960s, this would not have been possible. Today, despite the struggles to improve healthcare for young trans people, there is at least a level of awareness that means they are able to address their situation, talk about it and with a lot of understanding and help, live authentically. We can only imagine transitioning from male to female after 50 might be daunting but it is getting easier.
Something of which I could have only dreamed.
The struggles faced by younger people are entirely different to those faced by those who transition later in life . The hurdles they have to jump through to prove that they are of sound mind, the barriers which are put in place to delay access to treatment ‘just in case’, do not affect me. As a grown-up, I am free to choose my own path, it is generally accepted that I know my own mind and that if I say I am trans, then I am. So does that mean we have an easier ride?
Transitioning in older age is far from easy; from the baggage that comes with life already half-lived, to navigating existing relationships. Sadly, I see too many relationships fail when a long-term partner comes out as trans. I am lucky, I am married to a woman who sees me for who I am deep down and not my outward appearance. Despite my happy situation, I am in the minority.
Of course, those with a long-term partner don’t have to go down the dating route that younger people have to, so perhaps that’s one positive to transitioning in older age. I shudder at the thought of some of my older friends who now find themselves back in the dating game and dealing with the transition at the same time – double whammy.
I love seeing before and after transition photos of the young. Seeing an unhappy teen transform into a radiant man or woman is truly inspirational. I never thought I’d even see myself as a trans woman, or even an older, more mature trans woman. I recently saw a video of a man going out topless for the first time at the park, after top surgery. He was so happy I almost cried for him. Sadly, the reality for the older body is somewhat different.
No amount of hormones or exercise will ever get my body into the shape I have always dreamed have always of. Only major surgery would ever get me to post a public before and after photo unless it’s for one of those “failure” videos on YouTube. But I guess that has nothing to do with transitioning and everything to do with gravity and the ravages of time!
Of course, I am not that shallow, and looks aren’t everything; emotional wellbeing is paramount. I try and keep track of how I am feeling and how it relates to my hormone levels. Usually though, at some point, I burst into tears and eat cake or my favourite chocolate-covered coffee beans.
One of the biggest hurdles facing the older transitioner is one of style. When you are young there is an expectation that you will try out clothing, make-up, and hair and that you will have some failures. Nobody really cares if a younger person’s sense of style is not perfect – we put it down to “being young”. Just think back to what you wore as a teenager – e.g. Bay City Rollers (look it up if you are not of my generation).
When you are older, however, there is an expectation to have the right look straight out of the box. Well of course this does not happen. In the space of the last year, since getting serious about transitioning, I have gone through many styles, all the way from slutty to frumpy, to what I hope is now “classical”. My makeup which started off like Polyfilla has gradually reduced to what I hope is a more subtle look. Another win for youth.
As for hair removal, I shave, epilate and IPL and still some of it is there. The next step is electrolysis if I can find the time. And don’t get me started on my head hair… All of this could have been avoided if I had been able to have had hormone treatment pre-puberty. The problem was that when I grew up I had no idea what a trans person really was, all I knew was that I was different. Times have thankfully moved on. This makes it easier for the older, more mature trans women like me.
In case it isn’t apparent, in truth, I am somewhat envious of those who have their lives ahead of them, who might be lucky enough to come from a supportive family, who might get access to the hormones they need in time to be able to live their lives authentically from the start, without having to pretend. I know it is a difficult journey for anyone to have to make but I can’t help but think what life would have been like for me, had I been able to live as I had wanted.
Going through puberty for the second time is no fun at all. I didn’t really suffer much the first time around – sometimes I think because my body kind of gave up and realised turning me into a “real man” was pointless. I never had acne and never got a lot of body hair. But this time, I think I am being made to suffer unnecessarily – which does give me some sympathy for those approaching puberty for the first time (a win for the older, more mature trans women!).
With all these roadblocks one may wonder why any of us older transitioners bother. Surely it’s too late? Why don’t we just accept our fate and live in the body we were assigned at birth? We got this far…
I can only say why I continue to transition as a rather mature trans woman. For me it’s simple; I have no choice. It’s not to improve my lifestyle, to try something new or even to try being a woman. I am and always have been me, Samantha Jane, the woman in the picture. It’s just that now you can actually meet her in person – I just wish you could have done so a long time ago.
Sammi Smith, is a scientist and GenderGP community member.

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video clip wearing my short black satin slip
a quick drink before setting off for a day out in richmond, south london, with denise.
am gradually switching from the allure of pleated and swishy to tight and clingy.
CandyGirls.... from l to r... Kat, Toyah, Paula and moi...
they say never judge a book by its cover; well this shot was inspired by the cover of the book: 'she isnt the man i married'.
naturally helps to broaden my grin.
another uniform from my fairy godmother, the ever generous josie. guess what its made from!?
virtually the only place that the filthy habit is allowed nowadays.
the obligatory view from the bottom of the stairs.
The one who's standing right in front of me
I should have listened to that voice inside me
I must be stupid, must be crazy, must be out of my mind
To say the kind of things I said last night
You don't have to tell me who's the biggest fool of all
Mirror mirror I wish you could lie to me
And bring my baby back, bring my baby back to me
.........but I have met many human beings who talked like asses
... it wastes your time and annoys the pig.....
Macavity's a Mystery Cat: he's called the Hidden Paw--
For he's the master criminal who can defy the Law.
He's the bafflement of Scotland Yard, the Flying Squad's despair:
For when they reach the scene of crime--Macavity's not there!
Macavity, Macavity, there's no one like Macavity,
He's broken every human law, he breaks the law of gravity.
His powers of levitation would make a fakir stare,
And when you reach the scene of crime--Macavity's not there!
You may seek him in the basement, you may look up in the air--
But I tell you once and once again, Macavity's not there!
Macavity's a ginger cat, he's very tall and thin;
You would know him if you saw him, for his eyes are sunken in.
His brow is deeply lined with thought, his head is highly domed;
His coat is dusty from neglect, his whiskers are uncombed.
He sways his head from side to side, with movements like a snake;
And when you think he's half asleep, he's always wide awake.
Photo taken by Maria, makeover by Claire of AMC www.tvamc.tv/HOME.HTML
RUFI en el programa de BILBOVISION : BILBAO LA NUIT junto a TXETXU UGALDE y MILITA BENGOETXEA
la RUFI en DIRECTO en INTERNET desde cualquier parte del MUNDO
La RUFI se puede ver en DIRECTO desde cualquier parte del MUNDO !!!!
Si, la RUFI, el personaje que hago en la cadena LOCAL BILBOVISION, se puede ver en directo desde cualquier parte del MUNDO por INTERNET,….os explico:
El programa es en directo todos los MARTES, MIERCOLES y JUEVES, la hora del programa es de 21:30 a 23:30 hora local: BILBAO …….asi que haciendo calculos
En SANTIAGO DE CHILE el programa lo podeis ver en directo en INTERNET a las:
En SANTIAGO DE CHILE: …………17:30 a 19:30
En BUENOS AIRES : ………………..18:30 a 20:30
En CARACAS : ………………………16:00 a 18:00
En MEXICO : …………………………14:30 a 16:30
En LIMA : ……………………………..15:30 a 17:30
En CAMBERRA :……………………...07:30 a 09:30
En HELSINKI : ………………………..22:30 a 00:30
En TOKYO : ……………………………05:30 a 07:30
¿ que como se hace ¿, muy sencillo,teneis que ir al siguiente link:
una vez ahí teneis que buscar o bien la EMISIÓN en DIRECTO o DIFERIDO del programa en el que trabajo: BILBAO LA NUIT y los dias en los que trabajo, que son los MARTES, MIERCOLES y JUEVES…..
si estais viendo en el momento en el que el programa sea en directo se vera la emision en esos momentos, pero sino podeis ir a DIFERIDO y buscar los programas ya emitidos de BILBAO LA NUIT tanto en MARTES, MIERCOLES o VIERNES…..
espero que lo veais, y si quereis os saludo desde el programa…..
You can do what you want just seize the day
What you're doing tomorrow's gonna come your way
Photo, makeup and styling by Kelayla.
Roll me over, lay me down, and do it again.
This week my enthusiasm to dress as a woman has taken a hold. I explained a few days ago I am not in a position to cross-dress for health reasons but the desire has certainly returned despite this. The very lovely Pamela Lennon has encouraged me to continue posting pictures from my archives and I’m grateful to her for suggesting this. Archives are all I have just now so brace yourself for a mixed bag of Helene in various attempts to look like a woman or click away now!
I find when I dress as Helene I feel more outgoing and generally just a lot nicer than I do as a man and as I’ve often mentioned in the past, I would love to have been a transvestite actor such as Christopher Morley and Michael Andrews in the 1970s and 1980s. They were pretty daring and ground breaking back then and as a young man desperate to appear as a girl i was captivated by the way they looked feminine and gorgeous and only the (inevitable) reveal showed they were actually men. They were superb at portraying characters as convincing females.
So…from my archives is a video I recorded late one evening back in July 2013 in which I walked on to the set in full make-up, wig, shaved legs and high heels and dared myself to speak to the camera on thoughts I would never express as a man. I’ll be honest, this is highly self indulgent but I was having fun. Yes…fun! I loved doing it and could not believe I said some of things out loud..about men of course as after all I was trying to be a girl…it was just fun…
On a visit to a small town called Strangnas (Strängnäs)
Man who run through airport turnstile backward, going to Bangkok.
I have not brought my specs with me,
I am well excited!! Hubby has arranged a date for me with a really lovely man called Leopold even though he is in Singapore on business. Hubby just loves me being an escort for his friends and I am just about to set off to meet him. He loves women in leather and very short minis so this girl has to oblige doesn't she?!! 😛
Marcela Cross - Mature Transvestite
Roll me over, lay me down, and do it again
Posing for hubby and showing what his friends and my escort clients are missing at the moment! 😊
Yes, I know that this gorgeous Frank Usher dress already features in some of my other pictures but I just adore it! I feel so totally feminine when I'm wearing it.
Sometimes I like casual. Sometimes I like chic. But there are times when too much make-up, huge hair and not enough clothes are ....well - kind of the point...... Please favourite this pic if you agreee... ( and thank you Robert for the lovely party .. )

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