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Mature Gagging
Gagging for it: Sexually Active Women after 70 – Corinne Sweet – Guardian Women
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“I didn’t have an orgasm until I was 54” , admits Zena Zulman, a glamourous 74 year-old candidly , “but I now can’t have enough. I’d have sex everyday if I could, but Alan cuts it down to three or four times a week”. Alan, a dapper and strikingly fit 69 year-old, and Zena’s second husband, (my “toy-boy” ), nods and smiles in agreement as she continues: “I’d love to have sex all the time as I have multiple orgasms these days. I tell you, it’s an absolute revelation and joy”.
We are sitting in the Zulman’s South Kensington miniscule, but elegant apartment which is their London pied-a-terre . Zena’s in leopard skin leggings and a white t-shirt, with long blonde plaits and bright red lipstick. Alan is dressed in black, and has a healthy, windswept complexion. They also have a cottage in Wiveliscombe in Somerset, but both lived in Johannesburg, South Africa, during their first marriages. Zena’s life story reads like a Jewish Catherine Cookson novel, with her grandparents escaping the pogroms in Russia only to die on arrival in Britain, her mother being a Tiller girl; her own claim to fame being a journalist, PR guru and agony aunt in South Africa at a time when women were supposed to be either purely decorative or slaving over the kitchen sink.
Like many women of her generation, she married for security, rather than love, and had sex for reproduction, rather than pleasure. “I was afraid of sex”, Zena claims, “but was having sex morning noon and night to have children. It was a nightmare as I didn’t enjoy it at all”. She had eight miscarriages and a gynaecological operation, where she had an ovary removed without being told. Zena was about to leave her husband Bernie, a successful South African businessman, with whom she was deeply disenchanted, when she fell pregnant. Dutifully, Zena stayed and produced four children, now ranging from 51 to 46.
Zena and Alan had been acquainted in South Africa as he was a business associate of her husband ( “I was a young whippersnapper” ) . At 50, Alan threw his successful clothing business and marriage to the winds, when he discovered his wife was having an affair with his business partner. He also had three children, now fully grown. Post-divorce, Zena and Alan became firm friends, travelled the world and fell deeply in love. They started a new life together in Somerset and are now inseparable.
“ We only started our sexual relationship once we were married, ” explains Zena, “ I wasn’t in any hurry as sex had been miserable before, but sex with love, and with Alan, well, it was an utter revelation ”. Today, Zena (who knows Dr Ruth) admits “ I drive him up the bloody wall. I get turned out just looking at him, I get wet just seeing him in the nude – but it’s not just sex, you have to have love ”. Zena and Alan are clearly besotted with each other and she says, “ I know my body’s not what it was, but you know, once we’re in bed, we’re at it. All cats are grey in the dark, you know ”.
If these words were uttered by a twenty, thirty, even forty year-old woman, we wouldn’t blench. But seventy plus? We’re totally amazed, perhaps a little disgusted? “There are many taboos about older women and sex, ” explains Susan Pacey, a psychosexual psychotherapist with the British Association for Sexual and Relationship Therapy. “ Not only is it generally less fine for older women to be as sexually active as men, in society’s terms, but it’s also difficult for younger people to imagine the elderly having intercourse ”.
Yet, they do. Indeed, studies show that 40% of 70-year-olds are sexually active. According to Clinical Psychologist, Paul Whitby, of Victoria Hospital, Swindon, “anthropologists have found it’s a biological conundrum that humans have sex after reproduction has finished. Just why is far from clear, except that it’s fun, and also that it helps mates stay together over a lifetime”.
Even though older men report slightly more sexual activity than older women, their sexual prowess tends to depend on things, such as health, weight, fitness, even economic security and, of course, a close relationship. “ We shouldn’t forget that there’s a large group of sexually active old ladies enthusiastically having sex, ” says Paul Whitby, “ In fact, many older women experience a release and become more sexually aggressive, once their reproductive years have passed ”.
Partly this is down to an increase in testosterone in older women, and partly it can be due to a renewed interest in sex, once the menopause is over. “The menopausal years can be difficult sexually for many, but not all, women,” explains Susan Pacey. “Sexual response may decline, especially due to lower oestrogen levels, depression, and use of prescription drugs, poor health or ill health or death of a partner or even sexual boredom”. However, Pacey says she has seen women who, even with cancer, still have a good sex life, post-menopause.
A lot seems to come down to your own sexual character. Research shows that people who have been sexually active in their youth seems to be more sexually active later in life, even into old age. The maxim is “use it, or lose it” . However, there is also society’s expectation of older, or even aged, women to be docilely rocking in their chairs, rather than getting their rocks off with a toy-boy or two. “Self-image and self-esteem play an important part in keeping women alive sexually,” says Susan Pacey. A liberated attitude is also important, “quite frankly, there are many women who think, post-menopause and post-mid-life, ‘right, I’ve spent my life bringing up kids, being a good wife, doing housework and working, so, now I can be who I want to be, and can have a little fun”.
This is certainly true of Andrea, 72 (not her real name), who lives in a council flat in South London. Andrea’s husband, Tony, an ex-builder, died of a heart attack five years ago at 66. Andrea looks sixtyish, is agile and fit, with soft skin and bright eyes, although her permed grey curls and grey two-piece, makes her belong to the older generation.
“The first two years after his death I thought, ‘Well, that’s it; I’ll be alone for the rest of my life now’”. Deeply grief stricken, Andrea cried her way through the first year, but with the help of her two children, now in their late forties, she began to build a new life. “I began to feel something was missing,” admits Andrea, “and although I was going to bingo and my social club, I really missed being with a man”.
It was Andrea’s daughter who suggested she log on to a chat room. With help, Andrea used her daughter’s computer to start chatting, and then, dating, men she met on the net. “My daughter didn’t mind me chatting to men as she could tell it was cheering me up. We’d have a giggle over a cuppa about it all”. But when Andrea actually arranged to meet one of the men, she intuitively decided not to tell her daughter, who is still ignorant of her mother’s raunchy antics.
“He was a nice, divorced 55 year-old,” Andrea explains, “And after a cup of tea and a biscuit and a bit of small talk, sitting on my sofa, we were suddenly kissing. I hadn’t spooned for years. Then we had sex. It was absolutely amazing and I enjoyed every minute of it”. Andrea reveals her “toy-boy”, as she calls him, still visits her once a month for friendly sex after tea and talk. “We’ve done it on the kitchen table, in the bath, on the floor, on the stairs. I never did this kind of thing with Toby, but it’s been utterly wonderful”.
Andrea is adamant that she doesn’t want a relationship and feels no guilt at all. “ I’m so happy I don’t have to cook or clean for him,” she says with a grin, “I’m having lots of fun without all the housework. I feel seventeen rather than 70” .
Relationship psychologist, Susan Quilliam, is not surprised by Andrea’s attitude and sexual antics. “ Women are told they dry up at the menopause and that they’re sexually dead from then on. Not so. The drying up lobby is the result of social conditioning. Women can take natural oestrogen or lubricate themselves and carry on carrying on. It’s a matter of confidence. I’ve known quite a few older women who are literally gagging for it and puzzling out how to get it”.
Presumably, we think it’s OK for ageing Lotharios, like Jack Nicholson and Peter Stringfellow, to get their legs over their respective bimbos. But we still balk at the likes of Joan Collins, “gagging for it” and getting her legs under (or over) with her young Percy. Perhaps it’s time to rethink these staid stereotypes and instead of relegating older women to the sexual scrapheap, look forward to libidinously disgraceful old age. Maybe vibrators and pension books are not a world apart after all?
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Hello everyone, as I am sure it's not a shock to some people here, I have a thing for Mom/Milf bondage and so on, I have for many years although I can't say for sure when that began. Just something about a pretty Mom bound and gagged and helpless is such a thrill to me and is often on my mind when I have bondage on the mind. So, when I found out my own had her own experience I was VERY intrigued, needles to say. Mom was bound and gagged by her sister. Here's what happened based on what I was told.
A few summers ago Mom went to Florida to visit my aunt for about a week, I didn't go because of work, but I didn't really care at the time. I don't know which night is was but apparently their plan was to go out drinking or something but there was a bad rain storm so they staid in and drank instead. Both of them act pretty bubbly and "goofy" when their tipsy so I guess at some point they started roughhousing and my Aunt grabbed a roll of duct tape and pounced on my Mom. She taped up her ankles and hands, and then her mouth. She was left like that for about 30 minutes ish and my Aunt just gawked at her and teased/tickled her a bit. After awhile she let her go and that was about the end of it. They just kinda hung out for the rest of the night, without incident.
When Mom got back and she told me what happened I was speechless. As far as I know she doesn't know about this side of me and it was stuck in my head for ages after the fact, it was a wild story to hear from her. I was SOO curious and wanted to go deeper but was too chicken because I didn't want her to know. What was really interesting to me was the fact that didn't seem angry about it at all, even after it initially happened. She didn't seem excited when she told me either, but still. I asked if it made her mad and she just kinda shrugged and said, "no not really". Of all the bondage fantasies I've had, the fact that my Mom was bound and gagged has always staid with me since then, and my imagination and internal questions took off. Why did my Aunt do that? Why was Mom tied for that long? Why was she not mad and what does that mean? What would have happened if someone saw or came over? I know it could sound like a lot for a brain but it does make me VERY curious. What do you all think. (I posted this on the old profile and loved chatting with people about it)
So you like bound and gagged matures, what about killing them after they have been well and truly used and abused???
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I really like giving him head because it's really his favorite and I can get creative and make him practically scream. But this taste thing means he only gets it maybe once a month because it's truly a labor of love. We have tried putting flavoring on (chocolate, etc), and that helps somewhat, but it's not always practical to have that stuff on hand. Is there something he can eat/take that will improve the flavor? Or any tips/tricks for not gagging? It really is the flavor and not how deep in my mouth—I used to go deeper than I do now, exactly for this reason.
Men tend to produce less ejaculate as they age, ANB, and ejaculate isn't produced in the balls. Sperm cells, which are produced in the balls, only account for a tiny percentage of a man's total ejaculate—and sperm isn't a sweetener, ANB, so removing sperm from the mix (by getting a vasectomy) won't impact taste much.
So what's in his jizz then? Take it away, Encyclopedia Britannica ...
In the sexually mature human male, sperm cells are produced by the testes (singular, testis); they constitute only about 2 to 5 percent of the total semen volume. As sperm travel through the male reproductive tract, they are bathed in fluids produced and secreted by the various tubules and glands of the reproductive system. After emerging from the testes, sperm are stored in the epididymis, in which secretions of potassium, sodium, and glycerylphosphorylcholine (an energy source for sperm) are contributed to the sperm cells. Sperm mature in the epididymis. They then pass through a long tube, called the ductus deferens, or vas deferens, to another storage area, the ampulla. The ampulla secretes a yellowish fluid, ergothioneine, a substance that reduces (removes oxygen from) chemical compounds, and the ampulla also secretes fructose, a sugar that nourishes the sperm. During the process of ejaculation, liquids from the prostate gland and seminal vesicles are added, which help dilute the concentration of sperm and provide a suitable environment for them. Fluids contributed by the seminal vesicles are approximately 60 percent of the total semen volume; these fluids contain fructose, amino acids, citric acid, phosphorus, potassium, and hormones known as prostaglandins. The prostate gland contributes about 30 percent of the seminal fluid; the constituents of its secretions are mainly citric acid, acid phosphatase, calcium, sodium, zinc, potassium, protein-splitting enzymes, and fibrolysin (an enzyme that reduces blood and tissue fibres). A small amount of fluid is secreted by the bulbourethral and urethral glands; this is a thick, clear, lubricating protein commonly known as mucus.
Anyway, ANB, the older a man gets, the less of all of that—the less fructose (a sweetener!), amino acids, citric acid, phosphorus, potassium, sodium, glycerylphosphorylcholine, and that "thick, clear, lubricating protein commonly known as mucus," etc.—he produces. Consequently, your husband's ejaculate is more concentrated these days than it was when you first started blowing him 25 years ago, ANB, something that could impact taste and " mouthfeel ," as they say in junk food R&D.
So what can you do? Well, you don't have to keep swallowing. As I've said long said ....
Swallowing is extra credit. It's not a course requirement. I say this as someone who gives and receives blowjobs: If someone sucks your dick until you come, you got your damn blowjob. What a blower does with the blowee's come after the blowjob is over—spit, swallow, spread it on toast—is the blower's call to make.
If given a choice between fewer blowjobs with swallowing or more blowjobs without swallowing, ANB, I imagine your husband would opt for the latter. (Protip: blow him until he's just about to come—when he's just past the point of orgasmic inevitability—then pull out as he starts to come and keep a spitty/wet hand working his shaft and head until he's drained.)
And while it's a myth that eating pineapple or chugging two cans of sweetened condensed milk can improve the flavor of a man's ejaculate, it's a fact that our bodily fluids are impacted by our diets. If your husband has a shitty diet—if he doesn't do fresh fruit
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