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DEAR DEIDRE My boyfriend is sexting another woman while I'm eight months pregnant
COUSIN CRAVING I'm trapped with a hysterical partner while I'm falling for her cousin
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SEX BOMB My sex drive has gone through the roof, but my boyfriend just can't keep up
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I ASKED a close friend of my husband to massage my sore muscles and it led to amazing sex. It was the last thing I intended.
I am 31 and married to a good man, but he has been a bit distant lately and there has been almost no sex.
He is 31 as well and we have been married for seven years.
This friend of my husband did some training as a masseur, although he moved on to become a personal trainer. He is 29 and has no partner at the moment, so we invite him round for a meal sometimes.
On this particular evening my husband had a call from work about an emergency and knew he would have to go out later.
But we didn’t like to put this friend off so we decided he should come anyway.
We ate our meal together then my husband went off to his meeting about an hour’s drive away.
The friend and I were chatting and I told him I had a problem with my leg. The physiotherapist had prescribed me some special exercises but despite doing these, my leg was still hurting.
He suggested massaging it for me, so we opened out the sofa bed and I lay down with my legs bare.
It felt really good and I was the most relaxed I have felt for ages.
He said my whole body seemed tense and gradually moved his hands upwards. I think I actually let out a moan of contentment and this might have encouraged him.
The massage became more and more intense and he said it would feel better without my clothes on. So I took them off.
The result was that we had the most incredible sex — like I’ve not had in years.
I had no intention of cheating but strangely I don’t feel guilty at all. I just don’t know where I go from here.
DEIDRE SAYS: Where you go from here depends on the state of your marriage.
If you love the husband you say is a good man, you would be wise to tell this guy what happened was out of order and will not happen again.
Then make sure you stick to your resolve by avoiding being alone with him any time your husband invites him round. Meanwhile, put some effort into your marriage.
Not having good sex can easily become a habit. Talk to your husband.
Tell him you miss the physical closeness you two used to have and suggest trying the ideas in my e-leaflet Saving Your Sex Life.
Give your relationship a general overhaul too.
Are you spending enough enjoyable time together? Are you sharing the day-to-day running of your home and your lives generally, or has it all become so separate that you rarely do anything as a couple?
I OFTEN hear from people worried the way they have sex isn’t normal.
Nothing is wrong as long as both people enjoy it – but one person’s fancy can repel the other.
My e-leaflet Kinky Sex Worries? can help you find a compromise.
I HAVE a carefree life with no relationship ties but parents and friends keep asking why I have not settled down and “grown up”.
I am 35. I have always been comfortable living a bachelor life. I have had sex with numerous women – that’s not difficult because I travel a lot in my work and I get on well with people.
I have a great job, a nice house and earn good money. In spite of this, my parents constantly question me.
The last thing I want is to come home to a regular partner and be part of her family. Neither do I want children. I have two nieces I am very fond of but generally children infuriate me.
If a girlfriend tries to get too close, I back off.
DEIDRE SAYS: Most parents want to see their children settled, especially when friends keep asking.
If you are content with your life, explain this to your parents clearly.
My e-leaflet Standing Up For Yourself will help you be assertive.
But if, deep down, you know that anxiety about getting “too close” is a problem, explore this with a counsellor. For details of reputable ones, see itsgoodtotalk.org.uk .
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MY husband had an affair that resulted in a little boy, who is now aged four.
I was devastated at the time but took him back when he agreed to have nothing to do with the child.
It has since worked out differently. He wanted to see if his son looked like him or our two children, who are nine and 11.
As a result, he now sees him regularly and is allowed to take him out.
He also gives the mother money for him and spends a fortune on presents.
I resent the child so much, I cannot even bring myself to say his name.
I feel he puts that boy first, ahead of our kids. I am now 36 and my husband is 37.
DEIDRE SAYS: I understand your hurt about your husband’s affair but this boy is innocent and needs a loving dad.
Tell your husband you need help now from a Relate couples counsellor if your marriage is to survive his cheating ( relate.org.uk , 0300 100 1234).
Try then to welcome this little boy into your home.
Your children may be very happy to get to know their little half-brother.
MY dad and his girlfriend are setting up home together. I am all right with that except her daughter, who is 19, has told my best friend she really, really likes me.
I am a guy of 20 and a bit puzzled about what to do and how things will work out.
This daughter and I get on really well and normally I would be interested, but it wouldn’t surprise me if her mum and my dad got married.
I know this would not make her and me blood relatives but it does feel a bit weird.
Her mum has said that she is OK with it but it still does feel a bit weird.
DEIDRE SAYS: There is no legal bar to your having a relationship with this girl but if you are not feeling the way you think she does, be careful not to give her wrong messages.
You all have to try to get along together and the last thing you need is more emotional complications.
I THOUGHT I would still be able to have regular sex even though I’m pregnant but my husband won’t come near me.
We’re both 33, with our first baby due in four months.
I started to show quickly and as soon as my husband could see my baby bump, our sex life vanished.
I asked him if he still fancies me and he said: “I’ve got to admit it, being pregnant isn’t a good look for you.”
I was gutted. I know I’ve piled on the pounds but I thought he’d like my curves.
I worry that if I don’t get my body back after having a baby, he may never want sex with me again.
DEIDRE SAYS: Tell him his words upset you and you can’t help your weight – it’s part of being pregnant.
Tell him you miss the intimacy and sex won’t harm the baby.
My e-leaflet on Couples Massage explains how you can enjoy intimacy without intercourse and get him used to your curvier shape.
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I know several women who have has massages, usually on vacation, where the masseuse got progressively more 'friendly'' towards the end of the massage and, if they didn't protest, ended up getting massaged to orgasm. One actually screwed the guy. I know this isn't common but I think if the girl is hot, many masseuses will look for the signs and perhaps encourage it. Has this ever happened to you? If yes, and you had a SO, how did you feel about it after? Did you tell him?
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Yeah I didn't know women could get happy endings. Good to know lol.
What's a happy ending for a guy? A hand job?
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One of the guys I used to work with got a couples massage with his wife while on vacation in Cancun. The masseur got the wife pretty worked up during the massage and asked her if she wanted to do more. She said ask my husband. Apparently he was pretty trashed and enjoying his massage and supposedly said OK so she got her happy ending.
Later when they were settling the bill the husband questioned the extra charges and the wife said just pay it. He wouldn't let it go and started to make a scene about being ripped off so finally she just said to him, he f'ucked me!
He was blown away and was at least 3 months before they had sex again. Not sure how they’re doing now but what I can't believe is that he actually told some people at work about this and now, of course, everyone knows. I wonder what he thought he was really agreeing to?
And that's why I don't drink when topics of consent come up. Judgement is impaired.
But I do wonder how clear the masseuse and the wife was about making him understand that sex was what was gonna happen or not happen. If a gauge phrase was "is it okay to get an intimate massage that's way to vague to assume the other person knows your asking about intercourse.
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My ex-wife and I checked in to a hotel and we saw on the brochure that massage was offered. She called to the desk and asked to have a masseuse sent up,
As I slipped my cock into her ****, I said again "Was he big?" and she answered "Yes! Yes! He was the biggest I ever...." and she couldn't finish, but I understood. I fucked her then, and I didn't worry about whether she came, or not. I was sure she had had a really great orgasm while this young guy fucked her. And while I fucked her, I was saying over and over in my head "He Fucked my wife! He fucked my wife!"
We did not discuss openly the events of that day, but sometimes we would refer to it and I could see a smile a delight come into her eyes. Throughout the rest of our marriage, it thrilled me to know that she was remembering the time when this "other" guy, with his bigger-than-mine cock. gave her the kind of fucking she could remember the rest of her life.[ /QUOTE]
Every wife deserves this treatment if she wants it .
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Over the past 6 months, I’ve noticed a growing number of articles where women confess they got a “happy ending” massage.
Maybe it’s just a change in the times or more women are open with their sexuality, but more women than ever are going to a “professional” to get their fix.
So why is this becoming so popular? Why do women love it? And what secrets can you learn from these underground masseuses? I did a full investigation and here’s what I found…
You might think that a woman can have sex pretty much on-command these days, especially with “hook-up” apps like Tinder at her disposal.
But the truth is, most women go for months at a time without the touch of a man.
Why? Part of it is due to increased work hours…and women are getting pickier – women are looking for the best experience in bed possible.
This is driving “normal” women, like the ones you see at school or work, or out at a bar, to these underground massage experts.
These men specialize in one thing and one thing only: pleasure.
As you can imagine, many of these women keep this dark secret to themselves. But a few are willing to spill the details of their exploits on some websites and magazines.
One woman, who was too embarrassed to give her name out online, writes…
“My level of sexual frustration began to grow. I hadn’t gotten any action in weeks. Soon I was eyeing the muscular personal trainers at my gym like they were pieces of cheesecake that I wanted to have sex with. After a particularly hormonal workout on the inner thigh machine, I knew that I had to do something.” Anonymous, XOJane
Another woman, who went by “Ellie” to protect her identity, had this to say about the pure pleasure she got from a happy ending massage…
“He was the gateway drug out of my marriage…He's a gift…he started rubbing my back and shoulders with oil…then he lifted my arms and massaged my breasts, squeezing my nipples. It felt crazy good.” – “Ellie,” the Observer
In fact, according to Bo Alexis, a male masseuse interviewed by Cosmo , most of the women who get happy endings from him are either married or in a relationship.
“There's something about extended touch and caress that tends to release the most potent chemicals of the sexual centers of a woman who's in need of physical and emotional attention,” Alexis says.
Unfortunately, most women can't find that kind of pleasure from their man, so they are willing to pay for it – sometimes up to $250 per session.
The therapeutic and massage industry is a $10 billion industry.
And the demand from women for “happy ending” massages is only going up. Just read some of these quotes below…
“I was getting a deep tissue massage and was enjoying it greatly when the masseuse started to go past the normal boundaries just a bit. He could tell I enjoyed it, and I subtly encouraged it , so it progressed from there…
As he was working on my legs and working up my thighs, he'd ask if it felt good. Once he got to my groin, the pressure from his thumbs felt really good, and I noticed that my breathing and responses were changing…” Anonymous “Woman B,” Cosmopolitan
“During the massage, he began to get closer and closer to my vagina and then brought me to climax. He said he loved how I arched my back in pleasure.” Anonymous “Woman A,” Cosmopolitan
“I remember he did my back, and then circulated around the body as they do—the neck, the arms, and you go to the extremities or whatever. And then he said to turn over. He did my face, then my shoulders and arms, and then my legs. At a certain point he undid my bikini bottom and…his hands were on my bikini line…it's just like ‘This feels good! Keep it going!'” “Elaine,” Maxim
It's pretty clear that women are secretly hoping and even looking for a man who's confident and skilled with his hands to know exactly where to touch a them…
The fact of the matter is that women crave a man who knows how to touch them and if you know how to do this, then you’ll have customers lined up out the door. Even women who have a boyfriend or are married are still not getting touched in the right way …
So how can you develop this ‘magic touch' that women won’t stop raving about?
The truth is that there are three simple steps you can follow when you meet a woman – even for the very first time – to get her raving about you like you're an experienced masseur who can give her the utmost pleasure just by laying your hands on her soft skin…
And this is something all types of women love – shy girls, outgoing girls, career-minded girls – every woman has a secret desire to be touched. You just need to know how.
So I've had someone put together a short, free video to show you the three-step process I mentioned above. Be warned: it’s a little controversial. These techniques can be incredibly powerful. Some will turn women on so much that you might have trouble figuring out what to do with them initially…
…but that’s a good problem to have!
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