Mandatory Male Chastity

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I do not receive any devices I use of have used for free. I do not get paid for promotion. My experience with male chastity enforcement devices comes completely from the point of a total “newb” and hard learned knowledge through the long process of implementing a chastity enforcement lifestyle within my own relationship and then through helping others do the same on their own terms. One thing that became quite clear is there’s a huge difference between male chastity devices that are appropriate for real enforcement and those that are just sex-toys meant for a bit of fun.
Length of the device and the part of the device that encloses that actual shaft is far less imporant than the size of what’s referred to as the base ring. Taking on length first, get a device that’s too short. Unless you really are dealing with a micro penis don’t go crazy for the first try but in no way do you need to worry about a device where the shaft is an inch or more too short. In fact that’s what you want. If you don’t go with one that’s too short it will be unwieldy, add unnecessary weight and ultimately will be less suited to all-day every-day wear. With the easy part out of the way obviously it will take a bit to move to a device that’s really short, like an inch max, more on that another day.
Moving on to the hard part — the base ring. The base ring is the ring that goes all the way around the male penis and balls. The base ring is what anchors the rest of the chastity device in place. This is the most crucial part to get right. Being a complete novice when I agreed to enforce my male’s chastity I made the mistake of choosing rings that were way too large. Sure I read how to measure, I read what the right size should be, but guess what… I still got rings that were way to large. Then I did the same thing again and again. That’s because nobody anywhere I’ve seen tells you that you need one that’s really tight. The base ring needs to be restrictive, nobody, no seller, no site just says that. It needs to be smaller than a loose measurement. A base ring needs to be a little too small in a way that is not too hard to figure out but hard to find anywhere on-line, believe me I asked.
Here’s the reality; the penis shaft behind the scrotum and balls seems to be a larger diameter than the shaft by a substantial amount. In a way it is but it’s mostly very loose scrotum skin/flesh. What you need is a ring that’s about the same diameter of the penis shaft in front of the scrotum when completely flaccid and at it’s smallest. There’s two problems with obtaining exactly what size this is. The first is measuring or trying on rings while the penis really is completely flaccid and at it’s smallest. Even a slight erection that happened a half hour ago will probably distort the sizing to be to large. The second problem is psychology — namely mine and probably yours. You don’t want to hurt anything, you don’t want it to be too small and cause some horrible problem so you may have a tendency to err a little bit bigger than it should be. Go the opposite way, go a little bit smaller than it should be. If it’s not a challenge getting that base ring on then it’s too big.
I just took the wind out of surprise number two above. If you are gentle at all you will have a hard time installing that base ring the first time or even the first couple of times telling your self it’s way too tight. As a guideline it should compress everything a bit once it’s on. Also realize that your male will also be getting some sort of partial erection while the base ring is being installed. Even if he’s just had some sort of satisfaction, there will be resitual swelling that will make things way tighter than they will be when completely flaccid.
With that being said putting a base ring on takes a bit more force than you will think. I would advise a solid base ring rather than a split ring that opens. The reason is they only way a split ring of the right — tight size can work is if you have 4 hands. It’s very difficult to keep it closed while getting the rest of the device and it’s attachment points all lined up correctly. Go with a solid ring instead, far better and much easier once you get used to install it. You may even have your male partner do it himself.
So how do you put a solid base ring on? Here’s what I’ve found to be the easiest way as long as the ring is the right size.
That’s it. My biggest issue getting a base ring that was the correct size and actually secure was I wasn’t able to exert the amount of force required. I somehow thought if anything compressed or need to be squeezed then it was too small — WRONG. It should take a bit of compression and care to remove as well. If you can just pull it off (even with a lot of force) without having to go through the reverse procedure of shaft, one ball, then the other ball to get if off then it’s WAY TOO BIG. One more thing about base rings. It should be very snug, no gaps, no space, a little bit of compression all the time even when the male’s penis is completely flaccid and at it’s very smallest with no straining against the device at all, no partial chubby period. This means that there will be some amount of friction — to bad, that;s what’s required for enforced chastity. Use a little long-lasting lotion to reduce the friction if requited. This will be fine as long as the ring isn’t too big. Even if it’s a tiny bit too big a little lotion will allow it to slide right off, this should not be the case. It took me at least half a dozen rings to get to the one that was small enough and actually the right size. I was too timid. Weeks of wasted time.
Okay, so we have a properly sized base ring. Next up is the rest of the device. There are a million of them out there that range from cheap to idiotically expensive. Start with a cheap one even if you eventually gravitate towards a custom made male chastity device down the road. The basic workings are similar and depend on trapping the balls and the penis at the same time. Almost all devices (more on the other kind later) depend on another ring that goes around the shaft and is part of the device that encases the penis. When put together and attached that other ring is very close to the base ring but in front of the scrotum, that’s the ball-trap part. Here’s the problem, if the penis comes out of that front part of the device it’s game over, the device is useless. Even if that second ring is close enough and provides so little space so that the balls cannot be squeezed through the space there when locked it’s pretty much a hunk of stuff hanging off the male’s balls.
That leads us to devices that work and devices that don’t. The penis shaft when completely flaccid can be squeezed though pretty much any space, you can flatten it to 1/4", maybe less and it’s completely flexible in that way. Just about all devices can be removed based on this. Here’s the two things that work. First a urethral tube that is long enough to extend to the base ring or even a little farther when installed. The urethral tube keeps the penis from moving laterally no matter how soft and flexible. If it extends thru the base ring or just about there’s just no way to pull the penis shaft far enough back to escape, it would almost be like turning it inside out.
The second kind of device that works is one that secures to one of a couple different penis piercings. The best of these also cover the piercing so that that point of contact is also secured. I’ve seen a device I plan on installing on my hubby soon that acutally utilizes both. I can’t wait to get it, I think it’s going to be either a present for his birthday, christmas, or our anniversary. I am waiting until I am sure I know exacty what size and options I want. I’ll probably keep it simple but I am thinking about weather or not I want to have the sharp anti-any-erection spikes as an option. They increase the bulk and I don’t think the device looks as good with them as an option but really I am vacillating on what my favorite feeling is when he pleasures me. On one hand when he’s frustrated and can muster the feeble partial erection (nowhere near the pressure he used to exert a year ago) he’s ravenous. On the other hand I like the feeling when he’s subdued and goes at it with a bit more humility as well. Ultimately I will decide based on this more than anything else.
My answer is metal. I look at plastic and silicone more as play-toys or at best a symbolic gesture in a life-style chastity relationship. If the goal is enforcement than my feeling is that the chastity device should not be able to be removed in some small fit of frustration in a few seconds. All of the plastic and silicone devices I’ve seen and my husband used to want me to play with before I even agreed to actively enforcing his chastity could be removed in a minute at most in any little tantrum. The metal devices I use that are properly fitted and designed will take far more effort and time, maybe days of careful work. In fact it’s hard to imagine that my husband could remove them himself given how awkwardly positioned and how little clearance for any tools that cut metal. The base ring… hmmm, that would be dicey and would take a while. The other parts, well possibly but one would be almost impossible, the other would take an immense amount of time as well.
The other problem with most of the plastic and silicone divices I’ve seen is that in reality they are easily escapable even without resorting to breaking or cutting. Hence my feeling that they are symbolic. Let’s suppose that there is a design that works, works as it can’t be taken off with out the key. It certainly can be broken or cut in about a minute tops — symbolic. While that’s fine, if you experience is anything like mine transitioning from a sex-game, foreplay to lifestyle chastity enforcement has it’s periods where you absolutely want the device to be secure and unable to be removed quickly and easily. In fact I believe it necessary to actually have your male partner try really hard, as in his best effort to remove it, tools and all. That’s what I did before I went full-time, I made sure that it was actually secure and both of us knew it. One week after that was when I went full-time without warning.

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Many women keyholders ask themselves two questions: 'have I kept him locked up too long' and 'should I keep him locked up longer?'
The answer to the first is a definite no. There is no such thing as locked up too long, and if your man tries to tell you otherwise, he is misled or trying to deceive you, either of which could certainly warrant an even longer lock up.
The answer to the second question is more complex. The short answer is yes, absolutely the longer you go at a time the more it will benefit you both. The long answer is it absolutely depends on the nature of your relationship, your progress into chastity control, his experience level, and of course his expectations based on what you have agreed to. It is, after all, important for you to live up to your end if you expect your man to live up to his.
It is always best to start slower and ease an inexperienced man into accepting chastity control. Men are used to masturbation and having orgasms, and almost all men will believe it to be difficult and a major sacrifice at first. A good general rule is the duration of chastity should increase over time, so that the benefits continue to multiply, as well as his submission to you. This is not universal, however, as it depends on how you use chastity, what your aims are, how interested you are in having PIV intercourse, and how committed you are to controlling your man.


It's Your Decision
Some women enjoy playing chastity games with their men, without his agreeing to give them the final say. This is fine for some, but not for a truly female led relationship. To experience the real benefits of chastity, he must agree to give you full control. If your man truly cares more for your happiness than his own, he should be glad for the opportunity to prove his devotion and love to you. You should probably consider taking a serious reappraisal of a man who would rather have selfish orgasms than put you first and become a better person under your leadership. If you want him to take pleasing you seriously, chastity release has to be entirely your decision.






Scheduled
Now that chastity release is under your control, where it belongs, it's time to consider strategies. A common strategy, especially for beginners, is the scheduled release. One reason for choosing the scheduled release option is than many men, especially those new to chastity, will probably whine like little boys about how hard it is, and when will they get to have their next release. Chastity works best when it is both a carrot and a stick. By making sure there is a release date on the horizon, less experienced chastised men will have less trouble accepting their condition. Of course, it is absolutely vital in this type of arrangement that your man knows that serious infractions or behavior that greatly displeases you will get that date pushed back. Without this threat, the effectiveness of chastity is greatly diminished.





Once your man has become a bit used to chastity, and perhaps even to his regular schedule of releases, it is a good idea to take them away on a whim, either here and there or even as often as you like. It helps to keep firm in your man's mind that chastity and release aren't about simple reward and punishment. Chastity is about giving you everything that you want, sacrificing simply for your happiness, and putting you in the driver seat of every aspect of your relationship that you choose. Release dates are only guide posts, you are the leader.







Earned or Points System
Another popular strategy is one based on earned releases, or even point based reward. These systems allow you to focus your specific goals for your man, such as housework, attentiveness, concern for your happiness, and general obedience. This method allows you greater ability to put off releases, and to insist upon higher and higher standards of service, as you are the judge of what merits adding or taking away of points. This method also allows for directly earned releases, where your frustrated man will agree to things he might be reluctant to agree to just to earn a release. As always, the important thing is to keep him highly motivated to obey and please you.









Arbitrary
By far the most popular strategy is arbitrary release, as it gives you the most control. Many chastity systems that start out with scheduled or earned releases transition over time to arbitrary. For more experienced chastised men, shorter terms of being locked and expected releases become normal, and may even lose some effectiveness after a while. Nothing puts pleasing you as much as possible foremost in your man's mind like the knowledge than keeping you happy is his only chance of earning the orgasms he craves. The ablility to push that power to any limit will keep your man wrapped around your finger, with no end in sight.









Why Not Go For Longer?
No matter which system you choose, it is usually best to ask yourself if it wouldn't be better to go longer. Since the answer is so often yes, why not exercise your power, since it is for his own good anyway. Most women keyholders come to take great pleasure from denial, and the sexual power it gives them over their men. For increased psychological effect, have your man be the one to beg you to keep him locked up longer, and make sure his pleas sound sincere and appreciative. It will help teach him the proper way he should be thinking about chastity, and put him that much further under your spell.




Keeping your man locked longer because you choose it is a fun and effective option, but most women with men in chastity have a rule or two which automatically extend their period of chastity. Asking to be let out of chastity is usually the number one violation. A man asking to be let out of chastity is putting his interests first, is certainly not grateful for your chastity control, and is thinking of chastity as a burden instead of a wonderful opportunity for self improvement and relationship happiness. A hard dose of even more chastity is the least you can do to start curing this unhealthy impulse and his insubordinate behavior.








Ultimate Denial
Eventually, you can put an end to his releases and orgasms entirely, and enjoy a long, happy, healthy, and extremely sexually active relationship. If his releases are important to your sexual life, and your desires, you may decide never to take the ultimate step in chastity control. More and more women, however, are choosing this bold step forward, due to the increasing variety and quality of modern stimulation devices for women, as well as the many ways an enthusiastic and focused man can provide gratification without using his penis. It is true that keeping the hope of orgasms around is a powerful motivating tool, so many who choose this strategy keep releases on an arbitrary basis officially, and simply phase his releases out naturally. If he is well trained enough, you shouldn't ever hear a complaint about it, since he should know that asking only pushes a release further away. As a result, you can choose perminant denial without having to inform him, reducing any possible drop in the quality of his service to you. Medically speaking, there is no reason why a man needs to ever have a release or orgasm to live a long and healthy life, so ultimately your preferences are the only thing that matters.







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