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Don’t feel bad about ruining your man’s orgasm!!!
Don’t feel bad about ruining your man’s orgasm!!!
Ruined Orgasms As Part of Tease and Denial
This post is mainly for my fellow ladies out there (you wives and girlfriends), but you gentlemen are welcome to follow along, too (if you like what you see, then I strongly encourage you to pass this along to your girlfriends!). I hope this post corrects some of the big misconceptions about “ruining” the male orgasm, teaches you how to do it, and convinces you to try it , in real life – tonight! Even if you don’t succeed the first time (or the second time, or the third…) the learning process alone is insanely fun for both of you, and the payoff, once you get it right, will blow your minds! This has improved our sex life immeasurably.
The Name Is Misleading: It’s Still an Orgasm!!! I think the biggest misconception about ruined orgasms comes from the word “ruined.” It sounds bad. It sounds like torture or something you would do to someone you don’t like very much. Presumably, you love your man. You want him to be happy. Orgasms make him happy, and you enjoy giving him the biggest and best orgasms he’s ever had in his entire life. Why on Earth would you ever want to “ruin” his orgasm? That makes no sense!
The name is simply wrong. A properly ruined orgasm is STILL potentially more intense than a normal orgasm! It’s not “ruined” at all! It feels profoundly different to him, but it still feels great – especially if you use it as a tool to extend your lovemaking!!
The so-called ruined orgasm is a special kind of climax, achieved in a very specific way, that triggers a slightly different sequence of physical, emotional, and hormonal reactions in his body.
A “ruined” orgasm feels profoundly different from a “regular” orgasm. To a man accustomed to and expecting normal orgasms ( i.e. , all men) the sudden surprise of new and different sensations might be confused, in his hyper-aroused brain, with disappointment. (My husband used the word “unexpected”) I think that’s where the word “ruined” comes from. He was expecting a very specific, fantastic sensation – but you gave him a slightly different (yet potentially even more intense ) sensation instead, his initial irrational gut reaction will be frustration, but once he calms down from his pleasure trance he enjoys the sensationIt’s like when you bite into a chocolate, expecting it to be filled with delicious caramel – only to discover, once it’s in your mouth, that it’s actually filled with delicious strawberry. You were expecting one thing, but at the last second, you got something different.
Your gut reaction (you can’t help it) might be disappointment. Caramel and strawberry are both great, though! Your “disappointment” or “frustration” derives from the dissonance in your mind between expectation and reality. Your taste buds and pleasure centers were trained and prepared for chocolate-covered caramel. They got chocolate-covered strawberry instead. Does that negate the yumminess of the chocolate? Does that mean the chocolate was “ruined”? Of course not!
From the first time your man discovered he could pleasure himself ( spoiler alert: during adolescence many years before he met you! ) the male brain is thoroughly conditioned to expect a specific sequence of sensations during orgasm. Men don’t naturally ruin themselves, (If you read up on evolutionary psychology you will find their aroused primitive sex brains compel them to just cum as quickly as possible. In our modern world we can now cast this aside and focus on increasing pleasure and it is also proven that extended arousal helps bonding between partners. Win Win Win right?) .
Assuming your man had other girlfriends before you, (just keeping it real, ladies… he probably did) couples usually don’t ruin the male orgasm during typical, natural, fumbling, vanilla sex. So your man may have never experienced the sensations you are about to give him. His pleasure centers are deeply tuned to expect caramel, every time, and you are about to show him strawberry. He can’t help but be surprised by the taste, even if you tell him it’s coming. Does that make strawberry “bad”? Of course not! Strawberry is great! It’s just different.So please, please, please
I simply cannot say it enough. The word “ruin” has so many negative connotations. It’s a terrible word for what’s really happening. It’s doing terrible damage by discouraging loving couples from trying this wonderful activity. I didn’t pick the word, but I use it, because that’s the word everybody else uses, so at least we know what we’re all talking about. I think the term may have some value when talking about roles of power and submission (where some men enjoy being belittled or punished by their partner), however that’s a different topic to what we’re discussing. Some people use the phrase “touchless orgasm” instead – better, but still not perfect.
I say: Focus on the word “orgasm” . Orgasms are unequivocally GREAT! You are giving him a special kind of orgasm! That’s a GOOD thing! What’s so special about it, you ask? Well…
I’ll get to how you achieve ruined orgasms a little bit later. But first, why ? What’s the benefit of a “ruined” orgasm over a “regular” one? Ruined orgasms trigger a slightly different sequence of physical, emotional, and hormonal reactions in the male body. All of this is involuntary. It’s a reflex, and all men have it. Just like normal orgasm, he can’t control it. Whereas a normal orgasm causes him to go limp and enter what doctors call the “refractory period” where he is no longer motivated to have sex, a ruined orgasm has the opposite effect – it causes him to stay hard, fully aroused, hyper-energized, and HIGHLY motivated to have sex.Yup! He gets to have intense pleasure (call it an orgasm if you like)… immediately followed by MORE pleasure! MORE sex! As far as perks go, that’s a huge fucking perk!
But that’s not all. It also relaxes the urgent release channels, in his brain, temporarily raising his tolerance for sexual pleasure and increasing his stamina . Simply put… a man who’s been ruined once or twice ( or more! ) in a single night can fuck you harder and longer than you ever thought possible. He can fuck (or get fucked) continuously, relentlessly, at full intensity until you’ve had as many orgasms as you want and you’re both thoroughly exhausted. Go ahead, get sweaty! Let him wreck you! Flip him and ride him to your heart’s content! He will stay rock-hard the entire time, and he won’t cum! Or, if he does cum, it will only be after a long, intense hard session, far beyond his normal, natural physical capacity. It’s fucking AWESOME! Some of the best sex you will ever have!
Basically, a ruined orgasm ( or three ) multiplies his sexual endurance for the rest of the night, without reducing his desire. In fact, it amplifies his desire , because he gets to experience a higher pleasure plateau than he would normally be capable of experiencing! Normally, when you crank him up to “10″, he cums. After a few ruined orgasms, you can crank him all the way to “20″ and he keeps going! Huge win for BOTH of you!
In a normal orgasm, the male hits his peak of pleasure, then comes crashing down in a wonderful, violent torrent of release, followed by an involuntary rest-and-recharge time called the “refractory period.” Powerful muscle contractions fire bursts of pent-up cum from his body. He feels a warm, satisfying wash of hormones. Then his cock goes limp and his entire body instinctively commands him to rest and recover. It’s over for now. No more sex, for either of you. Men are just wired that way.
In a ruined orgasm, the male hits his peak of pleasure, tips just barely over the edge, but the violent crash is not triggered. It’s not triggered, because the expected physical stimulation is absent (more on that, later). Weak muscle contractions struggle to squeeze the cum from his body. Instead of firing bursts, he leaks out. He feels an electric tremor throughout his body, distinctly different from the warm wash of a normal orgasm, but still intensely pleasurable. Importantly, the sense of “satisfaction” never triggers. He had an orgasm, and he unloaded some cum, but he feels “unfinished.” He’s still rock hard, and he wants more. He NEEDS more.
I should point out, at this point that his evolutionary brain has taken over, and he is wired to seek completion and he cant control it. Often women may feel they’re not pleasing their man because of his reaction and give in, but trust me even if he begs to want completion now, Don't give in! he will thank you later when he has left his pleasure trance and become more level headed. I urge you,
You must persist here! _ You must persist here! _ You must persist here! Your night is just getting started…
Sounds easy enough. It is an art though, and there is a difference between a good ruined orgasm and a great one. To bend your man’s brain and give him truly epic ruined orgasms, you need to know his body very, very well. You need to study his specific sequence of escalating physical pleasure signals, to identify the first possible moment in the sequence where you can let go and cause him to still cascade through climax. Arched back, tensed muscles, grunts, whimpers, pulsing cock, retracted balls – every man has his signals. Watch closely while you pleasure him. Study your man. Learn your man!
It is a common misconception that you should let go “at the last possible second. That's wrong , and it’s the easiest beginner mistake to make. Like this:
That’s a mistake! That’s NOT really a ruined orgasm! (you have still just triggered an orgasm, so don’t feel bad about it… but you can do better) She let go too late. He was already cumming by the time she let go. He was already cascading down the waterfall of full orgasm, firing bursts of cum like normal. He is likely to be fully satisfied, go limp, and enter the refractory period. No more sex tonight :(.But, hey… if you’re going to fail, at least it’s a fun way to fail! That’s another perk of this trick.
You will probably fail, many times, while you perfect your technique. But at least it’s the most fun either of you will ever have while failing at something!Another example of letting go too late:
Instead of letting go “at the last second” you actually want to let go as early as possible . You want him to hang, untouched, on the verge of climax, for as long as physically possible, before his body reflexively sends him over. Do it correctly, and his cum should just dribble out, under weak contractions.Like this:
See the difference? Especially that last one. See how long he “hangs” without any stroking, before weakly tipping over? That short period of time feels like eternity to him and it feels fucking glorious! (for both of you). With lots and lots of practice on your man, you want to extend that “hangtime” to be as long as possible.
With good communication , you can find the perfect timing together, by working your way “backwards” from the moment of his orgasm. Start by having him tell you, out loud, when he hits what he believes to be his point-of-no-return. Back off at exactly that moment (your urge to keep stimulating him will be VERY strong – you must resist the urge! _ you must resist the urge! _ you must resist the urge! ). With him telling you when to stop, your first few times might look something like this:
If you managed that, it’s a start (and, of course, it feels amazing for him!) but you can and must do better.
Men always misjudge their own point-of-no-return. It’s either going to be long before he says it is, or he will tell you too early and you will have to keep trying.The problem is: He’s in a mindless pleasure-trance. (you put him there!) So he’s not the most reliable person right now.
In order to find his true point-of-no-return, you need to study the cascade of physical reactions happening in his body in the precious seconds before he calls “stop.” Then, night after night, progressively work your way backward through that cascade, stopping sooner and sooner, on your own (without him telling you when to “stop”), until you find the point where he doesn’t climax at all. Then, night after night, slowly and very carefully work your way forward again, until you find the point where he lingers for 5 to 15 seconds, untouched, before leaking uncontrollably. Then, night after night, re-test that same exact point, and tiny variations around that point, until you have him totally “figured out.”
Congratulations! You now have the keys to completely destroy your man – how to make him cum with maximum pleasure, without ending your night of fun – how to utterly and completely control him in the best possible way! When he regains consciousness, I promise he will thank you, with pure awe and love in his wide, exhausted eyes.
Why Ruined Orgasm's are good for you: Well there's the obvious joy of playing with your man, the empowerment that you will feel, and the satisfaction of challenging your beliefs. However If you need some more motivation at this point, take a look at this schematic. It is a little exaggerated, yet is a pretty good representation of what happens:
Restraints help a LOT! He will desperately crave that familiar sensation of “satisfaction.” In a mindless craze, he might reach down and try to finish himself with his hand, ruining all the hard work you did together. It might be nearly impossible for him to resist this instinctive urge. Don’t blame him or get mad at him if he does. Just tie him down , so it never happens again.Like this:
That gif brings me to my second important note:
“Leaking” is an excellent signal that you’ve done everything right. But every man is different, every night is different, and every orgasm is different. You might do everything exactly the same way, every time, and one time your man might leak under weak contractions; another time he might fire untouched bursts of cum, like a seemingly normal orgasm. On different nights, he might leak different amounts. One night might look like this:
Another night might look like this:
Basically… the power of his “cumshot” is a clue to help you know if you’re doing it right, (weaker is better) but it’s not the entire answer. The above two examples also show different levels of contraction by the man. As much as you have a responsibility to learn how to control your man, he has a responsibility to control try control himself too (I do say try, because if you're doing it right he really will become a slave to his "primitive horny brain").
Usually contractions and air humping are invoulntary, however my husband tells me that sometimes he can actually try to fight the urges if I can coach him through the ruining. I find if I softly instruct him to "don't force it hunny" or "sweetie, just let it leak out, don't throb" (or similar sentiments) it sometimes get's through his "primitive horny brain" and can be enough to slightly rouse his conscious mind and he can try to "push it down" which is how my husband describes it. So you both do have a part to play to really get the most out of ruined orgasms, but you have to help him because if done right he truly does become a slave to his urges.
This is human sexuality we’re talking about here… Everything is subjective, hard to describe, and seems to change for no reason on a daily basis. Want to know if you ruined him right? Ask him! Then, try something slightly different, and ask him about that, too!
Another huge clue that you’re “doing it right” will be in his refractory period – or lack of one. After a typical good ruined orgasm, his cock should not “wilt” at all. He should stay aroused, erect, and eager for more action – although he might be painfully oversensitive for 1-3 minutes. Give him a short break, then go at it again – that’s kind of the whole point of this. Ride him, suck him, stroke him, whatever you want. Ruin him again and again, if you like. If he’s able to stay hard, yet his stamina is miraculously 1000% better, then you definitely ruined him right.Which brings me to my final note:
You can absolutely ruin your man multiple times in one night. Do it!! _ Do it!! _ Do it!! Please don’t let your hard work go to waste by feeling like you have to give him a normal orgasm eventually, don't give in to a sense of guilt!!! . That will just cut your night short, although he may sound like he want's it, I know from experience when I have given in to my guilt, Once my husbands warm satisfying wash of hormones passes and he goes into his refractory period, he regrets it, and I also experience remorse. It then feels as though we wasted our hard earned session. This can be a real dampener :(.
If you learn to ruin him properly, there’s no real refractory period, remember? He stays ‘unsatisfied’ (only unsatisfied in the traditional sense) and desperate for more, remember? He stays erect and physically able, remember? That’s pretty much the perfect formula for multiple orgasms . It’s the only real way that men can achieve that elusive wonder which comes naturally to some of us lucky women. So give him a treat! Ruin him once, give him a minute or two to recover, then ruin him again! And again! And again!
Here is an example of an what I consider a satisfactory ruin. he has a reasonable hang time, and only just released a small amount of cum.
As long as you give him a few minutes’ break between sessions, (and don’t fuck up the technique) you can pretty much keep ruining him all night long. He will eventually run dry and start “shooting blanks” – his exhausted cock throbbing weakly, but nothing coming out – that’s probably where your brain will tell you to stop. However, this is a GREAT time to hop on his hard, empty dick and ride yourself silly, which is how I like to do it. But I guess it’s Your call!
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