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What is Findom?
Findom is the original Financial Domination fetish community where paypigs meet and worship their mistresses. Tributes can be sent in real-time while both the mistress and paypig interact with each other on webcam or by Fanmail when the mistress is offline. If you are a new Findomme, this is the site where you can meet finsubs (financial subs) who will worship you by giving you money!
Findom Rules

Do not be rude, stalk, or harass. Any type of cyberbullying will result in a permanent ban from the website.
Do not ask for or offer payment through PayPal, Cashapp, OnlyFans, bank transfer, or any other method which is outside of this website. All gifts, tithes, and tributes must be made in Tokens. One Token is worth $0.09, and Tokens can be cashed out by verified members for 60% of their value at any time (70% after 6 months).
Do not ask for or offer personal contact information such as real names, addresses, phone numbers, emails, social media handles, or any other personally identifiable data. All contact between mistresses and paypigs must be made through the website.

What is Financial Domination or Findom?
Financial Domination, Findom, or Wallet Rape as it is sometimes called, is a fetish where its participants, who are mostly male, enjoy the control and humiliation of a dominant female, who are called Mistresses or Financial Dommes. Each paypig, sub, money slave, money pig, or pay piggy as they are sometimes called may desire a different type of relationship between himself and his Fin Domme. After a sub has shown interest by paying a tribute to his Findomme , she would then interview him live on webcam before deciding to take him on, and see what he would want from the relationship, and if she is the Fin Domme for him! There are many different ways in which a Findomme and paypig relationship can work, and each one can be different.

Some paypigs like to be taken from but not given the time of day, preferring to be used and ignored by their Fin Domme, while others may want to be forced to do things that will humiliate them. They may even want a complex relationship where their life gets ruled by their Financial Dominatrix, and everything they do is controlled by their Financial Goddess.

In the modern world, money plays one of the biggest roles in our lives and can give great power to those who control it. It is a big status symbol, and the more you have, the higher up you are in society. We are meant to work hard to earn money, and only spend it because of necessity. What is not expected is for you to work day after day, so you can give it away to someone else only because they demand it. That goes against what society expects, and that is what makes it a powerful turn on for some men. Financial Domination is all about stepping outside the norm of society.
Findom Slaves
Some Findom slaves may enjoy sudden and unexpected demands on their finances which may not always be convenient for them, while others like to have a strong woman in control of their finances, especially if they are normally frugal with how they spend their money. Imagine yourself begging to be allowed to spend your own money on yourself! Some pay piggies may also like to feel that they are worshipping a superior, dominant woman by giving her regular payments and gifts, while many like being financially punished for failing to carry out assigned tasks, or for not asking permission to masturbate.

Ultimately there is always some kind of humiliation involved in the Fin Dom relationship, but how much and what type can vary from man to man, and can often change over time. The reality is that handing money over to a woman you barely know is a risk, and taking risks is a big erotic thrill!
Three Parts Of Financial Domination

Gifts
Tithes
Tributes

Financial Domination Gifts
The life of a findom slave is devoted to making sure your Mistress is well taken care of and desires nothing. Gifts are offered by slaves to please their Mistress while fulfilling their responsibility as a slave. A Mistress will usually provide a list of items she desires, offering her slaves the possibility to earn her attention. On occasion, a Mistress may decide to grant a special opportunity to a lucky slave by notifying him of a specific desire she wishes to be fulfilled.
Financial Domination Tithes
The worship of your Mistress is shown by your tithes among other things in Findom. Your faithful Tithes, willingly placed at her feet, are the foundation of true worship and ownership. As soon as you receive your regular earnings, 10% is to be immediately sent to your Mistress as your Tithe with no exceptions! It is insulting to your Mistress when those who wish to serve and be owned by her attempt to send her their leftovers instead of their full required Tithe. A true slave would never dream of tending to his own needs before sending a Tithe to his Goddess. Tithing will become such an important part of your worship of your Mistress, that you will impatiently await your payday, so you can experience the satisfaction of laying your next Tithe at her feet.
Findom Tributes
In findom , tributes are spur of the moment, impulsive offerings as a natural result of the constant building desire and a burning need to please your Mistress and express your adoration for her. While Tithing is a consistent offering sent on a schedule, Tributes are spontaneous offerings used to express your devotion and desire to please your Mistress. Tributes are also a Mistress's way of wielding her power to exert control over a slave. Mistresses love to manipulate their slaves, to demand your worship, to trigger that need inside of you, to fan the flames of a burning desire, and watch you beg to offer Tribute. The sheer power a Mistress wields is immensely satisfying, and if your begging pleases her, she may actually allow you to send a Tribute. If not, she will happily enjoy the pleasure of making you suffer.

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Financial Domination isn’t for everyone! It’s not an automatic “get rich quick” scheme. For those who master (pun intended) its nuances, it can be quite lucrative as well as a way to have a lot of fun. If I had to provide a quick description of findom, it would be the following:
Doms are sent money and lavished with expensive gifts by subs who often want next-to-nothing in return beyond a Dom’s attention – it’s all about submitting to the Dom and giving him control. Much like physical forms of BDSM, it’s this “surrendering of power” that is arousing. But in the majority of cases, the Dom and the sub never meet – it’s all done online.
Clearly, because cash and gifts are at the center of this fetish, it’s not for everyone. Some would be appalled at the idea of sending money to someone they have never or may never meet. However, for those who are into this scene, that’s the beauty of it.
Doms often employ many strategies to lure subs into tributing. Subs may be drawn by Doms’ physical attributes. Doms with beautiful faces, amazing bodies, and yummy feet (another huge fetish that is prevalent in this scene) are quick to grow large followings on Twitter as well as amass cash into their accounts. Doms also use their dominance and “gift of words” to lure in submissive cashslaves. These Doms know how to demand cash and actually get it…sometimes making subs feel guilty for not paying. Finally, some Doms are gifted in presenting themselves as spoiled brats who deserve cash…lots of it. Often in this case, subs are lured into providing for the Dom’s lavish lifestyle. They think nothing of sending hundreds to a Dom while they struggle to make ends meet. There have literally been cases of subs going into massive debt, in rare cases close to homeless, while their Doms are living lavishly.
Successful Doms will tell you it takes time to master the nuances of the scene. Findom Bryan (Twitter: @FindomBryan), once one of the scene’s successful Doms, once stated:
“Findom is not just about ‘Fuck you, pay me’ and throwing money at a Dom because the Dom says to pay. There is an element of mindfucking and tapping into the deepest darkest desires of Subs to lose control. A Dom can act like therapists to Subs making them feel safe and secure in losing control. And that’s why so many crave to tribute such large amounts to capture the attention of and please a Dom that can understand them and make them feel safe.”
Because Findom is all about financial domination and can be hard to explain to those who haven’t explored it, I tried to describe what a true cash drain feels like to me. Others might find this description useful:
Dom/Domme/Dominant/Master/God/Alpha
These individuals rule the scene. They are the ones for whom the scene was created. They can be straight, gay, or transgendered, but they all have one thing in common – a dominating attitude that deserves to be respected. When a sub approaches a Dom, it will be important to show respect and quickly share how you will be useful. Findom isn’t about cam shows and paying for sex. Findom is about subs giving Doms what they deserve and NOT EXPECTING ANYTHING IN RETURN.
sub/slave/beta Subs exists to serve Alphas. In the gay findom scene, subs are usually gay as well. In the straight scene, men are typically subs to women (although it can easily be the other way around). A true sub serves without expecting anything in return. For those male subs looking for guys to perform on cam, there are other websites for that. Findom is all about total servitude without any expectations. That said, if a sub has a good connection with a Dom, the sub might be lucky enough to get some small token or gift in return. However, it’s at the total discretion of the Dom.
Switch Just as there are bi-sexuals, there are also individuals who play both Dom and sub roles. They have become known as switches. Sometimes a switch is someone who has the urge to serve, but occasionally has an equally strong urge to dominate. Other times switches are simply trying to earn cash to pay their Doms. For Doms, a loyal switch can be a HUGE benefit. In these cases, the switch turns all of his earnings over to the Dom.
Because switches are also subs, they often know how to get into the minds and push the buttons of other subs. Power Switch (Twitter: @PowrSwitch), one of the scene’s successful switches, stated:
“The switch can make a sub feel especially lowly because the sub is being subservient to a fellow sub. In fact some subs prefer to serve switches because it helps them find the depths of their true self. And, switches understand the mindset of a sub more than a master can because they themselves know from experience and can be experts at triggering a sub to drop in service. This context helps the switch to be especially manipulative and momentarily powerful.”
Another switch said to me, “It turns me on seeing doms, but I aspire to be like them at the same time.” That nicely sums up the paradox of the switch.
Check out this video that gives a great overview of the whole Findom scene: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=shjyxG05yo4
Again, Findom isn’t for everyone. It can be addictive! If you have problems with addiction seek help and don’t start this scene! However, for those subs still considering Findom, I offer the following Commandments for your consideration (from a Twitter post I did several years ago):
OVER 18 ONLY: Findom isn’t for minors. If you are under 18, you need to wait before you engage in this scene.

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