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Tease and denial is an essential part of any marriage where male chastity is a major part of the lifestyle.
There’s a common belief in some circles that male chastity means it’s a man’s place to be simply “locked and left”. However for most men…
Is usually absolutely essential for his happiness and satisfaction with the male chastity lifestyle, even if not for his health and physical wellbeing. Contrary to popular opinion, there is NO conclusive evidence I’m aware of to suggest long term orgasm control and severe tease and denial is harmful to health; uncomfortable, frustrating, and maddeningly delicious, yes…
You see one of the fundamental principles of male chastity and orgasm control is your man is not allowed to orgasm until you say so. For reasons I won’t get in to here, this is something MOST men will enjoy, at least given time to get used to the idea.
However, chastity is NOT the same as celibacy — which is what he would have if you just locked him and then ignored him. This is NOT what he wants.
What he wants is tease and denial. He wants you to take him — repeatedly — to the edge of a toe-curling, spine cracking orgasm… and then refuse to let him cross that point of no return.
Yes, he’ll beg and plead with you to let him come…
And in that moment he really will mean it. But while he WANTS to orgasm he CRAVES denial. This is how the brain is of a man who loves male chastity. It’s hard for us women to understand, I know. But from my own experience living the strict male chastity lifestyle with my husband for the past three years I ALSO know this is what he wants and needs.
And, of course, this is why I say male chastity in general, and tease and denial in particular are NOT for couples whose relationships are not fundamentally sound and loving (in other words, if you hate the sight, sound and touch of each other, something that’s meant to INCREASE the intimacy between you simply isn’t going anywhere).
One problem many women have with it in the beginning — and I was definitely among them — is we are used to men getting angry and upset if we don’t give them what they want (and by that, I mean give them an orgasm!).
Many of us have been called hateful things like “prick tease” in the past. For that reason it’s important for the ladies to realise this IS what your man wants; and it’s important for the men to realise exactly how nervous she is about all this — so don’t get riled or disappointed if she doesn’t get it right first time, or even seems not to understand what you want and why you want it!
There Is an Art to Tease and Denial
Like anything worthwhile it takes practice to get it right (and you’re bound to make mistakes in the beginning and let him come when you don’t mean to — but there’s no need for that to be a big deal unless you make it one). But ultimately it’s well worth the effort you put into it.
And your man will thank you for it… eventually.
If you’re serious about discovering the secrets to strict tease and denial, without the hype and nonsense you’re tired of reading on the blogs and forums, then…
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Posted on May 27, 2016 by Paul Byerly
Most men enjoy being sexually teased, as long as you know when to move from teasing to pleasing. Some women enjoy teasing too, but many don’t and those women are unlikely to provide the sexual teasing their man would like.
Sexual teasing falls into two categories. The first is arousal teasing, the second is stimulation teasing. Every man has a limit for each of these. Usually, if his limit for one is high or low, the other is about the same, but there are exceptions. The reason men like to be teased sexually is it makes sex bigger and better. Arousing him in bits and pieces all day long makes sex an all day thing, and it builds him up for a much better climax. Prolonged stimulation also makes sex last longer, and can make is much better for him.
This is doing things you would usually do to get him to orgasm but stopping before climax. You can take him to the brink of climax, just close enough to make him think you might finish him, or stop before he’s too far along. You can do it a few times or many.
Most men enjoy being repeatedly taken to the edge of orgasm without finishing. In addition to making their climax far better when you finally give it to them, being that close is almost as pleasurable as orgasm. This is as near as most men will ever get to multiple orgasms.
If you want to take him very close, manual sex is the best option. You have the control, he can’t finish himself with a quick thrust. Additionally, you can watch him better. His body will tell you how close he is to climax. His face, his breathing, and the way he holds or moves his legs all telegraph his level of arousal. His penis and testicles are especially good for this. At high levels of arousal, his testicles will pull up very close to his body. When he’s very close, the head of his penis will change colour and texture. With practice, you will know exactly where he is and how much more you can do without taking him over the top.
One thing you may have to learn is to know when “Don’t stop” means don’t stop and when it means keep going. He may beg you to finish him when he really wants you to tease him a bit longer. Test this by stopping one more time when he asks to finish, and then after he regains his mind ask him if he’s glad you stopped or wishes you had kept going.
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OH I wish! I can tease him til the cows come home, and 9 out of 10 times he falls asleep! He does seem to enjoy it, but not enough to stay awake. In his defense, he does work 60+ hours a week. But oh how I wish I was half as important to him as his job. If I were 1/4 as captivating as the next job site, we’d be golden.
My wonderful husband is close to 80 and post-prostate surgery. A few days ago we were lying in bed together before going to sleep, and I was fondling him. He said, “I’m glad I’m the age I am, because if I were young, I’d have shot off already.” And I might have been reluctant to be fondling him for that reason. One of the benefits of being older!
@One half of a very mature couple – Not that old yet, but I agree – being a bit less easily aroused is a good thing. It’s okay if a bit of fondling is just a bit of fondling.
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The idea of keeping your husband in strict and uncompromising chastity and not letting him orgasm – sometimes permanently and forever – is a strange one to most women, and one most will immediately dismiss, thinking somehow it is abdicating her womanhood not to give her man “what he wants”.
But I think it’s important to understand chastity is not the same as celibacy , at least not in the context of male chastity.
In a celibate marriage, sexual contact is non-existent.
While this is no doubt mutually agreeable in some marriages, it’s rare. Usually it’s because one partner (usually the woman, I’m afraid) has said “no more sex” or simply behaves in such as way as to preclude it.
This is why the idea male chastity will fix a broken marriage is nonsense.
The practice is intended to improve and enhance your sex life.
If you’re in a celibate marriage, then your sex life has been killed stone dead, and you need to get it fixed before you start trying to introduce kink.
If you don’t, then what you’ll be saying in effect, is “I want to have more and better sex and an more intimate and fulfilling relationship with you”.
But what she’ll be hearing is “I’ve just given you a great excuse for avoiding having sex with me even more than you are now”.
This will not end well, I assure you.
But in a chaste marriage, where they practice male chastity, there is typically more sexual contact and increased physical and emotional intimacy – the qualifier being the man rarely if ever gets to orgasm.
This is a good description of my marriage to John.
And while some women might be shocked at this, the fact of the matter is it is this way because this is what he asked me for .
And yes, at first I was surprised and a little sceptical.
But because I love him and I want to please him, I gave it a try.
Because male chastity in general, and orgasm denial in particular has been the best thing I ever did, next to actually marrying him.
Because the quality, frequency and duration of our lovemaking has increased dramatically. Almost any relationship tend to cool off after a while and sex becomes routine and even boring. Male chastity and orgasm denial put the spark right back into it, simply because he’s always turned on and can’t get the thought of making love to you out of his mind.
In other words, it’s just like it is at the beginning of a new relationship where everything is fresh, new and exciting.
First, John is locked, by his own consent, in a stainless steel chastity device.
It’s not 100% secure (no device is), but it’s an effective deterrent. It stops any “accidents” when we are making love and it also means for him to masturbate (which would be cheating!) very difficult.
He could still orgasm with the device on if he put his mind to it, but it would be painful and counterproductive to the game he wants me to play with him.
And secondly, it’s all done with John’s agreement, consent and cooperation.
Despite what you read on the ‘net on blogs and forums a man cannot be forced into chastity against his will.
It’s both physically and legally impossible.
That’s just a fantasy and one you’d be better off seeing as the fiction and the lie it is.
What’s more, it’s also physically impossible to create a chastity device a man can’t escape from.
No matter how robust and well designed a device is, an engineering shop would be able to remove it.
But that would be going to an extreme, and the chances are any device you could possibly make yourself or buy, whether off the shelf or custom-made, would quickly fall to a decent hacksaw.
Unfortunately, the Internet is filled with fantasists and wannabes and their frankly silly and unrealistic rubbish about male chastity, orgasm denial, and female led relationships.
Listen to what couples who have been living the lifestyle 24/7 for more than a decade have to say.
It makes sense to listen to people who practice what they preach, don’t you think?
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Sarah Jameson is the creator and host of the highly regarded Male Chastity Blog, which is rapidly becoming the principal source of sound, factual, and usable information about male chastity on the Internet.
She is a happily married woman and freelance writer who has kept her husband in ultra-strict long-term chastity and orgasm denial for the past 13 years and now shares her experiences to help other couples embrace this deeply satisfying and rewarding but frequently misunderstood lifestyle.
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