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My boyfriend is well endowed and curved as well. It can be quite painful. I find missionary is one where you can control the depth. We've tried doggy style but it's only good on nights that my cervix is all the way up and I'm super turned on. You could try spooning or laying on your stomach or side. I also find that the more turned on i am at the beginning the more likely it won't hurt. Try lubes, you can opt for regular plan jelly lube or flavored, there are also some with warming and cooling sensations. Go for K-Y yours and mine NOT fire and ice. I've heard on multiple occasions where people get "burns" or discomfort from fire and ice, and these are people that aren't so sensitive to these types of oils. I suggest that you are also careful when you are on top and happen to be short or have short legs. It's not so easy to contol depth. Have fun with it and be safe! And learn to laugh.
I have the exact same problem with my bf, intercourse and real oral are pretty much out of the question.. What I usually do is lick along the shaft and head while massaging him with my lubricated hands. I grip it with both hands one above the other and knead and stroke it, up and down, sometimes while sucking on the head and flicking the tip of my tongue in his pee-hole, or taking his balls in my mouth and tonguing and sucking gently. I try to keep him going as long as I can before he cums, to give him the biggest possible orgasm, He loves it :)
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I have encountered a problem I never expected; my boyfriend is quite simply very large. I am unable to perform oral sex except for the first couple of inches due to the girth, and vaginal sex is not totally satisfying for him because he is too long and cannot fully penetrate without causing me significant pain. I've seen my doctor, and am reassured that there is physically nothing wrong with me — no infections or scarring, but am finding it difficult to come up with a solution. Any suggestions?
Contrary to the popular belief that "bigger is better," oral sex, anal sex, or vaginal intercourse with a particularly well-endowed man can present challenges. The great thing about being intimate with someone else, though, is that there are endless amounts of ways to get down and dirty. You and your boyfriend will just need to take some time to communicate and get creative. If you do that, you are sure to stumble across a few (or a bunch) of mutually satisfying solutions. Make note of these four words: arousal, lubrication, position, and technique. Let’s discuss a few different suggestions to try:
As you experiment and play, tell one another how you feel, what is uncomfortable, and what feels good. This doesn't need to mean carrying out a full conversation while having sex; simple words — like "deeper" or "not so deep," "gently" or "harder," "faster" or "slower" — usually are enough to get the point across and make sex more satisfying for both of you. As you embark on your expedition, don’t forget safer sex supplies. Peace of mind is also a key ingredient for pleasurable sex.
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DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend and I get on great. The only issue is that she finds sex uncomfortable and struggles with the size of my penis.
I wouldn’t have thought it was especially large at 7.5 inches long and 6 inches around.
We use lots of lube but she says I hit her cervix at times. She struggles with oral as well.
I am 33 and she is 22. Will she get used to it in time? The porn stars who are nine or ten inches don’t seem to have any issues.
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You are on the large side of average but it shouldn’t cause lasting problems as long as you are a sensitive lover and take care that your girlfriend is fully aroused before sex.
Lubrication can be helpful but is no substitute for being sexually ready. A woman’s cervix does rise and fall with her menstrual cycles so you need to allow for your girlfriend finding sex less comfortable around the time of her period.
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So you've got a big penis. Awesome.

You may think that size is your best asset, but it doesn’t necessarily offer a one-way ticket to great sex. Size does matter — in that it dictates how you play the game.

“If he's a larger size, especially in length, remember that most positions you're in — spoon , doggy , missionary — the higher up the woman's legs are, the deeper the penetration. So depending on your needs and level of arousal, you can choose accordingly,” says adult performer and sex educator Jessica Drake , star of Jessica Drake's Guide to Wicked Sex: Foreplay .

“I find that since everyone's bodies are so different, you have to experiment to find positions that are more comfortable [and also] the more foreplay that's happening, the better the experience!” Drake says.
Women don’t just love foreplay, they require it. “Foreplay is what helps them get ready for sex (both mentally and physically) and makes it more likely that they will achieve orgasm,” says sexologist Dr. Emily Morse , host of the Sex With Emily podcast, author of Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight . Foreplay becomes especially important when dealing with a larger-than-average penis. “She will NEED to be extremely turned on; the more aroused she is, the more relaxed her vaginal muscles will be and the less resistance your oversized member will meet,” says Morse.
If you've got a larger-than-average member, says Morse, lube will be your very best friend. “Even with a regular-sized penis, lubricant is proven to enhance sexual satisfaction and make sex more pleasurable, but [for] a big guy it is going to be your saving grace,” Morse says. “Lubricant will help with the initial insertion process, and will reduce friction and possible chances of tearing or stretching during sex,” says Morse. Overall, it just makes for a much smoother and easier experience.
Pick positions that incorporate shallow thrusting, so you do not accidentally hit her cervix or cause her any additional discomfort. “And remember to go five times slower than you think you should. Be gentle and give her as much control as possible until she feels comfortable and is ready to go further,” says Morse.

Now, let's get take a look at some of those positions...

“The woman on-top position is great for shallow thrusting because it lets her control rate and depth of penetration,” says Morse. It also helps, Morse says, for her to rotate her hips in a circular motion as she moves up and down on your penis, because the outer third of the vaginal canal is the most sensitive and will experience the most pleasure from your penis.

“We get so hung up on penis size, but if you’re putting the penis in a vagina, it’s really about fit as opposed to size. Vaginas also come in different sizes!” says Dr. Jess , Astroglide’s resident sexologist, who recommends the T-Bone as a great shallow position for larger penises (or just simply because you prefer shallow penetration).

“She lies on her back with her knees bent and her feet spread apart flat on the mattress. He lies on his side at a right angle to her body (to form the top of the tee) and slides his body under the bridge of her bent legs. She presses her hips up slightly as he slides in from beneath her. As they rock and thrust in rhythm, their fingers can dance over her clit or they can hold hands and gaze into one another’s eyes,” Dr. Jess explains.

Sexy standing positions are often winners. “Stand upright facing one another, then the receptive partner lifts one leg to facilitate entry,” says Dr. Jess.

“Spooning is an optimal position for well-endowed men because it limits thrusting and gives you full control of penetration, allowing you to go as slow as necessary,” says Morse. It is also very intimate and will help you and your partner stay connected through the whole process. Plus, it gives you the opportunity to reach around and play with her clitoris while she becomes accustomed to the feeling of you inside of her, Morse says.
Be sure to avoid positions like doggy style and wheelbarrow , or anything that involves her legs being in the air. “You do not NEED this type of access, and you run the risk of getting to excited and hurting her with your thrusts. Ouch!” says Morse.

No matter what positions you experiment with together, remember that communication is key, says Morse. “Every penis and every vagina is different, so what works for one couple might not be the best for another. Check in with one another to see what is working and what isn’t, to ensure that a good time is had by all!” Morse says.
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