Lingam Massage Techniques

Lingam Massage Techniques
Lingam massage – Detailed advanced techniques – FOR WOMEN – ARTICLE
This one is especially important for women if you want to understand how to stimulate tantric energy in your partner.
In this practice, you are the active one and you stimulate your partner’s tantric energy through lingam massage (massaging his sex).
I can’t give you the exact graphic details of the movements you do with your hands because a short video would be more effective.
What I can tell you is that you want to practice this in a very gentle way at first.
The goal is NOT to bring him to ejaculation.
The goal is to build up sexual energy in him and bring him close to the orgasmic point without crossing the threshold.
We won’t step into energy orgasm at this stage because it is not needed for this practice.
If you massage his lingam and he doesn’t lose semen, he will feel totally refreshed and energized after this practice.
You focus 100% on him + guide him to stay totally passive.
Put some massage oil on your hands.
You can chose a sensual massage brand but any oil will actually work.
After that, you can sit crossed legged next to him on his side and let him lay on his back.
You can as well fold one leg crossed leg like and bring your other leg over his body.
This might give you greater stability.
You can get aroused of course, but the goal here is to stay focused on him.
Focus 100% of your attention on what you are doing with your hands.
Don’t forget to breathe and watch your whole body posture. You can play with this as well.
Start with very gentle touch. You use close to no pressure in the beginning.
Simply let your finger slide on his lingam without grabbing it yet.
Ideally, a lingam massage could go on for 15 min.
You can as well stretch the practice to 30 min once you both want to dive deeper in it.
This is only a guide line. You are free of course to play with a session’s length, shorten it or stretch it to hours of playful practice at will.
It is usually better to have a few short lingam massages spread during the week rather than just one longer session.
Now, imagine that you are dancing with your hands.
You improvise moves while being very aware of what you do.
Let him relax while you take full charge of what you do.
This is not a complicate practice that requires some fancy technique with your hands.
Simply following your instincts will guide you to the exact pleasure moves.
Ask him for feed back a few times in the beginning if you are not sure:
“Does it feel good when I do this?”
“What do you prefer, this move or that one?”
” Does that feel good or does that hurt?”
Keep it ideally to only a few questions max in a session otherwise, you’ll start appearing to insecure about what you do and it will be difficult for him to relax and trust you.
Remember that you are in charge for that session. You are leading it, not him.
Remember that a man’s balls can be very sensitive to pressure.
Start with very gentle moves always and if you ad rhythm and pressure keep an eye on his reaction.
Even if he doesn’t get an erection at first, you can keep massage him, gently with a couple of fingers to wake up his desire.
This is not a performance and there is nothing he must do.
Once you have been sliding on his lingam with the end of your fingers for a few minutes, start adding slightly more pressure and let more fingers or even your full palm participate in this dance.
Feel these delightful moves in your body as well.
Feel this energy dancing and waking up in your whole being, not just your hands.
If he wants to move, grab you to have intercourse with you, it’s always possible to shift the practice but I encourage you to stick to the lingam massage practice for 15 min at least.
Because you can go deeper in the way you stimulate pleasure in him.
Ask him to let you lead this part of the tantric play.
Sometimes, guys will feel uncomfortable with being passive.
Let him know that you will give him space to give back to you either after this session or the following day for a yony massage this time.
Let him know that it’s ok and that you immensely enjoy doing this.
Compliment him for what you see and experience:
If he gives you feed back and has some requests, you can slightly shift your massaging style.
Ideally though, it is better for him to give you less hints while you do it and let you find your own way.
Otherwise, you get the feeling that he is trying to control your moves and this limits your creativity.
There is an exception though: it is if you hurt him or touch him in ways that feel uncomfortable to him.
Then of course, it is a good idea for him to say something.
The best time for feed back is after your lingam massage session.
You can take a moment an hour later or the following day to debrief on how you and him experienced it.
Focus on the positives, the things you both really enjoyed (rather than spending too much time on negative comments).
The best way to reinforce positive behaviors is to praize what you both did right and suggest some points where you both can still gain skills.
The information he gives you is super precious and helps you reorient your massaging style.
After a few sessions, you can quickly become a master at this!
You are able to play with his energies and desire and get him to experience absolute blissful states.
During the session itself, you can ad rhythm and speed to your moves.
There is an unlimited range for possible variations in the way you use your hands.
(I know that a vid is worth a thousand words, so I might post a short video on lingam massage techniques soon if it feels appropriate)
You see that you have dozens of variations and techniques you can explore.
Remember the two key ingreadients of this lingam massage session:
I encourage you to lay still next to each other for a few minutes after a lingam massage session.
This will give space for these energies to sink in.
Lay next to each other without touching your bodies, simply side by side and observe the impact of this lingam massage session.
This tantric sex technique is a powerful transformation tool!
If you want to engage in further tantric sex play after your session, you can of course.
Be careful with the oils that you used though, they might not be suitable for your yoni.
If you are not sure, you can wash him lingam at the end and use another type of lubricant for intercourse.
Check the specification of the products you use. Massage oil directly in your yoni could create some hiritation or burning sensation.
You notice that in this session, the male is passive, the female active.
In your next session (same day or days later), you can alternate roles and let him give you a yoni massage this time.
In another article, I will describe powerful yoni massage techniques.
This lingam massage is such a powerful technique that can totally establish complicity in your relationship.
If you are a woman, I fully encourgae you to master that art.
You can’t imagine how poweful this simple technique is for creating sexual attrction and play between you and your partner.
Especially if you feel you need something to spice up or reawaken your sex life, this is definitely one card to ad to your skills.
You can practice a lingam massage for instance even if he feels too tired for sex.
In this position he can totally relax and let you take care of him.
It is REALLY and incredible way to create sexual attraction between you and your partner.
More on this technique in another article.
We now enter into a set of advanced techniques.
Show delight and pleasure in what you are doing and get him to trust the expert touch of your hands.
Tantrika / Life coach / Activator of new evolutionary codes for the planet and humankind

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The Tantric sex practice you're missing out on...
If you've never heard of a lingam massage, or a massage for the penis , then have no fear, as you're probably not alone.
There are plenty of different types of sexual and erotic massages out there, including happy ending massages or orgasmic massages , which are designed to give you an orgasm, as well as yoni massage , a Tantric massage aimed at relieving tension and developing feeling inside the vulva.
But lingam massages specially designed for people with penises are unfairly overlooked. Incorporating massage into your sex life can be a great way to explore your own and your partner's body, as well as opening yourself up to a whole range of new feelings and sensations. So, if you're intrigued, h ere's everything you need to know about lingam massage.
"The receiver totally surrenders themselves to pleasure."
While a yoni massage is a Tantric massage for the vulva, lingam massage is a Tantric sex practice that involves massaging the penis. "'Lingam' is the Sanskrit word for penis and loosely translates as 'wand of light,'" explains Annabelle Knight , sex and relationship expert at Lovehoney .
A lingam massage involves not just massaging the lingam (the penis) but also the testicles , perineum (the sensitive patch of skin between the anus and the scrotum) and the prostate (thought of as the 'sacred spot'). "The idea is that the person receiving the massage totally surrenders themselves to pleasure," Annabelle continues.
Simply put: because they're enjoyable! Lingam massages are a great opportunity for the receiver to focus on their own pleasure, and to feel sensations that they may not usually feel through masturbating or having sex.
Lingam massages can also make it possible for men and people with penises to experience multiple orgasms , something which is misleadingly thought to only be experienced by women and people with vaginas.
"The aim is to not just to have one orgasm but several," explains Annabelle. "It is about trying to feel more and more pleasure that will turn into waves of multiple orgasms throughout the massage."
Itching to get down to business now you've heard how great lingam massages can feel? If you're planning on trying out a lingam massage on your penis-having partner, Annabelle has created an easy step-by-step guide you can follow. Maybe make a note of this one...
"The receiver can truly take hold of their sexual power."
"Lingam massages aim to help the receiver truly take hold of their sexual power. Meanwhile, a happy ending massage is simply a conventional massage focusing on the whole body, followed by a sex act."
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Tantra massage techniques is part of a series of 4 articles on tantra massage:
A tantric massage is a loving touch full of attention and presence , without a standard form and predetermined result. Tantra massage is given from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body participates and erogenous zones can also be touched. Of course, always with respect for (mutual) boundaries. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy also gets attention. A tantra massage takes place on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection between massage giver and receiver. Mentally, physically, at heart level and sometimes even at the depths of heart and soul. The purpose of a tantric massage is to “bring” the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, ecstatic state of being . The effect is often a wonderful physical, mental well-being. Usually, the receiver is very relaxed, wonderfully flowing and ending up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Read in advance The basics of tantric massage especially if you are not so familiar with tantra massage. Anyway, always pay attention to a good preparation. A special place, made into a beautiful tantra temple, is absolutely necessary: so first make a nice, warm place for your massage. Bring many large cloths and delicious warm oil (if you massage the naked body). Always start with a Namasté or some other opening ritual to really “see” each other. To connect with each other.
No tantric massage will be the same. Yet there is a – limited – number of “rules”.
Read also What is tantric massage to understand what a tantric massage is NOT.
Although this article is about tantra massage techniques , we at first want to make it very clear, that the techniques are by far less important. The major point is that a tantric massage is a loving massage, given and received from and in the heart. Therefore it is of major importance that you are able to be present with an open heart.
When you feel that you, of your partner, can’t be there with a fully opened heart, the first thing to do is (parts of) our course “Living with an Open Heart” .
And in case one of you feel any intimacy or sexuality issues, do our course “Intimacy starts with you” .
Below you will find a number of tantric massage techniques. Of course, there are more than there are mentioned here. ‘Tantric’ does not mean that they are only used in tantra. The opposite is true, often you can use techniques from other forms of massage (which you know) because the intention with which you use them is decisive for the result. Also, remember that the “technique” does not matter. Tantra massage is 5% technique and 95% intuition, feeling for what is needed. The most important two techniques are:
A good preparation sets the tone for the massage. Also, read The basics of tantric massage. The most important preparation technique is making agreements.
Make clear agreements about mental and physical boundaries. What is possible, allowed, and what can / can’t (be touched). This is, among others, about limits, the level of interaction, body to body massage, any wishes of the receiver, the focus of the massage etc.
Tantra doesn’t know a beginning or an end, it knows only the now. Yet it is nice to make a distinct start. Start with an opening ritual, including the greeting of the massage temple (sacred space) and the greeting of each other. For example in the form of a Namasté: with that, you say that you see and confirm the divine in your massage partner.
Connect with your own heart: do together, but individually, a short (2-3 minutes) heart meditation. Then invite the receiver to lie down. Now make a physical connection with the receiver, by placing one hand on the heart (usually at the back side). Tune in from heart to heart for about one minute. Then visualize, focus, and let come in what is needed. What can you do for the receiver? What does he/she need?
Start with gentle caressing the whole body with long strokes. The message is: hello, welcome, I see you, you can be there, just the way you are. This is about accepting the receiver, all parts of his / her body. You can at the same time add nice warm (neutral) oil.
A relaxed body is essential. Long strokes are helpful to relax the body. Calmly, in a relaxed and loving way adding the oil helps. Start the massage with the back. Use rubbing, kneading or tapping to help relax the back and neck muscles and other tense areas.
Maybe an unknown technique, but breathing quietly and relaxed is (for both) of great importance. Receivers sometimes stop breathing when stress arises or at a trigger moment, whether it is a great moment or a painful one. When you notice this, invite the receiver to continue breathing calm and relaxed. Also, watch your own breath.
Regularly make contact with the heart chakra. For a start by putting your hand on it. Breathe from your own heart, and make contact with the heart of the receiver. Then you can gently turn rounds with your fingers around the heart. At the front side, you can also gently rub with your fingers, or the sides of your hands, from the middle of the chest outward, against to the breasts. Regularly put your hand(s) on the heart, make heart contact!
While making the long strokes over the body, you may notice hard, tensed (stress) spots. For example at the shoulders and neck. Never ignore them. Also cold spots, for example, a cold belly (emotions), deserve your attention. The same applies to painful spots. These are all potential signals who direct to what the receiver needs.
Sexual energy can be activated in many ways. A tantric way to activate sexual energy is by massaging the sex chakra (and the sex) through a firm touch or spin. On the back, you can massage the sacrum and rub it around until it becomes literally very hot under your hand. You can repeat this for ‘plateau-ing’. (See later.)
The energetic connection between sex and heart is usually damaged or limited, by our life experiences, including those in the (pre-) adolescent phase. Read more in the article What is tantric massage . Practically, this means that you should really pay attention to the energy flow from sex to heart and vice versa. Bringing sexual energy up to the heart restores the connection, especially in men). Also, bringing heart energy down to the sex restores this connection, especially in women.
There are many erogenous spots to be found in/on a human body. Discover what the receiver likes and excites. In addition to the more familiar parts (sex/breasts), think of the ankles, knees, knee cavities, elbows, armpits, the sides of the body, the ears and the neck.
A nice technique in tantra massage is the body to body massage. Be creative … You can massage the upper body with your forearms. Using your long hair can also be wonderful. But also a subtle touch of the breasts or lingam (a tantric word for penis) can be very exciting. Of course always with respect and within the agreed limits. Never can the giver impose his own sexuality.
A variant besides the body to body massage is the use of the senses. ‘Awakening of the Senses’ can be part of a tantric massage. What is important,
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