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The Ultimate Guide To Eating Pussy Like A God
July 15, 2020
Jordan Gray
Eating pussy like an absolute god is simple. You just have to do a couple of small things differently (that 99% of guys never do) in order to be her absolute best lover.
Ready to deliver her intense pleasure that will make her toes curl in ecstasy? Are you ready to have her shouting your name in a way that wakes the neighbours?
After reading this article, this is the kind of power you will be wielding.
Over the last 10+ years, I’ve talked to hundreds of women and countless sex experts to get their feedback and expertise on this area, and I’ve compiled all the following data, so that any man can turn from zero to bonafide hero when it comes to eating pussy.
And here’s the even better news: So few men are skilled at doing this, that even just reading this one time will likely put you in the top 1% of cunnilingus masters.
First, we’re going to take a brief tour of the anatomical territory, so you know your way around the vulva.
Then, we’ll cover foreplay, and why this is often the most important part of eating pussy (which few guys ever think about).
After we cover the basic “how-to’s” of eating pussy, we’ll look at some more advanced techniques you can experiment with, as well as the most common mistakes guys don’t even know they’re making, so you know the key things to avoid (this one section alone will set you far apart from the pack).
By the end, you’ll have a master’s degree in cunnilingus.
Hey, quick note… I’m not against porn for any moralistic reasons. In fact, porn can have benefits!
But, if you are a man who is currently over age of 10 years old, it is highly likely that you have viewed and consumed your fair share of pornography. And the problem with that, when it comes to eating pussy well, is the fact that porn isn’t produced for the porn performers pleasure… it’s shot so that it looks good on camera.
So while porn may have told you to spit on her vulva… finger her aggressively right away with two fingers… or only spend less than 30 seconds tonguing her down, porn has lied to you.
Eating pussy is less about making her climax as quickly as possible (or just licking her for a minute so that she’s ‘wet’ with your saliva), and more about slowly pouring your full love and attention into her body. So keep that in mind throughout your journey of taking this article in.
Depending where you go for sex advice, you’ll see a lot of different parts included in the anatomical breakdown of the vulva, including all sorts of letters and mythical “spots” that trigger different orgasms.
Here, I’m only going to include the necessary and actually proven bits. With this general map and basic knowledge, you’ll be able to navigate around like a seasoned pro.
So, let’s go from top to bottom, then head inside…
*The mons pubis is the triangular shaped pad of flesh on the front of the pelvis, between the abdomen and vagina. Besides being deceptively sensitive, since some of the clitoral network lies beneath it, it also serves several great sexual purposes.
The mons can be a good occasional resting place for your nose during oral. It also comes in very handy if you’re vigorously fingering her. You can place a palm on her mons and press down to create some secure leverage while rocking with the other hand.
*The clitoris is the oft misunderstood wishbone-shaped organ that runs on either side of the vaginal opening, and into the body, with a visible tip that sticks out up top. This small tip is what both men and women commonly mistake to be the whole thing, but there’s much more to it.
However, with over 8,000 nerve endings, that tip is certainly a focal point. The clitoris itself is responsible for triggering much of her body-rippling pleasure and superficial orgasms. But of course, there are deeper types that we’ll touch on in a second.
It’s good to note that the tip of the clitoris has essentially the same anatomy as the shaft of the penis, only it’s far smaller and doesn’t ejaculate. People often refer to it as a “doorbell” which misinforms how you would intuitively stimulate it, because you’d be thinking of it like a button. But like with a penis, if you just took a finger and rubbed the tip of it, you would be missing out on tons of potential stimulation. With a clitoris, you can also stroke the shaft, and generally get a little more creative with your methods.
Everything around (and inside) the vagina is incredibly soft. But the shaft of the clitoris has a firmer density to it. It almost feels like a small, half-inch long bar of cartilage covered by the…
*Clitoral hood, which is draped over top of the clitoris, keeping the clit protected and preserving sensitivity. It basically serves the same purpose as the male foreskin. This piece of flesh is a great landmark to make finding the clit much easier. Start from the mons pubis and trace downward. The clitoral hood is the first thing you’ll find. Peek underneath and – voila – behold the clitoris!
*Labia majora are the first outer lips of the vagina. Behind these are the two arms of the clitoris that run down from above. Especially during foreplay, this can be a great area to massage, or softly stroke just inside the lip.
*Labia minora are the next set of lips as you move inward, closer to her vaginal opening. They look remarkably like two rose petals protruding from the centre of the vagina. Sizes vary greatly from woman to woman, but they will usually be the part that sticks out the farthest, by a good margin.
*The vagina is the actual opening and canal for penetration and birthing. When she’s aroused, it lengthens a bit, to an average size of 5-6 inches (which is the average size of the male penis… Coincidence?)
Teasing around the opening of the vagina with your fingers, or tongue, can be extremely pleasurable. But just inside is something else very exciting…
*The G-spot. This is a notoriously powerful erogenous zone, about two knuckles deep on the upper inside wall of the vagina. When she’s aroused, the G-spot becomes easy to find with your fingertip. The centre of it feels like a pad of spongey tissue, about the size of a quarter, but it’s more of a tube shape that extends a bit further back and forth.
This bunch of tissue is actually part of the underground clitoral network, which is why stimulating it produces such strong orgasms, and, in some women, squirting ones. The G-spot tends to produce deeper and more intense climaxes than superficial clitoral stimulation alone. During oral, using a finger in this area is a phenomenal pair with oral attention on the clit.
*The Cervix is the last stop at the end of the vaginal tunnel. It’s the opening to the uterus. If your middle finger is long enough, you just might be able to feel it with the tip. Amongst all the soft, juicy vaginal walls, it has a firm, tight ring shape. It’s what it might feel like to rub a belly button from the inside. More often than not, you’ll need a dildo, large penis, or other sex toy, to stimulate it.
In each woman, the sensitivity and pleasure of the cervix will vary wildly, especially during different parts of her cycle. For some women, it will be a no-go zone at all times. For others, it might be the gateway to several minute-long, full-body orgasms. It just depends. Since it gets more sorely sensitive closer to her period, the best time to try is during the first two weeks of her cycle.
In either case, it’s not a must-have for great oral, just a more advanced option. I’m including it because, if she does find it pleasurable, this could make her cum so hard she forgets her own name.
*Finally, the anus shall not be forgotten! Thought not every person will get off as much as another (or at all, depending on their attitude toward it) the opening to the rectum can be a wickedly sensitive place for a tongue or finger to explore during oral. Sitting an inch or so below her vaginal opening, it’s very easy to find.
So, this is the gist of her genital landscape. Now you’re ready to move into foreplay.
Here’s an iron clad truth that flies way over the heads of most men…
Foreplay is almost always the single most important part of eating pussy, and bringing a woman to orgasm.
Yes, that’s right: Often the most important part of eating pussy isn’t even the literal act of doing it.
I say “almost” and “often” because there will be the odd time where she is spontaneously raring to go, and diving right in will produce great results.
Otherwise, we have some effort to put in before the main course.
The techniques we’ll be using with our tongues and fingers are actually incredibly straight forward. It’s the priming of her physiology and getting her blood flowing that allow them to work their magic.
At first, there won’t be much response. But once you warm her up, the lightest touch can make her melt. Without this step, the rest won’t do much good. In fact, some things might even feel the exact opposite of pleasurable.
When you’re making a move, or it’s time to begin your loving service, keep things at a sensual, slow burn. Kiss her lots, slowly, and all over her body; focusing on her neck, shoulders, breasts, stomach, and thighs.
Use featherlight touch with your fingertips to trace lines across her skin – across her collarbone, down her arms, up her legs, around her thighs, etc. As you go, using a bit of dirty talk and painting a picture of what you want to do is another powerful way to wake up all parts of her.
To that same point, your foreplay can begin long before you’re with her in person. You could be teasing her via text that morning, or earlier that week. Get her mind excited and primed to be spoiled and ravished (you can try some of these tips from my Ultimate Sexting Guide).
In the moment, within your own body, you can imagine yourself moving in slow-motion – every touch, kiss, and lick being filled with intention. The majority of men and women are different in this way, especially over time in a relationship. Guys tend to get hot fast, and are immediately down to be sexual, whereas women more often like teasing, sensuality, effort, and build-up.
Respecting her body’s arousal process not only gets her blood flowing – opening her up for arousal and orgasm – but it also grounds her in the present moment and sensitizes her to the lightest touch, which leaves you tons of tactile room to play with and crank up the intensity.
When you’re taking off her clothes, remove each item one by one, without rushing it. Tease the newly exposed area.
And when your face finally does arrive at her crotch, leave her panties on for a bit. Kiss on the outside of any material before taking it off. Really take your time with the build up. For example, you might breathe hot air through the fabric of her panties, or gently lick and kiss her through them. Tell her how much you can’t wait to taste her pussy.
If you’ve done this stage well, when her panties do finally come off, she might already be dripping wet, before you’ve even done any direct genital stimulation.
Once the panties are off, don’t go straight for her clitoris. Take time kissing around her stomach, thighs, labia majora, and the mons pubis, which feels great when kissed and gently rubbed in circles.
At the same time, use your hands to stroke her thighs and stomach. At most, you might brush over her clit with your lips or tongue as you move from one spot to another, as a cheeky tease.
Eventually, when you do want to transition to actually eating her out, start with one big, slow, wet, wide-tongued lap from bottom to top of her vulva – or from the vaginal opening to where the mons pubis meets the clitoral hood.
From here, you’re ready to dive in.
(Side note: Remember… you have a mouth and two hands and a mind that can conjure up words. You want to be everywhere on her. Always with a calm, measured pace… you want to be touching, loving, and gently stimulating her body all over… during foreplay and during the time you’re going down on her. Be infinite. Overwhelm her beautiful body with layers of unpredictable pleasure.)
A major component in erotica is the energy and dynamic beneath everything. And when it comes to eating pussy, the positions you use are a big accent. Some might make you feel more turned on and ravenous, while another might do the same for her, or make her feel more dominant, or submissive.
If you follow your animalistic instinct, there are no shortages of positions in which you can eat pussy. But here are five of the greatest hits to consider trying out.
This is the classic and often most comfortable position for both people. The woman lies on her back, with knees bent, and the man is either on his knees (maybe at the edge of the bed, chair, or couch) or laying face down between her legs. Women love this position because they get to fully relax their body and focus completely on receiving pleasure from their man. This is also an ideal position to introduce a finger for G-spot stimulation.
The woman straddles your head, looking at you, with her feet pointing towards your feet. For the man, this is a gloriously delicious position. You get delectable handfuls of her ass, and a great view of her breasts and face. Meanwhile, the woman gets to feel a little more dominant, in control, and wild – being on top – and can rock back and forth as she pleases. If you have neck problems, face sitting is a particularly great position to use, as you get to keep a relaxed, neutral spine.
Take the last position and flip the woman 180 degrees, so she’s facing your feet. It’s as if you were in the 69 position and she sat straight up. This also gives you much better access for playing with her breasts. If reciprocating oral turns her on even more, it’s fine to slip into a full 69. But, generally, you want this experience to be 100% for her, without any neural distractions from the stimulation you’re providing.
From the home base position, the woman puts one or both of her legs up over your shoulder, and from here, she can rest her feet on your back. Or, her feet can just dangle in the air, while you keep your hands on her thighs to assist her in fighting gravity.
With the woman on her back, the man kneels next to her, facing toward her feet, and leans down to eat her out at a diagonal angle. For extended periods of time, this one is also better for your neck, since you don’t have to look up, or make any kinks in it.
You get to look down at her pussy, and she still gets the view of your mouth, without the need for any eye contact, which some women might want to avoid so they can just focus on their pleasure and receiving.
Now that you know the positions and she’s feeling warmed up, you can start moving towards direct, steady stimulation.
When using your tongue, it’s always best to keep it flat, wide, and relaxed, rather than making pointed stabbing motions.
Start by maintaining your restraint and making syrupy-slow licks up against the clit, as though you were having a romantic make out in slow motion.
Both in pressure and speed, consistency matters.
In the beginning stages, from foreplay to direct stimulation, the biggest things guys overlook is subtlety, because women’s experience of pleasure can often be so vastly different.
Since we tend to like it hard, hot, and heavy from start to finish, it’s easy to think that she’s having an amazing time if you bring intensity with long stamina. But really, she might be able to get off way harder, and way more, if you went SUPER slow, and turned it up just a little from time to time.
For pressure, you shouldn’t be pushing or leaning in at all, at least at the beginning stages of stimulation. Just solid contact from your tongue and the texture of your taste buds will be plenty good. You might add a bit more later on, but probably not much.
What will change a lot is speed. As with pressure, you can work up over time, but for now, let her body acclimate to a slow, steady stream of sensation and build up her arousal. Then you can gradually start working up to a crescendo.
At first touch, or when you switch something she likes, her nervous system will have an initial little “whoa!” moment, or hit of pleasure, and then settle back down. Then as you stick with that same lick/stroke/touch, it’s almost like you’re creating a sealed, pressurized container.
The feeling of neurological arousal building under consistent stimulation feels like swelling pressure building up inside her system. Eventually, it usually hits a natural tipping point into orgasm, or takes a little push of higher intensity.
If you’re ever unsure of when to switch pace, you can always test by gradually increasing (or decreasing) for a few seconds, and pay attention to how she responds. If she moans or arches her back, that’s a good sign to keep on truckin’ with whatever change you just made.
After some practice, this knack for calibrating to her body becomes like a sixth sense. But never underestimate the power of listening deeply to her body. Eating pussy like a god is just as much about paying her body your deepest attention as it is about technique or specific positions.
For now, keep your wide, relaxed tongue licks slow and steady. From the home base position, you might add some accents with touch, by squeezing her thighs, or running your hands up either side of her torso, or grabbing her breasts. Rub and explore her body, and match the slow pace and energy of your hands to your oral.
After a few minutes, you might choose to notch things up by gently parting and pulling back the clitoral hood, which exposes more of the clitoral tip to your tongue, thereby increasing the amount of sensation.
How you do this depends on the position you’re in. From home base, you might wrap your left arm under and around her thigh to place your thumb and forefinger on either side of the clitoris, with fingers pointing downward, and spread lightly. Or you might place both of your thumbs on either side with fingers pointing upward, and laid on her mons.
With the same quality of flat tongue, you can also try a stroke variation – from up and down to slight circles. This one tiny change can create a huge difference on her end.
You can practice doing it right now. Place the tip of your tongue behind your bottom teeth, then push the back of your tongue forward so the middle touches the spot where the roof of your mouth meets the back of your front teeth.
The middle part of your tongue is what will be the main point of contact with the clitoris. Start by moving from side to side, then begin to make circles, as if you were tracing an ‘O’ with that spot on the centre of your tongue.
To check your speed, you can look at a running count on a stop watch. You might start by making one complete circle every two seconds, then speeding up to one second, or slightly faster. When done naturally in the moment, it should just feel like you’re making out with her clit, with a bit of tongue rotation.
Communication, by the way, always has a place here. It’s not “more manly” to just guess what’s working and solely rely on your intuitive calibration. If you think she’s responding well to something, verbally confirm that she likes it, in a naughty way (ie. “Do you like that baby?” in a saucy tone, rather than saying “Uhm, is that okay?” like a pubescent freshman).
If you feel like she’s not responding, it’s important to get out of your head and reconnect with her. You don’t want to get caught up in wondering whether she’s enjoying it, or worrying that what you’re doing isn’t good enough. Talk. Check in to see if she’s having a good time, and what she would love for you to do (making sure that your tone is asking from a place of love and curiosity, and not from an attachment to needing her to cum – the latter of the two being a desire born of insecurity and ego).
And women say themselves that their bodies can be fickle – changing preferences from one day to the next. Or f
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