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September 23, 2021, 8:14 PM · 8 min read
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Maybe you want to make Katy Perry's "I Kissed A Girl" your personal reality. Maybe you've started watching the recent The L Word: Generation Q and are feeling inspired. Or maybe you and your boo are ready to get down and dirty. Whatever the reason, odds are you're here because you've got some questions about lesbian sex or are looking for some lesbian sex position recommendations . Lucky for you, as a queer sex educator , I am here to help.
Read on for a list of six sex-educator-recommended lesbian sex positions below.
Defining "lesbian sex" is no easy feat. Most commonly, the phrase is used as a porn search term to help people find content featuring two (or more) cisgender women .
But this is not an accurate conceptualization of lesbian sex. Why? Well, for starters, it suggests that only cis-gendered women get to participate in lesbian sex, which is untrue. Lesbian is not defined as cisgender women interested in cisgender women, but as non-man who loves, dates, and fuck other non-man. So any non-binary person, transwoman, agender, and a gender-expansive person who claims the label "lesbian" can have lesbian sex—not just cisgender women.
Second, it implies that everyone engaging in certain sex acts or with certain bodies or gender(s) is a lesbian, which is inaccurate. Because again: The only thing that makes someone a lesbian is that they self-identify as lesbian. Someone who is bisexual , omnisexual, heterosexual, asexual , or of any other sexuality, could enjoy, in theory, sex acts labeled "lesbian sex acts."
For the purposes of this article, we are defining "lesbian sex" as sex between two (or more) non-men of any sexual orientation exploring their bodies together for the sake of pleasure.
Walk into any lesbian bar and you'll find some beer-drinking hotties debating the existence of scissoring. But trust the queer sex educator here: Scissoring is, in fact, a sex position, and it's one some people really do enjoy.
A sex position usually involves two people touching their genitals together, scissoring is colloquially known as such because it looks like what two scissors do when you spread their legs (or, blades) and bring their crotch (or, apex) together. Like many other sex positions, whether or not scissoring is accessible to—or feels good for—a couple depends on their personal pleasure preferences, as well as their body shape and abilities.
Generally speaking, scissoring works best for couples where both partners have more exposed clitorises, and include at least one partner who is super flexible. Because the position can be demanding on your hamstrings, I recommend a hearty warm-up ahead of play.
Hands, as the saying goes, are the lesbian sex organ. And for good reason: Your hands allow you to tease, tickle, penetrate, pound, finger, flick, rub, or rock your partner.
Exactly how you choose to use your hands to make your partner say your name will depend on your partner's preferences. Regardless, long-time sex educator, Searah Deysach, owner of Early to Bed , a pleasure-product company in Chicago, advocates for starting slow, exploring places like your partner's inner thighs, pubic mound, and outer labia before revving up the intensity and touching their clit or cock head-on. "You might, for example, lightly stroke their outer and then inner labia before stroking next to the clitoris," she says. "You could also try cupping your whole hands over their vulva or cock and making small circles with your palm can also be an enticing beginning to hand play."
To make play even better for your partner, Deysach recommends using lube and trimming your nails."Dry hands on genitals can be painful and friction-y, so grab some lube before you start your strokes," she says. And sharp nails and hangnails can puncture or irritate the delicate genital tissues, so trimming and filing your nails ahead of play is a must. "Another option is to wear latex gloves and stuff cotton balls in the fingertips if you have long nails," she says. The more you know!
Following external hand play, you may decide to explore penetrative hand play (AKA fingering). Fingering involves using one or more fingers to penetrate your partner's genitals. Your fingers allow you to hit a variety of internal hot spots—including their G-zone, A-spot, C-spot, and P-spot —depending on the angle of your fingers, as well as how many of them you choose to use.
Before you begin, start by figuring out which hole you'll be exploring. Anal fingering, after all, is very much a thing, and something many people, including non-opp transfeminine lesbians, enjoy.
Next, grab some lube and start slowly. It's best to start with one finger at a slow tempo, then gradually add fingers, increase speed, and temper with technique as desired, says Deysach. Some techniques you might try include making a come-hither motion, inserting your fingers deep, then pulsing them up and down, and stroking in large circles from the inside. "Remember that not everyone likes to be fingered the same way, so check in with your partner asking questions like 'Does this feel good?' and 'Can I touch you here?' as you learn to navigate the landscape of your lovers' pleasure center(s)," she explains.
Once you get comfortable navigating your partner's body with your hand, you may choose to bring your mouth in as well. "Using hands and mouth together can add layers to pleasure in ways that either of them alone just can't," says Goody Howard MSW, MPH, the resident sex educator for Royal , a vegan-friendly condom and lubricant company.
Fisting can be incredibly pleasurable—especially for people who enjoy taboo sex acts and/or the sensation of being stuffed. But neither vaginal nor anal fisting is for beginners or even intermediate penetrative sex-havers; fisting is an advanced sex act that should be reserved for couples who have a ton of experience with penetrative play, as well as sound communication skills.
So, how do you do it? "Go slooooow and use a lot of lube," says Deysach. Rather than entering the area with your hand in a "fist bump" formation, you enter one finger at a time, allowing the hand to make a "bird beak" figure inside the area to start. When all of your fingers are inside, the hand will naturally curve into a fist.
For some fistees, the sensation of an unmoving fist is adequate for experiencing pleasure. Others enjoy a gentle pulsing motion or a rocking motion that allows the fister's knuckles to press up against the nerve-dense internal hotspots.
Strap-on sex is a broad term used for any sexual act that involves a dildo and harness, that can be used to reinforce power dynamics, affirm gender identities, assistant with feelings of fullness, and encourage sexual exploration. "They're something you may consider trying if your partner or you enjoy being penetrated," says Howard.
The first step in having strap-on sex is getting the prerequisite pleasure tools. "There are many different shapes, sizes, textures, and materials of dildos," she says. Before you purchase, you need to figure out what length and girth, as well as what color and texture, will best meet your pleasure needs. (As a general rule, it's better to start smaller than you think you'll need). "The wearer of the strap-on will have to be clear on what kind of pleasure they prefer because if they enjoy internal fullness, they can opt for an insertable, or double-ended, dildo," she says.
Once you're geared up, take your time to experiment with different positions. Missionary is a great option for people who enjoy the intimacy of face-to-face contact, while doggy style is the better option for a receiver who enjoys depth. And rider-on-top can be fun for receivers who want to be in control of depth, tempo, and angle.
Anal sex is commonly mistakenly thought of as a sex position for only gay men, but it can be enjoyed by people all across the gender and sexuality spectrums. "Everyone has a butt! And the butt has thousands of nerve endings and when they're stimulated the right way," says Howard. "So it makes sense that lesbians may want to add anal play or anal sex to their bedroom play."
Her recommendation: Enjoy external anal stimulation with a tongue, finger, or anal-safe vibrator to start. Eventually, you may choose to incorporate penetrative anal play into the works. "During penetrative anal play, the main things to remember are to use lube, relax your body, communicate discomfort and pleasure with the same ease, and toys used in the anus CANNOT be used vaginally (and vice versa)," says Howard.
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There’s a lot of misinformation out there when it comes to people with vulvas having sex. Thing is, sex between women is great and satisfying despite what mainstream teachings, which typically center men’s pleasure, would have you believe.
"Because of our hetero and penis-centric culture, many believe that vaginal or anal sex are imperative for sexual satisfaction," says Wendasha Jenkins-Hall , PhD, a sex educator who specializes in the wellbeing of women and femmes. "But the clitoris is key—its sole purpose and function is pleasure."
Well, great news: Lesbian sex makes the clit and other erogenous zones the priority.
"Those who engage in lesbian sex know that most people with vaginas need clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm," says Jenkins-Hall. And it's so damn satisfying because it puts this external pleasure front and center.
But that’s not to say there isn’t something for everyone to learn here. Sure, lesbians tend to rely on these pleasure-inducing techniques most, but anyone with a vulva, bisexual women, pansexual women, queer women, and even cis-gendered straight identifying women are bound to climax by mixing these moves into their sexual routines, too. These positions ensure the woman or vulva-owning person gets all the attention they deserve during their sexual experience and can offer that same pleasure to their vulva-having partner.
Ahead, discover 18 lesbian sex positions that experts say will help you do just that, plus, the tips and tricks to take them up a notch.
"This is a tried and true position," says Jenkins-Hall. "The 69 position allows both partners to give and receive clitoral stimulation simultaneously." If you need more details, it goes a little something like this: One of you lies on top of the other in an opposite-facing direction. That way, both of your mouths land right in between each other's legs.
Pro tip: You can either switch up who's on top during your 69 sesh *or* both of you can stay on your sides for a lying 69 position, Jenkins-Hall explains. This might be a little more comfortable if you don't like feeling the weight of someone's body on yours (you do you!) or vice versa.
"This position is basically the cowgirl done on your partner’s face," says Jenkins-Hall. "It's great because it provides direct clitoral stimulation and you can focus on the pleasure you are receiving from your partner." If you're on top, you've also got the ability to control the speed, rhythm, and motion of your stimulation—always a plus.
"This position also works well with role-play, like naughty nurse or demanding dominatrix," Jenkins-Hall explains. Picture it: You're on top and in complete control, feeling like the powerful queen you are, or you're on the bottom and experiencing your partner get all kinds of pleasure from rubbing against your mouth and tongue. Both hot situations.
"Straight couples aren't the only ones who can enjoy doggy-style sex ," Jenkins-Hall says. "With a strap-on, two people with vaginas can also enjoy this position." The receiving partner can stimulate their clitoris with their fingers or a vibrator while being stroked from behind, she explains. And the partner with the strap-on can stimulate their own nipples with their hands or finger vibrator . Note: If you enjoy deep penetration, you'll probs love this one.
And if you don't enjoy penetration, forget it altogether and the position can still be a pleasurable one. You can grind and rub against each other without anything being inserted anywhere. As the person in the back, you can reach around and massage your partner's clit or nipples, or you can pull their hair as they grind on your pelvis.
No, not for more doggy style. You or your partner gets on all fours while the other person, also on all fours, gives oral from behind, says Jess O’Reilly , sexpert, author, podcaster, and Astroglide 's resident sexologist. This gives you a different kind of angle than you might be used to and offers easy access to the receiver's butt for massaging or anal penetration, if that's what you're into.
This time, "have your partner slide underneath you while lying on their back," O'Reilly explains. You can stay on all fours, but "stretch your arms out in front and bring your bottom up for improved access" to your vulva and clitoris. This way, your partner will be underneath you while you're on your hands and knees, giving them a different angle by which to access your clit than approaching you from behind.
"Sit upright in a chair or on the edge of a bed with your legs spread wide," says O'Reilly. "Have your partner crawl between your legs and put a pillow beneath their knees. Lift your leg(s) up and wrap them around your partner’s neck and shoulders to adjust the angle and use your hips to steer them" while they go down on you.
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For this one, lie down and put a pillow under your head to support your neck. Then, "have your partner straddle your head or chest, facing your feet," O'Reilly explains. Then, they'll bend over and you can go to town—as in, with your tongue. If you need a break, feel free to bring a bullet vibrator into the mix (a smaller toy is better in this case since your partner's vulva is already in close proximity) that you can easily sub in and manipulate to your partner's content.
Again, while certain positions like missionary have a heteronormative association, they're really for *everyone* to explore. Jenkins-Hall recommends using a strap on to ride your partner. On a budget? Just use your fingers instead.
"Double-sided dildos allow for simultaneous penetration," Jenkins-Hall explains. Get one of your own, rub lube onto both sides, and each of you can ease it in for a twist on traditional missionary that's double the fun. Gaze into each other's eyes, touch each other, and more while you ride the toy.
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