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College Roommate was a He/Him Lesbian
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Sharing this here because someone asked me to in the comments on another post. This is long. Let's go!
For context, I am female and was rooming with who I thought was a transgender male (male brain in a female body). My school allows students to use their preferred names and necessary pronouns; transgender students are required to room with someone of the same physical sex. You know, because college kids do the do, and no one wants to be pregnant AND take exams at the same time. The dean got a ton of shit for that rule alone, but that's another story for another time.
I'll call this person 'she' since that's what she turned out to be.
Alright. Flashback to move-in day. It's September and still a sweltering 90 degrees out. I love New England. Everyone's out on the quad, staging stuff to bring up to their rooms. Most people's parents are there, including mine. So, as I'm lugging this maybe fifty pound box toward the stairs, this blonde kid comes up to us. She looks like the average tomboy -- short hair, tank top, boys' shorts, mascara and I think no other makeup. She has the same name as me. I'll just call her KC here. She seems like a pleasant, outgoing person and I don't have any weird vibes.
Fast-forward to a few days into school. I meet her current girlfriend and some of her friends. The girlfriend is one of those people who does yoga and goes to Whole Foods to buy açai and chia seeds and shit. Not that I'm judging -- I kind of am one, too. Her friends are mostly the nerdy sort. Again. I'm not judging. None of them seem like denizens of Tumblr, beyond a few using it to look at art.
I decide that this year, I'm gonna have a nice time and actually be friends with my roommate instead of just coexisting.
Fast-forward again to a week or so in. There's this consignment store nearby where I get most of my weird edgy clothing. I ask KC if she and her friends would like to go, too. Thought maybe I could show them around -- I grew up here in the city where I'm going to school. She says it sounds fun and we make a tentative plan for Thursday. Thursday rolls around and she's made other, more solid plans. I figure it's nothing and let it go. We reschedule for Sunday. Sunday rolls around, and... she's made other plans. That's annoying. But again, I just let it go. After it happens a third time, I'm done. I ask a fourth time just to see if she'll do it again, and she does.
I then give up on being friends. No tolerance for that kind of behavior. Damn, if she didn't want to go, she could've just said so and I would've been fine!
A month or so passes, in which I witness relationship troubles between her and yoga girlfriend, which I shouldn't have to see, as I'm not close with either of them. I think they broke up twice. At least once, she cried on the phone either to or about the girlfriend while I was in the room .
Now, give it maybe another month and yoga girlfriend is out of the picture. She starts dating one of her friends (I honestly forget which friend and whether they were an SJW). This entire time, she's been calling herself gay. I think nothing of it. Women who like women often call themselves gay.
She soon switches to calling herself a lesbian. Which is fine. She's a girl, dating girls -- lesbian, right?
It's then that I hear those dreaded little words from her friends: He. Him.
But, as I'm trying to be an optimist this year, I have an "Oh, shit!" moment and think I've been mislabeling a trans male. The whole "lesbian" thing is a little, nagging dark cloud in the back of my mind. I force myself to ignore it. It can take people a while to get used to new words with someone transgender, even the trans person themselves.
That new girlfriend disappears and another comes in. And she goes back to calling herself gay. That really makes me pause.
Then I remember the whole shopping thing. I think maybe it was a trans thing -- "he" didn't want to be seen shopping with women, because people might think "he" was also a woman. But... KC goes out with her friends all the time and a lot of them are female.
She even went to Victoria's Secret -- I saw the bags lying around her side of the room -- and left her lingerie strewn across the bed. That was nice to see when I came in. As was the time she came in, wearing leggings, then bent over the moment I turned to see who was there, giving me an unwanted view of her ass.
KC continued to have her friends call her "he/him", and continued to self-describe as a lesbian. The last straw was during this phase of the story. So, we don't lock the room door. We don't need to. It's around 7 p.m. and I'm just back from a night class. I go to open the door, and... it's locked. A flurry of giggling erupts from behind it. I hear whispers: "OMG! Did you tell her?" "What's she doing?" "OMG!", etc, etc.
I check my phone. Now, here's the deal: my phone at the time was broken and didn't give me text notifications. So, only if I opened the message app and scrolled through would I see new texts. There's one from her, something like: "Hey, my girlfriend is over, so if you could knock, that'd be great! :)" Well, shit. I go to play some video games in the lounge until they leave. A couple hours later, I look and there's another text: "We left." Talk about a shift in tone.
The next day, I tried to explain -- "Hey, so my phone is broken..." Couldn't get one single word out of my mouth before she made it very clear she was ignoring me.
And that was it. That was the last time I actually made any effort with her.
She'd smile and say hi when we passed each other on the way to classes, and act generally pleasant, like nothing had happened I didn't return any of it.
To top it all off, move-in day was also my birthday. Best present ever!
tl;dr: Roommate lead people to think she was trans but was really a lesbian using male pronouns. Exposed way too much of her personal life to someone who didn't even like her. Also was a jerk who didn't communicate like a polite human being and liked to ignore me.
I can also post about the time someone at this school ignored and friend-rejected me for (supposedly) NOT having Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome! That was fun.
This person is either really confused or (more likely) attention seeking. Thanks for the story!
From reading a ton of former SJWs' stories, the SJW pattern of deceit, frustration, and flipping back and forth between this and that comes from behind confused about 1) who they are and 2) what they want.
The heart of my roommate's problem, I think, is that at 20 something years old, she still didn't communicate things that needed to be communicated. And bought into all of that Tumblr misinformation. She wasn't the scum of the earth -- just acted like her emotional issues entitled her to act the way she did. Which is pretty much central to any SJW or "crazy feminist" thought process, no matter the precise kind of SJW.
Am I stupid for admitting I am confused by this? 🙁
Person sounds like a crack head, and also rude for no reason.
Ugh, I feel you, I had a room with a "hippie" for a while, before SJW was a thing.
So, where does the SJW part factor in?
I mean that's a nice story, but it sounds to me like you're just frustrated at the fact of this person existing. At no point does anything about this person being crazy because of pronouns or sexuality or unreasonable politics comes in. Sounds like he didn't want to hang out with you, then you walked in on him getting busy, and now he's pissed. I mean, that could happen to anybody.
I think the theme here is the use (and perhaps abuse) of gender identity as a tool to get ones social needs met, which seems common with SJWs.
Especially when it's used as a tool to bully or dismiss other peoples perspective and values.
Her being a lesbian and trying to use male pronouns pretty much tipped me off, lol
The 'frustration' came from the lack of communication -- this person wasn't honest about not wanting to be friends. As nice as it would have been to have a friendship with my roommate, ultimately, it's not up to me whether or not they want that. They didn't and that was fine. The lying and hiding it was disrespectful.
Nor did this person allow me to explain the mistake of walking in on them, for which I did feel bad. And I wanted to smooth things over. Yes, she's allowed to be annoyed about it. I just, again, would have liked her to communicate that.
And, again, the very fact that she was using male pronouns without being a male (transgender or not) didn't do much for the credibility of transgender people who spent time around her. And I don't mean that I didn't believe those other people were trans; I mean that, once it got out that she was a lesbian using pronouns not meant for her, the trans people had a harder time earning respect from those frustrated with the roommate.
After the truth was out, I didn't see as many of her former friends hanging out with her, either. I don't know if they felt betrayed or disappointed or annoyed or what.
The concept of he/him lesbians is absolutely everywhere in Tumblr SJW circles. Much of the transgender community, both on and off of Tumblr and especially trans men, agree that lesbians using he/him is an added problem when it comes to living with dysphoria. They've even had their own parents assume that, because some lesbians go by he/him, their transgender sons are just... well, lesbians. I did know someone who was an SJW and he/him lesbian to the point of it being really unhealthy -- if I can contact them, I can ask for permission to share their story.
Deceit also tends to factor into SJWs' behavior in some way. Also note that, if this person ever did start to transition, and ever did show any other signs of genuinely being transgender, I'd have used "he" the whole time. It's never okay to misgender someone just because you don't like them.
EDIT: Had to block to prevent this post being flooded with harassment and being made less enjoyable for everyone else.


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15 Whisper Confessions From Women Who Experimented In College


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People use college as a place to experiment and find themselves. Romantic experimentation between women at college has become the topic of several B-rated movies and the fantasies of multiple men. But the thing is, experimentation in college does actually happen — and it’s just as common as you think.
A lot of people have actually been waiting for that moment, and it’s one of the most exciting parts of their entire college experience. Why? Because it’s an opportunity to either explore their romantic orientation, or benefit from the romantic freedom and the approach that many people have to intercourse while in college. Not to mention that many of these “experimenting” moments are often viewed by the rest of society as very normal, and are therefore something that comes with little or no judgment — that said, the fact that people’s romantic choices are still judged in 2017 is ridiculous!
Actually, it’s even recommended that you experiment while in college — a quick Google search will reveal as much. Below are the confessions of 15 women who used their time in school as a means of better understanding their bodies, and what they want. Ultimately leading to them leaving college with an overall fulfilling experience.
According to the person behind this confession, when she was in college she had a few very memorable relationships. She claims that she used to be involved with older women when she was in college. As we’ve established, college is a fantastic place to experiment because you are given so much freedom and are exposed to new ideas, so it’s really not surprising that this trickles down into an individual’s approach to relationships, too.
And this woman claims to still look back on those times fondly. She admits to sometimes missing the relationships that she had in her younger years with these women, but she’s also thankful to them for the experience, and is happy that she had the opportunity to be more romantically free in the first place.

I can think of at least a handful of films where the plot line involves two young, good-looking college students crushing on each other; but the movies don’t always represent an accurate portrayal of what it’s like in the real world. According to this confession, this woman has found out that hooking up with other college females is a lot harder than the movies made it seem (really, no surprise there because Hollywood exaggerates everything), and she has her work cut out for her.
Apparently, after being in college for a reasonable amount of time, she has still only ever met one lesbian. Hmm, maybe she’s going about the whole process in the wrong way, or looking for romance with all the wrong people?

According to the person behind this Whisper confession, there is nothing wrong with experimenting while in college, but don’t do it with your best friends unless you want to end up with major regrets. Apparently, this woman had intercourse with her two best friends and then ended up losing two friendships because of it.
This makes sense, because if it was just a “phase” or something that happened because they were curious, rather than actually attracted to each other, then there would be a bit of awkwardness the next day. Which is why it’s probably a safer bet to stick to strangers. That, and if someone in this group does develop feelings for another person, and starts to hang out with them more regularly, there is a good chance that someone is going to be left out.

You may think that most of the women who experiment in college do it with their roommate — if it doesn’t work out it’s going to be a bit of an awkward housing situation — because the close confines may give way to amorous feelings.
However, according to this woman’s confession, she had a college experience with a bit of twist, because it wasn’t with her roommate, but rather with her roommate’s mom. I assume these two met when the girls were moving into their dorm room, but I have no idea how this hookup would have come about. Or how the mom and the student managed to find alone time together. Let’s just hope that her daughter never came home to find her mom in bed with her roommate. Awkward !

This person graduated from college a long time ago and is now a 37-year-old woman, who has gone on to date multiple men, and even marry one. She’s divorced now, and she can’t stop thinking about her past. But it’s not her ex-husband that she’s missing, but rather a time from her days in college that she keeps thinking back on. It seems that she is contemplating reliving those memories.
According to this confession, this woman had a lot of “fun-nights” with a college girlfriend, and now, after more than ten years she’s started to wonder if perhaps she is more into women than she initially thought. It’s never too late to explore other options, and experimentation may be more common in college, but it definitely doesn’t have to end there…

In 2008, the world fell in love with Katy Perry’s song, “I Kissed A Girl,” and it probably wasn’t just the catchy tune that people were so obsessed with. Kissing girls in college is definitely a thing, and according to the woman behind this confession, it’s something that she did and surprisingly enjoyed. A lot more than she initially thought she would.
This woman’s confession doesn’t give us enough background to determine whether she discovered she likes kissing girls in college and that the experience led her to realize that she wanted to be with women, or if she simply just enjoyed experimenting. But regardless of the outcome, she was so impressed with the experience that she felt the need to come onto an anonymous app and recommend it to college students everywhere. As she states “I think all girls should try it.”

According to the woman behind this confession, she had a lesbian relationship while in college. And although it wasn’t meant to be, and she ultimately ended up with someone from the opposite sex, she appears to have no regrets from the experience. More than that, things between her and the other women seem to have ended amicably; because she claims that they are still friends.
While there is really no background regarding this confession, just from the few words that this woman says, her experience with another woman was something special. She ultimately ended up marrying a man, and so did her ex-girlfriend, but this is obviously a memory that they both look back on fondly, especially if she’s still willing to speak about it.

This woman is not able to admit to her mother, who she calls “homophobic”, the way that she really feels about other women. It seems that she likes the same gender a lot more than her mother knows.
According to this confession, the woman has been telling her mother that she is studying in the library, but what she is actually doing is having a fantastic time at college and has been experiencing a lot of new things; including lesbian bars and flirting with women. While it doesn’t appear that she has acted on her feelings yet, and the woman she was flirting with is apparently in a relationship, she does appear to be rebelling against her mother, who really needs to be more open-minded.

It’s no secret that college students party and drink way too much. During the average student’s college experience, they will probably wake up with one too many headaches, and possibly even a handful of regrets. This confession comes from a woman who also has a regret, but it’s not what you’re thinking. Because it’s not her actions, in this case a lesbian experience, that she wishes she could change; but rather she would simply have liked it to have been under different, more sober circumstances.
According to this confession, this woman is now almost in her thirties and she has been thinking about what happened in college — she can remember everything. And appears to be very keen to try it again, now, and sober.

People use college as a time to experiment. It’s a well-known but also an overly-exaggerated thing, especially if it involves two young and attractive women (bonus points for them being in a fraternity or on a cheerleading team, apparently).
This woman admits that her first lesbian experience was in college — because she said “first”, I assume there have been multiple other times since this one. She doesn’t offer up much information about what exactly happened, and how she ended up with a woman in the first place; but she does reveal that the woman that she had her experience with was on the same cheerleading team as her. This is no doubt a fantasy of many people, men, and women.
College is not just about academic growth, but also personal growth. It seems that college experiences, much like this one, ultimately help to broaden someone’s horizons.

For this woman, her time in college has been an eye-opening experience in a lot of ways. She claims to have always liked and dated men, but now that she’s in college she is finding herself more and more attracted to people of the same gender.
Her sexual identity is hers to define and hers alone, and apparently she has been giving some serious thought as to what that may be. According to the Whisper confession, she doesn’t want to have a rela
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