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In the market for some of the best lesbian sex toys out there? (A quick note that when we say “lesbian,” we aren’t strictly bound to this label, since queer, bisexual, and nonbinary folks have sex with other people with vulvas .) Well, you're in the right place. There are plenty of pleasure accessories to explore and introduce into your rotation—and your sex life will be all the better for it. We've reached out to experts to find out what to know before making your shopping choices.
First things first, if you identify as a lesbian and want to treat yourself with some solo play , you'll need to pinpoint what gets you off (choices, choices). Do you need clitoral stimulation? Clitoral and G-spot stimulation? Are you one of those lucky people who can orgasm by massaging your nipples ? A good “lesbian” sex toy is a sex toy that satisfies a person with (generally) a vulva, but don’t be afraid to incorporate toys that stimulate other erogenous zones —like your breasts, thighs, neck, earlobes, and more.
And regardless of your sexual preference or gender, finding a good couples sex toy that will suit you and your partner is all about experimentation and communicating your wants and needs. Tiana GlittersaurusRex —polyamorous educator, activist, and cofounder of The Sex Work Survival Guide —tells Glamour , “Communication is super important because not everyone has the same desires and gets off the same way.” While one woman may prefer to have sex using a vibrator, for example, another may prefer to bring a strap-on dildo into the bedroom for penetration.
Luckily, there are way more inclusive toys on the market these days. “I love the variety of harnesses available now! That was not a thing back in the day,” Sofiya Alexandra , cofounder and cohost of the podcast Private Parts Unknown, tells Glamour. “There are also a lot more toys focusing on the clit and labia, not to mention better design and materials, and a ton of companies run by women —which is a huge step in making better sex toys for women.”
You'll also find a variety of dildos (sometimes called insertables) and strap-ons to choose from if you're interested in pegging, whether you want something that vibrates for heightened stimulation or not. Rest assured that they don't have to look super phallic, if you're avoiding realistic dildos.
To help you narrow down your choices, we asked sex experts to recommend some of the best lesbian sex toys out there, and we received a wide variety of answers that are sure to please. Let's check them out.
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First up, the versatile, ultra-bendable Tiani 3 pulls double duty as a clitoral stimulator and G-spot massager. This one comes highly recommended by sexpert Zhana Vrangalova , a professor of human sexuality at New York University, as a couples sex toy (though it can also be used for solo play).
Vrangalova tells Glamour that while people may think of the Tiani as a toy used during penetrative sex between a partner with a vulva and another that has a penis, it can also be great for vulva-on-vulva sex, with one person wearing the Tiani while rubbing their clit against their partner. “Given the dual vibration—one internal, one external—both partners get clitoral stimulation at the same time,” she says. “It's probably my favorite toy for playing with other vulva owners.” Once it's inserted, either partner can keep the wireless remote control on hand to increase the intensity of vibrations.
Pretty enough to act as its own modern art piece , the gorgeous Soraya Wave rabbit vibe can be the ticket to satisfying vaginal penetration and clitoral stimulation all in one go. The Soraya Wave's shaft is designed to mimic the touch and feel of fingers making a stroking, come-hither motion, while the “ears” stimulate the clitoris. Add to that a variety of pleasure settings that can help you rumble your way to an intense orgasm. Vrangalova suggests that partners take turns using it on each other, “[making] sure to disinfect it between partners, unless you're fluid-bonded.”
Dame Products's Eva got a lot of buzz at its launch as one of the first sex toys created for women, by women (specifically, a sexologist from Columbia University and an MIT engineer). Powered by a three-speed motor, it's a small but mighty toy with little “wings” that resemble arms, which are meant to tuck under your labia.
It's also one of Tiana GlittersaurusRex's favorite vibrators, since it “stays in place while getting playful,” without either partner needing to lift a finger once it's inserted. This leaves both parties hands-free to play with other parts of the body, and perhaps even experiment with it in the shower since it has a waterproof body.
Sex-toy retailer Wet for Her was founded by a queer woman named Alice Derock, who was determined to create a better shopping experience for the queer community. True to its mission, the brand offers a variety of inclusive toys that put the needs of queer couples front and center. The Mini Scissoring vibe is a great example.
Recommended by certified sex therapist Kate Balestrieri , Psy.D., it's a toy that's specifically designed to enhance scissoring (i.e., vulva-on-vulva sex). A textured bulb stimulates the G-spot while its 10 vibration settings help you go from 0 to 100 with the press of a button. The Rockher “gives partners with vulvas the opportunity to intensify their body-to-body contact and to stay connected and enlivened,” Balestrieri tells Glamour .
Another toy created with lesbians in mind, Wet for Her's two-finger extender is a toy you can slide over two of your fingers to allow for deeper penetration while you're massaging your partner's G-spot (or really any other pleasure point). It's made of 100% body-safe silicone, with a firm but soft consistency that's deeply pleasurable for targeted stimulation. Balestrieri vouches for this toy since it's so versatile and perfect for partnered playtime.
Here's a versatile toy from the sexperts at Trojan that can be worn on your finger to help you stroke your partner to a climax, on pleasure points like the breasts, neck, nipples, stomach, and more. Balestrieri describes the Trojan Ultra Touch finger vibe as “a unique toy that gives partners a way to intensify the sensations they provide each other, all over each other’s bodies.” It doesn't hurt that it's also easy on the wallet , clocking in at under $15.
Dame's Fin is one of the most popular finger vibrators out there, and Alexandra recommends it if you want to “really take finger play to another level.” It's beloved for how comfortable it is to wear, in a small, travel-friendly size that you can easily stow away. It's also deceptively powerful, and many reviewers rave about how mind-blowing it feels when applied to any pleasure point on the body. Simply slip it between two fingers and power it up with the press of a button.
If you're focusing on the clitoris during sex, Alexandra recommends the Zalo Bess clitoral vibrator because “it comes with three different attachments that make it super versatile depending on your partner's preference for nipple, internal, or external stimulation.” Using DirectPower technology, this clitoral vibrator is ultra powerful while staying whisper-quiet. Alexandra adds that it “looks like it’s wearing an RBG dissent collar, so you can give homage while getting off.”
Lelo's Sila clitoral massager is another great option that Vrangalova recommends for masturbation or partnered sex, and revs up with eight different vibration settings. Sonic waves stimulate the clitoris in a sensation that some liken to oral sex, without even needing to come in direct contact with the clitoris to intensify the journey to orgasm. Like many of the other toys on this list, “one partner can use it on the other one with endless possibilities for how to go about it,” Vrangalova says. It can even double as a bathtime or shower-sex accessory since it's totally waterproof.
Thinking of trying a strap-on? Exploring the world of strap-ons for the first time might seem intimidating, which is why sex educator and relationship expert Dainis Graveris recommends starting with a beginner-friendly kit that includes a harness and dildo—versus picking and choosing both separately. The machine-washable harness adjusts to fit waists between 18 and 68 inches, featuring three interchangeable O-rings to fit and hold the dildo in place. If the receiver needs more stimulation, the harness even has a pocket for a bullet vibrator (sold separately). The dildo itself is five inches long and three inches thick, which is certainly on the more conservative end for sizing, but you're always welcome to swap out O-rings and provide your own dildo if you want to size up.
You can even mix it up with your dildo selection, like this Happy Rabbit strap-on harness set that includes a vibrating rabbit vibrator. Its curved shaft is designed to hit the G-spot while the rabbit ears simultaneously stimulate the clit and labia. For the wearer, the jock-style harness is also ultra comfortable, fits waists up to 67 inches, and includes three interchangeable O-rings for swapping out your dildo.
Nicely, this harness set can even pleasure the wearer at the same time. Taylor Sparks , erotic educator and founder of Organic Love, tells Glamour that the Happy Rabbit can satisfy both the receiver and the giver “as its shorter pony ears can be adjusted to stimulate the clitoris of the wearer.” With 15 vibration modes to choose from, you can dial up the intensity while your partner thrusts inside of you.
Want to penetrate your partner while simultaneously being penetrated? Get yourself a strap-on dildo set that does both. This double-ended dildo (which comes with its own harness) is made of body-safe silicone, and both ergonomic tips are curved for maximum G-spot or P-spot pleasure. Balestrieri says that Lovehoney's Double Duty strap-on “lets partners move in synchronicity with one another for deeply connected pleasure,” adding that it's “good for both vaginal and anal sex, with curved heads for added internal texture.” Importantly, it also vibrates for added stimulation, with three vibration speeds and seven patterns at your disposal thanks to the wired controller that comes with it.
If you want to have penetrative sex with your partner and are not really feeling a harness, you can also get yourself a strapless strap-on dildo. While these do take some getting used to (and definitely some Kegel work ) since they involve clenching the toy to hold it in place internally, the dual-pleasure aspect is really appealing for some folks. “The shaft used for penetration is rippled for additional sensation and can be posed and positioned to hit the internal spots that do the trick for your partner,” Balestrieri says.
This strapless strap-on features a removable bullet vibe with three speeds and seven vibration patterns to play with. The textured shaft is also 6.5 inches long and 4.5 inches in girth, with a slight curving arc to stimulate the G-spot.
And while nipple clamps aren't toys exactly, for the folks who experience pleasure (and even orgasm) from nipple pinching, adding some to the mix can be a fun option. Alexandra vouches for them as a nice play in contrasts, or “a hot way to combine hard and soft, pain and pleasure.” She adds, “I love them and the sensitivity they bring to my or my partner’s nipples.”
These feathery clamps from Adam & Eve feature soft rubber tips so that you won't be left with chafed or sore nipples. Use the feathers to tease your partner, and gently tug on the clamps once they're attached to the nipple for extra sensation.
Other accessories can also help set the scene. A soft yet firm sex pillow like Dame's Pillo is always good to have on hand because it can help make any type of sex more pleasurable. “The Pillo makes any position you play with more comfortable, and helps while eating ass or pussy to access different pleasure points,” says Tiana GlittersaurusRex. It's also discreet enough to blend in with the rest of your throw pillows, with a removable cover that you can toss in the wash to keep it fresh.
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Vibrators come in all shapes and sizes, whether they’re designed for your clit or your G-spot. These vibes all make a great addition to a female couple’s sex drawer.
Fingering will never be the same again. Best For : Finger-tickling fun.
If you’re a fan of using your fingers, the AYU Finger Vibes are perfect. These cheap lesbian toys slip right onto your finger, adding strong and discreet vibrations for intense clitoral stimulation. You get 2 pieces in every set, and they’re totally waterproof so you could easily use them in the shower without worry!
PROS : Smooth silicone construction, quiet, powerful, 1-button simple control system, 2-pack
CONS : Limited 40-minute battery life, small cell batteries (not rechargeable)
One of the most famous female sex toys ever. Best For: Deep, rumbling G-spot stimulation
The Magic Wand Massager has been used by women of all sexualities for nearly 50 years now. It’s the sex toy that helped many women to have intense squirting orgasms for the first time. If clitoral stimulation doesn’t quite do it for your partner, try massaging her with this baby. You can even buy Magic Wand attachments to customize the sensations.
The Hitachi Magic Wand is known for its rich feminist history , starting out as an innocent back massager before being discovered by sex therapist Betty Dodson in the 1970s.
PROS : Doesn’t take batteries (plugs in), deep rumbling G-spot orgasms, great reputation
CONS : Needs to be plugged in, limited settings
Calling them “simulators” might be a bit kind, but these devices are supposed to mimic the clit licking and clit sucking sensations of oral sex.
Clit tickling fun. Best For: Playing with the nipples and clitoris.
If you love the idea of “fluttering tips” tickling your clit like a tongue, the Blush Tongue Vibrating Clit Stimulator is ideal for you. Armed with 7 powerful-yet-quiet modes, this USB rechargeable lesbian sex toy delivers powerful clitoral stimulation for you and your partner. It can also be used on the nipples, a powerful erogenous zone.
PROS : Body-safe silicone, 7 modes, USB rechargeable, quiet
Award-winning sonic wave pleasure. Best For: Stimulating deep into the clitoral complex.
Your clitoris actually extends a few inches inside you, but most vibrators only scratch the surface. Lelo’s Sona series uses sonic waves to send pulses through your clit and deep into your clitoral complex, creating unique penetrating orgasms. The Sona Cruise 2 also reserves 20% of its power for when you press it hard against your body, keeping the pulses intense!
PROS : Doesn’t lose power when pressed tightly, sonic wave pulses, body-safe silicone
CONS : Expensive, sonic pulses aren’t for everyone
Great vibrator for female same-sex couples. Best For: Tickling the clitoris and labia.
Fun Factory are great at making high-quality, simple sex toys, and the Volta Vibrator is no exception. This cheap sex toy for women has 6 vibration speeds and 6 patterns, giving a total of 36 different sensations to explore. Made from medical-grade silicone, it’s also 100% waterproof so you can wash it easily or take it in the shower for some cheeky fun!
PROS : 36 different sensations, waterproof, fluttering tips, medical-grade silicone
CONS : 4-6 hour initial charge, only 45-minute battery life at highest speed
Designed with female-female sex in mind. Best For: Strap-on beginners.
If you’re after strap ons for gay women, look no further than Tantus. Their beginners strap on kit comes with 2 dildos – 4.5 inches and 5.5 inches – ideal for amateurs. These harnesses are adjustable and come with a pouch for a bullet vibe to create pleasure for the wearer. Furthermore, the dildo harnesses O-ring is compatible with other flared base dildos too!
There is a lot of stigma around strap ons in the queer community, especially when strap ons for lesbians are designed to look like penises. However, there are many non-phallic strap-on dildos for sale like this one.
PROS : 2 non-phallic dildos included, adjustable up to 60’, bullet vibe pouch, multiple options
CONS : Bullet vibe is loud and not ideally placed for the wearer
Where Narnia meets lesbianism. Best For: Classy strap-on sex.
As someone who’s a proud owner of Cherry Red Doc Martens , this Cherry Red leather dildo harness would perfectly match! This high-quality design from Aslan Leather is comfortable, sturdy, and designed to sit on the hips like low-rise jeans. It comes with a 3-point snap out O-ring system, making this harness compatible with hundreds of dildos and O-rings.
PROS : 2 sizes adjustable
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