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WARNING: Sexual content. Some still feel shame about being who they are in Australia. But not in the Philippines.
THE billboard on level one of the two-storey, triangle shaped building reads “Lady, Oil and Midget Wrestling”.
The billboard above it on level two reads: “Mixed Nuts No Cover Charge — No Show Charge — Birdies Martinis — The Entertainment Capital and Only Ladyboy Show in Manila”. The building sits on a major four lane Manila highway, for everyone to see.
I walked up a flight of stairs and into an air-conditioned club.
It’s 1am. There’s a Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show on multiple TV screens, and Major Lazer’s Bubble Butt is playing on the speakers. A beautiful woman, about 21 years old, was doing the most erotic lip sync I’ve ever seen on the spotlit dancefloor.
She was wearing pale blue stilettos, denim shorts and a cowboy hat: hypnotising a crowd of half-a-dozen white men with the spinning white cotton string of her nipple tassels.
The performer’s name, I learn, is Mariel. She’s a star of the 13-member Mixed Nuts team. She is one of seven with breasts and a penis, two of the 13 have breasts and a vagina, four are trans women who had never had any surgery or taken hormones.
Mixed Nuts is not a drag venue. It’s a bar that caters for men who are sexually attracted to transgender women and feminised men.
“Ladyboys have great bodies, they are normally better looking than regular women, they really are,” the Australian man I’ll call David said as we sat in a soft-padded booth facing the dancefloor. He’s 42, and looks like a ginger Piers Morgan.
“I just think they are beautiful, they have this exaggerated femininity. I come to Manila for relaxation one weekend a month. I’ve had sex five times today with five different people, three women and two transgender,” David — who wanted to keep his identity a secret — told me.
“In the Philippines I can walk down the street with a trans woman and nobody really cares what gender your partner is,” he said. “It’s more relaxed here.”
GAMP: POSSIBLY MORE COMMON THAN GAY
David’s playing style is referred to by sexologists as gynandromorphophilia (often shortened to GAMP). But it’s not a medical condition, it’s just a term for people attracted to people born biologically male, but who look, act, or are women, this includes cross-dressing men, drag queens and transgender women.
And GAMP is a very common orientation too.
Porn download data suggests there are more men attracted to trans women than there are men attracted to other men.
“I guess I’m a variety of bisexual. I like trans women and women, I am not attracted to men — not at all,” David said. “I come to Manila because the trans women here are beautiful. But I am not really ready to explain this part of my life to friends, and more especially my family. I’ll have people asking: ‘Why, why, why?’ and people who think I’ve been living some kind of lie because I present as straight.”
Before I went to Mixed Nuts, I had done some reading.
I’d looked at a study by Dr Ogi Ogas, an American computational neuroscientist. He said his analysis of anonymous internet histories indicated that those who watched trans porn almost never watched man-man gay porn — they tended to watch heterosexual porn as well.
Similarly, not that long ago, researchers at America’s Northwestern University attached penis enlargement censors to a group of male research subjects as each one spent time in a room watching a variety of porn.
The researchers found that trans-attracted men were just as likely to get an erection when watching heterosexual porn as a heterosexual identifying man, and the trans-attracted men didn’t usually get erections when watching gay porn. It also found that the men who got erections watching the gay porn rarely didn’t get erections watching trans porn.
That said, at Mixed Nuts I also learned the difference between “straight” and “gay”, even “trans” and “gay” in the Philippines is not the same as we tend to understand it in Australia.
So it was just after 2.15am and I was talking to a guy in his late-40s from Britain who I’ll call Martin.
“I come to Manila rather than Bangkok because they speak better English here. I really enjoy the company of ladyboys, I love that they have a unique perspective on things in the face of so much difficulty,” Martin said.
Then I was interrupted by a tall, dark-skinned trans-Barbie doll who tapped my shoulder very politely asked: “Do you want a blow job?”
I explained that I am gay, And she said that didn’t matter because “I am really a boy, I don’t have breasts and I have a cock”.
And she said: “Straight and gay men sex me”.
A sales pitch? Perhaps — the Philippines is dirt poor and the name of the game at Mixed Nuts is to get white men to buy drinks.
But her comment made me wonder a few other things, like how Martin was attracted to trans woman who didn’t take hormones — therefore didn’t have breasts — but wasn’t attracted to say, very feminine gay men.
“Well most of the trans women I date in the Philippines don’t take hormones, but I am attracted to them and I am not attracted to men. It’s a strange thing, I know,” he told me. “What can I say? The difference is that a ladyboy has no body hair and has a higher voice, they wear perfume, they look like women, very feminine, certainly more woman than man.”
Then the 3.36am curve-ball: we were joined at the table by Valarie. She knew she was beautiful; with her hair piece, perfect skin and black contact lenses, there was something even a little bit humanoid about her. She told me her boyfriend, an American living in Vietnam, “is a GAAAY.”
Vienna breathed in with her nose, lent in, and whispered “because he wants to get a vagina.”
Oh that old story: boys meets girl, girl has a penis, boys likes penis so much he wants to get a vagina. I guess that settles it all then: men are from Mars, women are from Venus, but we are really all humanoid aliens secretly controlled by an intergalactic illuminati. Or maybe I was just asking too many questions.
I’ve often heard some of my transgender friends complain about being treated like a dirty fetish — on one occasion with make-up running everywhere because of her tears and broken heart.
American writer, TV host and transgender activist Janet Mock writes about this problem as a “pervasive ideology says that trans women are shameful, that trans women are not worthy of being seen and that trans women must remain a secret — invisible and disposable”.
That said, while it’s not surprising men travel to Asia to explore their desires for the third sex when it’s still a source of shame in Western countries, it’s important to note that discrimination and violence against transgender women remains common in the Philippines.
A Spanish colony for many hundreds of years, pre-colonial women-led Filipino tribes gave transgender woman roles as Shamans or community leaders.
The Spaniards by contrast had been subjecting gay men to capital punishment during the Inquisition and banned any form of cross-dressing back in their home kingdom (even in the theatre and during cultural events).
This was just before they sailed into and then claimed the 7000 island archipelago. Unsurprisingly, the status of trans people quickly plummeted.
It was hard not to think of the case of Jennifer Laude, 26, the Filipino killed by American marine Joseph Scott Pemberton. After Pemberton’s lawyers first tried to argue there was no evidence Pemberton killed her, they then argued he did kill her — but only after realising she was trans in the hotel room. Therefore, he told the court, he felt “repulsed” and “feared he would be raped” — so he strangled her to death.
And while we didn’t hear about it in Australia, within the same week two other trans women were murdered in the Philippines by fellow Filipinos.
‘I SHOULD HAVE JUST RAN WITH MY TRANSGENDER ATTRACTION’
It was 4.18am and Martin was telling me he “couldn’t give a shit” what people think of his attraction to transgender women. But he has a wife (“a stale relationship ... we haven’t had sex in six years”) and child.
“I couldn’t leave my wife for a trans woman, she would find that so humiliating, then I would have to explain it to my kid who is only 11,” he told me in a drunken, sombre tone — a strange contrast to the camp, fun rendition of Greased Lightning being performed on the dancefloor.
“I met my wife not long after I lost my virginity which I didn’t lose until I was in my early 20s. Looking back now, 30-odd years ago, I should have just ran with my transgender attraction,” Martin said, pushing out a deep breath.
“I should have found a transgender woman and had a serious relationship with her, then I probably wouldn’t have the complications I have today.”
Luke Williams is a journalist. His new book Extreme Asia: When Westerners go East will be released in 2018.
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Thailand is known as the Land of Smiles , but it's also know as the Land of the Ladyboys ! Compared to other countries, like the Philippines or Malaysia, Thailand has a long history and higher population of ladyboys in the world. As a matter of fact the word " ladyboy " is the English translation for " Kathoey ", a Thai word for transgender women and effeminate gay men.
Read interesting things you don't know about Thailand ladyboys .
The term "transgender" is rarely used in Thailand. Instead, the common term is, "Kathoey" which was once used to define intersex people, human beings who were born with ambiguous genitalia. 
Kathoey have become entirely common in Thai society, like everyone else, they go about their daily affairs: shopping, meeting with friends, using public transport, visiting the temple.
Ladyboy , transgender or the third gender is rarely used in Thailand. 
Miss Tiffany's Show Pattaya 32 Finalist. Can you the different with real women?
Thailand beholds the highest rate of Transsexuals throughout the world. According to Sam Winter , the numbers differ from about 10,000 to (unofficial) 300,000. substantially above that estimated for transgender in most other parts of the world. Thai community creats a sound public opinion environment for those of a different sexual orientation. They can enjoy their freedom of expressing themselves.
The very first Thai ladyboy is said to present as early as the 14 centry. At that time, Thais started to identify waht is now known as ladyboy.
First Buddhist scriptures also mention 3 genders: a man, a woman and a kathoey. So, religion officially allows for the third gender to exist. Buddhist teachings also hold that the circumstances we live today are the product of the ways in which we lived our previous lives. 
Another concept behind kathoey is the result of karma – in particular one was born kathoey as a consequence of some sexual misdemeanor in an earlier life or lives or that they failed to fulfill an expected role in the reproductive process, such as a man not caring for a woman who is pregnant by him.
Whatever the reason, it is important to note that the common belief says there is no escaping from the karmic consequences, everyone has been kathoey at once in previous lives and will be again in future ones, thus kathoey should be treated with compassion.
Kathoey acceptance in society depends on the area in which they live. In the bigger cities, it is more normalized to be kathoey. In more rural villages, treatment of kathoey is described as tolerance than acceptance.
Miss Tiffany's Universe is a beauty pageant for Thai transgender women in Pattaya , Thailand. The contest is open to all transgender women who may or may not have gone through sex reassignment surgery. 
The Miss Tiffan'’s Universe contest held once a year is receiving more attention especially since it is broadcast live on Thai television with an average of 15 million viewers. The Miss Tiffany's Universe winner receives a trophy and crown, Honda Jazz, cash prizes, jewellery, and other gifts from sponsors.
See the contrast of winners of Miss Tiffany's Univers:
You can discover more interesting things and pictures of each winner here: Tiffany Cabaret Show in Pattaya
Cabaret shows are popular and widespread in Thai culture . The Calypso in Bangkok is said to be where Lady Gaga gained a lot of her inspiration, and the Tiffany has been compared to the Miss Universe of kathoey culture. 
These cabaret shows include elaborate song and dance routines with elegant costuming. One might be tempted to compare these shows to the drag shows in the US, but in these shows the performers are not just taking on a female persona; many of them identify as women.
See more information about Calypso in Bangkok: Calypso Cabaret Show
The lifestyle of the kathoey varies as well. Mostly though, the kathoey live like other Thai people . They work as hair dressers, film makers, sex workers, waitresses, models, and other jobs that you would find any woman. 
They have romantic relationships and are allowed to marry. Kathoey, like other trans people, are just that. People.
Kathoeys are more visible and more accepted in Thai culture than transsexuals are in other countries in the world. Several popular Thai models, singers and movie stars are kathoeys, and Thai newspapers often print photographs of the winners of female and kathoey beauty contests side by side. 
The phenomenon is not restricted to urban areas; there are kathoeys in most villages, and kathoey beauty contests are commonly held as part of local fairs.
Kathoey have easy access to hormones and surgery. Local chain drug stores can carry as many as 23 hormonal preparations, all available (without a doctor's note) over the shop counter. 
Many dress as women and undergo a wide range of "feminising" medical procedures such as breast implants, hormones, silicone injections, or Adam's apple reductions. That's why a Kathoey is hard to distinguish.
would any Thai man want to be a woman? We might here answer ‘yes’ more readily than for many other societies; Asian or otherwise. Thai women occupy a more advantageous position in Thai society than elsewhere in Asia. These last authors remark that Thai males tend to revere females, referring to them as the ‘peht mae’ (gender of mothers). 
Conversely, all things worthy of reverence are conceived of as feminine; for example a great river is called mae-nam (‘mother-water’). Traditionally, a man’s family has paid a bride price upon a son marrying, while property inheritance has traditionally been through the daughter.
 It may be that the changing nature of womanhood has helped kathoey in efforts to be accepted as female.
Once a young boy has become discontented about his gender identity, he finds that modern Thai society opens up for him a clear developmental path. On one hand media personalities – TG actresses, singers, models, beauty queens - provide role models to aim for. 
Nearer at hand an older peer or often a fellow student, may provide first social contact with a kathoey. 
These older role models can provide the young kathoey with important information; initially regarding hormones, clothes, make-up, beauty contests etc, and perhaps later on extending to information about employment and surgery.
A word here about economics. A nose operation can cost from US$240. Sex reassignment surgery can cost from US$950. To save even that money one needs a job while salaries are low in Thailand. 
The costs of surgery therefore act to draw kathoey to the cabarets and bars for work. The cabarets are often unobjectionable spectacles of dance, music and costume for tourists. While the salaries are small much more might can be earned from tips given by tourists taking photos. 
The bars, on the other hand, provide a vehicle for prostitution. Both provide a way of earning the kind of money that make surgery possible. Also with hope of meeting a Westerner who might take her to his country, where, apart from anything else, she might be able to achieve legal status as a female and marry. That's the ‘kathoey career’ for most Kathoey.
Like many countries, Thailand’s military has conscription by way of a lottery. In draft day, all men over 21 – even those who no longer consider themselves to be male – are required to attend the conscription lottery once. In practice, kathoey ladyboys are almost always exempted from military service – but they are still required to attend the lottery. 
Thai law forbids people changing their gender on national identification documents, so all trans women remain officially recognised as male. These annual scenes of beautifully dressed women sitting among crowds of more conventionally male-looking recruits draws many eyes.
Today, the term kathoey is used to cover a broad spectrum of identities. This ranges from gay men that are more effeminate and may take on a persona in performance, not unlike drag shows in the US, to trans women. 
It is important to note that identifying as kathoey, like other trans identities, is not dependent on the state of the body. Some kathoey undergo hormone therapies and gender confirmation surgeries, others do not.
As far as the Thai government is concerned, male to female transsexuals are legally men. Transsexuals cannot legally change their gender on their ID cards. 
Transsexuals’ birth gender must remain the same on their passports as well, a fact which can lead to confusion and unwanted scrutiny at border crossings and immigration checkpoints. 
Thailand also prohibits same sex marriage, meaning that when the partner of a transsexual dies, the deceased's family receives any and all assets.
Of course, there are Calypso Cabaret and Tiffany's Show Pattaya , but if you don't want a big show and the seedy underbelly of ladyboy beckons, ladyboy bars is your best bet.
At Nana Plaza in Bangkok or Pattaya Walking Street , you can find some real ladyboy bars. There are things, or rather, for everyone – from higher, more sports bar staff to Japanese female student type pole dancers.
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