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Ladyboy Marriage
Audrey Ferreras on May 31, 2012 at 10:44 pm said:
knows more about this on September 7, 2012 at 5:54 pm said:
That’s an issue that I wanted to tackle, since I am thinking about it personally (I have been thinking about it for quite a long time actually). I love Anne ( my Filipino ladyboy girlfriend ), Anne loves me, it’s been now around 3 years that we are together, and we want to make it last forever. If things go well, time will come that we want to get married for real, have children and build a real family.
Well, the issue is pretty straight forward, and lies on two levels: legal and religious. Many of you might not consider the religious marriage as important as the legal one, or the other way around. Surprisingly, the religious issue can be solved way more easily than the legal one.
Because ladyboys are born male, they are legally considered males. There are legal procedures to change legal sex (it might require her to undergo Sex Reassignment Surgery — understand: cutting off her special something — or not), but: 1) not all ladyboys actually want to cut it off (some are truly happy with it), and 2) that might not even be enough to be eligible for marrying a ladyboy. Because ladyboys are legally considered men, marrying a ladyboy falls under the category of same-sex marriage , and then, laws are very different from a country to another (and within the USA, from a state to another).
If you want to get married in an Asian country (i.e Philippines, Thailand …) then forget about it, as these countries give absolutely no rights to same-sex relationships. Africa and Middle-East, same situation. Usually, the most gay-friendly places are in western countries. Same-sex marriage is allowed and legal and what I like to call the “LGBT havens” countries which are the Northen Europe countries (Norway, Sweden, Netherlands — Netherlands was even the first country in the world to legalise same-sex marriage in 2001), Spain, Canada and Portugal. For USA, it depends on the state, but Obama recently declared he was in favour of a federal law that allows same-sex marriage, and I appreciate his decision. Note that for these countries cited previously, some require that your girlfriend had SRS, some others don’t require it.
Other countries don’t allow same-sex marriage, but have a replacement for it: same-sex union, or same-sex civil partnership… Names might vary from a country to another, but it’s basically an union that is supposed to give you the same legal rights as a married couple, only the name is different. France, UK, Germany, Australia, New-Zealand… are countries that allow same-sex union. And this union doesn’t require any SRS.
That’s already many solutions that come up for unifying with your ladyboy girlfriend, depending on your nationality. Besides, most of the churches and priests will of course refuse to marry you in the name of God, but you can find in every country some advanced-minded priests who will agree to do it. The Metropolitan Community Church (in the Philippines) accepts to celebrate same-sex marriage for example, and we’re talking about one of the most Roman Catholic conservative country in the world. On my personal opinion, I believe being married in the eyes of God is more important than being married legally, as both Anne and I are Roman Catholics, and so are our families.
Finally, another solution would be, why not never getting married at all? Will it prevent you from spending the rest of your life together, being there caring for each other, building a family and raising kids? It’s also an option. I believe we live in a modern world where the family standards are not really standards anymore, and more and more people live in marge of the society, with marginal lives and lifestyles, and it’s getting more and more accepted.
Love is all what matters. I can see laws and mentalities are evolving in the right direction for LGBT people, so I’d recommend not to be much afraid of “what will happen when my ladyboy girlfriend and I decide to get married but can’t do it legally?”. By 10 years from now, same-sex marriage might well be allowed everywhere on earth. Again, love is all what matters . If you love your ladyboy girlfriend, then just go for it!
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Great article…yes marriage is the final frontier in Ladyboy relationships. My feeling is that many filipino Ladyboys dream of a guy who would commit to accept them at such a level to consider marriage, even if it isn’t legally recognized in the Philippines. However, the commitment in the heart is more important than the legal recognition in my opinion. Also, you are correct, there are plently of forward looking churchs and priests who will bless your union in the eyes of God, even if not recognized by the state. So, Simon I wish you and Anne well on whatever decision you make for the two of you. But it looks like you have already made it since you have moved to the Philippines, and are building a life together in Manilla.
Randi.
P.S. Sorry I missed you when I was in Cebu. My girlfriend and I only had one day in Cebu before we went to Boracay for our vacation. Best wishes.
Yes Randi I have the same belief, that legal marriage is just a piece of paper to sign… commitment in our hearts for life is what matters, whether it’s sealed with a contract or not
No problem for Cebu, I’m not moving from Philippines so we’ll meet up next time you come. Hope you enjoyed Boracay
In Spain,it is legal tha marriage of same sex persons, and the adoption of children..France is near Spain,they both belong to the European Union…you must look at this possibility.And from here, i bless your marriage…kisses
Thanks, actually my plan is Belgium, it’s also near France and they speak the same language. You’re right, Spain is more advanced than France for LGBT rights so far…
Dear Simon, I can give you a lot of advice on marrying in Belgium. First of all it is one of the most easiest countries in Europe to bring your special girl too concerning immigration. Second of all, gay marriage is allowed, but if you are more patient you can just marry as man and wife. Just have a legal partnership, let her gender get changed (legally!!! No surgery needed!!!) and simply marry her as a girl if you would like that better. You should both be resident. If you purely marry in Belgium and don’t live there, your marriage may under certain circumstances not be valid in France: ‘abus de droit’. If you want to know more just reply… I’ll just send you a mail then. I have some questions for you concerning the Philippines anyway. Kind regards
Thank you mate I’ll look into your email And will help you as I can with your questions about Philippines.
As in some cases, I’d think that trans-women feel comfortable and honoured when they tied the knot under the category of heterosexual marriage. That’s what I’d prefer to.
I believe that’s the best thing that can happen yeah. However we don’t really have much choice yet, depending on which country you’re living in.
Me and my girlfriend hope that we can be marriage for next year and I’m happy that I live in Sweden
But still for me she is a girl I dont call her ladyboy not a boy I call her a girl and for me its not same sex marriage coz for me she is a girl she got an extra part but who cares about that? we cant have children but I told her that I dont care that we cant have children like if we want we can always adopt
But must say I like your blog very much, just found it today
I exactly think and behave like you do Daniel Lucky you you’re swedish, I can’t marry my girlfriend in France at the moment (maybe in a couple of years that will be legal…)
I agree with you Daniel, I am engaged to the most beautiful wonderful girl, I don`t call her my ladyboy because to me she is all girl and I do not care at all in what she has down below because for Jee and myself it is true love.
so, If I’m a man phsically but I want to have a relation with a lady boy but I want her to be my man in our sexual relation(I mean I’m negative and she is the positive partner in the relation) and I don’t like to have that from a man just a lady boy, so what you can call me and call here?
I call that you know what you like When you assume it, you’ll be in peace with your own desires.
I also have a ladyboy girlfriend in the Philippines. I have bee together for 3 years on visits from me in the USA to there. And now I will be there for 5 months. Still we would like to marry and come back to the US but if not possible I will stay there in the Philippines. Any one with help or comments would be appreciated.
Sounds reasonable. If your girl is eligible for a US visa than it rocks, otherwise you look flexible enough in your professional life (and you have the balls also) for relocating to the Philippines and that’s a good thing! I live in Manila myself, together with my ladyboy girlfriend, but I’m a lucky guy, I work online
About the church ceremony. I think that if the ladyboy is extremely passable, you can just say the priest she’s genetic. He won’t be looking under her skirt, will he? But of course if they need ID documents, this won’t apply.
of course this is a bit dated as uk now allows same sx marriage as well as allowing transsexuals to change their sex legally without a sex change when she becomes a uk citizen. I would be interested in discovering if belgium allows this without being a citizen
How does one work online? and are you hiring? lol I would move in a heartbeat if i could get good cash and live in Philippines!
I am not hiring for now, but thanks for asking I have been working online as an entrepreneur and / or developer (depending on the projects) for the past 10 years. It’s easy to do this type of job remotely, along with:
– content creator (writer, translator, musician…)
– programmor
– data entry
and many more… check out the list of categories on https://www.odesk.com/ you might find a job that you are willing to do
I am a single American male that has lived the most lonesome life possible. 67 years without a mate. I am in perfect health and am considered attractive. LOL. This is so SAD because it should not exist, PLEASE!!!! HELP ME!!!!
I NEED to get my ladyboy partner here ASAP. I really need your assistance.
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Thailand is well know for its ladyboys. What’s generally less well known is that you can actually date ladyboys on a long term basis.
So what’s involved with finding a ladyboy girlfriend, and what are the key issues involved?
Asian ladyboys are pretty easy to find online.
Contrary to what you might think, there are actually more Filipino ladyboys online than there are Thai ladyboys.
Which country’s transsexuals most interest you is your decision. However, don’t discount the Philippines! Philippines cities like Angeles City (near Manila) and Cebu can offer much the same nightlife as you can find in Bangkok or Pattaya.
One good thing about the Philippines is that it’s getting much easier to get a long term visa to live there. By contrast Thailand is going the other way. Thai retirement visas are getting harder to obtain as you need more money than ever in an Thai bank account. Plus you still got to do 90 day reporting at the government offices. When I lived in Thailand this was a pain in the ass. The government complex at Chaeng Watthana is really far from Central Bangkok. I had to get there by going to the end of the line of the BTS overground train, then getting a taxi to the government offices. I also had to set out super early, as it’s operated on a first come first served basis. I also had to wander around like an idiot while all the officials had their lunch hour.
So please give the Philippines a look!
There are smaller numbers of Asian ladyboys in other countries like Japan, South Korea, Cambodia and Laos. In the case of Cambodia and Laos, a lot of the ladyboys in these countries go to Thailand for work. I used to regularly drink in a bar on Sukhumvit that was run by cute Cambodian tgirls. I had some memorable nights there. And I did meet a Laotian tgirl in another bar. She was incredibly cute but I believe she was on drugs or something as she was totally crazy. I actually found her profile on Thai Cupid. But when I sent her a message she denied all knowledge of the evening in question.
Anyway, whether you go for Thai or Filipino ladyboys, you’ll find both on most of the popular Asian dating websites.
The snag is that most sites don’t allow you to specifically search for ladyboys. Consequently, on a site like Thai Love Links you’re never sure if you should search for ladyboys by specifying that you want to search for men or women. Much the same problem happens on DateInAsia .
So really it’s better to use sites that specifically allow you to search for ladyboys. Sites that allow you to do this are:
If you like Thai ladyboys and Thai women, then join Thai Kisses. For Filipino girls as well as ladyboys then join Filipino Kisses .
If you’re exclusively into ladyboys, then it makes sense to join Ladyboy Kisses or My Ladyboy Date . Ladyboy Kisses and My Ladyboy Date are pay sites though. Thai Friendly is supposedly “free”, but to get any good use out of it you really need a paid subscription. Personally I found it was useless when using it in freemium mode. I spent 16 days in Bangkok but didn’t get a single real life date through using Thai Friendly. I would have taken out a subscription, but it’s pretty expensive. It costs roughly the same as Thai Cupid.
MyTransSexualDate is the sister site of My Ladyboy Date . It’s a good one to try if you’re interested in tgirls who don’t necessarily live in Asia. For example, you can find tgirls in the USA, Western Europe, Russia and most countries you can think of. Maybe it’s also worth a go if you’re going on vacation to Latin America or somewhere else and want to find a tgirl to hookup with.
So that covers dating sites. Is it worthwhile using smartphone apps?
I had quite a bit of success meeting random hookups using WeChat and Skout. However, the former is now really full of hookers and people selling you stuff. I actually live in China right now and WeChat ought to be smoking hot for hookups here. But it’s rubbish.
As for Tinder and its rivals, none of them are really transgender friendly so it’s not that easy to find tgirls on them. Plus these apps are a gigantic waste of time unless you’re Chad Bigcock. All you’re there for is to give ladies affirmation of their value in the dating marketplace. Hell a lot of the ladies on these apps aren’t even single.
So I’ll recommend dating sites over apps any day of the week. The good news is that dating sites like MyLadyboyDate are fully mobile friendly and work well on an iPad or even a smartphone.
Online dating is hazardous at the best of times. I’ve been a long time member of some of the most popular Asian dating websites. I’ve encountered plenty of scammers, gold diggers and other undesirables.
Day after day I hear of people losing money in romance scams. Even one of the Asian women I dated got scammed – in her case by a Nigerian romance scammer.
So please heed the warning of this guy who posted this comment about the Ladyboy Kisses dating site:
A Word of caution here guys. I have tried ladyboykisses and i am serious doubting that there are honest ladyboys there.
I have met a lot scammers there… I have decided to drop my search. I guess the only way you can find a honest Ladyboy is to go to Thailand and live there.
…When my subscription run out i will not renew it. I have totally dumped the idea to find a Ladyboy on a dating site.. it aint gonna happen.
So online ladyboy dating is not without hazards! In all honesty, if you want a ladyboy girlfriend then it’s better to move to Thailand or the Philippines and live out your dreams there.
However, if you just want to contact ladyboys for fun chat sessions, then by all means use the dating sites listed above. Just don’t expect too much in the way of an exclusive, long term relationship with a ladyboy you meet on these sites.
Dating ladyboys in real life is not without troubles either.
But for me the biggest problem I had dating ladyboys when I lived in Thailand was actually getting them to come on dates. I had problems with one who had bad skin and who wouldn’t come and meet me till it cleared up. Never mind that I have a thing for acne lol. A few others worked really long hours and didn’t live that close to me so we could never schedule a date.
My one and only date with a genuine Thai ladyboy went really well. Actually we had a couple of dates. But she was quite shy and unusually for a ladyboy didn’t speak much English. Seeing her turn up for our first date in her university uniform of white blouse and short pleated skirt was still one of the highlights of my life.
Away from ladyboy dating, I did see some crazy tgirl shit in Pattaya. On Beach Road I saw some Russians talking to a tall amazonian type of tgirl. Actually it was a Russian guy with his parents. So the guy was insulting the tgirl (in Russian) and his family were laughing. The next thing I know the ladyboy is kicking the shit out of the guy in front of his parents. It seemed the tgirl was pretty good at understanding the Russian language. Which isn’t that uncommon in Pattaya given how many Russians have second homes there.
I also went drinking in a Bangkok bar and one of the regulars there had a stunning ladyboy girlfriend. She was stun
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