Korean Girl Dating Culture

💣 👉🏻👉🏻👉🏻 ALL INFORMATION CLICK HERE 👈🏻👈🏻👈🏻

17 Things You Must Know Before Dating a Korean Girl

San Francisco native and former T.V. producer. Toby has traveled to over 50 countries. He's now happily married to a beautiful Thai woman.
Home » Dating Tips » 17 Things You Must Know Before Dating a Korean Girl
It’s all too easy to forget that although Asian countries are modernizing at a rapid pace, they’re still culturally very different to North America or Europe.
Assuming otherwise can cause problems when you actually meet and date Asian women , and particularly Korean women.
The advice we share here is to help you better understand these
women, and in turn, better understand their culture. You’ll be surprised at how alike we all are in some ways,
and how utterly different in others.
Our mission is simple: To help you be as successful as possible on your Korean dating adventure…. So, let’s get to it.
Something we need to touch on before we get into other areas of Korean culture is the idea of “Korean Fever”.
We hear this term mentioned by feminists who think that Western guys are flocking to Korean to take advantage of peasant girls.
This is completely disingenuous towards Korean women,
especially considering how hard they work. That somehow finding them attractive is “wrong” in
some way.
Some even go as far as to say that dating Korean girls is
fetishistic.
But we’re pretty sure that true love isn’t about race, skin color, or geographic location. It’s about finding the perfect woman for you, no? And if she just happens to be Korean, why would anyone find fault with that?
Except, of course, if they’re jealous or insecure of their
own place in the world, which is often the case.
Most international dating guides will mention something about “ learning the local language “, but usually not expand on why you should do that.
Learning at least some Korean can be the difference between success and failure on the dating scene.
At the very least, it gives you a huge advantage over guys who think they can struggle through by learning a handful of phrases.
But why is learning Korean so important?
Because she doesn’t expect you to have tried.
Because most Western guys don’t bother until they’re
actually in a long-term relationship with a Korean girl.
The same applies to learning about her culture. It’s very
important to her, but again most guys don’t bother learning even the basics.
Basically, investing the time in learning conversational
Korean is worth its weight in gold.
Most Korean girls know they’re viewed as being easy by
certain types of Western men. Once she understands you’re different to the average
tourist, then she’ll commit to you and the barriers will come down.
But you’ll need to be open with her to reach that point.
That includes giving her access to your phone, and let her look at your social
media accounts while you’re logged in.
Yes, she might actually ask for your username and password,
and refusing to do that could make it look like you have something to hide.
Do whatever it takes to prove to her that she’s not just
your Korean side girl, and that she can trust you.
It’s monogamy or nothing here, and there are no exceptions. Nor are there second chances
Women here are paranoid about being viewed as easy to get into bed. They know that certain Asian countries have developed a reputation for sex tourism , something 99% of Korean women find abhorrent.
So, when you first meet a Korean girl, she will shy away
from you. If you walk up to a random girl in a coffee shop and try to break the
ice, she’ll probably recoil in fear at first. Part of this is because they’d rather be rude than have you
think they’re easy.
And this is very much a cultural norm here – mainstream
Korean girls will do anything not to bring shame to their families.
Women will, generally speaking, expect you to pay for the first date, and probably every date after that. Splitting the bill isn’t common practice here, but that is changing with more recent generations of single Korean women.
The man paying for the date (dinner, drink, desserts, etc)
is a social norm here. It’s just how things have been done for decades, and
very few people see any reason for that to change.
If she offers to split the bill then she’s part of the new
wave of Korean women, so accept the gesture.
But apart from that, you can expect the foot the bill for
all your social outings.
Women here expect their partners to buy them gifts.
It’s not considered even remotely materialistic for a woman to
expect romantic gifts from her boyfriend on a regular basis. But we do explain
why shortly – don’t worry.
This issue is compounded (and probably caused) by the fact
that Korea has the equivalent of a Valentine’s Day on the 14th of each month.
Yes, it’s basically Valentine’s Day once every single month of the year. Every year. You’ll need to adjust both your mindset and your financial planning to accommodate this.
Korean women will gladly accept grand gestures on the 14 th
of each month, but the majority are quite happy to know that you care enough to
observe a Korean tradition e.g. “ Diary
Day ” or “White Day”.
Korean women are usually well educated and expect the same
of their partners.
Remember that Korea has risen from the hardship of being a
warzone, to become an industrial power in a few short decades.
That only happened because Koreans pushed themselves to
compete on the world stage, and education played a significant role in the
country’s economic development.
You don’t need to have a PhD or have a career in academia to
be acceptable as a boyfriend. But the other side of that coin is that being a
high-school dropout isn’t admired here.
Korean women are polite when expressing themselves in
public, almost implacably so. But they will speak their mind in the most frank manner
imaginable when in private.
So, if you’ve spent the last decade trying to moderate your
speech to keep certain types of women happy, then you can stop.
 She doesn’t expect
you to be a social justice hero – she expects you to speak your mind, even if
she disagrees with you.
There’s no need to be afraid to hold a door open for her,
pull out her chair, or lift something for her that looks too heavy for her to
manage.
Or in other words, there’s no toxic masculinity BS in South
Korea. That’s probably because it’s a myth everywhere else too.
Single Korean women put a lot of effort into looking good. And we mean really good, especially when it’s for a date.
In turn, they expect you to put your best foot forward too
i.e. dress for the occasion.
But, as much as they care about looks, no Korean girl will date
a guy who looks like Brad Pitt, but behaves like a spoiled, entitled brat
In fact, your behavior and attitudes towards life can be a
real deal breaker here.
Korean women dig guys with good looks, but none of that is
as valuable as a guy with good manners and who respects his Korean girl, her
traditions, and her family.
The average woman here is roughly 5-feet 2-inches tall , which is fairly typical of Asian women. What’s also typical of Asian women is they have a preference for men who are tall and broad.
This doesn’t mean you need to be a giant, but Korean girls
do tend to gravitate towards taller, masculine Western men, if given a choice.
Most women want their boyfriend or husband to be physically
bigger than them – it’s a natural instinct. 
So Korean women are no different in that regard.
This will make Korean girl sound materialistic, but they’re not. Not even remotely.
But the fact remains, they generally don’t like “struggling
artists”, unless the Korean woman you’re interested in exists in the same
social strata.
If she’s poor, she won’t really care about you being
impoverished. But if she’s worked hard to become financially independent,
she’ll expect you to have the same approach to life.
Even having some career goals, or ambition to achieve more,
is enough to convince most Korean women that you have some direction in life.
But if you’re still living in your parent’s basement, and
collecting welfare checks…well…you have your work cut out for you.
This tip is really important. If you’re standing around waiting for a Korean girl to make the first move, you’ll probably die of old age before that happens.
They’re Westernized, modern, hard-working, and all that other good stuff. But they simply cannot be seen to be the one to make the first move – it’s culturally inappropriate for them to do that.
The problem here is that you really need to pay attention to
body language and other cues. If you don’t we can guarantee you’ll miss out on
meeting some incredible women.
Most foreign guys in Korea tend to look and act the same way
i.e. they’re working for large corporations, or they teach English in a local
school.
But Korean women expect Western guys to be different. They want you to be mysterious and exotic, in the same way
you see them as mysterious and exotic.
But most North American and European men visiting or living
in Korea look and act like tourists or bored accountants.
So, instead of trying to blend in with the crowd, dress in a
way that makes you more of an individual.
Here’s a little secret that can win you some serious brownie
points: Use both hands in social settings.
If, for example, you are presenting your girlfriend with a
gift, then do it with both hands. Even if you’re just handing her a drink, do
it with both hands.
Because it’s viewed as a polite way to behave, plus it shows
you took the time to understand her culture.
But never, ever hand her something using just your left
hand. That’s a serious faux pas on your part.
Your Korean belle will have a good job, possibly even a
corporate one. What you won’t realize is just how hard she works, including
evenings and weekends.
Then you need to factor in her family, her social life, and
any other commitments she has, including her addiction to social media.
Note: Korean women are absolutely addicted to being active
on as many social platforms as possible. Every meal is photographed, and every
experience retweeted.
So, don’t get the hump if she cancels on you.
She’s not being rude – she has just literally run out of
time that day to get everything done.
Is texting that big a deal to Korean girls?
You are literally playing with fire if you decide to play
the waiting game with women here. If she texts you then do your best to text
back straight away.
In fact, we’d suggest developing the habit of texting her
first thing in the morning, several times during the day, and then last thing
at night.
The same applies to missed calls – if you do miss a call
from her then call back straight away.
Korea is one of the most homogenous countries in the world.
What we mean by that is that they tend not to date externally.

Even now it’s still frowned upon by more traditional
parents, so don’t be surprised if you get weird stares from total strangers
when you’re with your Korean girl.
But more importantly, some single Korean women will flat out refuse to date a foreign guy. She’s not playing hard to get – she’s simply not interested.
So don’t treat it like some kind of romantic challenge to
win her over – if she’s not interested in foreign guys then move on
immediately.
Although Korea is a Westernized country, their dating culture and way of life is still very much Korean i.e. there are major differences you need to be aware of.
We hope this blog post has made you very aware of that.
Which of our tips made the most sense to you, or do you have a tip you’d like to share with us? Let us know by leaving a comment below.
Copyright International Love Scout 2020 © All rights Reserved.

Copyright © 2018 PickupKorea.com - All rights reserved.
 In Korea the majority of people meet their boyfriend or girlfriend by way of 소개팅 (blind date). This is a Korean dating culture that dates back into the Joseon dynasty called 선보다 Where a family member or close associate introduces you to a potential romantic partner to marry. This has evolved into modern day 소개팅 (sogeting/blind date) as well as the creation of blind date wedding agencies such as 듀오 (Duo) that provide a certain amount of blind dates as a paid for service. The client has to submit their education background, job, financial status, family background, as well as physical characteristics with photos. Korea is a group culture with its own set of social norms and hierarchies. Koreans are often forced into such agencies by their parents pressuring them. The fear is that if they don’t get married before their mid 30’s, they will lose the opportunity to ever get married and start a family. The reasoning behind this system of blind dates is that they have an intermediary they can trust and that they lead busy lives so it’s easy to meet someone within their “circle” they can be comfortable with and trust. Others meet partners through academies, school, work, and other social/professional environments. While this is certainly the overall subtext of Korean dating culture, in the post smart phone era the landscape has seen a huge transformation.
Koreans often yearn to meet someone out of their circle and who they feel attracted or connected to. In the early 2000’s a culture of 헌팅 “hunting” emerged and to this day in any major nightlife hub, you can see men approaching women on the street or attempting to get them to drink together at the many pochas/bars/clubs that fill Seoul. The culture of hunting also spread to daytime environments and has become more prevalent for the Korean men willing to step outside of their comfort zone and take a shot. Online dating has also become popular in recent years with the launch of Tinder and other similar local smartphone apps like 1 KM or MEEFF. It has become common to date and meet someone through the above means with a lot less stigma than previously existed even 5-6 years ago. Another huge change in Korean dating culture in the current age is that in the past it was considered the responsibility of the man to pay all of the expenses on a date such as the food, drinks, and entertainment. However as Korea globalized and culture changed, the standard is for the girl to pay for one of the venues or expenses on the date as well (i.e. man pays for dinner, women pays for the beer). As men from a totally different culture it is important that we understand the society and overall context of Korean dating culture but are not limited by it. We can offer Korean women a unique experience and a unique world that they long to experience, yet comfort them by understanding their world and speeding up connection in a way that makes it easier for them to pull the trigger on the unique value proposition we are offering them. This is crucial to understand: we are offering them an experience! If she does not take you up on this and doesn’t join you, it does not mean you are a worthless foreigner who will never find success. Just simply means she has other problems in her life, baggage, experiences that have led her to her current sexual situation. It could also mean that she wasn’t into the proposition and thus its best that you move on, she’s saving your time! Finally it can also be that you have a lot of room for improvement in refining your game so that the value proposition is presented well, comfortably and in an engaging confident way that leads to more successes over time. If you enjoyed this article on Korean dating culture and want updates on events and articles in the future, be sure to join the Facebook group.

https://www.internationallovescout.com/dating-tips/korean-girls-dating
https://www.pickupkorea.com/korean-dating-culture/
Sex Trans Mother
Young Girls Porno Chat Online
Super Hot Wife Sex With Bbc 19
17 Things You Must Know Before Dating Korean Girls
Korean Dating Culture: Customs and Modern Trends - Pickup ...
Dating a Korean Girl: 6 Things You Must Know
Korean Dating: The Dos & Don'ts in relationships in the South
Dating a Korean Girl: Pros, Cons, Things to Know in 2021 ...
8 Cultural Differences To Expect When Dating In Korea | 10 ...
9 Things You Should Know About Dating in Korea - Culture Trip
So You Want to Date an Oppa? Guide to Dating in Korea ...
Korean girl dating culture - dataelements.in
Korean Girl Dating Culture