Kinky Sex Ideas To Do To Your Man

Kinky Sex Ideas To Do To Your Man
January 31, 2018 September 23, 2021 |
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Research carried at the University of Ohio in 2011 concluded that men do think about sex about 19 times a day, 9 times more than women do. Also, while women fantasize more about romance, men fantasize about being kinky and exploratory, according to research done in 2012 by the University of Granada. So what are men’s sexual fantasies? Do men desire to implement these fantasies in real life? What is the most common male fantasy? What do guys fantasize about when they like a girl?
These questions may have crossed your mind at some point if you’re sexually active and involved with a man. As much as they’re demonized, fantasies can be great for your sex life. After all, they give you a break from the mundane day-to-day life and push you to explore your kinky side, beyond the usual sexual boundaries.
So, if you’re looking for ways to spice up your sex life, an insight into what men fantasize about can be a good starting point to explore kinky things to try in the bedroom.
It comes as no surprise, does it? Just the way women have their share of fantasies, men do too. Men are not all that different from women. Mind you. The brain is the sexiest organ in the body, and that is where all the naughty ideas come from.
Men fantasize about things that given them much-needed excitement in the usual intimate affairs, and while they may not talk about them, fantasizing about sex and being a little exploratory is quite normal. In his head, it might be too wild or crazy for you and he might never want to share them, but he has plenty of sexual fantasies locked up.
If you do oblige, he will never stop thanking you. You might just become the woman of his dreams. And who knows, it may be the beginning of pushing the boundaries of your own sexuality too. But for any of it to come to pass, you need to know and understand male fantasy ideas.
To that end here is a lowdown on the 12 top common and riveting of men’s sexual fantasies:
What do guys fantasize about when they like a girl? Well, this is it. Women taking initiative is always a big turn-on for men. And why should men have to do the wooing and seducing all the time? One of the biggest kinks that men fantasize about is his woman in knee-high stilettos, netted stockings and a red bra covering just enough to let his mind run wild.
Oh, and a whip (possibly?). I mean what kind of Dominatrix would you be without the whip but we would advise you to keep the whipping to a minimum.
Like all the sex there is to have. Trying all crazy positions with no judgment whatsoever. Nothing is too crazy for them. It’s sex at the end of the day. Yes, it’s a common male fantasy to get experimental in bed.
So, the next time he asks, keep an open mind to putting the missionary style to rest and trying something you. To get started, you can marry this fantasy idea with the first, try the woman-on-top position and channel that inner cowgirl as you ride him. Trust us, it’s what he secretly wishes for in bed .
Women are crazy conscious about this but this is the one thing men fantasize about over and over. That’s because nothing gives him a greater boost and satisfaction than seeing his partner ooze with pleasure, quite literally. Squirting is letting go of all inhibitions but is a major kink for men. It is sort of an accomplishment for a man.
It’s not necessarily women who bring Daddy issues to relationships . Men do too but in a very different manner. Some men like being called Daddy during sex. They might never in their right mind ask their girlfriends to call them Daddy but they sure would love it.
So, if your partner has joked about it in the past, count this among the kinky things to try with him. We guarantee it will turn him on to no end, and of course, lead to better sex. All you need is to let go of your inhibitions.
Louder moans, groans, harder pulls. Telling him that you like just what he is doing, begging him to not stop, asking for more. This is the Holy Grail of men’s sexual fantasies. Whether your partner has given any hint about his experimental streak in bed or not, he sure desires this.
The louder encouragement they get, the better it is. It is also among the most common fantasy of a married man, who more often than not has to make do with sex on mute mode, especially if there are children in the house. Whenever the opportunity presents itself, surprise him with your moans and watch him go wild.
Is it just a common male fantasy though? We wonder. Well, there is no denying that every man wants it. We suspect every woman wants it too. Or is at least a wee bit curious about what the experience would feel like. If it’s something everyone wants, why not keep an open mind about it.
Most commonly, male fantasy ideas revolved around a woman-man-woman threesome. A girl on girl action right before him, while he is getting ready, is like every man’s fantasy come true. Even if you’re not ready for the threesome experience in real life, you can always share your fantasies about it with each other. The verbal, imagined scenario alone is enough to fire up your sex life and how!
What do guys fantasize about when they like a girl? She going down on him and blowing his mind off with a mind-blowing blowjob definitely makes the cut. While he is imagining that, he might throw some deep-throat action into the mix. Because nothing else is as pleasurable as getting head from the woman they love.
Among men’s sexual fantasies that extend far beyond the realm of dirty and naughty is this secret desire to watch other couples do it. It is a kinky pleasure, a guilty one. Now, this is one of those sexual fantasies that men (well, most of them anyway ) don’t act on – and rightly so – but then, talking about it can be a huge turn-on for them, and you’d be surprised to learn, for you too.
This is kink 101 among the long list of male fantasy ideas. It may be for pure sentimental value or out of curiosity of what it looks like when you’re both in the thick of the action but having a sex tape is definitely what almost all men secretly desire.
It is kinky in its own right and men love it. If you are looking for ways to seduce your partner and trust him enough, suggest recording the action and experience the magic unfold.
Most of the men’s sexual fantasies stem from porn. It’s hardly a surprise then that men want to try all those crazy moves shown in porn movies in their sex life too. Or at least he would like to give that a shot. Because what good is porn if you cannot learn from them?
Not surprisingly, this also ranks among the most common fantasies of a married man. If you’re not too put off by the idea of it, try incorporating porn night dates to spice up your sex life. Of course, you don’t have to go all the way. Dip your toes, test the waters, and see how it goes.
Like squirting, sitting on your man’s face could make most women very conscious about their nether region. It might get messy, sure, but it is super-hot for men. This is surely among the male fantasy ideas that work in your interest. So, don’t get in over your head too much, go with the flow, and brace yourself for a mind-blowing orgasm. Who knows you might squirt while sitting on his face. Two birds, one stone!
It is like the woman taking responsibility for her pleasure as well. Touching yourself while he is doing you is kinky. Play with your erogenous regions and let him have a taste of it. Men like watching women playing with themselves. It is a common male fantasy, as in their minds, it makes the action doubly hot.
What do guys fantasize about when they like a girl? Well, this is another common, recurring theme: Doing it against a glass window or the wall, or in a glass elevator, running the risk of being seen or caught. The rush of it is kinky and the pleasure is intensified.
The more verbally explicit, the better. Men like it when you spell it out for them. So, tell him if you’re enjoying what he’s doing to you. Better still, tell him what exactly he can do to make it better. From ‘I want you to give me the tongue’ to ‘pull my hair’, ‘choke me baby’ and ‘spank me’, the wilder your suggestion, the more kink it will add to the act.
This is one of the simpler but highly effective kinky things to try in bed. If you haven’t yet, we strongly recommend that you do.
Yes, men’s sexual fantasies involve anal action. If you’ve been with your man long enough, you’d probably know that by now because he’s sure to have dropped subtle hints to that effect.
Now that you know what the most pressing and stirring men’s sexual fantasies are, put them to good use to take your sexual compatibility and intimacy to the next level. Of course, you can pick and choose the ones you’re most comfortable trying and up the ante as you go along.
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Some day, you're going to be 80 and your penis is going to be out of commission. So you'll want to have some good stories of the outrageous times the two of you had together back in your hay day to entertain your fellow retirement home buddies with.

What I'm trying to say is, there are a few sex acts out there that might sound downright weird when you first hear about them...but once you give them a shot, you'll be glad that you tried them out. Don't knock it till you've tried it, you know? Heck, you and bae might even work a few into your normal routine.

If you've never asked your girlfriend for a " Pop Rocks blow job" or taken a nibble on her " vampire ass ," now's the time. Here are 10 kind of strange but totally awesome sex acts you should try with your partner at least once.

1. Pop Rocks Blow Job
In case your childhood didn't involve seeing how many Pop Rocks you could fit in your mouth at one time during recess, these rock-shaped candies do this weird but pleasing sizzle thing when you put a bunch of them in your mouth. Now, imagine feeling that sensation all around your member as your girl goes down on you with a mouthful of them. Trust us, she'll be into it — especially if you buy the strawberry flavor.

2. Electric Shock Foreplay
Give your foreplay an added spark by using an electro shock sex toy, like the Violet wand . These toys give off low grade, non-harmful electrical vibrations. It's stimulating and exciting anytime you introduce an unfamiliar feeling to your body, so turn on one of these bad boys to get things jumpstarted.

3. The Warm Ball Dip
If you're a fan of ball play, this one is going to make you pretty happy. Dip your balls into a cup of warm liquid — tea, hot cocoa or warm milk are great for this, but whatever you've got on hand will do the trick. Then, have your woman blow bubbles into the cup using a straw. Kind of like a jacuzzi for your ball sack...

4. Road Head
It's not just for the teenagers. Getting some fellatio while you're out on the open road should definitely be on your sex bucket list . This one is best executed on a long drive where there aren't many stoplights or much traffic (unless you crazy kids don't mind having an audience).

5. Butt Plug Pony
Some dudes are really weird about getting their backdoor involved when it comes to getting kinky . But closing your butthole for business really means that you're missing out, especially since there are a ton of nerve endings back there that are way pleasurable when stimulated. If you want to feel extra manly about it, let your partner insert a butt plug with a tail . Then bang her like the wild horse you are.

6. The Vampire Ass Bite
Ever see an ass so fine that you literally want to take a bite out of it? Taking an actual chomp out of an ass will probably result in assault charges, but taking a nice big nibble that doesn't break the skin is completely fair game. In fact, it'll be pleasurable for the both of you.

7. Ice Cream Cunnilingus
Think of it as an ice cream social for your partner's clit. The cold temperature will feel extra good on her, and she'll taste like whatever delicious ice cream flavor you opt to use for this one. Not to mention, that leftover ice cream will make an ideal post-shag snack.

8. Etch A Sketch Nipple Play
Take turns with your partner, and treat each other's nipples like they’re the knobs of an Etch A Sketch. Draw a self-portrait, a butterfly, a race car...as long as you twist them like you're working toward something, it's all good. Any day you can make 90's nostalgia sexy is a good day, indeed.

9. Finger Blowjobs
Before you ask: No, receiving a finger blowjob doesn't replace the real thing. Basically, it's a reenactment of a blowjob, done to your fingers before the actual event. Think of it as a sneak preview of what your woman will be doing to your dick with her mouth later on. It's really, really hot.

10. "Just the Tip" Clit Rub
It's both of your sensitive parts, rubbed together to create a strange but extremely pleasing sensation. Take the tip of your dick and slowly, gently rub it up and down her clit. Using lube will further help your cause.

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Are you looking for new ways to satisfy your boyfriend in the bedroom?
Perhaps you’re growing tired of the same old moves when you sleep together?
Would you like some fresh ideas to spice things up sexually?
If so, this guide should help you. It features more than 50 exciting sexual acts to try with your boyfriend.
However, before we dive into this exciting list, I want to share a story that will help you emotionally appeal to your boyfriend stronger than ever before.
Recently, I have been studying an aspect of male psychology called the ‘Hero’s Instinct’ .
This is the part of the male man mostly closely associated with lasting desire and affection towards women.
If you can learn how to activate this section of his mind, this guy will constantly be feeling stronger emotions towards you he ever has. This is more intense than any move you can pull off in the bedroom.
I began learning this psychological skill a few years ago, and it transformed the way I was perceived by men. I went from being seen as ‘a bit of fun’ to a woman who men wanted to build their life around.
So, if you’re hoping to make a long-term impact on your boyfriend and create a relationship that never feels stale, I’d urge you to read my guide on how I mastered the ‘Hero’s Instinct’ very carefully.
This isn’t a skill that’s easy to learn, but it can have a dramatic impact on your relationships with men.
Of course, blowing his mind in the bedroom is a great skill to have too! That’s why I wrote this guide for you.
So, without further ado, let’s now explore my list of exciting new sexual moves to introduce to your boyfriend.
Bondage may not be for everyone, but you don't have to do it to the extreme to still get the effect of a brilliant new sexual experience to try out in bed. All you need to do is take a few elements of the idea and use them in a manner you feel comfortable. This can mean anything from just wearing latex or leather underwear to tying each other up in the ultimate sex game .
Introducing another person into the bedroom with you can be a risky business, but when it pays off it can be fantastic as well. You can gain a lot of pleasure from seeing each other enjoy another person paying your partner a lot of attention and satisfying them sexually , while your partner can feel the same when the efforts are reciprocated.
A sex swing is a big investment but it can really add some fantastic oomph to you and your partner’s sex life. It is a great method to help you achieve greater penetration hitting that all-important g spot, plus the closeness of both your bodies and the eye contact you achieve while on the swing itself definitely makes it worthwhile. If you want to try something adventurous, this is a great option.
When you make love to your partner, so much of it is about how tactile you are with each other. The sense of touch is therefore one of the most important when you are having sex with your partner. Bearing that in mind, it can lead to great sex when you blindfold each other so that you are reliant on touch on your body alone.
It may sound a little passive, but watching porn together is one of the best new things to try in bed with your partner. This is because you can learn so much about what your partner likes in bed, whilst also the sheer act of watching it together will make you so horny the sex you have afterward or during watching it will be some of the best sex you ever have.
A natural extension of the idea of watching porn is filming each other while you are either having sex or pleasuring yourself. The voyeuristic side to filming one another is what makes it such a turn on and trying something new like this can really help you and your partner push the boundaries of your sex lives.
Much like bondage, submission vs dominance sex may not be for everyone, but if you take the lighter side of it into the bedroom with you, there should be something for everyone to enjoy. Remember that things in bed with your partner should be a way of making your bond stronger. If anything you try has the opposite effect and doesn't make you feel good and instead you feel like you are uncomfortable, remember you have to speak up.
This classic oral sex position is a fantastic one to try out so that you both gain pleasure while giving you partner pleasure at the same time. It
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