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Looking for ways to kink up your love with a few kinky sex ideas? You’re not alone, we all have and we all still do look for ways. It’s funny, isn’t it? You spend the first several years of your adulthood walking around in a haze of horniness. We’re just horny ALL the time.
But just when you think your sex life can only get better over time, it starts to get just a bit more lackluster with each passing year. It’s not intentional, you DO want to have sex. You do want to keep your sex life exciting. But somehow, it drops down the list of priorities as we grow up.
We have this belief that lust is fickle. You could enjoy the best sex of your life this month. And the very next month, you may find yourself bored with the to-and-fro motion. Every time you have sex, does it have to be true that the next time you have sex with that same person is going to be just a bit worse?
Sex is always exciting and frisky at the start of a new relationship, that’s an honest fact. But that doesn’t mean older relationships don’t have the pleasure of fun, wild, and passionate sex. As a matter of fact, long-term relationships can actually have much better, more fulfilling sex lives. Just as long as you know what both of you want in bed and are honest about it.
Most of us have vanilla sex. It’s the honest truth. And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. One of you get on top of the other, a few minutes of huffing and puffing, and then you come. And then, that’s it. it’s good the first few times, maybe even the first few months or years. And then, your favorite shows start to get more exciting and unpredictable than your sex life.
Again, not your fault here. This just happens. Most of us are programmed to believe that if you’re not having good vanilla sex with your lover, or if you start to believe you should try to incorporate a few kinky ideas into your sex life, there’s something wrong with you. You’re a deviant, or a horny goat.
And bring pleasure and the excitement back into bed. Can you imagine spending the rest of your life doing exactly the same thing in bed? You’re probably bored with sex already, so how on earth can it magically get better over time? Especially when it’s progressively getting more and more boring with each passing week.
Kinky sex ideas can transform your sex life overnight. It can make you feel like a horny teenager with raging hormones. It will make you feel like you’re having sex for the first time all over again. And most importantly, it can invigorate you back into loving life again. You know what I mean, don’t you? That tingle in your fingertips, that sexy spark of naughtiness that would rush through your loins every now and then when everything about sex excited you? Exactly that, and more.
When it comes to sex, kinky, or kinky sex, is simply any sexual activity that is considered unusual by many people. That’s it, literally, that’s all it is.
It’s not scary, and it isn’t restricted to some dark, deviant, crazy, perverse obsession. When you hear the words, kinky sex, you don’t have to imagine whips and chains *unless that’s you’re thing!* because some movie you watched a decade ago showed you a guy chained to a bed while a girl whipped his ass until it turned into a tomato.
Every single time you’ve tried something new in bed, be it bringing in whipped cream, groping each other at a party, or even having sex while watching a porn movie, you’re doing something kinky. And hey, if it can make you feel sexy, make sexy sexier, and you two feel like horny teenagers again, isn’t trying a few kinky sex ideas a thought to seriously consider?
One step at a time. That’s the way you need to enter into kinky sex. If the thought of whips and chains excite you, but they also scare you, start by smacking your lover’s bum with your palm. Does it make you both more horny? Yay, kinky sex is working already!
Don’t ever go all out when you try a few kinky sex ideas, because one, you may not be mentally prepared for it. And two, the moment you orgasm, you may be filled with shame for indulging in such an “unusual” act. If you truly want to enjoy the best of kinky sex ideas, remember it for what it is, just any sexual activity that isn’t usual.
We’ll get to the list of kinky sex ideas in a moment. If you want to have an amazing sex life from here on, and never look back once because you’re enjoying every sexual experience, just try a few from this list with your partner. And chances are, you’ll love the new direction of your spanking new horny sex life!
When sex starts to get monotonous over time, all it needs is a little spark of kinky ideas to ignite the sexual passion and ecstasy you shared at the beginning. And once you find ways to bring back the excitement into your bedroom, you’ll be able to experience the best sex of your lives, no matter how long you’ve been in the relationship. [Read: Top fantasies for women and top fantasies for men ]
Are you having a hard time getting wet or hard down there? Just try something new, chances are, you’ll enjoy it a lot more than you can ever imagine.
Getting kinky in bed can mean different things for different people. What can seem explosive and totally taboo to one couple could seem tame and boring to others.
So we decided to come up with the top 50 kinky ideas for all lovers, be it the new ones or the seasoned professionals of lovemaking.
Still new to the kinky party? Try a few tips from the kinky list.
A kinky veteran? Well, we’re sure there are a lot of tips here that you still haven’t tried, you horny bunny! Try it, you may just like something with a twist.
But just a word of caution, while we do suggest you try these kinky ideas with your partner, we’ll still have to be a buzzkill and tell you to know the laws of your state before indulging in a few of the rather risqué kinky ideas you’ll find as you go down the list.
After all, it’s better to be safe than sorry. We’ve all heard that phrase, never do anything that you can’t explain to the paramedics or the cops, haven’t we?
Here we go, see if you can check every one of these kinky sex ideas off the list over time. And remember to always be honest with each other. Communicate, be empathetic, and learn about each other’s preferences as you try these kinky ideas. We’ll start off with easy ones that’ll make you both horny *we guarantee it!* and build it up to the wild ones that’ll make you drop your jaw in horny fear and excitement!
If you want more details on how to try it, just click on the links at the end of each kinky idea, and you’ll have all the steps you need!
1. Grind and grope each other while dancing at a club, or on a night out of town.
2. Have sex with each other while someone’s watching. Or watch someone else having sex. [Read: Sexual voyeurism and the horny rush it can give you ]
3 . Have sex with a full length mirror next to your bed, and watch yourselves in it.
4 . Bring food into bed. Nothing beats whipped cream! [Read: The lovers’ guide to horny food and aphrodisiacs ]
5 . Make out on a rooftop or under the stars. Romantic, freeing, adventurous and scary!
6 . Role play with each other by dressing in character or as other people in your daily lives. [Read: Role play guide for first timers ]
7 . Fantasize about different scenarios and sexual situations and talk about it. [Read: Dirty talking examples to talk about different sexual scenarios with each other ]
8 . Skinny dip with each other or involve a few friends. [Read: How to skinny dip for the first time ]
9 . Give a road head or have sex while travelling or on a road trip. [Read: Road head confessions of a good girl ]
10 . Take off on a sexy vacation with another couple or have a sexy drunk double date at home. [Read: The horniest truth or dare questions to ask another couple ]
11 . Get naughty on the beach with each other.
12 . Make out or have sex in a public place like a restroom or in a dark corner of a club.
14 . Shower together and play with the hand shower or have soapy sex in the bathroom.
15 . Pick up a copy of the Kamasutra and try unique sex positions that both of you might enjoy.
16 . Get a couples’ sensual erotic massage with masseurs of the opposite sexes. [Read: Happy ending massage confession ]
17 . Make out on someone else’s bed. Creepy, weird, awkward and oh-so-sexy.
18 . Watch porn videos while having sex and turn up the volume for some sexy background music. [Read: Porn for couples and why it might just make your sex life way, way better ]
19 . Make a sex video or click nude pics of each other. Or just start by clicking skimpy photos on the beach. [Read: The right way to take nude pictures of your lover ]
20 . Have sex with another couple in bed with both of you. [Read: How to make married sex feel like a one night stand ]
21 . Make out in transportation, be it on a flight, your own car on a long drive, a train or an overnight bus.
23 . Role reversal. Whatever you do normally, switch roles to start slow.
24 . Spanking and nibbling, and a furry cuff can be a great turn on for controlling sex.
25 . Have sex in a changing room when there are very few people around.
26 . Using edible body paint can make eating in bed so much more tasty.
27 . Pretend like you’re sleeping while your partner slips into bed, turns you on and has sex with you.
28 . The world can get dark with blindfolds, but it’ll open up your sexy imaginative mind. [Read: 14 sensual tips to use blindfolds in bed and arouse each other ]
29 . Bondage can be scary, but a few scarves, ropes and clean bondage can turn out to be sexier than you think.
30 . Anal sex. If it hurts, use lubes. If it still hurts, try something else. [Read: First time anal sex – The curious bum lover’s guide for every step of the way ]
31 . Finger her under a restaurant table. Just make sure the tablecloth’s big enough to cover your indecent act in public.
32 . Have sex with the curtains open and get comfortably close to the window. [Read: Public flashing confessions ]
33 . Scratch each other and use your nails. Sometimes, pain can bring more pleasure.
34 . Leave the hotel room door open for the room service while having sex. Or start tame and leave the door open when you’re in a state of undress.
35 . Have resistance sex and pretend like you’re being groped and molested. [Read: A newbie’s guide to the sexiest ways to have the dirtiest sex ever ]
36 . Have sex in water, be it a pool or in the ocean.
38 . Play naughty truth and dare and strip poker with friends. [Read: The 10 best naughty games for couples to make everyone horny in no time ]
39 . Have drunk sex after a wild night of partying.
40 . Imagine having sex with someone else and talk to your partner about it. [Read: How to fantasize about someone else and describe it your partner without feeling guilty ]
1 . Are you bold enough to try swapping and swinging with other couples? [Read: The first time guide to swapping partners with another couple ]
2 . Ropes and bondage can be awkward for beginners, but they’re a lot of fun for the seasoned kinky lovers.
3 . Clamps and whips can hurt, but at the right places, even pain can be a huge turn on.
4 . Like being the dominatrix? Try playing submissive to the kinkiest of commands with your partner.
6 . Like peeing on each other while having sex? Golden shower fantasies were made for you.
7 . Watch your partner having sex with someone else.
8 . Use a double dildo with your man and penetrate him while getting penetrated yourself.
9 . Have a threesome with someone both of you admire or like. [Confession: My first accidental threesome experience that blew my mind ]
10 . Have sex and flaunt yourselves on your webcam to other couples. Just remember to keep your face out of the camera though.
Remember, all of us have our own preferences when it comes to kinky sex ideas. See what you like and try what you want. Like something bolder or milder, just improvise.
Try these 50 sexy, kinky ideas in your own relationship and you’ll see how much more exciting sex can become with a few simple twists in the routine. Want a sexy relationship all the time? These kinky ideas can lead you to a path of sexual satisfaction and horniness that’ll make your life exciting in every other aspect too!
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Okay first things first: Kinky sex isn't just about spanking.
Not that spanking is off limits or anything... Kink includes a whole spectrum of behaviors beyond BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, and sadomasochism) though. It could involve anything from role playing, to blindfolds and feathery props, to having a threesome, or even doing some Broad City- style pegging .
“Kink is a broad term that generally refers to sexual practices that are ‘non-normative’ in that they extend beyond typical or common sexual behaviors,” explains Michael Aaron , Ph.D., a certified sex therapist and sexologist in New York.
The biggest rule: If you and your partner are both interested in kinky sex , have an open conversation about what it is about kink that's a turn-on, and what you're comfortable trying, says Jenni Skyler, Ph.D., a certified sex therapist and sexologist, and director of The Intimacy Institute in Colorado. "Having a game plan and setting up a safe word is important,” she says.
From there,“take baby steps,” says Skyler. “Enjoy it, get acclimated, and then take a few more baby steps. Keep exploring until you find what feels good for you.”
If you’re not quite ready to dive in, watching a movie with an element of kink can be a great place to get some ideas, according to the experts (not to mention, a perfect way to heat up movie night). Just don’t make it porn, advises Skyler. “There are a lot of really bad and unsafe examples of BDSM in porn,” she explains.
For the record, the experts also don’t recommend 50 Shades of Grey , since not everyone in the kink community agrees with the way BDSM is portrayed in the film. Instead, cue up The Secretary on Netflix, advises Aaron.
Chances are, you have a scarf, a sleep mask, or a tie laying around your bedroom somewhere—tying one on deprives you (or your partner) of one of your main senses, making all the others—touch, taste, smell, sound—all the more electrifying. “In doing this, you can experience pleasure in a different way,” explains David Ortmann, L.C.S.W., a psychotherapist and sex therapist in New York and California. Blindfolding also underscores a kinky power imbalance, he says, leaving your partner at the mercy of your touch.
On that note, belts, ties, and scarfs can also be an easy, un-intimidating way to experiment with restraint (a.k.a. bondage). “Really, trying it out is as simple as using a bandana or scarf to restrain someone’s hands," Ortmann says.
You can also pick up a beginner's kink kit that includes things like blindfolds and fuzzy handcuffs, says Skyler. “Most sexuality stores sell beginner packages that also include things like a feather on a stick for sensation play or a soft flogger for spanking,” she says.
Before you freak out, BDSM dungeons can actually be a great place to observe kinky sex from the sidelines—the experts really recommend them. “Many local dungeons have beginner classes where you can practice things like rope tying and spanking,” says Skyler. This is also a great place to learn some kink safety tips.
But if you draw the line at the word “dungeon,” check out classes on kink that are offered by your local sex-positive sex shop to pick up some kinky tips in the bright light of day. Ortmann recommends The Pleasure Chest. “The people in there will treat you like you’re at Macy’s trying on a blouse—it’s very not scary,” he says.
Spanking can be a surprisingly intimate way to get into kink. “It can be something that’s actually bonding because it's tactile and involves skin-to-skin contact,” explains Ortmann. “But it also involves a power exchange.” Start light—a swat with your hand or a fuzzy padded flogger from your local sex-positive shop can be a good way to ease into things.
Whether your fantasy is a silk French maid get-up, hot cop outfit studded with leather, or a fuzzy animal print catsuit, costumes can be a fun way to get kinky. “Something I might say is 'we haven’t played with clothing yet—tell me what would make you feel sexy and naughty to be dressed in and tell me what turns you on to see me in,'” Ortmann says. This can also be a great segue into
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