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Up until last year, my husband and I led a fairly ho-hum existence in regards to sex and kink. It wasn’t until I accidentally found myself reading an incredibly smutty book that I realized what I was reading wasn’t gross; it was fascinating and I wanted to try everything .
It was a normal Wednesday evening when I brought the book up to my bedroom, where I nervously asked my husband to read a particularly descriptive passage about anal sex and the use of anal beads. Imagine my surprise when he wasn’t disgusted! “So, this is something — we could try? Someday? Maybe?” I said. He laughed and said “ Sure! As long as you’re comfortable with it!” By the end of the week, I was the proud owner of a very pretty butt plug, some heavy-duty lube and my husband was in possession of my butt-sex virginity.
Here’s what I’ve figured out about getting your kink on with a lover: Unless you meet on a fetish forum or get real drunk with each other, your secret desires to be spanked, whacked, choked, and manhandled will probably go unspoken. Imagine turning to your lover right now and saying, “Tonight I would like you to slap my tits until they bruise.”
What would happen? Would someone’s head explode? Would you feel judged? Would your lover even know what tit slapping was? IT’S SUCH A RISK! So how does a happy and healthy sexually active couple go about figuring out the hard and soft limits of their sexuality? If you lead a fairly vanilla life chances are you’re completely unaware to just how much pleasure there is to be had out there. But how do you go about approaching the subject?
Yes, porn is getting a bad rap lately, and it should — I’ve watched porn destroy many a relationship because it was either kept secret or abused to the point where the lines between reality and porn blur into a muddled mess of pain and confusion for everyone involved.
But I’ve learned that porn, when viewed with my husband, can actually be wonderfully beneficial to both of us. It helps that we’re both open-minded in regards to sex but we still find it easier to find new positions and ideas from porn than trying to describe what we think we’d like.
Here are some of our favorite pornographic pleasures:
1. Girl-on girl. Girls are soft, girls are pretty, girls are generally less aggressive than men are, and let’s be honest — girls know what girls like because girls have the same parts as other girls. My husband enjoys watching two girls together because he is guy; I enjoy watching because I have a pretty strong desire to make out with a girl one day.
2. Tit-slapping. I had heard of it, but never considered it until I watched it and my brain and body made the connection that “Hey, I think I’d like that.” My husband was ecstatic as it was something he had always wanted to try but was too shy to ask about. What is tit-slapping? It’s exactly what it sounds like: basically having your boobs spanked.
3. Girl/guy bondage. Preferably the guy tying up the girl. I love being submissive to my husband, so seeing other women being submissive to their lovers is a turn-on for both of us. I especially love elaborate rope ties, as it is more of a focused art form rather than just a hasty, easy-to-break-free-from handkerchief to a headboard.
4. Super-oily, naked massages. If there were one scene I would never opt out of, it would be having big warm hands all over my oiled and naked body. I don’t even care about getting knots out; I just want strong hands all over me. It’s a hard one to recreate in the bedroom because cleaning that amount of oil out of or off of anything would ruin it for me.
5. Sensual, slooooow kissing. Kissing seems so basic and boring, I mean, most of us have been doing it since we were horny teenagers. But a good kiss, one that goes slow, where you’re breathing in another person? Those are the kinds of kisses that get us all hot and bothered. Anyone can slam their body parts together but to kiss like you mean it requires a level of passion and intimacy that can’t be found with just anyone.
Now that you know what we’re into (no judgment!), here are a few helpful suggestions that have worked for us to make watching porn less awkward and more amazing:
I realize guys are audio and visual but I am visual only. Corny dialogue and music only distract me from what is really going on — plus it’s easier for my husband to tell what I’m really into when everything is quiet. I have a bad habit of doing terrible voice-overs if I don’t like what we’re watching. If I’m quiet, it’s usually a good indication that I’m interested in what’s going on.
While watching, our discussions usually involve simple statements like “Please never do that to me” or “I wouldn’t hate it if you tried that on me.” We both laugh at the outlandish positions — what is it with men going down on women who just happen to be doing a headstand? NOPE — and hum in agreement on positions we know we like.
It’s also important to go into more detail if there was something one of us would like to try: When would you want to try it? Where would you want it to happen? What toys or preparation would you need to complete before it could happen? While we’re at it, now is also a good time to discuss your safe words!
There is A LOT of porn out there, and it is categorized down to the tiniest detail. If we don’t both enjoy what we’re watching, we change the video! If one of us really likes a particular scene but the other is slightly horrified? We’ll have a discussion about what it is they like about the scene, then narrow down our searches to even more specific details.
We both agree quality is key — there’s no reason for us to watch terribly lit porn and shoddy camera work — which narrows down our choices immensely. Same goes for costuming, who really does the dishes in a tiny skirt, high heels and no underpants? We prefer our porn to be *slightly* realistic.
There is an entire world to explore on the other side of your safe search filter, when explored honestly and with healthy curiosity in mind — it can open up a whole new world to couples who believe their sex lives to be dead in the water.
Even if you don’t end up living out a real life porn scene, you’ll at least have the fodder for a spirited discussion on what each of you is into (which may very well lead to a horizontal display in the bedroom).
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Someone posts a meme, and you should all know how this works: people respond with fan fiction requests in the comments (often anonymously, but rarely). Others are also welcome to respond to these requests (usually in the form of enthusiastic seconding) or create fiction in response to them, as long as they do so responsibly.
A kinky is linked with these requests quite frequently, thus the meme emerges. Anonymous love memes, which circulate from time to time and in which people post their identities while others anonymously create wonderful things about them, are the most likely origin of inspiration, according to the data collected. However, when and how people began to write fan fiction in these locations is unknown. There’s no entry for the notion of “kinky meme” on Fanlore, which appears to be a major oversight given that fannish sites abound with memes.
In light of this, it’s amusing to think that one of the kinky meme’s aims is to make it easier for folks to request and produce exactly the sort of kinky wicked fiction they desire without feeling guilty. This may be an exception for now, since several fandoms, notably Supernatural, have made it clear that fandom has no intention of feeling ashamed.

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Don’t worry, there’s some beginner stuff here, too.
If you've only rotated between two or three sex positions in the past month, it's probably time to spice things up (for your own pleasure's sake). Taking relationships—whether long term, a casual fling, or a FWB—to the next level and getting a little kinky doesn’t have to be as intimidating as it sounds. In fact, there are basic, accessible ways to make sex feel more erotic without going into full BDSM mode (unless you want to).
Plus, if you’re in a serious relationship, talking about your kinks and preferences can help you feel more connected to your partner, says Kate Balestrieri, licensed psychologist, certified therapist and founder of Modern Intimacy .
"Introducing kinkier elements into your sex life together can create a sense of adventure and deepen sense of trust," Balestrieri says. "Inherently, it gives you the opportunity to talk about things on a deeper level, discuss different boundaries, debrief and evaluate together in a way that couples sometime forget to do when they have the same routine sex life."
Now, the term "kink" gets thrown around a lot, thus carrying a lot of ambiguity. At its most basic level, kink refers to unconventional sexual preferences or behaviors, says sex therapist Veronica N. Chin Hing-Michaluk , LMHC. "[So] if kink is defined as anything that exists outside of the norm, I challenge you to think about whose norm you’re conforming to," she says. Touché.
Your brand of kink might be sex with multiple partners at once; it might be having your partner secretly use a remote control vibrator on you while out with friends; it might include using sex toys with your partner in the bedroom. If you're unsure about what your kinky preferences are, licensed sex therapist Vanessa Marin suggests easing your way in. "I think a lot of people, for some reason, have this idea that if you’re going to try kink, you have to go all the way. You don't."
Before springing bondage gear on your partner, discuss your boundaries and desires, making sure you're on the same page about what you're both down to try, she says. Also, don't forget to come up with a mutual safe word. It's critical not only when you want to stop, but also when you’re nearing your limit, says Chin Hing-Michaluk. "Having that framework with kink can help you pace yourself, and figure out how fast or slow you want to go," she says. Say it with me now: Consent is sexy!
Now that you're familiar with the basics, you might wonder how exactly to dip your toe in rougher waters. Depending on what you like, the first step might be as simple as adding some new moves into your erotic rotation. These 25 positions for kinky sex are a great start. (You'll even find recommendations to spice up the most basic positions—yes, I’m talking missionary—that'll pretty much guarantee next-level orgasms .)
PSA: The table isn't necessary with Table Top position (#themoreyouknow). "I love this position because you can do it anywhere," Balestrieri says. "You can do it on a countertop, on an armchair in the living room, or the sofa. It’s even great if you’re in a secluded space and you want to be standing outside the seat of your car."
If you have great upper body strength, Balestrieri recommends playing with some levitation, a.k.a. not using a table for support.
Do it: Any surface that hits your partner at crotch height will do. Have them enter you while you’re sitting or lying at the edge of a table, counter, or maybe even your bed.
Champagne Room can provide a much-needed escape for all involved. "Facing away gives us the opportunity to pretend that we’re strangers," Balestrieri says. It can provide an opportunity to disconnect and "experience the sensations without having to include or manage the experience of a partner," she adds.
For the person on the bottom, watching someone go to town on you from behind can elevate the sexiness, too. "It can also give the impression, for the person who is on the bottom, of being used in a positive way, which can be really erotic," Balestrieri says.
Do it: Your partner sits on the edge of a chair or bed, and you sit on top of them, facing away. Move up and down on their lap at your leisure.
Not only is Spork on the kinkier side, but it also prevents huge strain on the body because of how the parties involved are resting on each other, Balestrieri says.
"It also gives people a lot of flexibility and opportunity for eye contact, which can be great if you’re playing with any kind of power dynamics," she adds.
Do it: Lie on your back and raise your right leg so your partner can position their body between your legs at a 90-degree angle and enter you. Your left leg can lie straight out on the bed, or you can bend it to manipulate the depth of penetration. For a rear-entry variation, lie on your stomach, bend one leg, and have your partner position themselves in between your legs. Options!
Yeah, yeah, I hear you: "Missionary? Kinky?" Well, this is just a testament that any position can be enhanced. What's more, Balestrieri says it’s easy: All you have to do is add eye contact and sync up your breathing. "When you add that synchronicity of the breath and the eyes together, it can really bring a lot of heat and a lot of feelings," she says.
But, if you’re looking to go the extra mile and really give it to your partner, try using an arousal serum for extra stimulation. Another option? Incorporate some dirty talk. "Dirty talk can elevate even the most vanilla positions," Balestrieri says.
Do it: Do I really need to spell this one out? Okay. Lie on your back while they lie facedown on top of you.
If you’re stressed, anxious, or just plain tired, Scoop Me Up is perfect. "This is the best way to have lazy sex—and I don’t mean lazy in a bad way," says Balestrieri.
"We all have days where we’re tired, and we still want to connect sexually." The position also leaves room for deep thrusting, which can definitely bring some heat.It’s also less rigorous, so if you’re going too hard on the other ones on this list, try this to give your body a break.
Do it: Both of you lie on your sides, facing the same direction. You bring your knees up slightly while your partner slides up behind your pelvis and enters you from behind. (You may also know this as spooning.)
If you want to add more strength to the Wheelbarrow position, try it standing up. This provides new types of movement and creates a sense of power for the person standing, Balestrieri says.
"The partners can have more opportunity for different cadences in their thrusting and depth—different angles, too," she says. “It’s more of a workout, so if you’re looking to kill two birds with one stone, that’s the way to go.” Okay, now that’s the best dirty talk, IMHO.
Do It: Get on your hands and feet and have your partner pick you up by the pelvis. Then grip their waist with your thighs.
Even the most loving positions can be made kinky. The Om is a great one for eye contact, kissing, and breath work.
"You can do a lot of synchronized breath work, which sounds kind of ‘woo woo,’ but, I’m telling you, when you get two nervous systems synched up together, it is hot ," Balestrieri says. "It can create tension and friction; be prepared to be sweaty."
Do it: Your partner sits cross-legged (yoga/pretzel-style), while you sit in their lap facing them. Wrap your legs around them and hug each other for support.
The Snake offers plenty of perks, says Balestrieri. There is mobility with different angles, ability to play around with sensations, and the opportunity for some light BDSM.
"Because their partner’s hips are elevated, the partner on top can really have a lot to work with in terms of how they can penetrate and stimulate their partner," she says. "This is a great position for punishing or spanking."
You can even incorporate some restraints. Balestrieri recommends using a spacing bar or other restraints to "create the element of consenting powerlessness, which can be really fun for couples to play with."
Do it: Lie down on your stomach, and have your partner lie down on top of you and slide in from behind.
The Caboose looks like it’s straight out of an erotic thriller. But its sexiness goes beyond just looks. It can create some elevation by allowing you to bounce on your partner’s lap, Balestrieri says.
"This is a great way to get in some doggy-style action without all that strain on either of your bodies," she adds.
Do it: While they sit on the bed or a chair, back yourself into their lap and spoon each other while seated.
The Good Ex sex position is a long, slow burn full of contradictions (you’re connected but far apart, just like exes)—which makes it one of the hottest.
"Long, slow sex can feel kinky because we don’t always give ourselves time, space, and permission to really be in our bodies in a slow and intentional way," explains Balestrieri. "So it can feel really amazing to notice every single sensory piece of information that sometimes we don’t get access to when we’re moving more quickly."
Do it: Sit on the bed facing each other with legs forward. Lift your partner’s right leg over your left and lift your right leg over their left. Come together so they can enter you. Now both of you lie back, your legs forming an X. Slow, leisurely gyrations replace thrusti
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