Kinky Asian

Kinky Asian
Up until last year, my husband and I led a fairly ho-hum existence in regards to sex and kink. It wasn’t until I accidentally found myself reading an incredibly smutty book that I realized what I was reading wasn’t gross; it was fascinating and I wanted to try everything .
It was a normal Wednesday evening when I brought the book up to my bedroom, where I nervously asked my husband to read a particularly descriptive passage about anal sex and the use of anal beads. Imagine my surprise when he wasn’t disgusted! “So, this is something — we could try? Someday? Maybe?” I said. He laughed and said “ Sure! As long as you’re comfortable with it!” By the end of the week, I was the proud owner of a very pretty butt plug, some heavy-duty lube and my husband was in possession of my butt-sex virginity.
Here’s what I’ve figured out about getting your kink on with a lover: Unless you meet on a fetish forum or get real drunk with each other, your secret desires to be spanked, whacked, choked, and manhandled will probably go unspoken. Imagine turning to your lover right now and saying, “Tonight I would like you to slap my tits until they bruise.”
What would happen? Would someone’s head explode? Would you feel judged? Would your lover even know what tit slapping was? IT’S SUCH A RISK! So how does a happy and healthy sexually active couple go about figuring out the hard and soft limits of their sexuality? If you lead a fairly vanilla life chances are you’re completely unaware to just how much pleasure there is to be had out there. But how do you go about approaching the subject?
Yes, porn is getting a bad rap lately, and it should — I’ve watched porn destroy many a relationship because it was either kept secret or abused to the point where the lines between reality and porn blur into a muddled mess of pain and confusion for everyone involved.
But I’ve learned that porn, when viewed with my husband, can actually be wonderfully beneficial to both of us. It helps that we’re both open-minded in regards to sex but we still find it easier to find new positions and ideas from porn than trying to describe what we think we’d like.
Here are some of our favorite pornographic pleasures:
1. Girl-on girl. Girls are soft, girls are pretty, girls are generally less aggressive than men are, and let’s be honest — girls know what girls like because girls have the same parts as other girls. My husband enjoys watching two girls together because he is guy; I enjoy watching because I have a pretty strong desire to make out with a girl one day.
2. Tit-slapping. I had heard of it, but never considered it until I watched it and my brain and body made the connection that “Hey, I think I’d like that.” My husband was ecstatic as it was something he had always wanted to try but was too shy to ask about. What is tit-slapping? It’s exactly what it sounds like: basically having your boobs spanked.
3. Girl/guy bondage. Preferably the guy tying up the girl. I love being submissive to my husband, so seeing other women being submissive to their lovers is a turn-on for both of us. I especially love elaborate rope ties, as it is more of a focused art form rather than just a hasty, easy-to-break-free-from handkerchief to a headboard.
4. Super-oily, naked massages. If there were one scene I would never opt out of, it would be having big warm hands all over my oiled and naked body. I don’t even care about getting knots out; I just want strong hands all over me. It’s a hard one to recreate in the bedroom because cleaning that amount of oil out of or off of anything would ruin it for me.
5. Sensual, slooooow kissing. Kissing seems so basic and boring, I mean, most of us have been doing it since we were horny teenagers. But a good kiss, one that goes slow, where you’re breathing in another person? Those are the kinds of kisses that get us all hot and bothered. Anyone can slam their body parts together but to kiss like you mean it requires a level of passion and intimacy that can’t be found with just anyone.
Now that you know what we’re into (no judgment!), here are a few helpful suggestions that have worked for us to make watching porn less awkward and more amazing:
I realize guys are audio and visual but I am visual only. Corny dialogue and music only distract me from what is really going on — plus it’s easier for my husband to tell what I’m really into when everything is quiet. I have a bad habit of doing terrible voice-overs if I don’t like what we’re watching. If I’m quiet, it’s usually a good indication that I’m interested in what’s going on.
While watching, our discussions usually involve simple statements like “Please never do that to me” or “I wouldn’t hate it if you tried that on me.” We both laugh at the outlandish positions — what is it with men going down on women who just happen to be doing a headstand? NOPE — and hum in agreement on positions we know we like.
It’s also important to go into more detail if there was something one of us would like to try: When would you want to try it? Where would you want it to happen? What toys or preparation would you need to complete before it could happen? While we’re at it, now is also a good time to discuss your safe words!
There is A LOT of porn out there, and it is categorized down to the tiniest detail. If we don’t both enjoy what we’re watching, we change the video! If one of us really likes a particular scene but the other is slightly horrified? We’ll have a discussion about what it is they like about the scene, then narrow down our searches to even more specific details.
We both agree quality is key — there’s no reason for us to watch terribly lit porn and shoddy camera work — which narrows down our choices immensely. Same goes for costuming, who really does the dishes in a tiny skirt, high heels and no underpants? We prefer our porn to be *slightly* realistic.
There is an entire world to explore on the other side of your safe search filter, when explored honestly and with healthy curiosity in mind — it can open up a whole new world to couples who believe their sex lives to be dead in the water.
Even if you don’t end up living out a real life porn scene, you’ll at least have the fodder for a spirited discussion on what each of you is into (which may very well lead to a horizontal display in the bedroom).
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Written by Time Out Hong Kong Wednesday 11 May 2022
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Based on a famous novel, this Thai erotic-period-drama stars Hong Kong's very own, Christy Chung. Directed and co-written by Nonzee Nimibutr, the film was controversial not only in Thailand but also in the S.A.R. because of its sexual subject matter. It later spawned various versions released in 2012 and 2013 which also made the headlines. The story revolves around the protagonist Jan Dara who was born into a wealthy family in 1930s Thailand. He grew up with a father that despised him because his mother died from childbirth. Feeling rejected and looking for consolation, his predicament leads him to a life filled with sexual exploits. The film underscores incest, adultery, and betrayal set in sepia-toned cinematography, and presented through its well-crafted characters. It offers some tasteful, sensual scenes that will send temperatures soaring to tropical climes.
In The Realm of the Senses (1976) – Japan
The Christ Of Nanjing (1995) (Hong Kong/Japan)
Scorpio Nights (1985) – Philippines
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Take a peek under the sheets and uncover some of Asia's most erotic fantasies
Forget Fifty Shades of Grey, the East's own cinematic erotica offers a treasure trove of films that span various unconventional topics and underline each country's attitude towards sex, sexuality, and taboos. With plots that range from the mystical, sinister, and sometimes humorous, to the completely bizarre, you'll surely find something that will ignite your repressed carnal desires. And since these films are made locally, it eschews the somewhat offensive Western fantasy that is commonly projected to this side of the world.
Aside from Hong Kong's sensual offering to the film industry, let us take you to Taiwan, Japan, Korea, the Philippines, and Thailand through this list of Asian erotica that should be on your radar. RECOMMENDED: Change up what's on your screen with this list of the most controversial Hong Kong films of the last decade.
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No erotic Asian list would be complete without this Hong Kong erotic cinema milestone which eventually spawned numerous sequels including a blockbuster 3D rendition in 2011. Sex and Zen is a softcore sex comedy that in certain parts of the movie almost border on oddity. The story revolves around a Ming Dynasty scholar's lust and sexual rampage. It shares the same 'penile mutilation' as In The Realm of the Senses but not on a serious note, rather as part of it's outlandish humour. One of its memorable scenes, which is actually the most unerotic part of the film, is when the protagonist has a horse's genitalia surgically grafted onto his body. From this, his erotic sexual exploits begin. One thing to note, you will never look at flutes the same way again.
When it comes to erotic cinema, there are a lot of classic Japanese masterpieces, and A Snake of June is one of them. A San Marco Special Jury Award winner at the Venice Film Festival, A Snake of June is a 2002 Japanese film directed by Shinya Tsukamoto, completely shown in monochrome electric blue cinematography. It tells the story of a sexually deprived couple and a voyeuristic stranger (played by Tsukamoto himself) who manipulated the wife to uncover and exploit her hidden desires. This one is a feast for the eyes, surrealistic, voyeuristic, and can get a bit disturbing.
Gut-wrenching, visceral, and sexually explicit, this movie is one of the best erotic films ever made. Directed by Nagisa Ōshima, In The Realm of the Senses is based on the true story of Sada Abe, who murdered her lover in erotic asphyxiation in 1936. But that's not the shocking part. After her partner's death, Sada then cut off his penis and carried it around with her for days before the police found her. So, you may think you know the ending, but that's just the plot. The film is an insightful experience into an erotic work of art, with the ability to sexually arouse the viewer, but at the same time reduce the stimulation to revolt, shock, and awe. However vile and unsettling, if you finish the movie until the end with a profound understanding, you'll realise that it is a movie about love. Plus, the fact that it’s a true story, makes it a very sad one. You definitely won't forget this one.
Directed by Tony Au and starring Tony Leung Ka-fai and Yasuko Tomita – who won the best actress award at the 1995 Tokyo International Film Festival for her performance in the film – The Christ Of Nanjing is a tragic love story between a Japanese author and a Chinese country girl in Nanjing. The film tackles Christianity with Asian sensibilities, balanced with an eroticism that somehow never verges to be exploitative.
Korean erotica navigates the plashes of sexual desire and has everything from action, drama, thriller, romance, and fantasy, with some pretty absurd storylines. The story is about a woman who lives in a remote lake selling goods to fishermen by day and prostitutes herself at night. Her conflict begins when she becomes obsessed with a former police officer haunted by the past of murdering his girlfriend. This movie made quite a stir when it premiered at the Venice Film Festival as it left people vomiting and fainting while watching the film. Sounds intriguing? Yes, it's compelling and grotesque, a movie that is hard to forget once you’ve watched it. Set in a cinematic and poetic landscape, the movie is beautifully laid out and if you go past the dark misery behind all its characters, it's almost calming to watch.
The Taste of Money is a controversial R rated Korean movie that caused a stir for its representation of the wealthiest families in South Korea. Grappled in sex, money, and greed, the film orbits around an ageing powerful businessman Chairman Yoon (Baek Yun-shik) who is leaving his wife Baek Geum-ok (Youn Yuh-jung) because he fell for a Filipino maid Eva (Maui Taylor). Peppered with lavish sets and the decadence of the rich and famous – it's all beautiful to look at. Watch it for sheer entertainment, and if it's the raunchy scenes you're after, don't worry there's a whole lot of it to look forward to.
Crafted by the late Peque Gallaga, a multi-award winning director who was instrumental in shaping local Philippine cinema, Scorpio Nights is one of the most controversial films of its time and one of the best Filipino erotic films ever made, catapulting a sexy Filipino film into a work of art. The story is about a man who watches his neighbour's – a security guard and his wife – sexual deeds from below his floorboards. Wrestled by desire and lust, he eventually gave in and started an affair with the wife until the husband caught them. Its provocative execution has been copied many times but has never been matched. This one is a must-watch on your Asian erotica watchlist.
Hollywood’s most titillating films like Fifty Shades of Grey tops the box office in Singapore, but it's local audience are simply not interested in locally made sensual flicks hence there's a scarcity of Singaporean erotic films in the market. But it doesn't stop directors from pushing the boundaries and exploring this genre that is rarely consumed by a local audience. Directed by Eric Khoo, In the Room is one of the few erotic films that dared to air in the market but was not granted commercial release because the director didn't want to cut certain explicit scenes. However, it was allowed release in 2016 after an international version was polished and masks some scenes with special effects. The movie is a multi-story erotic drama that spans several decades – starting in 1942 during the surrender of the British to Japanese troops up to the present time – and is set in room 27 of a fading grand Singaporean hotel. The film represents various kinds of characters from different eras that include an inter-racial middle-aged gay couple, a band who uses the hotel for orgies and drugs, nubile women learning about their sexuality, a May-December love affair, and a woman's quest for the elusive orgasm. While it rated poorly in cinema reviews, it's still worth checking out, as it's the first of its kind in Singaporean movie history.
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