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Tumblr’s web traffic has plummeted by a third since it banned titillating images and videos–creating a niche for naughty new sites to fill.

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Once upon a time, a free blogging platform called Tumblr was the online haven for porn, kink, bondage/domination, and other legal but not-safe-for-work communities. That all changed in November 2018, when Apple removed Tumblr from its App Store after finding that child pornography had slipped onto the site .
That kick-started Verizon-owned Tumblr to enact a policy change it says was already planned: a blanket ban on virtually all “adult content” images and videos (but not text)–starting on December 17, 2018. The ban prohibited not just hardcore porn, but even the humble female nipple. (Imagery that just barely hides private parts seems to still be allowed.)
Meanwhile, Tumblr’s web traffic has–er, tumbled. From the pre-controversy month of October 2018 through April 2019, it’s dropped by about a third–both in the U.S. and internationally, according to analytics firm SimilarWeb–from 558 million to 376 million monthly visits globally. That’s despite Tumblr’s return to the App Store in December.
Like a fire that clears out miles of forest, Tumblr’s porn ban has created an ecological niche for new not-safe-for-work (NSFW) friendly sites to take root. Natural selection has weeded out many of them, such as the flopped Cumblr . But at least three other sites appear to be blooming.
Obvious warning: Many of the following links lead to NSFW content.
“I knew Tumblr wasn’t that complicated,” says Dean Abramson, chief architect at online gaming startup Statabase . (That’s gaming as in gambling, such as online poker.) “I said, you know, we could rebuild Tumblr, in what, two weeks? Three weeks? At least for the front end. Let’s give it a shot.”
Abramson and his colleagues’ side project, newTumbl , opened to the public on December 16, and now has over 200,000 users, he says. The site had about 2.2 million global visits in April, according to SimilarWeb (the latest month for which it has data). For perspective, that’s about 1.2% of just what Tumblr’s lost since October.
Like the original Tumblr, newTumbl isn’t meant to be exclusively for porn sharing. “We would like to be a complete site, from kittens all the way up to anything legal,” says Abramson. (All of these sites make clear that posting illegal content, such as child pornography, is prohibited.) “But we know that right now, probably 90% of our users are here for adult content.”
Sharesome can also import old Tumblr blogs. Tumblr allows users to download all of their content to an archive file . The company says it only hides adult content from public view ( a slow, ongoing process ), rather than deleting it from the database. So blog owners can still access all the original files. Sharesome is one of several sites with the ability to upload those archives . (newTumbl says it’s in the works.)
Tumblr imports are also possible on BDSMLR , which may be the biggest winner yet of Tumblr’s NSFW ban. It originally focused–as the name implies–on the bondage, dominance, sadism, masochism, and related fetishes. But BDSMLR has grown rapidly into a universal porn site, going from about 87,000 global visits in October 2018 to 9.4 million in April. (I made several unsuccessful attempts to reach the people who run BDSMLR.)
All these startups are miniscule compared to NSFW behemoth Pornhub, which reports over 110 million daily visitors. In early May, the Wall Street Journal reported that Verizon is looking to sell Tumblr, which it picked up in its acquisition of Yahoo in 2017. Pornhub’s vice president Corey Price told BuzzFeed that the company was “extremely interested” in buying Tumblr.
Verizon didn’t respond to my inquiry. PornHub didn’t say more about a possible Tumblr acquisition, but emailed a long statement making its case for already being an NSFW haven. “The same curatorial options are available on Pornhub as they were on Tumblr and users can enjoy the same personalization with us, including the ability to customize their personal feed, create playlists, generate GIFs, and more,” it said.
newTumbl and BDSMLR closely follow the Tumblr design: Users can quickly start their own post using text, photos, audio, or video. (GIFs that continually loop through the action dominate posts on all these sites.) They can also search on anything–really, anything–that catches their fancy to find other blogs or posts.
By following a few blogs, BDSMLR and newTumbl users can queue up pretty intense action to greet them as soon as the sites load. Abramson says that newTumbl will soon implement an “explore feature” that asks new users about their interests (beyond just kink) and guides them through content suggestions. (Abramson says the site will likely change and grow a lot as it evolves beyond just an NSFW Tumblr refuge, and a name change is also coming.)
Sharesome gets content in your face even sooner. It features something like a Facebook news feed of the most popular posts–regardless whether or not you follow the posters. It also lists suggested topics (as varied as Threesome lovers, Bi Swingers, Gay Cowboys & Farmers, and so many others I best not name here) as well as suggested members to follow. Many posters are amateurs with just a handful of followers, offering free content that is sometimes adorably awkward. But those with hundreds or thousands of followers typically use their profile as a teaser with links to other sites where they sell the goods.
Moneymaking is the challenge for all of these sites, and different approaches are emerging.
“We plan to monetize very similarly to mainstream social platforms: with ads,” writes Sharesome’s Tudor Bold in a DM. “For example, models and brands can already boost their profiles so that they reach more people. We will also re-enable promoted posts and we will be adding more options.”
Abramson says that newTumbl has about a dozen ideas for raising revenue, which will start emerging in Q4. He declined to discuss monetization strategies on the record, but said that they will be based on providing users the ability to earn money for their blogs. Abramson reckons the company will take a 20% share of what bloggers earn.
Financial self-sufficiency has slowed the growth of another emerging network, Pillowfort . It opened February 2017 as a general-interest site in the mold of Tumblr and the early-2000s version of LiveJournal . Membership was limited to a few hundred people who had contributed to the site’s first Kisktarter campaign. Pillowfort held a second Kickstarter in August 2018, but really took off with the Tumblr NSFW ban because of its liberal content policies.
“We actually had to close down registration for awhile just because we were getting more people signing up than we actually had the infrastructure to support,” says founder Julia Baritz. Pillowfort has about 47,000 members, but its slow growth is deliberate.
Pillowfort raised a modest $57,000 in its latest Kickstarter. And it charges new members a $5 registration fee, which is “the only way that we [can] pay our server hosting fees and our data service fees,” says Baritz. The site is working on modest ways to bring in money–such as extra blog-customization options–that reflect more of an intimate, user-supported community than a mega entertainment site. Users will also have to pay for uploads greater than a few megabytes. They can already embed any kinds of videos, including porn, from other sites.
“We don’t want to throw open the doors and say, ‘Hey everyone, come party with us,'” says Bartiz. “And then we get a huge bill and we don’t have the revenue stream in place to support it.”
Sean Captain is a business, technology, and science journalist based in North Carolina. Follow him on Twitter
@seancaptain .


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Finding someone who shares your kinks and fetishes is not always easy, if you’ve ever struggled to find a submissive or a masochist you know what I mean.

One solution is a good BDSM and fetish dating site , which can help you penetrate deeper into your local kink community.
These sites let you search for people by fetish and role, whether you are a dom looking for your sub, or a rope bunny looking for your rigger, they help you find your kink compatible match fast. 
Still, the internet is full of scams. Dodging them through trial and error is risky and exhausting. Are the best sites for BDSM dating really what they claim to be? Let’s investigate.
Alt.com is an online community with one of the largest groups of men and women into the BDSM, fetish lifestyle. If you are looking to find someone for kinky dating , roleplay, and other fun stuff, this is an excellent place to start. Within minutes of joining, I jumped into the chat rooms and flirted with a lady who shares my love for transparent clothing. Oh man, those were good times.
On alt.com, you can message anyone for online BDSM play. Most people are into that type of stuff. The site has topic rooms for all kinds of kink and fetish interests (rubber, goth, cybersex, etc.). You can also join their local, state, or regional chat groups to meet other real-life members.
Alt.com is free to join. But of course, like most fetish sites, you are charged to get past the communicative barriers. Look around the site and if you like what you see, unlock all the features (unlimited contact, blog/video access, profile visibility) with one of the following membership deals:
On Alt.com, you may find like-minded people that you have never met in real life, not even on social media.
Of all the dating websites created for kinky people , BDSM.com is the most overtly geared toward the whips and leather crowd. The website layout is very similar to Alt.com, with member profiles, topic rooms, and local groups for each state, region, and continent.
When you first arrive, you will see a collage of kinky BDSM lovers in chains, masks and cages. Those tools represent the entire site as a whole. I found that I fit at the moment I joined. You do not have to look for people who share your kinks and fetishes anymore. Register for the free features and then upgrade to the silver or gold membership (same membership plans and rates as alt.com).
With more than 80 million members (64m in the US), Adult Friend Finder is the most populated kinky dating site globally. Its members run the gamut in terms of sexual orientation and lifestyle arrangement. You can find straight, gay, and bi; single, swinger, and polyamorous.
AFF is more than just a BDSM dating site; it is an online fetish community where people chat, form kink groups, share videos and post stories. You can share your fantasies and erotica, both real and fictional, on AFF with other members into the same fetishes.
Unlike most fetish dating sites, AFF sports a layout similar to Facebook and other social network platforms. So you can lay low learning their new system because most features should already be familiar to you. You will see a vertical feed of recommended matches complete with like buttons, comment boxes, and status info on your personal homepage. Membership rates are as follows:
AFF is one of the most popular swinger sites for polyamorous people. If you and your partner have fantasized about trying group sex or cuckoldry, you might find willing participants here. If you are looking for a bi female for a m/w/w threesome, check the AFF member profiles.
I have had so much fun on AFF that it felt like I was single again.
Few dating websites are as notorious as Ashley Madison, the site for adulterous kinky people. Most of its members look for side action because they cannot get what they want at home, such as sex with masks, whips, vinyl, and chains. Imagine being trapped in a vanilla marriage! Shame on yall.
Ashley Madison is easy to use. You scroll down the feed of matches that meet your essential search criteria (gender, age, location) and click on photos of anyone you fancy for more info. Most of these people seek the ride of their lives and are blunt about what they want in a fling.
There is no membership plan for Ashley Madison. To make full use of the site, buy credits at the following prices:
Ashley Madison is a libertine hookup and affair website where anything goes sexually. Just practice your utmost discretion here (after all, most of these people don’t want their partners to find out.)
Seeking Arrangement (seeking.com) is a dating site where gold diggers find sugar daddies. Rich men, in turn, come here looking for arm candy. To some extent, this site facilitates costliest fetishes, findom, where men get tricked and teased out of their wealth by hot dominatrixes.
The site is free to join, but you will need to pay the premium to unlock conversations, filter your inbox and get your profile in front of more matches. As a sugar daddy, that will cost you the following:
If you join as a sugar baby, the rates are far lower:
Despite its reputation, the people on Seeking Arrangement run the gamut, and most of them do not even resemble tycoons or gold diggers. Still, if you join as a sugar daddy, the lowest-possible net worth you can list is $100k but there is no real verification.
As the name implies, Fetlife is a community website of members dedicated to the fetish lifestyle. It sports a micro-blogging layout that shows columns of the latest member posts and pics, where other users can comment.
Fetlife is where kinky people come to socialize with like-minded individuals. We would not call it a dating site per se, but you can find dates and hookups if you invest time and energy into the website. For unrestricted use of the site, consider the following plans:
To find kinky singles on Fetlife, join their Partner Finder group.
If you want to explore the fetish community for free, start on Reddit. The r/BDSMpersonals subreddit is easy to use and highly trafficked. Each thread header states the poster’s age, location, and preference (M4W, W4M, W4A, etc.).
To combat spam, they now make you wait four days after joining before you can post. They also prohibit personal links, promotions or any mention of findom.
Fetster is an online dating website and community for people into varying shades of kink. On Fetster, you can post videos, join interest groups, converse in forum threads, post blogs and photos and even make confessions.
The Fetster community is equally about socializing and dating. If you fancy someone, you can PM them and/or add them to your friend’s list (ala Facebook). The site puts you through a lengthy fill-in forum at signup to weed out the fakes.
On Bondage.com, you can post about fetish and kink topics and find other locals with similar interests. They offer multiple fetish groups for each state and city. In my area, Portland and vicinity, they have groups for hotwives, gangbangs, exhibitionists, cucks, and more.
Bondage.com has the format of a social media website with content feeds, comment boxes, and like buttons. The site is free to use, but with a paid membership, you can get more features, such as contacting members and posting videos.
Their Gold and Silver membership rates are the same as on alt.com and BDSM.com. (They’re all run by Magnolia Blossom Inc.)
Fetish.com is the Facebook of fetish sites. Each user has a profile page with a photo album and a wall of posts, videos, and comments. If you like someone, give them a spank (heart button). They also have the live text and video chat under multiple kink categories.
While not everyone on Fetish.com is looking for dates, you can flirt with anyone. To find dates, click on the BDSM dating link under the Browse pull-down menu. The site is free to use, but you can unlock more features with their VIP or Premium membership (listed in Euros).
If you’re a man under 30 and your kink is older women (or if you’re a woman over 35 and your kink is younger men), give cougarlife.com a try. The site offers simple search filters that let you narrow things down by eye color, body type, age range, hair color, location, and more.
A lot of women in the cougar scene are more aggressive than the typical female. As such, women often make the first move on cougarlife.com.
It’s sometimes tricky to hook up with older or younger singles in real life because they run in different crowds. Sites like Cougar Life make it easier for younger guys to meet MILFs in that prime 35-50 range.
Yes, people are serious about fetishes. Once you join and interact with the members, you can find plenty of people who will chat with you in the forums and groups. Depending on which hours you go online and the size of the fetish community in your area, you might find many people eager to talk at once.
Even though you can find users who enjoy the same fetishes as you in these online communities, that doesn’t mean they will meet you offline. As with any dating site, the members of fetish dating websites need to feel a sense of trust and familiarity before they’ll meet you in person.
Be careful about the people you meet on dating apps, regardless of whether they’re part of the BDSM community. While many great people have met through these communities, dating sites and apps are also frequented by fakes and predators.
Before arranging a meetup with other members on these fetish sites, make sure you verify the person’s identity. Ask questions that only a genuine person would answer, such as his or her place of birth, schools attended, work background, and activities.
One of the safest ways to get to know someone online is through webcam shows. Have a webcam chat before you meet in person. This way, you can study the person’s mannerisms and determine whether it’s someone you’d want to meet in real life.
Sometimes, you’ll chat with someone online, and they’ll seem decent enough for a meetup. However, when you do meet, you’ll know right there that you don’t want to associate with this individual. If you share a webcam chat, you’ll know before you even go through any trouble.
If, for whatever reason, the person you’re speaking with cannot take part in a webcam chat, request another form of factual verification. Ask that person to post a selfie holding his or her screen name upon a piece of paper, preferably with your screen name on it as well.
To ensure that it’s not a photoshopped fake, ask that they make a special gesture, such as a peace sign or a thumbs up.
One of the best ways to find people with kinky fetishes is to join an online community. When you enter a kinky website, you are likely to find a judgement-free environment.
Most of the members on these sites live secretive lives because their friends and family won’t understand. Like you, they’re seeking lik
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