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You and your partner have a vague sense of wanting to do something more, something outside standard different positions… something to get you harder. Yup, it’s time to spice things up in the bedroom with a few harmless fetishes from our kink list. Choose your adventure to enhance your sexual arousal.
Whether your fetish involves a mild or wild sexual attraction… Here is our kink list of common and not so common kinks out there for you to explore:
This is the act of someone witnessing or potentially witnessing your sexual acts . It can be public sex, having sex in a car, or just having sex with the window open. The act of the unknown can be thrilling, a rush that gets people off. Just be aware of public laws if you want to take sex out in the world.
The opposite of exhibitionism, voyeurism is quite possibly the most common kink there is. Ever watched porn? That’s a form of voyeurism, except the voyeurism kink deals with watching or hearing sex happen in person.
This is another common one. Handcuffs , duct tape , bed restraints , anything to keep hands and feet bound together. This one can range in severity of bonding and restraints and can be compounded with lifting the bound partner into the air. Bondage is all about power: Having power or being powerless can be a huge turn on for some.
This goes along well with bondage. BDSM stands for bondage, domination, sadism, masochism. In a sexual experience involving two people, one person will be the submissive and the other will be the dominant. The submissive is the one who receives whatever acts and the dominant is the one enacting these. Power play is at the core of consensual BDSM and the kink is nuanced with rules and guidelines for a safe experience for both parties involved. For example, a safe word or check-in words are common for people to use to gauge the other’s experience. “Red” can mean stop, “yellow” means proceed with caution, “green” means go on ahead.
This is so the dominant partner knows when to stop whatever it is they are doing to the submissive so that no one ends the experience feeling traumatized or in an excessive amount of pain. Aftercare is a necessity in BDSM, communicating how things were for your partner as well as doing what you need to do to recuperate, such as cuddle, eat, or sleep. At the end of the day, BDSM should be like a good workout at the gym. Soreness means you did a good job, but actual pain means something went wrong.
Foot fetish is more common than you think, especially with males. Making it a great addition to our kink list. This involves using feet in sex or foreplay, whether it’s sucking on toes to get your partner going or full on footjobs. Sexual contact with feet can feel amazing to those with a foot fetish and it’s so pervasive that it’s not abnormal at all.
This fetish can include common things that are used in the kink world, such as feathers, nylon, leather, silk, rubber, clothing such as panties, stockings, corsets, lingerie, and so on. Seeing this material as clothing arouses those with the material fetish. That leather strap or rubber gloves can have a whole new purpose in the bedroom.
Another part of the body that is looked down upon as a kink, but shouldn’t be is the armpit. Those with an armpit fetish like the smell, taste, or feel of the armpit as a form of foreplay or sexual act. Again, this is a pretty common fetish among men and can be a totally normal thing to implement in the bedroom.
Bring some honey and lick it off your partner or get some whipped cream to eat off their neck. Food is a great way to get some more sensory stimulation in the bedroom. Sticky honey prolongs licking and provides a new taste not found in sex. However, though food can be enjoyed on the body, it should never be enjoyed in it. Inserting food into any part of the body other than the mouth can lead to infections and put a pause on any further sexual experience ranging from a few days to months. Proceed with caution when using food in the bedroom and take the necessary steps to keep it out of unwanted bodily orifices. Flavored lubes can be a great food substitute or addition to food play.
Role play involves dressing up or embodying a different character in the bedroom. Common ones include uniforms: Dressing up like a cop, fireman, teacher, doctor, etc. It can involve dressing up as another gender, dressing up as your favorite TV show or movie character or personifying an animal. There are a lot of subcategories in role playing and the possibility to explore this kink is endless. Making it one of our kink list favorites
This involves bodily fluids during sex or foreplay. Semen is a common example, where ejaculating on or around someone can be an immensely sexually satisfying experience. Cum lubes look and feel like semen, making them a freaky fit for cum mess fetish types. A subcategory of this is watersports, where someone enjoys urinating on or being urinated upon by someone else. If done in a safe, consenting way, it’s something new to add to the bedroom.
This is something that requires the help of more than two people. Couples enlist the help of a third-party person to partake in their sexual acts or they participate in group sex. It can include swinging as well, which is a more organized, prolonged method of group sex. With group sex, more can definitely be merrier.
At the end of the day, fetishes are about getting sexual gratification from breaking taboos. If done with consent with all parties involved, anything can be a fetish. The kink list above is just an overview of the most popular fetishes around and may be everything you and your partner like or not enticing to you at all. Talk about what you both like and don’t like and incorporate it into your sex lives. It’s exciting, creates intimacy and trust, and facilitates a stronger, healthier relationship. Mutual kink can just be a fun experience for you and your partner to enjoy and a fantastic way to bond with each other (pun intended). So, go get some handcuffs and have a great time!
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Don’t worry, there’s some beginner stuff here, too.
If you've only rotated between two or three sex positions in the past month, it's probably time to spice things up (for your own pleasure's sake). Taking relationships—whether long term, a casual fling, or a FWB—to the next level and getting a little kinky doesn’t have to be as intimidating as it sounds. In fact, there are basic, accessible ways to make sex feel more erotic without going into full BDSM mode (unless you want to).
Plus, if you’re in a serious relationship, talking about your kinks and preferences can help you feel more connected to your partner, says Kate Balestrieri, licensed psychologist, certified therapist and founder of Modern Intimacy .
"Introducing kinkier elements into your sex life together can create a sense of adventure and deepen sense of trust," Balestrieri says. "Inherently, it gives you the opportunity to talk about things on a deeper level, discuss different boundaries, debrief and evaluate together in a way that couples sometime forget to do when they have the same routine sex life."
Now, the term "kink" gets thrown around a lot, thus carrying a lot of ambiguity. At its most basic level, kink refers to unconventional sexual preferences or behaviors, says sex therapist Veronica N. Chin Hing-Michaluk , LMHC. "[So] if kink is defined as anything that exists outside of the norm, I challenge you to think about whose norm you’re conforming to," she says. Touché.
Your brand of kink might be sex with multiple partners at once; it might be having your partner secretly use a remote control vibrator on you while out with friends; it might include using sex toys with your partner in the bedroom. If you're unsure about what your kinky preferences are, licensed sex therapist Vanessa Marin suggests easing your way in. "I think a lot of people, for some reason, have this idea that if you’re going to try kink, you have to go all the way. You don't."
Before springing bondage gear on your partner, discuss your boundaries and desires, making sure you're on the same page about what you're both down to try, she says. Also, don't forget to come up with a mutual safe word. It's critical not only when you want to stop, but also when you’re nearing your limit, says Chin Hing-Michaluk. "Having that framework with kink can help you pace yourself, and figure out how fast or slow you want to go," she says. Say it with me now: Consent is sexy!
Now that you're familiar with the basics, you might wonder how exactly to dip your toe in rougher waters. Depending on what you like, the first step might be as simple as adding some new moves into your erotic rotation. These 25 positions for kinky sex are a great start. (You'll even find recommendations to spice up the most basic positions—yes, I’m talking missionary—that'll pretty much guarantee next-level orgasms .)
PSA: The table isn't necessary with Table Top position (#themoreyouknow). "I love this position because you can do it anywhere," Balestrieri says. "You can do it on a countertop, on an armchair in the living room, or the sofa. It’s even great if you’re in a secluded space and you want to be standing outside the seat of your car."
If you have great upper body strength, Balestrieri recommends playing with some levitation, a.k.a. not using a table for support.
Do it: Any surface that hits your partner at crotch height will do. Have them enter you while you’re sitting or lying at the edge of a table, counter, or maybe even your bed.
Champagne Room can provide a much-needed escape for all involved. "Facing away gives us the opportunity to pretend that we’re strangers," Balestrieri says. It can provide an opportunity to disconnect and "experience the sensations without having to include or manage the experience of a partner," she adds.
For the person on the bottom, watching someone go to town on you from behind can elevate the sexiness, too. "It can also give the impression, for the person who is on the bottom, of being used in a positive way, which can be really erotic," Balestrieri says.
Do it: Your partner sits on the edge of a chair or bed, and you sit on top of them, facing away. Move up and down on their lap at your leisure.
Not only is Spork on the kinkier side, but it also prevents huge strain on the body because of how the parties involved are resting on each other, Balestrieri says.
"It also gives people a lot of flexibility and opportunity for eye contact, which can be great if you’re playing with any kind of power dynamics," she adds.
Do it: Lie on your back and raise your right leg so your partner can position their body between your legs at a 90-degree angle and enter you. Your left leg can lie straight out on the bed, or you can bend it to manipulate the depth of penetration. For a rear-entry variation, lie on your stomach, bend one leg, and have your partner position themselves in between your legs. Options!
Yeah, yeah, I hear you: "Missionary? Kinky?" Well, this is just a testament that any position can be enhanced. What's more, Balestrieri says it’s easy: All you have to do is add eye contact and sync up your breathing. "When you add that synchronicity of the breath and the eyes together, it can really bring a lot of heat and a lot of feelings," she says.
But, if you’re looking to go the extra mile and really give it to your partner, try using an arousal serum for extra stimulation. Another option? Incorporate some dirty talk. "Dirty talk can elevate even the most vanilla positions," Balestrieri says.
Do it: Do I really need to spell this one out? Okay. Lie on your back while they lie facedown on top of you.
If you’re stressed, anxious, or just plain tired, Scoop Me Up is perfect. "This is the best way to have lazy sex—and I don’t mean lazy in a bad way," says Balestrieri.
"We all have days where we’re tired, and we still want to connect sexually." The position also leaves room for deep thrusting, which can definitely bring some heat.It’s also less rigorous, so if you’re going too hard on the other ones on this list, try this to give your body a break.
Do it: Both of you lie on your sides, facing the same direction. You bring your knees up slightly while your partner slides up behind your pelvis and enters you from behind. (You may also know this as spooning.)
If you want to add more strength to the Wheelbarrow position, try it standing up. This provides new types of movement and creates a sense of power for the person standing, Balestrieri says.
"The partners can have more opportunity for different cadences in their thrusting and depth—different angles, too," she says. “It’s more of a workout, so if you’re looking to kill two birds with one stone, that’s the way to go.” Okay, now that’s the best dirty talk, IMHO.
Do It: Get on your hands and feet and have your partner pick you up by the pelvis. Then grip their waist with your thighs.
Even the most loving positions can be made kinky. The Om is a great one for eye contact, kissing, and breath work.
"You can do a lot of synchronized breath work, which sounds kind of ‘woo woo,’ but, I’m telling you, when you get two nervous systems synched up together, it is hot ," Balestrieri says. "It can create tension and friction; be prepared to be sweaty."
Do it: Your partner sits cross-legged (yoga/pretzel-style), while you sit in their lap facing them. Wrap your legs around them and hug each other for support.
The Snake offers plenty of perks, says Balestrieri. There is mobility with different angles, ability to play around with sensations, and the opportunity for some light BDSM.
"Because their partner’s hips are elevated, the partner on top can really have a lot to work with in terms of how they can penetrate and stimulate their partner," she says. "This is a great position for punishing or spanking."
You can even incorporate some restraints. Balestrieri recommends using a spacing bar or other restraints to "create the element of consenting powerlessness, which can be really fun for couples to play with."
Do it: Lie down on your stomach, and have your partner lie down on top of you and slide in from behind.
The Caboose looks like it’s straight out of an erotic thriller. But its sexiness goes beyond just looks. It can create some elevation by allowing you to bounce on your partner’s lap, Balestrieri says.
"This is a great way to get in some doggy-style action without all that strain on either of your bodies," she adds.
Do it: While they sit on the bed or a chair, back yourself into their lap and spoon each other while seated.
The Good Ex sex position is a long, slow burn full of contradictions (you’re connected but far apart, just like exes)—which makes it one of the hottest.
"Long, slow sex can feel kinky because we don’t always give ourselves time, space, and permission to really be in our bodies in a slow and intentional way," explains Balestrieri. "So it can feel really amazing to notice every single sensory piece of information that sometimes we don’t get access to when we’re moving more quickly."
Do it: Sit on the bed facing each other with legs forward. Lift your partner’s right leg over your left and lift your right leg over their left. Come together so they can enter you. Now both of you lie back, your legs forming an X. Slow, leisurely gyrations replace thrusting.
FYI: The Cirque Du Soleil-esque leg placement isn’t totally necessary on this one. You just need a partner who can generally get their legs up toward their head, which can add a lot of depth to the position, Balestrieri says. It can also be great for concurrent vaginal and anal penetration.
"If you’re talking about two people with vulvas, it can be a great position for a double penetration toy," she says. "It can also create an element of submission because the person on the bottom is kind of just stuck there. So, this position can be fun for light spanking, nibbling, or things of that nature."
Do it: Lie back with your legs raised all the way up and your ankles crossed behind your own head. They enter you from a missionary position.
Not only does the person entering get "the booty shot from the back," Balestrieri says, but the position provides ample room to touch as much of each other as you can.
"This is a great opportunity for people to get creative with their positioning and their angling," she says. "It can be especially awesome if the partner who’s penetrating has a curved penis [or sex toy]. It might allow for different kinds of stimulation that maybe aren’t accessible with missionary or front or rear-facing positions."
Do it: Lie on your right side; your partner kneels, straddling your right leg and curling your left leg around their left side.
Upstanding Citizen is "one of the hottest positions ever," according to Balestrieri. It’s the one you see in movies where one person picks up the other and puts them against the wall (a la The Notebook ). That move, Balestrieri says, implies strength, trust, and control, making it great for power play.
"For the person who is lifting the other partner, that strength—although it might feel like quite a workout in the moment—can really reinforce a sense of validity; it can give them a lot of confidence," she adds.
Now, for the one being lifted: "It can also create a sense of fear, and fear can incite arousal, too." This position can particularly enhance those feelings if you’re used to exuding power in your day-to-day life, Balestrieri says.
Do it: You straddle your partner, wrapping your legs around their body (they keep their knees unlocked and thighs spread slightly). They stand and support you in their arms. You can start on the bed and have them pick you up without disengaging. (Or for the truly bold, you can hop aboard from standing position!)
With your hands out of play, your partner is free to roam your body, finding the erogenous zones (you know, those hotspots that feel extra delicious) neither of you may not have discovered before your foray into kinky sex.
It can be a tad challenging, but Chin Hing-Michaluk recommends this position to engage with your partner's entire body. “While you hold up a partner, use one hand to engage parts of their body, so not only are you able to gaze down at your partner, but you’re able to caress,” she says.
Do It : Get into a partial bridge position (like a pinball machine), with your weight resting on your shoulders. Have your partner tie your hands to the bedpost or headboard, then let them en
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