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Putting a penis in one's mouth is not as simple an endeavor as one might assume it is. Learning how to give a blowjob is a complicated process that can be a source of anxiety, fear, and unexpectedly deep soul searching. While the person being fellated might not be aware, the person on the other end is being bombarded with a lot of blowjob-related mind garbage. But no one ever talks about these little nagging things that have to do with giving head. It's difficult enough to bring up blowjobs around the water cooler or at a dinner party, so getting into the dirty little details can be tough. Obviously, not so for me, since I'm broaching them right now.
Generally, conversations about blowjobs center around who can deep throat, how easy/difficult it is to get a penis in your mouth hole, and whether or not you should kiss after completion. But there are far more mundane factors at play, and all of them far more important than these racier questions. I don't know why we don't talk more about the minutiae of giving head. What I do know is that there are certain things I can guarantee most women are thinking when we go down on someone. Such universal thoughts deserve to be shared and commiserated over. Here are six things about blowjobs that no one ever talks about, but which I'm forcing you to listen to me talk about right now:
Blowjobs are scary - not because of what happens to you when you're giving them, but what you might inadvertently do to the person you're giving them to. For instance: suddenly, reflexively biting down for some reason. There are a lot of things I'd like to go through life never having experienced. Orally castrating someone is certainly one of them.
I envy anyone who can give a blowjob and retain sexy thoughts in their brain. For most of us, we're just trying not to choke on the chunk of our own hair that keeps slipping into our mouths. We're also thinking about the sweat smell of balls, making eye contact, the giant drip of our own spit smeared across our face, not biting down, etc.
Again, I have much envy for the sucker who has no gag reflex. Because for everyone else, when a penis hits the back of your throat, its all we can do to stop from vomiting. Add "vomiting on someone's penis" to the list of things I would like to go through life without ever doing. It doesn't exactly scream "sexy" - unless you're one of those fetishists I once saw on Jerry Springer (I'm aware that a Jerry Springer reference reveals my age, and I don't even care).
Look, I don't want to brag but, like, I work out. Even still, there's no workout quite like kneeling with no hands for support (one's on the shaft, the other's on the balls) while angling your face downward and bobbing your head up and down. There's no amount of yoga that will prepare your core for the exercise of giving head. It's a full-body experience that requires poise, concentration, balance, and abs and thighs of steel.
No matter how many blowjobs you've given, nothing can prepare you for giving your first one to a new person. Every penis is unique, and no two blowjobs are the same. The same can be said for all sex acts, but there's something particularly intimate about having someone's penis in your mouth. The whole experience can be quite discombobulating, what with all the balls you have to juggle (pun intended) with a new person.
It doesn't matter whether you're an established spitter or swallower, or how many times you've had a man cum in your mouth. There's always an intense anxiety when you feel him come close to orgasm. What is going to happen? Even though you know, you're still scared. For instance, every time it comes to that point, I start worrying that so much semen is going to squirt out so hard and fast that I will choke on it. This has literally never happened to me. But as soon as a guy starts clenching, I fill with fear. Even the most seasoned fellator has anxiety when it comes to finishing the job. Snap decisions have to be made, fast and in the heat of the moment, which can lead to embarrassing situations, like naked runs to the bathroom to spit up.
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If you like receiving BJs, you need to read this…
Just as there’s the art of giving a blowjob, there’s also the art of receiving one.
In case you didn’t know, there are certain things men do when getting a blowjob that make the head-giving experience suck for women, no pun intended. That’s why we put together a list of things you can go ahead and stop doing to make things a whole lot better for both you and your lady friend.
1. Don’t push her head down. You’ve definitely heard this before, and you’re about to hear it again: the first rule of getting a blowjob is to never, ever, ever push her head down. It’s basically the most heinous thing you could do while getting a blowjob, considering you’re literally forcing her to take your dick further into her mouth. Not cool.
Pushing down on her head will make the woman slobbering all over your dick promptly retreat in haste, leaving you with an unfortunate case of blue balls. And you don’t’ want blue balls, do you? Didn’t think so. That said, if you feel the need to reach down and push on her head, it’s best to retract your hands and instead push on your own head, or something.
2. Don’t stare at her If you refuse to break eye contact with the top of her head while she’s going down on you, it might get awkward when she looks up. Let’s face it – you basically have no control over your facial expressions when you’re getting your soul sucked out through your penis.
Making some kind of eye contact while your soul is in the process of ascending to orgasmic heaven might make her laugh, or it might creep her out, so maybe it’s a good idea to close your eyes or look around, or something.
3. Don’t rub her back like a concerned parent If you think this doesn’t happen, you’re wrong. It happens, and it’s really weird. You can rub your dog’s back, that’s cool, but don’t rub the back of a woman who has your dick in her mouth. Why? Because it’s feels way too fatherlike for something so sexual.
4. Don’t thrust inside her mouth My dudes, please attempt to keep your hips still when you’re receiving a blowjob. I know, I know, it feels so good and you naturally want to gyrate your pelvis into her face. Like Shakira says, hips don’t lie, but please contain yourself. She’s giving you a blowjob; you’re not having sex with her mouth.
5. Don’t be creepily silent Are you enjoying it? Do you hate it? Are you dissociating real hard and feel like you’ve returned to the void? SAY SOMETHING!
If you stay completely silent while receiving a blowjob, your lady friend won’t know if she’s pleasing you, and she will probably feel a little discouraged. She’ll also think you’re kind of weird, because it’s very strange to keep totally silent during something that feels so good. So, you should probably say something – curse, moan, groan…anything. Well, not anything — no yodeling, no animal sounds — you get the picture.
6. Don’t come without warning You know what’s worse for a woman giving a blowjob than a completely silent man? A man who blows his load without some kind of warning. Most men are guilty of committing this crime at least once in their life, so don’t even try to deny it.
Think about it – maybe she’s not a swallower, maybe she gags at the smell and taste of jizz and will throw up all over your junk, or maybe her tongue is blocking her throat and your baby batter is going to come flying out her nose simply because her mouth is not ready to accept your glorious gift. Long story short: coming in her mouth without warning is risky, messy, and just not very nice, so please don’t do it.
7. Don’t skimp on cleanliness Ball sweat is real. As the proud owner of a pair, you would know. That’s why it might even be a good idea to excuse yourself and take a couple minutes to check yourself before you whip out the goods. You know, maybe clean up with little soap and water to get rid of any unsavory funk.
Trust me when I say, women tend not to enjoy getting a mouthful of funk, so please be courteous and clean and preen before anyone gets intimate with your package.
8. Don’t fart No??? Just no??? I can’t believe I even have to say this. If you’re feeling a little bloated and gassy, you hold those farts in out of gentility. It’s an unspoken rule of humanity. You simply cannot fart that close to someone’s face – especially someone who’s face is only a few inches away from your butthole. Have some decency.
9) And always return the favor… Come on, fellas. Your selfish ass doesn’t return the favor often enough. You know it, I know it, the whole fucking world knows it.
After she spends a solid amount of time bobbing up and down on your dick even though she doesn’t like it too much ( it’s a fact – most women don’t enjoy giving blowjobs, but they do it anyway like the champs they are), it’s only your humanly duty to reciprocate and spend some time south of the border. It’s the least you can do.

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Posted by Sloane Fox on Mar 13, 2017 in Sloane , Sloane Fox | 4 comments
Want to feel her warm, wet mouth slathering up and down your pulsating, rock-hard manhood?
Men are constantly coming to me for advice on how they can get their lover to give them some amazing, “eyes-rolling-to-the-back-of-their-skull” blow jobs.
Just like this sweet, sweet man who emailed me a while ago… dying for a woman to take him all in her mouth.
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“Hello Sloane– Thank you for the many fine ideas you relate to both men & women getting better & more pleasure from sex. I really use all I can with my “new” wife — she is 70 like I am too. It’s my 2nd marriage and her 3rd. My first wife of 40 years died 3 years ago of cancer. We had a super fine marriage & sex life too— anytime, anywhere, as long as I or she wanted, ready & willing she was– especially oral.
My “new” wife (married almost a year now) has an unlimited appetite for oral sex and I believe I am quite good at it. She orgasms easily and often. I really leave her breathless many times. She rolls over and wants to sleep after a fun session, but then I remind her– my turn now, my oral fun!
She does OK… but lacks technique, gusto, and time spent doing me. So I am usually left wanting until I fuck her and make her eyes roll back… she screams too! She never really cared to do oral on her first 2 men/marriages, she told me. She just is not really into it like my first wife. She did me fantastic and swallowed many many times… and left me blown out, literally. Sucked me dry. Multiple ejaculations very often. I was in Heaven of course.
Any ideas on how to remedy my “problem” and gain her enthusiasm on giving head to me? Of course, I crave it like any man! You can never get too much head. Any helpful advice would be appreciated!
I am stuck with this one thing– other than that, she totally rocks my world. She has an incredible hot tight pussy & big firm tits (yes, I still remember what that felt like!) A man never forgets that!
Best Regards,
Benjamin (Not his real name)”
Okay, let me tell YOU the same thing I said to Benjamin.
One of the BIG mistakes men make that kills blow jobs is that they start off expecting too much.
And since Benjamin’s previous wife was so good at sucking him dry, he’s probably already expecting his new wife to be on the same level.
But regardless of his situation, and how far off it is (or how accurately close it is) to your own…
You might expect a “full” blow job on her first try.
You might expect to come each time your woman gives you head.
Maybe you want to explode inside her mouth and she’s not yet ready for that.
Maybe she doesn’t like how your man-meat tastes.
Maybe she’s worried she doesn’t know what to do, how to suck, how to lick, or how to stroke…
Maybe she feels like you’re expecting her to be exceptional at blow jobs, and she’s not that confident in herself (I have some bombastic blow job techniques that you can show her once she’s ready to do them).
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There may be some more obstacles in the way.
You might need to give her the “Oral Sex Talk” so you can discover what’s holding her back, smash all the obstacles, and allow her lust to take you in her mouth and suck you dry.
These are baby steps to a lifetime of orgasmic oral.
Tell her you want to achieve a sex life so good that both of you give each other untold levels of pleasure using a wild variety of sensual massages, sex positions, experimenting with oral sex… and even testing the waters with some butt love.
Express to her that you want to find a path to achieve that, but you first have to both be open and vulnerable to each other.
First let her know what sex means for you.
Ask her what sex means to her and the kinds of sexual pleasure she wants to experience.
Dig deeper and figure out what’s stopping her from giving you some loving head.
She WILL be hesitant to share everything.
Keep asking her, “What else? Is that all? Tell me more about x, y and z…”
Once you get a better understanding of all her objections, misconceptions, fears and limiting beliefs, work on removing those obstacles.
Begin as beginners together, and enjoy whatever small progress and victories you achieve along the way.
Now, there’s also a sweet technique I teach in The Blow Job Secret on how you can get her to slowly place her lips and mouth around your manhood.
It takes a huge leap to get her to suckle you, but this technique makes it so much easier for her.
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Inside, you’ll also discover the top reasons why women don’t want to give head… so you’ll know what else might be causing a “Blow Job Famine.”
There’s also a list of powerful tips to make her WANT to give you oral…
And when she finally does, I also teach you how to make her CRAVE your man-meat for more and more explosive blow jobs.
And enjoy all those blow jobs you’ll be getting.
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My Blow Job Secret helps make it that much easier for you to get her to want to give you lots and lots of orgasmic oral lovin’. And when she’s ready to take you in her mouth, I also have lots of techniques she can use so you’ll be in “Blow Job Paradise” forever.
Nothing better than hot female sex talk.
Of course she simply may not feel like it or plainly not like it. Not all that many women really do and on top of that are mostly not very good at it and aren’t interested on improving themselves either (and certainly don’t pay for courses!). Most women seem to like receiving oral, but returning the favour much less so. There are others of course that do and even like the taste of semen, but they are a minority.
Im really desperate to give my partner a explosive blowjob but it’s not happening hope your blowjob secret helps.
What if he’s one that does not ejaculate easily as the norm .
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