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A straight guy at a website by and for straight guys who can't get laid to save their lives explains why straight guys like him shouldn't go down on all of those women who won't sleep with them. Gay panic, of course, makes the list:
When a man has sex with a woman, his biological material stays within a woman's vagina—even if a condom is used. While the vagina is self-cleaning, the process to completely cleanse can take months. Do you really want another man's biological material in your mouth? And even if you think you're in a committed relationship, by the time you find out your woman is cheating on you, it'll be too late.
And if that doesn't persuade you not to go down on all those women who won't sleep with you, straight guys who can't get laid, then do it—or don't do it—for her sake:
Even if you're a master swordsman, your penis can't compete with your tongue in terms of creating clitoral stimulation. Why? The amount of stimulation cunnilingus provides is unnatural. Think about it: If the clitoris was meant to receive that much direct stimulation, Mother Nature would have placed it within the vaginal walls instead of on the periphery.
Some folks in my Twitter feed are suggesting that this is a parody site. I don't have the patience to investigate. Anybody want to dive in? (Thanks to Slog tipper Sarah.)
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Eating out, licking out, cunnilingus, oral sex: whatever you prefer to call it, eating pussy f*cking rocks. In fact, oral sex is widely known as the most reliable way to give a person with a vulva the big O. Studies consistently show that the vast majority of vulva-owners require clitoral stimulation in order to have an orgasm, and oral sex puts the clit front and center. This is just science, friends.
The issue? So many people don’t know what the heck they are doing down there. Given the state of sex-ed in America, we're assuming you didn't hear the word "clitoris" in school. Then there's the fact that the clit often gets ignored in mainstream penetration-focused pornography. So if you're not quite sure how to eat pussy, it's not entirely your fault. How could you possibly know how to do something you’ve never seen done properly before?
Luckily, there are plenty of ways to improve your oral sex technique. From incorporating toys, to trying different positions, to using your tongue in unique ways, we have all the expert-approved information you need to up your game. These are the best oral sex tips for the next time you're going down on your partner.
Instead of diving head-first into someone’s pussy like an Olympic swimmer, opt for a seductive warm up. Start with neck kisses, move down to their belly, inner thighs, and all around the vulva. Run your tongue around their nipples. You can even bring in a feather tickler to run all over their body and up and down the labia. We love this simple one from LoveHoney .
The anticipation can really help bring you both into your bodies and feel grounded in this experience you’re sharing together. No matter how casual a pussy eating encounter is, it deserves reverence and respect.
Lighter is better when you start giving oral. The clitoral glans are hella sensitive, so be mindful of going too hard. Clitorises and vulvas usually require different degrees of firmness when it comes to touching and licking.
"Good oral sex shouldn’t look like a hungry pupper eating their bowl of kibble, ya hear?"
If you’re someone who masturbates with a firm grip on their penis, do not employ this same technique when giving oral sex. Good oral sex shouldn’t look like a hungry pupper eating their bowl of kibble, ya hear? You want to gently tease their clit lightly so it feels like they’ve stepped off a magical cloud into a hot Icelandic spring.
“Go in too hard and fast, and you may feel her flinch or yelp, so go easy! When you start lighter, you can build up the pressure as her arousal builds, but if in doubt, always go lighter first,” Lucy Rowett , a certified sex coach and clinical sexologist.
Kenneth Play , an international educator and creator of the Sex Hacker Pro Series , a 70+ video series for helping people become better lovers, suggests “using the flat of your tongue first, and more your head instead of your tongue. This creates a larger surface space, which feels better initially to most people.” The key is to warm up the entire vulva area before going for the glans clitoris.
One of the main things that stops women and vulva-owners from having orgasms during oral is the fear that they’re “taking too long” or being “selfish.” This means they’re going to need a lot of encouragement from you.
“Let [them] know that you'll be there for as long as it takes, that this is just about [their] pleasure, and there is no pressure to come,” Rowett says. “That in itself can be enough to help a woman [or clit-owners] climax, paradoxically, as one thing that most women find a big mood killer is pressure from her partner to come.”
Showing interest in what brings your partner pleasure is a huge turn-on. Every person's body is different, and people enjoy being stimulated in a variety of ways. Ask your partner what they want you to do to them. If they’re not sure, try touching them in different ways and encourage them to tell you what feels good.
It definitely makes for some sparkling dirty talk . The thing is, you’re not a mind-reader. Ask and then do exactly what they says. Following instructions shows you’re actively listening.
Mouths are amazing, but they don’t need to be the only tool in your kit. Vibrators are a way to up the ante on the whole experience. Try running your tongue around the clitoris while you insert the toy into the vagina , if your partner enjoys penetration. You can also use a vibrator to stimulate the anal opening and perineum while you use your tongue on the clitoris.
If you’ve never used a vibrator on someone before, ask them to show you how they like to use it on themselves. This is like a masterclass in how they like to come.
If your partner likes more targeted, pinpointed pleasure, Play suggests getting the tip of the tongue in your oral game. “The tip of the tongue can apply more targeted pressure and movement, especially once a vulva-owner gets more aroused,” he says. “Remember to pay attention to the tactile sensations of your tongue to make sure you’re actually licking the clit and not just all over the place. This is a more common problem than you’d realize.”
Honestly, mindfulness during oral sex is probably the best tip you could ever receive. Pay attention to where your tongue ACTUALLY is on your partner’s body. And if you’re not sure if it’s working? ASK. Here are some examples of how to solicit oral sex feedback:
Have you heard of the Womanizer or Satisfyer? These clitoral suction toys use a combination of suction and air to circle the clitoris and simulate oral sex. They are wildly popular—which is why it might be a good idea to mimic the sensation with your own mouth.
To use your mouth, “wrap your lips around the clit and suck on it, to form a good vacuum seal, and then lick the clit at the same time while you suck,” Play says. “This takes some practice to be able to pull off for a continuous amount of time, but is worth it. It’s a good finishing move!”
And if you want to bring in a sucking sex toy while you use your hands or tongue for a little penetration, more power to you.
Pay attention to both verbal and physical cues. The things we do, rather than say, can be helpful guides to what someone is liking (or not liking). If your partner is pushing their vulva into your face and moaning, you can be pretty sure what you’re doing is working. If they’re pulling away or are lying there, dead silent, try something else. And once again, there is nothing unsexy about asking someone if what you’re doing feels good.
Cunnilingus is about your partner’s pleasure first , but that doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy yourself. There is nothing hotter than someone who absolutely loves eating pussy. “In the same way that it's so much hotter when you can tell that your partner actually enjoys giving a blowjob,” Rowett points out, “when you show that you enjoy it and it is genuine, the technique doesn't matter as much.
To give you even more real-ass tips, I decided to ask a bunch of my internet friends who love nothing more than answering all of my intense questions about eating boxes. Keep in mind that all clit-owners enjoy different things, so be sure to communicate with your partner to ensure that they’re having the best experience possible.
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A no-nonsense guide to eating pussy
Eating pussy, licking out, going down on someone, eating someone out...there are a million different ways to talk about oral sex . But as Shakespeare once said, a rose by any other name would smell as sweet...and being licked out can be serious fun for women and other people with vulvas, regardless of what words you use. Cunnilingus focusses on clitoris stimulation, which can be seriously enjoyable when done right: even more so than penetration for many people.
If you're wondering how to lick someone out really well, give this step-by-step pussy-eating guide a read, courtesy of the sex blog How To Make Me Come . And want to really level up your oral sex game? Keep scrolling for sexpert tips on the Kivin method - an oral sex hack which claims to make someone orgasm within three minutes - and how to use your mouth and hands at the same time , too.
Make your way south of the river. To spice amp up the tension, mark this path with small kisses beginning from their neck and proceeding down to their pelvic region. You're at the vulva/vagina! You made it! Wow, what a trip.
Eye contact is fine. It's an intense move, but depending on who you're going down on, it could be very creepy or it could be very hot. You feel it out and consider the context of the hookup – is it someone you’ve just met (maybe pass!) or is it a longer-term relationship (see how it goes!)?
Before you take the plunge, experiment with some sensual kissing up and down their inner thighs. Not totally necessary, but I'm just saying they probably wouldn't not be into that – a little teasing like this can increase the anticipation.
Now get in there. Don't tiptoe around it— find that clitoris and dive in. In case you're unsure of what that is, it feels a lot like a bean and can be found on top of the labia (the fleshy “lips” of the vagina).
Before you really get started, you need to keep in mind that the clitoris is super sensitive and has more nerve endings than the penis. It’s incredible - and it's the source of orgasms for most women and people with vulvas.
So basically, familiarise yourself with the clitoris. If you know what you're doing (which you should have a better idea of by the end of reading this), you can make someone convulse with pleasure just by stimulating that tiny bundle of nerves. Start thing off right by DJing ( using your fingers to rub the clitoris) and then stuffing your face in between their thighs.
Start off by licking all around the clitoris, don't just go in there right for the bullseye. You've got to build up the sensations! Once you've teased them enough and they make it clear that they're into it, use your tongue to lick their clitoris.
Lick it up, down, and all around, but remain focused on and aware of the pressure of your tongue on the clitoris. Start off lightly and gradually increase the pressure and speed if their body responses and noises point to yes. You can also play with the shape of your tongue on the clitoris in order to mix it up. Some people like a broad flat tongue, others like a more pointy tip. It really is a matter of personal preference and exploring what your partner prefers by listening to how their body reacts.
You can also try the Kivin Method , if you're feeling really brave. It claims to get women and people with vulvas to orgasm in a matter of minutes... Whether you believe that or not, it's fun to try! It’s actually really simple: instead of coming at oral sex from in between your partner's legs, approach it from the side and lick up and down.
Seriously, ask if they like it. Not only does this add a good intro to dirty talk (very important!), but also, not all vulvas are the same – far from it. Vulvas come in all shapes, sizes, colours, sensitivities, so you're going to run into many different pre
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