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11 Places to Meet Sexy Girls in Thailand

Last updated: October 30th, 2020
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Today I will write the guide I wish I had when I first got here.
I assume you don’t only come to Thailand for visiting the beaches, temples and eating spicy food, but also to enjoy yourself (and have sex) with young and attractive Thai girls.
And there are so many places where you can meet them for some fun and pleasure, that it can almost be overwhelming.
Well, I do think it’s gotten all a bit confusing for guys coming here for the first time – like what are “beer bars” and how do they differentiate themselves from the go go bars, especially price-wise?
How do I know if a certain massage salon offers happy endings, and do I need to negotiate the “extras” beforehand? What price is reasonable for a hand job? And how about these “soapy massages” – do they really slide up and down your body on an air mattress like they do in these Japanese porn movies?
Or how about these street girls or freelancers in the clubs that try to hook up with you – is it safe to take them back to your hotel? Does my hotel even allow Thai ladies to enter? And do they really come and have sex with you for just 1,000 Baht? And what’s the deal with this dating site – can I really meet open-minded girls who don’t want money?
These are just some of the questions you probably have if you are just planning your first trip to Thailand , and so I think it’s the best idea to structure this sex guide in such a way that I describe the different types of places to meet girls here, followed by discussing some of the most common questions I receive from readers.
This is what I’ve got for you here:
Let’s get right into it – here are the 11 most popular places to meet girls for sex in Thailand:

The girly bars (often also called “beer bars”) are easily the most popular place among foreigners who want to meet girls in the nightlife.
It doesn’t even feel like you are in a red light venue – even though the girls are obviously all hookers (well, the waitresses aren’t – usually). But the atmosphere in these bars is so relaxed and easy and you don’t need to commit to anything – you could just sit there, watch the scene and drink your beer.
The go go bars are like the biggest “tourist attraction” in red light Thailand. Everyone who comes visiting me here in Bangkok doesn’t ask me to bring them to a cool night club, but to the best go go bars with the hottest girls!
The night clubs are great places if you want to combine partying and meeting girls. The advantage here is that the girls are not employed by the clubs, so you won’t have to pay for expensive lady drinks or bar fines.
A lot of guys I know make their first experience in the red light industry in Thailand in the massage salons. Why? Well, everyone likes to try a massage for 300 or 400 Baht and just see what happens – if the girl offers a happy ending, then that’s great, and if not, then at least you’ve got a nice massage for a decent price.
The most discrete place to have sex in Thailand. The soapy massage parlors have long been the favorite place for Thai men to escape from their women at home for a few hours, and now more and more foreigners want to try it out too.
No matter where you go in Thailand – you will find street hookers in every major tourist town: On Sukhumvit Road or Soi 4 in Bangkok, on Beach Road in Pattaya (photo), on Bangla Road in Phuket or around the Tha Phae Gate in Chiang Mai.
The latest addition to the sex industry in Thailand are the blow job bars. Yes, it is what it sounds like.
If you want to meet “normal” girls who are not only interested in your money, then you should sign up on Thai Friendly . That’s the biggest dating site in Thailand – it has more than 1.5 million users, and most of them are girls with “real” jobs (means no prostitutes) like shop workers, mall girls, hotel staff, cashiers at the supermarkets or 7-Elevens, well even student girls or office ladies.
Another way to have sex in Thailand for free, apart from the dating site (see above), is to “play the day game”. Means you would simply approach the girls in everyday life situations, like in the metro, in the shopping mall, or in the restaurant.
The escort services are, along with the soapy massages, the easiest and most convenient way to get paid sex in Thailand. But it’s also among the pricier options you have. However, if you are here just for a short period of time, and don’t worry about the money aspect too much, then it can be a great experience.
Not sure if you are interested in that – probably not on your first visit here – but of course this Thailand sex guide wouldn’t be complete without mentioning the ladyboys. Not only do I notice that more and more ladyboys are working in the different establishments, but I also see more and more foreigners walking hand in hand with them on the streets (no doubt back to their hotel for some fun between the sheets).
Now that you know the different establishments with (working) ladies in Thailand as well as how much you can expect to pay for the entertainment or sex, you probably have some of the following questions on your mind:
Yes, you have them all in Bangkok, Pattaya, Phuket and Chiang Mai (except for the BJ bars which are now only in BKK and Pattaya). And I assume these are the places where you will spend most of the time of your first sex trip to Thailand anyway.
But even if you decide to go to places like Krabi, Hua Hin, Chiang Rai or Isaan like Khon Kaen or Udon Thani, you can also find most of the places there as well – girly bars, night clubs, happy massages, soapy massages, street hookers, dating site girls, regular daytime girls & ladyboys.
I have created guides to every major and minor city in Thailand – just scroll up to the top menu of the site, and move your mouse to the “Nightlife” register (see the photo on the right). Here you will find all the specific places in each city, including pictures, videos, map locations and current prices.
I always shake my head when I see the Japanese or Korean guys paying a bill of like 5,000 Baht in the go go bars, before leaving hand in hand with their girl. Not that there is something wrong about paying for a go go girl (well, except that it’s really expensive), but most of these guys really think that this is the only safe option to have sex with girls in Thailand (and maybe also the soapy massages, because they know that from their home countries).
If you use your common sense, be careful while taking a shower back in your hotel (better take your valuables with you into the bathroom, or put them in the safe), and always wear a condom, you don’t really need to worry about anything. The beer bar girls are employed by the bar as well, so you know where you can find her the next day in case there are issues (she knows that too). Massages are also perfectly safe of course, and even street hookers are very popular among mongers here, because they offer quite a good value and usually don’t create any problems.
Just don’t be drunk or smelling and pay what you agreed on, and no girl in Thailand will steal or run away from you.
“I love you long time” – you probably have heard or read that phrase already if you’ve done some research for your Thailand trip online. Well, that’s a funny wordplay of course – it means that she offers you a “long time” sex encounter.
When paying for Thai hookers, you have 2 choices:
Short Time = 1 shot and/or 1-2 hours (if you want a 2nd round, make sure you clarify that with her in advance)
Long Time = several shots, and for the whole night
One note here – always pay the girls after you’ve had sex . Unfortunately if you go into a go go bar these days, and the mamasan thinks you are here for the first time (they are usually very good in telling that), then often they tell your girl to make you pay upfront, means they add the sex price on your bill of the drinks and bar fine.
Never agree to that, I’ve had several readers on Thailand Redcat who told me that this happened to them and they agreed – only to have problems afterwards, like the girl suddenly said she felt tired and wanted to go home after the first round (even though he paid for long time). Or they didn’t do what was part of the deal (e.g. no blow job, or in some cases they didn’t even want to have sex at all). Did they get back their money the next day when they complained at the bar? Of course not.
So don’t let them fool you – the sex comes first, and then the payment. That’s the correct order, and it will always be like that.
Unfortunately not. In fact, most of the hotels don’t allow Thai women in their rooms (those that join the foreigners of course), while others charge a so called “joiner fee” of usually 1,000 Baht so they get their share of the business as well.
However, there are more than enough hotels in every price category which are “ guest friendly “, some of them just ask for the Thai ID card while she is in your room, others don’t care at all. The problem is that you can’t check if a particular hotel is guest friendly or not on the popular booking sites like Agoda.com or Booking.com.
So I have decided to create guides to 5 of the best guest friendly hotels in each major city in Thailand.
For most guys it’s like that: The longer they live in Thailand, the more they find themselves going to the massage salons . It’s not that they don’t like the other establishments – they do also hang out in the beer bars, but mainly for playing pool rather than paying for the girls. And you can also see them in the go go bars, but mainly to enjoy a cool Singha or two rather than paying these ridiculous prices.
It’s just that the massage salons offer a really good value – 800 Baht for an hour massage including happy ending is great. And many would agree that a well done hand job is as enjoyable as sex.
And if you do want sex, there are also the soapy massages as a great paid option (because the standard small talk in the bars gets kind of annoying after a while), but really the most popular place to meet girls is the dating site , because it both saves a lot of money and the regular Thai girls are much more fun to hang out with than the bar girls.

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Sex tourism is something that happens around the world. A potentially unfortunate byproduct of the tourism industry as a whole, it’s particularly prevalent in tourism in Thailand . In this post I will delve into the what, where and why of sex tourism in Thailand.
A major part of sex tourism is prostitution. This has been common in Thailand for centuries – as far back as the Ayutthaya Kingdom (1351-1767), prostitution has been documented. It was legal and taxed then, but has been illegal since 1960.
Statistics for sex tourism in Thailand are hard to come by. Estimates suggest there are anywhere between 250,000 and 2 million sex workers in the country. Global black market database Havocscope puts the number at the lower end of that scale, with the equivalent of $6.4 billion being brought in. But other surveys and organisations place the number much closer to the 2 million mark.
Either way, sex tourism in Thailand is a big deal. It is said, though these statistics are difficult to confirm, that 60% of visitors are male – with 70% of these males being sex tourists. Because sex work and prostitution was legal in Thailand until the early 60s, it was a popular place for it. And just because there are laws in place now, the sex industry is something people still associate with the country; it’s a vicious circle.
There are not always a lot of jobs for women in the country – this is a big part of why sex tourism in Thailand is so popular. Working in the sex industry pays considerably more than many jobs in Thailand, so it is no surprise that many women seek to work in this industry.
As mentioned, until 1960 prostitution was legal in Thailand. Brothels were run by the state. Everything changed and there are now three different acts that given prostitution and sex tourism in Thailand.
This places the responsibility on the ‘client’ .Those found to be soliciting sex or sexual activities are fined, and if doing so in a “prostitution establishment” can face a jail term. The law is not usually enforced in private places, but owners of prostitution businesses received heavier penalties too.
The act has a particular focus on child prostitution/trafficking. Punishments vary, getting worse as the age of the sex worker gets younger. Traffickers themselves receive heavier fines and long prison terms, too.
This act punishes the sex workers themselves. It does not label prostitution as illegal, but states that anyone living off money earned by prostitution will be fined and placed in prison. This extends to people living with prostitutes, receiving money from prostitutes, or helping them settle disagreements with customers.
According to this, owners of certain establishments are responsible for prostitution occurring on or within their premises. They are criminally liable. This act also states that brothel keeping, profiting from prostitution and also solicitation are illegal – however, this behaviour is tolerated because a lot of the time law officials have financial interest in local prostiution.
Also known as ‘mail-order brides’, Thai brides are women who work with international marriage agencies. These companies serve to introduce men and women from different countries, for the purpose of marriage. According to some, brides date back to the 1800s. A lot of these companies are based where there is a lot of poverty, and many of the women feel there is no other choice.
It is a popular practice in Thailand. There are, especially for women, a lot of issues with unemployment in many areas of Asia including Thailand. For this reason, many Thai women enter the mail-order industry so they can send money home for their families, or have their family sponsored for immigration.
A simple Google-search will reveal hundreds of sites offering Thai brides. Potential customers – or husbands – can browse profiles, get advice on how to choose the best bride and more.
A popular part of sex tourism in Thailand is the sex shows. There are the Ping Pong Shows, where women on stage will use their (strong!) pelvic muscles to ‘blow’ objects – traditionally ping pong balls – out of their vagina. This dates back to the mid 1970s. The shows are technically illegal, according to the laws discussed above, but as the demand is so high the Thai law officials turn a blind eye. There are other live sex shows, but the Ping Pong Shows are the most popular.
There are several areas within Bangkok that make up the city’s Red Light District. They are adjacent to one another, and populated by sex workers who have moved from rural areas to find work under the bright lights of the city. This makes Bangkok a major hotspot for sex tourism in Thailand. The three main districts are as follows…
A major player within sex tourism in Thailand is Go-Go culture. Patpong is where that all started. There are so many Go-Go bars within this area of Bangkok, with some in plain sight and some hidden behind doors. With neon lights galore and its very own night market, Patpong is a vibrant part of the city.
Since the early 1990s, there has been a night market at Patpong. Its popularity has helped sex tourism in Thailand soar. With the feeling of a city that never sleeps came something else: Nana Plaza. The three-storey building is described as the world’s largest adult playground, with short-time hotels (rented out by the hour, for sex) and over 30 bars.
This is where you’ll find even more Go-Go bars. Despite being a relatively short street, Soi Cowboy is extremely important for sex tourism in Thailand: it is home to over 40 Go-Go bars. Similarly to the area of Patpong, you will be surrounded by neon lights, friendly staff and average drink prices.
You will also find Go-Go bars in Phuket. Patong Beach and the surrounding areas are said to be safer examples of sex tourism in Thailand. Most Go-Go bars are situated on and around Bangla Road in Patong, and the shows are not particularl
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