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It’s one of the first questions most escorts ask a prospective client. Along with, ‘How long do you want to stay for?’ and ‘When would you like to meet?’ It’s the basic information we need to know to ensure you’re serious about meeting an escort.
Though a common question, it might not be easy for inexperienced clients to answer. Choosing between an incall and outcall requires serious consideration. From the soaring ceilings of the Hilton to a small room in a motel…from sneaking into your escort’s apartment to madly tidying your own before your ‘special visitor’ arrives…these details will change the vibe of your escort encounter.
An ‘incall’ is an escort booking that involves visiting your worker. This might mean going to their apartment, or to the hotel room they’re staying in. An ‘outcall’ is when the escort travels to meet you, wherever you may be – your home, your hotel, your holiday house…basically, if you’re the one travelling, it’s an incall, and if the escort comes to you, it’s an outcall.
Knowing the difference is crucial because not everyone offers both options. Different workers have different preferences. In some locations, incalls are prohibited by law and you’re the one who must make accommodation arrangements. Even if an escort does offer outcalls, the specifics are important: they might not visit private homes or might require four-to-five-star hotels.
Feeling confused? You’re not alone - I’ve made a few mistakes myself. I remember, when I was just starting out as an escort, visiting a first-time client at a three-star hotel in the suburbs. Bring new to the biz, I forgot to check the amenities before I agreed to meeting. Imagine my horror to discover that the establishment only offered shared bathrooms! Once we’d done the deed, I had to walk down the hotel hallway, wrapped in a towel, to the communal bathroom. That was an experience I won’t quickly forget!
My personal preference varies depending on where I am in Australia. If I’m at home in Melbourne, I offer outcalls to hotels only (and that dodgy place in Richmond isn’t an option, so it’s best to check the location with me first!) If I’m touring in other states, I often have clients visit my hotel, and I enjoy being the host for a change, with a space that’s set up exactly the way I like it. Everyone’s different.
Getting the location right makes a big difference. So, how do you make the right decision? Let’s look at your options.
When you visit your worker as part of an incall, you’re stepping into a space they have chosen and arranged to their liking. This means:
• The option for shorter sessions and daytime adventures – without booking a room overnight. Sometimes booking accommodation for a whole evening is impractical if you’re only looking for an hour or half-hour session. And many hotels have afternoon check-ins, which makes lunch dates difficult!
• Your escort can set things up exactly as they like . This could mean having extra towels, sexy music, low lighting, or simply just that all their toys and supplies are always within reach. These small details help your session flow sloothly.
• Access to special equipment, if you’ve requested something out of the ordinary . If you’re a kink enthusiast or love dressing up in women’s couture, travelling to see your escort means you’ll be able to access their specialised toys and equipment. Some kink workers, in particular, don’t travel; a dungeon can’t always be packed in a suitcase!
When you arrange an outcall, you have more control over the mood of the encounter. Whether you’re looking for a session with a glamorous feel, or simply need somewhere close to your office for a stress-free rendezvous, you can pick a spot that works for you. Here are a few advantages:
• You can choose a place where you’re comfortable – whether it’s finding someone to visit you at home, or booking a five-star hotel in order to spoil yourself and your date, you get to choose the vibe.
• More preparation and unwind time . Are you a nervous type? Do you enjoy luxuriating in the afterglow when your session is over? Having your own space means you more time to prepare for your encounter, and to recover afterwards.
• Access to other amenities – When you meet your escort in a hotel of your choosing, you have the chance to do more than just get it on. Room service, taking a spa together, cocktails at the bar – all this, and more, is possible, if you find the right location. This means that outcalls are particularly well-suited to longer bookings.
• Access to your own equipment, if you have a disability – if you’re managing a disability, you may find it easier to invite an escort into your space, so that things are set up just the way you need. This is especially important if you require lifting because many workers won’t have access to that sort of equipment at home.
This article is all about choice – but if you have your heart set on a particular companion, you might not be the one making the decision. Many escorts choose to do incalls or outcalls exclusively. There could also be other conditions; some workers won’t visit private homes, and others require four or five-star hotels. To avoid wasting your time, you’ll need to read their ad or website carefully, so that you know what’s available before you request a booking.
It’s no use trying to pressure someone into working in a way they’re not comfortable; your only option is to move on and find someone who better suits your needs. Many a time, I’ve had to argue with potential clients who don’t understand why I won’t visit them at home. I can guarantee you that none of those people got a date with me – even if they changed their minds about the location! There’s nothing less sexy than a customer who doesn’t respect how I choose to work.
Sometimes it isn’t clear whether an escort offers outcalls or incalls…in that case, I reckon it’s fine to ask. But if an escort ad clearly says, ‘outcalls ONLY’ and your booking enquiry asks for something different, the worker will know you haven’t been paying attention – and there’s a risk you might not be taken seriously.
Knowing what you want matters, especially when you’re arranging your escort encounter. When we ask that all-important question, ‘where would you like to meet?’ you need to have an answer ready. If you’ve done your research and found an option that works for your escort and yourself, you’ll be well on the way to arranging an excellent first date.
Georgie is a Melbourne escort, writer, and educator from Melbourne, Australia. Her work has been published in The Sydney Morning Herald, The Guardian Australia, and by Archer Magazine.

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In the business, we don't call it our office. It's an "incall." This is escortspeak for any location where you, the client, come to see us. But will there be red velvet pillows and drapes, or will you find her kid's stroller blocking the door? Here's what to ask.
A service like Sexy K-Bunnies (K for Korean) doesn't give many clues on their website about where they are. You need to ask up front:
Follow her instructions to the letter. Like a '90s raver, she won't tell you the precise address until you've confirmed that you're on your way. She'll probably want you to call ahead of your arrival so you don't cross paths with the previous guy.
Outcall escorting is when she visits you at your SXSW hotel room. I'm saving that post for next week.
When was this said? I know Immortal Technique said “I don’t pay them to fuck, I pay them to leave.”
@ It Must Be Take a Worm for a Walk Week : It's like Charlie Sheen said, " I don't pay them to sleep with me - I pay them to go away afterward".
Its coming from a woman, what would you expect?
"as long as you're not a tool and can string together complete sentences, you should be fine."
That's the most dishonest sentence I've ever seen on the Internet.
@ It Must Be Take a Worm for a Walk Week : ..didn't say I was the King...that's a reference to a film you should know. The King comment was that, yes, I help out at local sex-positive parties and it's good to be at the center of some of this action...not like you? on the outside??? Hell, mail me, maybe you would be GREAT at one of the events! As to the striped shirt gang, FUCK NO, never AND those asswipes don't stay in the Marina, they "dive" into the Mission at "slum" it at Medjool. Suckers, if they had a reasonable pulse, they might actually get invited to the shin(skin)digs and finally get laid. Or not, hell, they've got the money..they can read this post and pay for it (I pity the girls they contract for "labor")
I have just booked an "In Call" appointment that is supposed to take place at a luxury high rise in downtown Los Angeles. I have never done this before and want to know how much I can expect to pay for this service. Want to be prepared with enough cash

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Incalls vs. Outcalls, what is the best choice for you?

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Are you a girl providing a high class escort service or are you a hobbyist (an active client of escorts)? Either way this post is about incalls vs. outcalls and what you prefer when it comes to setting up a date.
Both of those two have their pros and cons but in the end is a matter of choice and preference. For some, lying around in their home/hotel room while waiting for their date is really tempting, while for others the idea of going to meet a stranger in a new, unknown location can be really arousing.
The list of pros and cons vary from escort to client, that’s why we are going to present them one at a time.
While it is handy to have all your necessary products, like sexy outfits, spear lingerie, kinky sex toys and extra condoms at the tip of your fingers, greeting a complete stranger in the privacy of your house (in those occasions when the incall is your own little nest, where you live your daily life) can be a little tricky.
This applies especially in the cases when the client is not a regular but a first timer. First of all you take a risk because you don’t really know the guy, even if you’ve checked him out before setting up the encounter.
He may be a guy looking to rob you or he may be a complete weirdo that makes you feel uncomfortable.
Either way, he is at your place, he knows your address, he sees your valuables and you don’t have the luxury of leaving the date if you feel awkward.
So in these cases it would have been better to wait for your guest at a hotel room or to visit him at his place.
2.     You can’t leave the date when you feel like it
When you set up a date you also discuss the time for which your date is booking you and the way that your partner want’s the date to go (fantasies, lingerie, fetishes and so on).
But when the encounter takes place at your housw and the client is not in a hurry to leave when the time is up, you have a problem!
You can’t leave, because, obviously you are at your place. You can also risk of upsetting your next date if he arrives and he finds another man with you and sees you not prepared for him.
Another problem that can occur is that the client may turn up to be violent or disrespectful. At an outcall you get to leave the room in the second your date turns messy, but at an outcall you really don’t have a choice. You can stand up for yourself, call a friend that lives nearby to help you or wait for the client to cool down.
3.     Your client may feel way comfortable at his place
Receiving a man in your private apartment may be comfy and relaxing for you but it can be weird for your date.
This applies especially when we are talking about a new client or a jealous type that doesn’t want to think about all the other men that were invited in your bed before him.
Most men tend to be more comfortable when they are in a neutral or familiar place, rather than visiting you for the first time at your place.
He may not enjoy your neighborhood, your loud neighbors, the way you’ve decorated the place or the way to familiar stuff laying around. For them you must be an enigma, a sexy maiden dressed up in provocative lingerie, always eager to please your man.
They don’t want to see your electricity bill, your kid’s stroller, the leftovers from the take away you’ve ordered a night before or your tampons in the bathroom.
4.     Less cleaning up to do, more time for new clients
When you receive a date at your place is mandatory that you set up a cozy environment, you clean up the house and hide away your private stuff. All that takes time, time that you could have spent in the company of your friends or with another client.
When going at an outcall, or setting up an incall at a hotel you don’t have to worry about cleaning.
5.     Incalls can be costly for the escort
Keeping an incall can be pretty expensive for you, because of the monthly bills, the rent and the decorating costs. While if you are a young escort, all on your own, you can co-rent a place with a friend and set up your dates at a hotel or at the client’s place.
6.     Outcalls are helping you have a simpler, weird-free date
When you are at your place the client can take advantage of that fact to turn your date into a dress-up show, making you switch all kind of outfits and test all your sex toys and that can be really tiresome at some point.
While at an outcall date you get to limit to the arsenal that you’ve brought with you, keeping the client excited about setting up another date in order to play some more with you.
1.     Incalls – the easiest way to date an escort
If you don’t have a place of your own and you don’t want to lose money on renting a hotel room, going at an escorts house can seem a pretty good idea. You pay only for the service and you leave exactly when you feel like it. A con appears if the incall is at a hotel room and there is a chance of a police raid to happen.
2.     Outcalls – a more comfortable place for the client
You as a client may feel more relaxed and confident when you are on your own territory rather than visiting the escort at her place. You have the confidence that the bed is clean and the decorum is familiar and exactly how you want it to be.
Also you know that you have all the amenities that you desire – a shower, toiletry products and so on, that the neighborhood is safe and that you won’t stumble upon her personal belongings.
The cons of outcalls refer to the quality of the girl that you are inviting at your place – if she has sticky fingers, if she is not punctual when it comes to respecting the time of the date or if you have a life partner and by calling an escort at your place you risk of getting caught in the act.
Establishing which type of date is better suited to our lifestyle – incalls or outcalls, depends on each and every one of us.
You, both escort and client, can feel better or safer at your own place or, on the contrary, you can opt for an outcall. It’s your choice. All you have to do
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