I am broke as fuck

I am not making money. And that is a problem for everyone. From friends, family. I should be rich. I am doing a phD. How could I be broke I have a family, who is supporting them?

My wife hates that she is a bread winner. She is clownned at work everyday and brings me the pressure.

Other wives are being financed and here I am doing the financinng.

She ones declared she was not paying any more school fees. That I need to man up and get a job and pay it. She says she was told she was enabling me. 

I once told her I was depressed and she took it personally. She pays for house, food, school fees and the pocket money that I use, why do I got to be depressed about. All I had to do was finish my phd. I feel like all I am doing is dragging her behind. She has also said this. I think I want out.